really shy aries?

Hi everyone! Everything that I've ever read or been told about Aries says that they are incredibly outgoing and charismatic and the rest (you know the standard view).

I've just met my second Aries and he, like the first Aries I met, is painfully shy. I've got a date with him on Saturday and I'm just wondering about getting some more insight into his personality beforehand.

Is there something like the typical *shy* Aries as opposed to the typical Aries (especially when it comes to women)?

I have dated three Aries. One for two years, one for seven months, and the latest for a few weeks. When they like you? There is no WAY you don't know.

Both of you are completely right.

Yesterday afternoon I suggested that we get together for drinks (last minute thing) that evening. We spent a good seven hours talking and he ended up getting only 4 hours of sleep for work the next day. He followed up the conversation with a text message this morning.

Whatever it was that was holding him back seems to be completely gone.

Amazing how that sort of reversal took place. I'm chalking it up to me reciprocating his interest by asking him out. It seems that once he realized that I like him too, he felt comfortable enough to start firing on all cylinders.

I'm starting to appreciate the lengths that an Aries will go to once interested in a woman. Wow.

Does all of that ardor translate well in the bedroom?

They wear their hearts on their sleeves.

I find them to be great lovers that are always ready to go and want more. I have found that they tend to over use their tongues when they kiss ... which is a turn off ... but other than that. They are a pretty decent shag and will watch you closely to make sure you are satisfied.

They genuinely want a partner and want to make their partner happy.

It's so strange to think of Aries as really generous and giving lovers. Based only on the one that I'm getting to know, a lot of his efforts seemed to be focused on putting himself in the spotlight. Not that I'm complaining, mind. He's pretty charming about it and I just read it as him parading in front of me so that I would admire him. Such a stereotype, but totally on target in my case.

Everything that I've read about Aries says to play hard to get. Is that true? Does that mean in the emotional sense or in the physical sense or what?

This has just been my experience although all three have been the same. (shrugs)

From my experiences they have been good partners. They don't seem interested in dominating or being dominated. They just want a partner who can hold their own in the relationship.

I don't think you have to play hard to get or anything like that. Just be natural and hold your own. Live you life and let them be a part of it but not the sum of it. Love them but don't live for them.

I have never found them ones to look down at female sexuality at all! I don't generally do the whole my sex is sacred thing and don't have a lot of hang-ups so I generally don't hold back. It hasn't been a problem with these guys at all. Saggis seem to freak out about sex but not Aries. They will follow where you lead them.