just had a question......

I am an aries. Born on March 24th. My girlfriend, who I have been dating for a year and a half is also and aries (april 13th). Recently we have made a new set of friends that continues to tell us how aries vs aries DONT ever work out. It didnt bother me at first, but it seems like ever since that day, i have been thinking about it a lot. I have been seeking advice from people I know that have a lot of knowledge on the whole astrology thing. I am a rookie, and know nothing at all. Infact, I didnt even know my girl and I were both aries until someone pointed it out about three weeks ago. I love my girlfriend very much, couldnt imagine life with out her. We plan to get married as soon as she graduates next summer in '07. This will not stop this from happening, I am just curious why everyone thinks we wont work out. Any comments or advice will be gladly accepted. Thanks Folks!!


Matt in Raleigh NC

Hi Matt

I'm so glad that it works out for you two. I am a Aries too ( 28th March 1986).

And i know from recent experience that two Aries CAN work out. If they have some common interest in stuff. I dated a Aries girl ( 25th March 1987) and we had a relation for 4 months. It was the baddest relation EVER. We didn't had the same interests. althou, the kissing and stuff were HOT (!!!), it just couldn't work out between us too. If i wouldn't call her, i wouldn't see her for weeks. She would never call me to see me.

I hope i didn't gave you any false hope. It can be very different with a Aries born in April. My best friend is a Aries born in April and we totally understand eachother.

keep me informed .. i'm curious 🙂

Matt,

I'm not an Aries, so I can't say anything from personal experience . . but, I think the reason why your friends are telling you this is because the typical Ram wants to be in charge, the dominate one in the relationship. So, they (friends) probably think that this power struggle will cause the two of you to go to battle all the time.

If I were you, I wouldn't listen to them. If your relationship with your girl is genuine and the two of you love each other, then to hell with what other people may say. You know your heart, your girl knows her heart . . . be good to each other, love each other . . that's what matters !! Not, what day the two of you were born.

hi matt, dont let these friends opinions matter, whats important is that u have a good relationship - dont look at the stars so much.

no doubt the sun signs tell us much about our character, yet relationships are greatlky determined by a lot of other aspects in the horoscope, - so dont bother ur head.

in my own experience i have gotten along with alll other ariens, really there should be no problem

oh and boyfromutretch, after reading ur post i thought i must tell u something -

when u say "If i wouldn't call her, i wouldn't see her for weeks. She would never call me to see me." - well then she didnt seriously love u.

arians when seriously in love will never behave the aloof hard to get kind, if they love u it'll show, even from a distance.

infact when in love aries does not practise any kinda restrain or patience - they say and behave exactly how they feel!!!

I AM MAR.26 /1982..MY SIGNIFICANT OTHER IS MAR.28/1982..SO IT DOESN'T GET ANY CLOSER THAN THAT!..WE'VE BEEN TOGETHER FOR ALMOST 6 YEARS NOW..AND I WILL BE BRUTALLY HONEST..IT HAS BEEN HELL AND HEAVEN IN ONE!..WE ARGUE A LOT ..FIGHT A LOT..AND HAVE SERIOUS JEALOUSY ISSUES..BOTH OF US ARE LIKE THIS..WE CONSTANTLY TRY TO OUT DO THE OTHER WHEN IT COMES TO BEING SPITEFUL..AND IT IS REALLY HARD TO ADMIT TO EACH OTHER WHEN WE ARE WRONG..AND SOMETIMES BECAUSE OF OUR ANGER AND JEALOUSY..CONTROLLING ISSUES..WE END UP DOING "STUFF"..WE END UP REGRETTING AFTER THE STORM HAS CALMED DOWN..

BUT THE GOOD SIDE TO US IS THAT WHEN WE ARE HAPPY WE SHOW EACH OTHER UTMOST LOVE..AND WE ARE TRULY A TEAM WHEN IT COMES TO DEFENDING ONE ANOTHER..I USED TO BE SO CLINGY TO HIM AND HE HATED THAT ..NOW I REALIZE THAT I NEED TO HAVE MY OWN THING TO CHANNEL MY ENERGY THROUGH..AND SO DOES HE..BECASUE IF YOU DON'T HAVE THAT .YOU BEGIN TO FEEL STIFLED AND SUFFOCATED..
I PERSONALLY HATE WHEN HE IGNORES MY FEELING OR WHEN HE WANTS TO SPEND A LOT OF TIME WIHT HIS GUYS..AND HE HATES WHEN I GIVE ATTENTION TO ANYBODY OTHER THAN HIM(WHEN WE'RE IN THE SAME ROOM THAT IS)..BUT DEEP DOWN WE LOVE EACH OTHER..YOU JUST REALLY NEED TO GIVE AND TAKE IN AN ARIES /ARIES RELATIONSHIP..WHO WILL BE THE ONE DOING THIS IS THE REAL QUESTION..

BUT DON'T GIVE UP HOPE JUST WATCH OUT FOR THE ARGUMENTS AND DON'T LET THEM ESCALTE..BECASUE IT MIGHT JUST BLOW OVER INTO SOMETHING WORSE.