Libra F and Aries M

so i have this dilemma. Im a libra f and I've been crushing hard on this aries m. were 20 in college and one night we were all at a party and my friend said that we were really close the whole night and that we almost made out. a week or 2 later he said he had a gf which we found out was a joke. we've talked a few times and it always seems like he likes me (EYE CONTACT!!) he's snaphcatted me but didn't answer my reply. my friend's closer with him but she never helps me out with getting his attention. I don't have an opportunity to just hang out with him because 1. I'm a libra and i will never outright tell the person i like, that i like them and 2. because I'm nervous as hell and overthink everything + this is all accompanied with my fear of rejection lmao SOMEONE HELP ME PLS what do i have to do to pursue this?

Posted by lexicallibra
so i have this dilemma. Im a libra f and I've been crushing hard on this aries m. were 20 in college and one night we were all at a party and my friend said that we were really close the whole night and that we almost made out. a week or 2 later he said he had a gf which we found out was a joke. we've talked a few times and it always seems like he likes me (EYE CONTACT!!) he's snaphcatted me but didn't answer my reply. my friend's closer with him but she never helps me out with getting his attention. I don't have an opportunity to just hang out with him because 1. I'm a libra and i will never outright tell the person i like, that i like them and 2. because I'm nervous as hell and overthink everything + this is all accompanied with my fear of rejection lmao SOMEONE HELP ME PLS what do i have to do to pursue this?

Aries is also VERY afraid of rejection. I'd say more so than us. My Aries done alot of testing, pulling back etc in order to confirm to himself that I liked him, and enough...mines is quite needy, affection, attention wise. So any half ass attempts at establishing something with them wont go down well. When they have chosen you though you will be their main/only focus-besides work LOL.

Aries men have to be the ones to do the asking out, that’s for sure. You can be flirty, and keep him guessing. I would drop hints, like try and get him to say what he is thinking of trying/doing and then say “yeah I really wanted to do “thingy” but I don’t have anyone to go with”

And sometimes Aries really don’t get the subtle hints Libra give, so don’t feel like he doesn’t like you if you try, it’s just sometimes Aries won’t pick up on the first few hints.