I am a libra man and I've been in love with an Aries woman for quite some time now. She was very caring to me and we use to talk very often. I realised that she was seducing me and flirting with me every time. If we were at a party with friends, all her attention was on me, every time she talks, it was to me, as if there was only the two of us in the room. Lately, her attitude changed a lot. She was more expressive of her feelings towards me. Her dressing style changed, she started to wear more sexy outfits when we met, and started to show me her cleavage. I fell in love with her before she started doing all these things.
Two weeks ago, I told her that I love her and since then she stopped talking to me and she started avoiding me. I waited one week before contacting her again. She replied to my text and told me that, she doesn't want anyone in her life.
What I want to know is, will she changed her mind? Should I wait? Will she stop avoiding me or is it final? (Because unfortunately for me, I've read some articles about Aries woman after I've told her I love and I know she is stubborn) Can an Aries woman help me please. thanks.
Even if she told me that she doesn't want anyone in her life. I've observed that when I saw her last time, even if we didn't talked, she glances at me and looked down when I look at her. I also observed that she seems sad, as if she want to talk but is too stubborn to do it. She's also looking at all my stories on FB.
“Two weeks ago, I told her that I love her and since then she stopped talking to me and she started avoiding me.“
Why would you tell her that you love her? I genuinely need an honest answer as to why you said this. Was it to get this person to like you?
I have an inkling that you must be feeling lonely and going around telling someone you love them to get them to like you or be with you is irresponsible, quite foolish.
Well, the "L" word is something strong. As an Aries woman, in love related matters, I like taking my time and getting to know the person. That was my approach with my now soon to be husband, which has consequently sustained a strong foundation. In your case, it was the wrong time to say it, and it made her think you were emotionally "not all there". I'm not judging or critiquing you by any means, everyone's life experience/journey is different, but it was just too fast. I notice when air signs really want companionship, they tend to like ideas of things, including loving people, which may only be a representation of how they feel about their idea of the person. It takes years to get to know people, and even then, you learn something every day. There are rare cases where people intuitively know that another person is for them, however, even in those cases, they gradually grow that love because you have to let the other person process their feelings at their own pace. She most likely felt that it was disingenuous, and also felt as though it was too early for you to be making such claims of grandeur. I hope you have time to reflect and figure the situation out. Good luck, take care, and don't be sad. You will be okay.
Dear Libra man. leave Aries alone. She was just being friendly. They like Libras as friends. Don't get your heart involved or it will get crushed. Leave her alone now because you've revealed yourself making her feel awkward around you now.
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I am a libra man and I've been in love with an Aries woman for quite some time now. She was very caring to me and we use to talk very often. I realised that she was seducing me and flirting with me every time. If we were at a party with friends, all her attention was on me, every time she talks, it was to me, as if there was only the two of us in the room. Lately, her attitude changed a lot. She was more expressive of her feelings towards me. Her dressing style changed, she started to wear more sexy outfits when we met, and started to show me her cleavage. I fell in love with her before she started doing all these things.
Two weeks ago, I told her that I love her and since then she stopped talking to me and she started avoiding me. I waited one week before contacting her again. She replied to my text and told me that, she doesn't want anyone in her life.
What I want to know is, will she changed her mind? Should I wait? Will she stop avoiding me or is it final? (Because unfortunately for me, I've read some articles about Aries woman after I've told her I love and I know she is stubborn) Can an Aries woman help me please. thanks.