Possible to get an Aries ex back?

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$unny$ide Pride
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It is definitely possible. But like class-act-aries says, it really depends on how long the relationship was and on what grounds ya'll broke up. If it was a long relationship and you had him absolutely crazy about you, and the reason ya'll broke up was over something minor or just like an agreement between the two of you...then you can most definitely get him back. Or at least in my situation, I would probably get back with a girl that I used to be crazy about if the break-up was just something small.

But if you were just a quick fling, and the break-up was because you did him wrong. Then FUCK that. Bitch i'ma dogg ya hoe ass like you dogged me.
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class-act-aries
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18 Years500+ PostsAries

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it matters cause we aries break up only if we have no desire to continue the relationship and there is nothing you can do about it, but to get to that point there had to be a sequence of events leading to it, we dont take this decision lightly even though we are impulsive with everything else we cherish the love we have and wont throw it away over stupid reason,
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jas79
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18 Years

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There was some minor arguments between us. Hence, he asked for the breakup.

But even after we broke up, he says he still love me alot. Just that he doesn't know how to handle all the arguments we had, thus, he doesn't wants to get back(yet).

And our relationship wasn't a very long one, but definitely not a fling.

I want him back because both of us still love each other, and it is definitely not worth it to give up a relationship just because of some minor problems.

So is it still possible?
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jas79
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18 Years

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I understand that. Because I'm now acting as if I'm very happy after we broke up and I could live just as well without him. But in fact, I know I can't. 😢

Sometimes I have my doubts for what he said too. But he still have our photos and all, in his blog and other online accounts. And he had been updating all those as well, but he never remove our photos.

Thats why I doesn't know what he actually wants and whether this relationship could be salvage.
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jas79
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18 Years

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Exactly. I tried asking him out to clarify everything but he told me "There is nothing to be clarified. Everything that have to be say, are said" and he doesn't even give me a chance to talk.

In my opinion, i think that we have so much more things to clarify but he is just running away from the problems.

But from what I heard from my(and his) friends, he told them that he wants to try and solve the problems between us by himself before we get back again. But how can it be possible to solve the problems between two by himself? It sounds like he's going to fail and we are never going to get back. That's one of my worries.

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jas79
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18 Years

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Hey all! I've got another question now.

On Christmas Eve night, he suddenly sms-ed me, "Merry Christmas!".
I don't know whether he send the sms to other people as well.

But that was the greeting I least expected to receive from.

Because frankly speaking, we have not contact or meetup with each other for nearly 2 months. Even if we bump into each other, we would just act as if we didn't see the other party.

And he isn't those kind that will bother to send festive greeting to people.

Does that sms means anything?
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harue23
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18 Years

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class act & freebird...
I agree with what you said. I am an Aries girl and through my experiences, I have only stopped dealing with someone if I cannot take it anymore. It has to be something though. I cannot take lying, cheating, being superfical or stuff like that.
Yeah, we may seem hard to please and like we have no emotions. That's because we have a hard outer shell, but are sensitive inside. We feel we are weak when we expose ourselves.
So yes, I agree. Something lead to that. Maybe it was something that he didn't like and you kept doing it. I'm not sure though
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_phoenix _
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17 YearsScorpio

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Yes,you can get an Aries man back after a split,even after a BIG split,but
like Roxi said,"WHY would you want him back'? Not that they aren't worth it
or anything,just that they can get on the nerves of alot of people & they can
make people want out sometimes.What I mean is that,Aries isn't for everyone,but
if you TRULY LOVE HIM,then fight for him! If he doesn't wanna be with you,then
let him go his own way!


SO TRUE....!!!!
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But what do you do when an Aries has pushed you away time and time again. Just when you think it's over they show up again. She say she doesn't want a relationship, so we are just friends. If she thinks I'm dating someone, she will get distant. But when we talk again, she's asking questions and is very angry with me. But she dates and doesn't want me to date. She goes from sharing everything with me to it's not your business what I do. She goes from clingy to who are you again? It's like she searching for someone better than me but always comes back after failure. It's just strange we go through foolish things but it has never completely ended.

Is this fear, love or games with Aries?
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firebabe
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18 Years

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both female and male aries people always turn up again like nothing has happened ,
i bumped into an aries female that i really did not want anything to do with,
she always riled me up ,
i stopped communicating,phoning ,e-mailing her and i saw her she was in a que in front of me and turned round ,i cant be so ignorant to completely ignore her,so we started speaking ,
now she has rejoined a group that we are both members of ,which im not looking forward to,
its going to be difficult because its been great without her
thats how they are ,after an absence they want to carry on like nothing has happened.
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JOJOJO
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I want her to be honest and realize that we are just friends and she doesn't have to disappear just because she's dating someone. I would never interfere or cause problems. I've even asked if she's dating someone, she denies it and then later after she's done with them. She calls and tells me everything, good and bad about what happen. I just would like for her to be open upfront when the dating starts. We dated briefly as well and then she was gone. We are friends now because she called and was going through some hard times, we hung out and we have been friends since. She said I'm the only person she's kicked it with and can be friends with afterwards.
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JOJOJO
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She said that's it not my business, but I don't want to be calling and texting her. When she dating someone because of our past. The most recent thing to happen she was living with someone she was dating, and we was still going out (as friends) but the other party doesn't know about out past. That's wrong. Why is she trying to hold on to me? Be gentle with your answers I love us both. Just looking for answers on how to handle the situation. I'm thinking just enjoy whenever it my turn again. Oh yeah, she hates when I date.