What Makes Libra Eligible to an Aries?

This topic was created in the Aries forum by Fire-n-Air on Thursday, August 8, 2019 and has 20 replies.

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@Fire-n-Air
6 Years

Anything that stood out about a Libra that made you Aries want to pursue them? I've got myself stuck on thinking about how to put myself out there and would really like to experience this "opposite attraction" I hear so much about. Just want to hear your experiences. 🙂

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@Fire-n-Air
6 Years

Yeah, being able to click humor-wise would be a huge one for me as well. I do like a mix of witty banter and crass humor, so I guess where the line lies is up to sensibilities and upbringing, right?

Is there an example of this in particular?

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I can't really say much except I was attracted to my Libra ex for superficial reasons. I found out later that there was not much else attractive about her.

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@Fire-n-Air
6 Years

Posted by Ram416

OK, here's another one.

If you're persistent af, there might be a chance to attract an Aries.

Did she seem boring after getting to know her? I can understand being drawn in by the "wrapper".

What sort of persistence is endearing versus annoying?

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@Fire-n-Air
6 Years

Posted by alexscaries

I find air signs really charming, but it's strength that will impress me.

Yeah, I have to admit, as an Aries Moon / Gemini Mars I can get pretty bored of people who keep too much close to the chest and are reserved but being adept physically is a turn on that will keep me interested until I can figure out what's going on in the noggin. Does showing off physical strength seem appealing?

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Posted by Fire-n-Air
Posted by Ram416

OK, here's another one.

If you're persistent af, there might be a chance to attract an Aries.

Did she seem boring after getting to know her? I can understand being drawn in by the "wrapper".

What sort of persistence is endearing versus annoying?

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Not boring at all. But it's because she cheated on me.

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I compare the opposite sign of the attraction like this. The Libra's the steering wheel and the Aries are the motor.

In Aries im very familiar and fond of having great relationships with until I get bored and need something new.

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Posted by Ram416

OK, here's another one.

If you're persistent af, there might be a chance to attract an Aries.

I disagree with persistency producing an attraction. In any sign.

If one doesn’t like another one - persistency will only create resistance.

I can NOT imagine Aries can be changing their mind just because someone up their ass. 🤷‍♀️

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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Ram416

OK, here's another one.

If you're persistent af, there might be a chance to attract an Aries.

I disagree with persistency producing an attraction. In any sign.

If one doesn’t like another one - persistency will only create resistance.

I can NOT imagine Aries can be changing their mind just because someone up their ass. 🤷‍♀️

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If you mean persistence as in obsession, then yes that would be a complete turn off to any sign.

But persistence and focus worked on my mum for some reason.

However they were friends for a number of years before my dad started chasing her. She was actually his sister's schoolmate. And from what she told me, she had zero interest in him initially because they were already friends.

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Posted by Ram416
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Ram416

OK, here's another one.

If you're persistent af, there might be a chance to attract an Aries.

I disagree with persistency producing an attraction. In any sign.

If one doesn’t like another one - persistency will only create resistance.

I can NOT imagine Aries can be changing their mind just because someone up their ass. 🤷‍♀️

If you mean persistence as in obsession, then yes that would be a complete turn off to any sign.

But persistence and focus worked on my mum for some reason.

However they were friends for a number of years before my dad started chasing her. She was actually his sister's schoolmate. And from what she told me, she had zero interest in him initially because they were already friends.

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She liked him...🧐

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I had two Libra romantics interactions. They both failed out the gate due to duplicity. They wreaked with it. Smell it a mile away.

One Libra was my college male bestfriend of three years. Both were players. I can get with a guy for romance and shut him off the husband list at the same time. So, I don't mind players at all but they strangley lacked savoir faire and passion. Everybody else thought they had it though. I wasn't feeling it.

For me, Leos and Cancers are the most romantic but not Libras. It's just synastry. Those signs are in my 7th house.

Passion and single mindedness would make Libra "eligible." Not even Libra characteristics though.

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I think Aries and Libra make great friends but maybe not lovers. I have 2 Aries girlfriends and we laugh and get into mischief all the time. They are my favorite party buddies too. I like Aries and Gemini women best for friends. Gemini women can party their ass off; just so much fun.

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Posted by VenusAquarius

I had two Libra romantics interactions. They both failed out the gate due to duplicity. They wreaked with it. Smell it a mile away.

One Libra was my college male bestfriend of three years. Both were players. I can get with a guy for romance and shut him off the husband list at the same time. So, I don't mind players at all but they strangley lacked savoir faire and passion. Everybody else thought they had it though. I wasn't feeling it.

For me, Leos and Cancers are the most romantic but not Libras. It's just synastry. Those signs are in my 7th house.


The ones I know IRL, most of them are like this. Single-mindedness, bordering on stubborn (not even my stubborn fixed moon can compare), I just wanna shake them to wake them up sometimes lmao.

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I knew a aries woman who I use to work with, I think she had a big crush on me and would always talk to me and put her arms around her belly 😂 but she had a bf who worked there too who was a pisces who cheated on her, they were together for 10yrs.I was on vacation at the time and found out when I got back. turns out she rushed into another relationship with one of her ex's from highschool got married and had a kid with him in a very short period of time lol.

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Posted by LibraSupreme

I compare the opposite sign of the attraction like this. The Libra's the steering wheel and the Aries are the motor.

In Aries im very familiar and fond of having great relationships with until I get bored and need something new.

I think this is wrong. Libra are definitely in the driving seat but they are charming enough to make Aries think they are driving.

But this is just it for me. Libra can be in the driving seat, because I know they will make decisions best for both of us, and even if they had to choose between the two of us, they would choose my happiness over their own. For this reason, I would die for a Libra, I would fight to protect her. I would stick up for her always, even if she wanted to put others first. I would always put her first. No other sign has this quality. I’d never trust any other sign 100% like I would a Libra. I’d probably never die for any other sign.

This is Aries / Libra.

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Posted by AriesJo
Posted by LibraSupreme

I compare the opposite sign of the attraction like this. The Libra's the steering wheel and the Aries are the motor.

In Aries im very familiar and fond of having great relationships with until I get bored and need something new.

I think this is wrong. Libra are definitely in the driving seat but they are charming enough to make Aries think they are driving.

But this is just it for me. Libra can be in the driving seat, because I know they will make decisions best for both of us, and even if they had to choose between the two of us, they would choose my happiness over their own. For this reason, I would die for a Libra, I would fight to protect her. I would stick up for her always, even if she wanted to put others first. I would always put her first. No other sign has this quality. I’d never trust any other sign 100% like I would a Libra. I’d probably never die for any other sign.

This is Aries / Libra.

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That was my point, Aries has a strong willed determination and in the right guidance ala libra beautiful achievements can be made. Libras own Aries

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Posted by AriesJo
Posted by LibraSupreme

I compare the opposite sign of the attraction like this. The Libra's the steering wheel and the Aries are the motor.

In Aries im very familiar and fond of having great relationships with until I get bored and need something new.

I think this is wrong. Libra are definitely in the driving seat but they are charming enough to make Aries think they are driving.

But this is just it for me. Libra can be in the driving seat, because I know they will make decisions best for both of us, and even if they had to choose between the two of us, they would choose my happiness over their own. For this reason, I would die for a Libra, I would fight to protect her. I would stick up for her always, even if she wanted to put others first. I would always put her first. No other sign has this quality. I’d never trust any other sign 100% like I would a Libra. I’d probably never die for any other sign.

This is Aries / Libra.

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And you know what? I feel the same way about Aries.