xtina
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Selfish
Posted by NevermoreWhat's your sun?
I'm self-absorbed. Aries moon here.
Posted by daydream_achieverShe's not I was being dramatic ©
How is karma a jealous whore?
Posted by FyzaGems
I'm not an aries but somehow I think we are in the same boat! It's shitty isn't it??
I know the Leo is way much better though he's far away while the ex Sag who's still around me is not a good option but.... :/
Posted by xXxAliciaXxXI'm sorry that that happened to you /:Posted by xtinaI cannot relate to this at all. I know how badly it hurts to have that done to me so I wouldn't ever want to make someone else feel the same way.
I'm selfish. Are you other Rams too? And I mean like really selfish. Like you know and see the path to selflessness but you can't help but turn and run the other way.
(Dear dxp diary🙂
Now usually I am the kind of woman to like one guy at a time. I'm like a heat guided missile. Once I got you in my sight no other man matters. But now I can't help wanting 2.
Everything has been going great with this Gem man I've been dating (slow but great!). But recently the Virgo guy came back into my life. No, he knocked and I let him in. The Gem is someone I see a LTR with. The Virgo is very broken so nothing more than fwb. And I know what you're thinking "xtina what are you doing?? Dump the Virgo and keep the Gem." Yes, logical choice. Which brings me to my original point. I am selfish. I want it all. I want my cake and to eat it too.
So, any other Rams have had this dilemma. Liking two guys at once and not wanting to let either go. I mean you can but you don't want to. Is this all going to blow up in my face because karma's a bitch and a jealous whore. Anyone with a similar experience who can shed some light on making this work ‚‚‚.click to expand
I wouldn't want to do that to anyone. I'm assuming honesty would be the best policy for this. Now how to say it so I get what I want is another thing.
I know I know I can't mind control ©
Posted by xXxAliciaXxXI agree with you.Posted by xtinaThank you. Although I've been through it, even before I ever experienced it firsthand I've always had this same mentality. It's just in my nature to not do that. Which is funny because people swear that all Gems are cheaters and my Venus is in Gemini. This is why we shouldn't take astrology that seriously.Posted by xXxAliciaXxXI'm sorry that that happened to you /:Posted by xtinaI cannot relate to this at all. I know how badly it hurts to have that done to me so I wouldn't ever want to make someone else feel the same way.
I'm selfish. Are you other Rams too? And I mean like really selfish. Like you know and see the path to selflessness but you can't help but turn and run the other way.
(Dear dxp diary🙂
Now usually I am the kind of woman to like one guy at a time. I'm like a heat guided missile. Once I got you in my sight no other man matters. But now I can't help wanting 2.
Everything has been going great with this Gem man I've been dating (slow but great!). But recently the Virgo guy came back into my life. No, he knocked and I let him in. The Gem is someone I see a LTR with. The Virgo is very broken so nothing more than fwb. And I know what you're thinking "xtina what are you doing?? Dump the Virgo and keep the Gem." Yes, logical choice. Which brings me to my original point. I am selfish. I want it all. I want my cake and to eat it too.
So, any other Rams have had this dilemma. Liking two guys at once and not wanting to let either go. I mean you can but you don't want to. Is this all going to blow up in my face because karma's a bitch and a jealous whore. Anyone with a similar experience who can shed some light on making this work ‚‚‚.
I wouldn't want to do that to anyone. I'm assuming honesty would be the best policy for this. Now how to say it so I get what I want is another thing.click to expand
So, if it had been up to you do you think you'd rather not have had that person involve you to begin with and just left you alone?
Posted by xXxAliciaXxXHhmm... I see. Me and the gem aren't that serious yet. But if I had to make the choice I'd choose the gem. Thank you for your insight.Posted by xtinaYes, definitely. If you have no intentions on being faithful PLEASE stay away from me.Posted by xXxAliciaXxXI agree with you.Posted by xtinaThank you. Although I've been through it, even before I ever experienced it firsthand I've always had this same mentality. It's just in my nature to not do that. Which is funny because people swear that all Gems are cheaters and my Venus is in Gemini. This is why we shouldn't take astrology that seriously.Posted by xXxAliciaXxXI'm sorry that that happened to you /:Posted by xtinaI cannot relate to this at all. I know how badly it hurts to have that done to me so I wouldn't ever want to make someone else feel the same way.
I'm selfish. Are you other Rams too? And I mean like really selfish. Like you know and see the path to selflessness but you can't help but turn and run the other way.
(Dear dxp diary🙂
Now usually I am the kind of woman to like one guy at a time. I'm like a heat guided missile. Once I got you in my sight no other man matters. But now I can't help wanting 2.
Everything has been going great with this Gem man I've been dating (slow but great!). But recently the Virgo guy came back into my life. No, he knocked and I let him in. The Gem is someone I see a LTR with. The Virgo is very broken so nothing more than fwb. And I know what you're thinking "xtina what are you doing?? Dump the Virgo and keep the Gem." Yes, logical choice. Which brings me to my original point. I am selfish. I want it all. I want my cake and to eat it too.
So, any other Rams have had this dilemma. Liking two guys at once and not wanting to let either go. I mean you can but you don't want to. Is this all going to blow up in my face because karma's a bitch and a jealous whore. Anyone with a similar experience who can shed some light on making this work ‚‚‚.
I wouldn't want to do that to anyone. I'm assuming honesty would be the best policy for this. Now how to say it so I get what I want is another thing.
So, if it had been up to you do you think you'd rather not have had that person involve you to begin with and just left you alone?click to expand
Yes, to note Gem and I just started dating we have yet to talk about our relationship. It's pretty early. Virgo and I had a fling at the end of last year.
Posted by FyzaGemsDidn't see this!Posted by xtinaYeah, it's beyond our control. It's not something that we want either. I hate to hurt others too. I wish I had a button on my head that can make me forget about the Sag. Maybe he shouldn't have come back. Urgh!Posted by xXxAliciaXxXI'm sorry that that happened to you /:Posted by xtinaI cannot relate to this at all. I know how badly it hurts to have that done to me so I wouldn't ever want to make someone else feel the same way.
I'm selfish. Are you other Rams too? And I mean like really selfish. Like you know and see the path to selflessness but you can't help but turn and run the other way.
(Dear dxp diary🙂
Now usually I am the kind of woman to like one guy at a time. I'm like a heat guided missile. Once I got you in my sight no other man matters. But now I can't help wanting 2.
Everything has been going great with this Gem man I've been dating (slow but great!). But recently the Virgo guy came back into my life. No, he knocked and I let him in. The Gem is someone I see a LTR with. The Virgo is very broken so nothing more than fwb. And I know what you're thinking "xtina what are you doing?? Dump the Virgo and keep the Gem." Yes, logical choice. Which brings me to my original point. I am selfish. I want it all. I want my cake and to eat it too.
So, any other Rams have had this dilemma. Liking two guys at once and not wanting to let either go. I mean you can but you don't want to. Is this all going to blow up in my face because karma's a bitch and a jealous whore. Anyone with a similar experience who can shed some light on making this work ‚‚‚.
I wouldn't want to do that to anyone. I'm assuming honesty would be the best policy for this. Now how to say it so I get what I want is another thing.click to expand
But yes and no. Sorry, I'm not sorry?!! I want it all
Posted by FinbuffWell at least you now know you can't handle us. Saves a lot of time.
This is the exact reason the Aries girl scared the crap out of me. I could see this all over her. She oozed sexuality. Very unnerving.
Posted by FinbuffHonestly, you are the only loser here.
Aries reminds me of this.....
And you don't know what you are missing with us - chasing the losers. Works both ways girl!!!
I'd bet back then she never thought I'd be a multi-milionare...but then again she kept coming back for some reason....until I told her she was getting fat, after she quit dancing. Didn't go over too well. LOL!
my mother is not selfish
Posted by BlondeAmbitionWhat's her moon?
my mother is not selfish
Posted by FinbuffYou're pathetic
@Ariesintrovert: And your opinion matters to me personally, for what reason? Peanut gallery commentary. LMAO
Posted by GreyWizPosted by xtinadisgusting.
I'm selfish. Are you other Rams too? And I mean like really selfish. Like you know and see the path to selflessness but you can't help but turn and run the other way.
(Dear dxp diary🙂
Now usually I am the kind of woman to like one guy at a time. I'm like a heat guided missile. Once I got you in my sight no other man matters. But now I can't help wanting 2.
Everything has been going great with this Gem man I've been dating (slow but great!). But recently the Virgo guy came back into my life. No, he knocked and I let him in. The Gem is someone I see a LTR with. The Virgo is very broken so nothing more than fwb. And I know what you're thinking "xtina what are you doing?? Dump the Virgo and keep the Gem." Yes, logical choice. Which brings me to my original point. I am selfish. I want it all. I want my cake and to eat it too.
So, any other Rams have had this dilemma. Liking two guys at once and not wanting to let either go. I mean you can but you don't want to. Is this all going to blow up in my face because karma's a bitch and a jealous whore. Anyone with a similar experience who can shed some light on making this work ‚‚‚.click to expand
I can be, but not intentionally. But I have a Cap moon, Libra ascendent and a Taurus venus; I'd prefer to make things last, remain stable, and think of the other person's perspective more often than most Aries would I suspect.
The thing I've learned about Aries is that our desires are strong but fleeting. I have a girlfriend who I've been with for 2 1/2 years (and we haven't had sex, waiting for marriage) and I'm always tempted to chase after this crush or that crush. I get crushes crazy easily. I have a tendency to flirt with these crushes too. But I would never cross the line into cheating. I let the crush die because it often happens as swiftly as it came, just takes a couple weeks. Rams seem to want to chase after something more than they want to have it. I'm extremely pleased with my partner, and anything else is just a mere fleeting interest, like enjoying the sight of a puffy little cloud on a windy day.
The thing I've learned about Aries is that our desires are strong but fleeting. I have a girlfriend who I've been with for 2 1/2 years (and we haven't had sex, waiting for marriage) and I'm always tempted to chase after this crush or that crush. I get crushes crazy easily. I have a tendency to flirt with these crushes too. But I would never cross the line into cheating. I let the crush die because it often happens as swiftly as it came, just takes a couple weeks. Rams seem to want to chase after something more than they want to have it. I'm extremely pleased with my partner, and anything else is just a mere fleeting interest, like enjoying the sight of a puffy little cloud on a windy day.
Posted by xtinaRammettes tend to accumulate harems, because we enjoy personal attention (first sign, the baby, I AM). Linda Goodman described Scarlett O'Hara as the perfect Ram woman epitome
I'm selfish. Are you other Rams too? And I mean like really selfish. Like you know and see the path to selflessness but you can't help but turn and run the other way.
(Dear dxp diary🙂
Now usually I am the kind of woman to like one guy at a time. I'm like a heat guided missile. Once I got you in my sight no other man matters. But now I can't help wanting 2.
Everything has been going great with this Gem man I've been dating (slow but great!). But recently the Virgo guy came back into my life. No, he knocked and I let him in. The Gem is someone I see a LTR with. The Virgo is very broken so nothing more than fwb. And I know what you're thinking "xtina what are you doing?? Dump the Virgo and keep the Gem." Yes, logical choice. Which brings me to my original point. I am selfish. I want it all. I want my cake and to eat it too.
So, any other Rams have had this dilemma. Liking two guys at once and not wanting to let either go. I mean you can but you don't want to. Is this all going to blow up in my face because karma's a bitch and a jealous whore. Anyone with a similar experience who can shed some light on making this work ‚‚‚.
Yes it's not that were selfish we just want to have our cake and eat it too Š that's just our masculine energy. I understand my fellow Aries we find one guy we like and were focused on him I have a Leo I'm interested in and he's my prey just watching him ready to capture him but my Virgo recently appeared © we had something amazing . I want both Leo and Virgo but having to choose one is hard because Leo sets my soul on fire when were together it's lava and my Virgo balances me out its true when they say opposites attract we add to one another. But one thing that's for sure is that we have to follow our heart because deep down we know we really want one guy and need the other guy
I'm very selfish when it comes to my career. Even my family cannot come in the way of my career.. I'm realising how selfish I am... But I feel oddly obliged to my career.
Its so conflicting. Because my soul is originally happy in family life...but the career path - the service I have surrendered myself to will mostly take me away from my family or atleast time I spend with them..
But I feel strangely destined towards my career. I feel I have to forego some things in this life..
It doesn't help my Sun/venus in 10th. And Pisces is in 10th house - sacrifice for greater service. And too many aspects to my MC.
Its so conflicting. Because my soul is originally happy in family life...but the career path - the service I have surrendered myself to will mostly take me away from my family or atleast time I spend with them..
But I feel strangely destined towards my career. I feel I have to forego some things in this life..
It doesn't help my Sun/venus in 10th. And Pisces is in 10th house - sacrifice for greater service. And too many aspects to my MC.
Posted by missionYou're right. And I think that's why I'm afraid to get into anything serious because it always ends up happening where my eyes wander. I'm a very loyal partner and wouldn't cheat. But I'm afraid of things getting boring, that and I have commitment issues. Thank you for sharing! It really made me think of my deeper issues as an individual. Anymore tips you can provide would be very helpful.
I can be, but not intentionally. But I have a Cap moon, Libra ascendent and a Taurus venus; I'd prefer to make things last, remain stable, and think of the other person's perspective more often than most Aries would I suspect.
The thing I've learned about Aries is that our desires are strong but fleeting. I have a girlfriend who I've been with for 2 1/2 years (and we haven't had sex, waiting for marriage) and I'm always tempted to chase after this crush or that crush. I get crushes crazy easily. I have a tendency to flirt with these crushes too. But I would never cross the line into cheating. I let the crush die because it often happens as swiftly as it came, just takes a couple weeks. Rams seem to want to chase after something more than they want to have it. I'm extremely pleased with my partner, and anything else is just a mere fleeting interest, like enjoying the sight of a puffy little cloud on a windy day.
Posted by RamOfPeaceYes I'm an attention whore only bested by Leos in that department. I think that's why I love having Leo friends, they understand 🙂Posted by xtinaRammettes tend to accumulate harems, because we enjoy personal attention (first sign, the baby, I AM). Linda Goodman described Scarlett O'Hara as the perfect Ram woman epitome
I'm selfish. Are you other Rams too? And I mean like really selfish. Like you know and see the path to selflessness but you can't help but turn and run the other way.
(Dear dxp diary🙂
Now usually I am the kind of woman to like one guy at a time. I'm like a heat guided missile. Once I got you in my sight no other man matters. But now I can't help wanting 2.
Everything has been going great with this Gem man I've been dating (slow but great!). But recently the Virgo guy came back into my life. No, he knocked and I let him in. The Gem is someone I see a LTR with. The Virgo is very broken so nothing more than fwb. And I know what you're thinking "xtina what are you doing?? Dump the Virgo and keep the Gem." Yes, logical choice. Which brings me to my original point. I am selfish. I want it all. I want my cake and to eat it too.
So, any other Rams have had this dilemma. Liking two guys at once and not wanting to let either go. I mean you can but you don't want to. Is this all going to blow up in my face because karma's a bitch and a jealous whore. Anyone with a similar experience who can shed some light on making this work ‚‚‚.click to expand
Posted by Harukaa‚‚‚true dat and she has a libra moon!! Only difference is I'm willing to be honest from the get go.
Remember that Kristen lost them both
Posted by ReincarnationI think it's true our eyes do dart which makes me concerned that my appetite may never be satiated. Which makes me sad because I really would like to find one man to settle down with 😢Posted by xtinaYes - I have found Aries women fairly selfish. I also noticed they have eyes for every hot guy that walks past them. Kind of like men, really.
I'm selfish. Are you other Rams too? And I mean like really selfish. Like you know and see the path to selflessness but you can't help but turn and run the other way.
(Dear dxp diary🙂
Now usually I am the kind of woman to like one guy at a time. I'm like a heat guided missile. Once I got you in my sight no other man matters. But now I can't help wanting 2.
Everything has been going great with this Gem man I've been dating (slow but great!). But recently the Virgo guy came back into my life. No, he knocked and I let him in. The Gem is someone I see a LTR with. The Virgo is very broken so nothing more than fwb. And I know what you're thinking "xtina what are you doing?? Dump the Virgo and keep the Gem." Yes, logical choice. Which brings me to my original point. I am selfish. I want it all. I want my cake and to eat it too.
So, any other Rams have had this dilemma. Liking two guys at once and not wanting to let either go. I mean you can but you don't want to. Is this all going to blow up in my face because karma's a bitch and a jealous whore. Anyone with a similar experience who can shed some light on making this work ‚‚‚.
I tend to like more girly women, so I keep them as friends. Good friendships. They trust me. An Aries woman told me she is using her boyfriend to pay the rent, but she is having sex with a security guard, her weed man, and her boss at the local Italian restaurant.
True story.
But - honestly - I think these women are quite loyal. They just have eyes that dart from one dude to the next. Who can blame them? Men do it, too. (Well - I try not to.) Also, I have found Aries women to be more jealous than Scorpio women. These Rams want attention and a lot of it.
Anyway - I'm bored. Back to studying.click to expand
I guess I just haven't found the right one.
And you're right we rammettes are very masculine. It's what we're most insecure about. There are only a few signs that understand that and can bring out the feminity in us I'd say IME Leo, Cancer, Taurus, and Virgo.
Posted by Arielle83Do you ever regret your decision?
I know you want Aries sun, but my Aries rising was in this predicament once.
I went to a tarot card reader for the answer, because I could have both, but I know I needed a decision.
Both guys new about each other. One wanted to come back and one was a new guy I bonded fast with.
Posted by RumiLInteresting... I have felt that way because I spend most my time consumed in my career. But recently I've been talking to a lot of old people and I find that life is too short and to me career will always be there but my family and times spent and memories made will not. So as of recent I've been trying to pull myself away from my career and focus more of my attention on family and friends. But I'm in a service career too. So I understand. But one of my favorite quotes from one of my favorite role models is "As you grow older, you will discover that you have two hands, one for helping yourself, the other for helping others." That was Audrey Hepburn and she did a lot great relief work before she died.
I'm very selfish when it comes to my career. Even my family cannot come in the way of my career.. I'm realising how selfish I am... But I feel oddly obliged to my career.
Its so conflicting. Because my soul is originally happy in family life...but the career path - the service I have surrendered myself to will mostly take me away from my family or atleast time I spend with them..
But I feel strangely destined towards my career. I feel I have to forego some things in this life..
It doesn't help my Sun/venus in 10th. And Pisces is in 10th house - sacrifice for greater service. And too many aspects to my MC.
So to me it's all a balance. You can't neglect your own needs and wants in the process of helping those that need it most.
Posted by babygurlWow, thank you. That was very brave of you to share and I admire your honesty. I can't say I fully understand where you are coming from but I do understand the conundrum of doing what's best and good vs doing what feels good and is bad for you. And I know in the long run doing what is good is what will help me in the long run but sometimes I get tired of doing what is always right and good and sometimes I just want to do what's bad.
I have an aries rising.. but sometimes I wish I had an aries sun..that would've made me more shrewd instead of soo selfless. My mars in cancer does not help. And Ironically enough it is supposedly this placement that have me such a softie!
Interpretation of the 10° Aries symbolic degree
Gentle, pleasant, and hospitable character. One is devoted to nice deeds and charity work, but one has no willpower. One is so selfless that one may get involved in a romance just out of one's inability to say no. Therefore, there is a danger to get lost in one's desire to please others. This degree indicates that happiness comes from concealed love affairs and changes, rather than from marriage. If in the natal chart, Mercury is dominant, the intellect may prevail over sensuality and may prompt to establish some sort of literary or artistic circle which offers a nice opportunity to both genders to get together and flirt.
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My claws and teeth only come out when I'm bothered or triggered.
But I contemplated cheating already. Since I'm not really in love with the gem but he's the breadwinner so I've contemplated having a lover..
and to be honest I don't think he'd really mind if he found out. Once I don't rub it in his face.. (I've tested him) and he don't catch me red handed. But I'm torn between my good morals and being somewhat dishonorable and selfish to attain some happiness.
I don't know maybe later on I'll think about it.
I can do it but it's not a nice thing to do. He will never trust me after that not that I mind much but I still would want us to be friends for our daughter sake. It's a horrible thing to do.. I'll give it some thought..
Take your time though. Your situation is different from mine. I'm single and both the relationships I'm looking at are fairly new. Whereas you have others life in your hands so you need to think about you. And I wish you the best of luck in whatever you choose and that whatever you choose leads you to great happiness. You seem like a sweet and good person so I'm sure you more than deserve it 🙂
Posted by ReincarnationThat's what we RamsPosted by xtinaI really like your honesty though.Posted by ReincarnationI think it's true our eyes do dart which makes me concerned that my appetite may never be satiated. Which makes me sad because I really would like to find one man to settle down with 😢Posted by xtinaYes - I have found Aries women fairly selfish. I also noticed they have eyes for every hot guy that walks past them. Kind of like men, really.
I'm selfish. Are you other Rams too? And I mean like really selfish. Like you know and see the path to selflessness but you can't help but turn and run the other way.
(Dear dxp diary🙂
Now usually I am the kind of woman to like one guy at a time. I'm like a heat guided missile. Once I got you in my sight no other man matters. But now I can't help wanting 2.
Everything has been going great with this Gem man I've been dating (slow but great!). But recently the Virgo guy came back into my life. No, he knocked and I let him in. The Gem is someone I see a LTR with. The Virgo is very broken so nothing more than fwb. And I know what you're thinking "xtina what are you doing?? Dump the Virgo and keep the Gem." Yes, logical choice. Which brings me to my original point. I am selfish. I want it all. I want my cake and to eat it too.
So, any other Rams have had this dilemma. Liking two guys at once and not wanting to let either go. I mean you can but you don't want to. Is this all going to blow up in my face because karma's a bitch and a jealous whore. Anyone with a similar experience who can shed some light on making this work ‚‚‚.
I tend to like more girly women, so I keep them as friends. Good friendships. They trust me. An Aries woman told me she is using her boyfriend to pay the rent, but she is having sex with a security guard, her weed man, and her boss at the local Italian restaurant.
True story.
But - honestly - I think these women are quite loyal. They just have eyes that dart from one dude to the next. Who can blame them? Men do it, too. (Well - I try not to.) Also, I have found Aries women to be more jealous than Scorpio women. These Rams want attention and a lot of it.
Anyway - I'm bored. Back to studying.
I guess I just haven't found the right one.
And you're right we rammettes are very masculine. It's what we're most insecure about. There are only a few signs that understand that and can bring out the feminity in us I'd say IME Leo, Cancer, Taurus, and Virgo.click to expand
@reincarnation that's what we Rams are good at 🙂
Posted by Arielle83Hmmm interesting. Makes me want to go to a tarot card reader now. Thank you for sharing that was very helpful 🙂Posted by xtinaThe card reader did 3 cards for each. My ex got:Posted by Arielle83Do you ever regret your decision?
I know you want Aries sun, but my Aries rising was in this predicament once.
I went to a tarot card reader for the answer, because I could have both, but I know I needed a decision.
Both guys new about each other. One wanted to come back and one was a new guy I bonded fast with.
Wrath, indifference, challenge
New guy got;
Harmony, freedom, rebellion.
I picked new guy and married him 4 years later.
My ex has been through 4 women since and still an angry asshole.click to expand
Posted by xtinaThankyou for the reply 🙂Posted by RumiLInteresting... I have felt that way because I spend most my time consumed in my career. But recently I've been talking to a lot of old people and I find that life is too short and to me career will always be there but my family and times spent and memories made will not. So as of recent I've been trying to pull myself away from my career and focus more of my attention on family and friends. But I'm in a service career too. So I understand. But one of my favorite quotes from one of my favorite role models is "As you grow older, you will discover that you have two hands, one for helping yourself, the other for helping others." That was Audrey Hepburn and she did a lot great relief work before she died.
I'm very selfish when it comes to my career. Even my family cannot come in the way of my career.. I'm realising how selfish I am... But I feel oddly obliged to my career.
Its so conflicting. Because my soul is originally happy in family life...but the career path - the service I have surrendered myself to will mostly take me away from my family or atleast time I spend with them..
But I feel strangely destined towards my career. I feel I have to forego some things in this life..
It doesn't help my Sun/venus in 10th. And Pisces is in 10th house - sacrifice for greater service. And too many aspects to my MC.
So to me it's all a balance. You can't neglect your own needs and wants in the process of helping those that need it most.click to expand
I will keep this in mind.. Some very valuable things you said there.
Lets see how life takes its course 🙂
Posted by exxtasyxThank you!! I appreciate this very much. I'm usually very conservative too. And I don't plan on settling down anytime soon but I was feeling badly for liking two guys at once. And oddly enough the I'm seeing Virgo guy is super hot too. He's too broken for anything real serious (he just got out of a serious relationship 5 months ago) but I would like to start a fwb with him I just don't know how to go about it. I'm kind of shy irl. And so is he
I'm very conservative when it comes to "connections" but here we go...
You're not in a confirmed relationship with any of these guys. So you're not cheating, you're not doing anything wrong. You're young, have fun. Figure out what you want to do. Do you.
This reminds me of a situation I was in with a Gemini, my own sign. I was so into this guy and when we met we just clicked like crazy. Words can't even describe how we clicked, it just felt so natural and we had so much in common. But we never made it official. And a really, really hot Virgo guy hit on me and made moves on me. Like ten times better looking then this Gemini. And I turned him down. I ignored him. And seriously, it was a huge mistake. Because I was never in a relationship with this Gemini, nothing was official and I was too focused on him when I should have focused on myself.
Don't put too much energy into someone who hasn't bothered to make things official with you. I learned a huge lesson from that. The Gemini guy turned out to be someone who didn't know what the treetrunk he wanted and I wasted so much time on him and put so much energy into him when this Virgo guy and another Cancer guy was just across the corner from me and would have given me what I wanted this whole time.
Do you. Don't waste time on people who won't step up.
Haha apparently Gem/Virgo love triangles are common here on DXP 😄
Again thank you for sharing and thank you for your insight 🙂
@RumiL I wish you the best of luck my dear and I hope your career and relationships are both fulfilling 🙂
Posted by xtina
Everything has been going great with this Gem man I've been dating
Virgo guy came back into my life .... nothing more than fwb.
I doubt very seriously that the going would be great with Gemini if he knew you were fucking another man.
Posted by xtinaThankyou xtina 🙂
@RumiL I wish you the best of luck my dear and I hope your career and relationships are both fulfilling 🙂
I wish the same for you 🙂
Posted by P-AngelWell gem and I have only been on a couple dates, no sex yet. The Virgo have had relations in the past but are currently just friendly, although I'd like to start something again I just don't know how. But if the gem has a problem then... Haha I don't know what I'd do from there that's why I came on here asking. I'm not sure if the gem is worth settling down with yet and I'm young so I'd like to say had fun before I settle down.Posted by xtina
Everything has been going great with this Gem man I've been dating
Virgo guy came back into my life .... nothing more than fwb.
I doubt very seriously that the going would be great with Gemini if he knew you were fucking another man.click to expand
I'm not sure maybe it's a completely bad idea and this will blow up in my face. And it probably will. But I'm willing to take that chance 🙂
Posted by xtinaI know Aries women are more comfortable with guys and tend to have a lot of guy friends. But if you sleep with another guy will you tell the person you're dating?Posted by P-AngelWell gem and I have only been on a couple dates, no sex yet. The Virgo have had relations in the past but are currently just friendly, although I'd like to start something again I just don't know how. But if the gem has a problem then... Haha I don't know what I'd do from there that's why I came on here asking. I'm not sure if the gem is worth settling down with yet and I'm young so I'd like to say had fun before I settle down.Posted by xtina
Everything has been going great with this Gem man I've been dating
Virgo guy came back into my life .... nothing more than fwb.
I doubt very seriously that the going would be great with Gemini if he knew you were fucking another man.
I'm not sure maybe it's a completely bad idea and this will blow up in my face. And it probably will. But I'm willing to take that chance 🙂click to expand
Selfish with my food, men and food.
Posted by GoooberYou said food twice. 😛
Selfish with my food, men and food.
Posted by AriesIntrovert16Posted by GoooberYou said food twice. 😛
Selfish with my food, men and food.click to expand
Posted by MidasDelimaI'm actually more comfortable with woman and have more female friends than male. I haven't been in that situation yet but yes I would tell them.Posted by xtinaI know Aries women are more comfortable with guys and tend to have a lot of guy friends. But if you sleep with another guy will you tell the person you're dating?Posted by P-AngelWell gem and I have only been on a couple dates, no sex yet. The Virgo have had relations in the past but are currently just friendly, although I'd like to start something again I just don't know how. But if the gem has a problem then... Haha I don't know what I'd do from there that's why I came on here asking. I'm not sure if the gem is worth settling down with yet and I'm young so I'd like to say had fun before I settle down.Posted by xtina
Everything has been going great with this Gem man I've been dating
Virgo guy came back into my life .... nothing more than fwb.
I doubt very seriously that the going would be great with Gemini if he knew you were fucking another man.
I'm not sure maybe it's a completely bad idea and this will blow up in my face. And it probably will. But I'm willing to take that chance 🙂click to expand
Posted by GoooberLol, I figured.Posted by AriesIntrovert16http://letsfeelbetter.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/On-purpose.gifPosted by GoooberYou said food twice. 😛
Selfish with my food, men and food.
Posted by AriesIntrovert16Food is pretty important 😄Posted by GoooberYou said food twice. 😛
Selfish with my food, men and food.click to expand
Posted by MidasDelimaI don't think they will tell. They afraid the one she dating will leave her, and she cant take advantage and can't afford to lose the investment.Posted by xtinaI know Aries women are more comfortable with guys and tend to have a lot of guy friends. But if you sleep with another guy will you tell the person you're dating?Posted by P-AngelWell gem and I have only been on a couple dates, no sex yet. The Virgo have had relations in the past but are currently just friendly, although I'd like to start something again I just don't know how. But if the gem has a problem then... Haha I don't know what I'd do from there that's why I came on here asking. I'm not sure if the gem is worth settling down with yet and I'm young so I'd like to say had fun before I settle down.Posted by xtina
Everything has been going great with this Gem man I've been dating
Virgo guy came back into my life .... nothing more than fwb.
I doubt very seriously that the going would be great with Gemini if he knew you were fucking another man.
I'm not sure maybe it's a completely bad idea and this will blow up in my face. And it probably will. But I'm willing to take that chance 🙂click to expand
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