Refused sex and now...silence

Upon the 3rd time meeting my Aries, he tried to sleep with me several times. I refused and said that I appreciated him on a mental level as well as a physical level and wished to wait. Also I said "I'm still recovering from being screwed over by a deceptive guy during these few months".
At some points he got angry and tried to throw me out of the house, and even some mild name-calling.
But in the morning things seemed fine.
He texted to ask if I'd got home safely and insulted me a little with childish name-calling. I responded with "1) got home safely 2) I dont recall changing my name to **********. how were your meetings?"
No Response.

I wonder whether Aries can grudge over things like these..

We always do this - when our efforts are blunted. And they we try again to realize our nefarious designs.

Yes, run. Coz this Aries web will anyways net some other prize.

Howz U doing Roxx ?

Before all else (attraction, lust, love)...RESPECT.

don\t think it's an aries thing... i refused to sleep with this guy (cos i am making a realy friend out of him -- whatever..).. he respected it totally .. shortly after it ..we were in touch even more then before .. although..then.. he did disappear ..so hmmm "refused sex - now silence " ..actually yeap true..but in a totaly different set up ...your guy is just rude!

Run ... Run ... Run ... Hide ...
Purge your life of him ...
Wipe him from your mind !!!

He sounds like a jerk and very young or immature (whatever his age). Good riddance!

But sometimes I wonder about the exact opposite - Can't it be like, you give us sex first and get all the love and respect you want later ? I mean - why somebody has to be branded a jerk always just because he/she showed inordinate impatience in asking for something which eventually everyone will yearn about ?

Aries are cursed and reprimanded for being childish and selfish but then they are denied the very goodies they've been throwing fits for - wherez the justice ?

Am good Roxx 🙂

And good to know that you are pretty chilled out these days - good for you.

Something seems wrong with this picture ....

Delta_Leo, during these several times of trying to sleep together, were you stroking him, arousing him, teasing him with the goods?

Because there seems to be a piece of the puzzle missing here.

The Ram is a "Chaser", and during this chase time, is when we find the Ram at his/her most charming. It's only after they've actually conquered and so the challenge has ceased, do they become jerky.

Many of people have come in here and testified to how sweet, calm and charmer their Ram was during the "chase" ... we have one male Ram in here, Atom, who has been patiently chasing for probably nearly a year, and no anger or aggressiveness has come out yet ... simply because this aggressive anger isn't present in the Ram during the "chase".

During the "chase" we find Aries to be total sweethearts, romantic, patient, gentlemen/ladies respectively, and omg so frigging charming.

In knowing HOW the Ram scores, your post appears to be missing something on your end in which would make the Ram angry .. and since we are talking about sex, I would have to conclude that the missing piece is that you were a cock-tease.

Nothing else makes sense ... because Aries men, when trying to score won't defeat themselves, lol, their in it to win, not sabotage the game before they score.

What you described is the complete opposite behavoiur of a Ram in the Chase.

"they lure you into a false sense of security with their abundant charm until they've got you smitten."


Indubitability !!!

Same as all of us ... we all have certain proven, and patterned behaviours in which we use to secure many things .. jobs, partners, friends ....... and once the honeymoon wears off, our true colors come into play.

The male Ram is an expert at charming a woman's pants off .. this is fact. And he does so by actually making the impression that he is the most wonderful, sweet, romantic, patient, understanding and loving guy in the universe ........... he will NOT throw a wrench into his game because he WANTS to obtain his victory by UTILIZING this very trait, so that he can then keep you in his snare of making you believe he is god's gift to you.


There's no fucking way a Ram who has his sights on his prey will leap upon you before he has snared you ..... no fucking way.

Something else happened to cause his attitude ........

They keep being jekyll & hyde .. the secret is what GeminiFox does .. you're suppose to just smile and fill them full of kisses and hugs, and tell them and the whole world, "I adore you, I adore him"

Then he's satisfied that no matter how much of an ass he is, that you will honour and adore him ... his temper tantrums should wain to just a minimal after that.

Alls he really wants is to be center of your attention ... your world only turns because he is the king of it .. show him that at all times, and he will be happy.

good luck 🙂

I am a virgo woman and I dated a aries. it was cool at first . he was fine as hell. I have 3 children he spent time with us matter of a fact on chistmas day he came over early that morning to be with kids and to see them open there gifts. we had christmas dinner at my house and he was their with my family my mom and dad etc. he said he really liked me but de was not ready to commit until he knew it was real. very loud aries.. he wanted me to buy him some shoes and i didnt thatswhen it went down hill really. we never knew how to talk to each other our friends wopuld look at us and be surprised like i cant believe yall talk to each other like that. but hey thats how we communicated,. I really just like the sex alot. he would get mad when i just seem to want sex. I mean I did like him. but I just wanted sex pretty much... sound crazy huh? sorry for the typos

RRRRRRRRRRRRRRRUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN Very very fast....

First I'd hit him with some words....that he obviously needs to go back to high school cuz thats the only place he is going to find any female species that looks close to being a woman who will just treetrunk him for the heck of it!!! uh no he is really trippin and furthermore he is NOT THA BIZNESS!!!

Aries isn't for everyone,but when it works,it really works.


Very true GF.





Ughh I hate Aries men.

"they lure you into a false sense of security with their abundant charm until they've got you smitten."


lol ..i even got told this from one ...just an hour after we met he just said it flat out..pretty much in the same words ..just used the word "men" in general .... lol