Starting to date Aries

Hi there, i started to date an Aries girl, while we are together it seems to be real fun and i enjoy spending time with her, but i don't understand her texting thing, when i text she replies instantly when she sees i texted, but often times when i send the text messages she doesn't reply, you know when you send a message and you get a message when a person receives and the next one when he starts to read, sometimes that never happends so i have to send another one message just to get her to see the one i wrote her before, same happens when she texts me, i text back and sometimes a whole day goes by and she doesn't write me back? I Mean why would you text if you're not going to text back? When i ask her about this she says she's bussy, thats why she doesn't reply, is that really the case or she could be lying? because i've heard aries don't usually make excuses they say it how it is, any advise on this one? We have been seeing each other for only a month right now, we have huge attraction to each other, but somehow i feel like she isn't really interested in me, while she says otherwise 😄 anyone ever know pisces /aries relationship?

No... she's really busy 😢

I'm starting to feel we are bad at texting. I just forget, I can't explain how or why it happens.. I'm busy doing so many things at once most of the times, sometimes I forget to check, sometimes I keeep reading a text but leave it half-way because something comes up, sometimes, I think I reply when I did not, sometimes I leave half way through while typing.. But texting is just not my thing, so..

Trust what she says, I doubt an Aries would lie to your face lol.

My Aries bestfriend is the same, like me.. I know another Aries too.. she too is like me. And, we are somehow forgetfull... I feel so comfortable with them, because they understand my issue :'D

She will be upfront about her feelings though, atleast when you meet her face to face or on a phone call : D

Whats your sign OP?

@RamOfPeace

Pisces Sun

Leo Moon

Aries Mercury

Saggy Venus

Capricorn Mars

Posted by RumiL
No... she's really busy 😢

I'm starting to feel we are bad at texting. I just forget, I can't explain how or why it happens.. I'm busy doing so many things at once most of the times, sometimes I forget to check, sometimes I keeep reading a text but leave it half-way because something comes up, sometimes, I think I reply when I did not, sometimes I leave half way through while typing.. But texting is just not my thing, so..

Trust what she says, I doubt an Aries would lie to your face lol.

My Aries bestfriend is the same, like me.. I know another Aries too.. she too is like me. And, we are somehow forgetfull... I feel so comfortable with them, because they understand my issue :'D

She will be upfront about her feelings though, atleast when you meet her face to face or on a phone call : D

I think so 2, but i don't think i should text her again if she doesn't reply, i'm thinking i should let her text back when she can, because if she doesn't reply and i text her again i don't really feel good, that might be leo moon or somth, i just don't like to text people if they are unable to reply. Same feeling when i see people showing themselves some bosses in the ass, like get some respect for yourself and know your self value, i don't know i just feel that way, i feel my self respect decreases if i do this, and i don't really feel good doing this, i think i'll let her text me back after a while, because i really feel i shouldn't be texting her after she doesn't reply the messages, sounds clingy and sounds like that boss situation so yeah. 🙂 Well atleast our time together feels amazing 😄

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No... she's really busy 😢

I'm starting to feel we are bad at texting. I just forget, I can't explain how or why it happens.. I'm busy doing so many things at once most of the times, sometimes I forget to check, sometimes I keeep reading a text but leave it half-way because something comes up, sometimes, I think I reply when I did not, sometimes I leave half way through while typing.. But texting is just not my thing, so..

Trust what she says, I doubt an Aries would lie to your face lol.

My Aries bestfriend is the same, like me.. I know another Aries too.. she too is like me. And, we are somehow forgetfull... I feel so comfortable with them, because they understand my issue :'D

She will be upfront about her feelings though, atleast when you meet her face to face or on a phone call : D

I think so 2, but i don't think i should text her again if she doesn't reply, i'm thinking i should let her text back when she can, because if she doesn't reply and i text her again i don't really feel good, that might be leo moon or somth, i just don't like to text people if they are unable to reply. Same feeling when i see people showing themselves some bosses in the ass, like get some respect for yourself and know your self value, i don't know i just feel that way, i feel my self respect decreases if i do this, and i don't really feel good doing this, i think i'll let her text me back after a while, because i really feel i shouldn't be texting her after she doesn't reply the messages, sounds clingy and sounds like that boss situation so yeah. 🙂 Well atleast our time together feels amazing 😄

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I'm sorry you are left feeling like this 😢 .. well, I think if she's so amazing with you when you're together then, she's definitely not playing games! : )

Why don't you try to talk to her about it? we like to be told directly what you want us to do :-)

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@RamOfPeace

Pisces Sun

Leo Moon

Aries Mercury

Saggy Venus

Capricorn Mars

I think you have Cap venus...? :p

I don't think Pisces suns can have Sag venuses.. :-)

What are her placements, Mr fish?? :p

Sun Aries

Moon Sag

Merc Taurus

Venus Gemini

Mars Aries

loads of fire and almsot no water, only in lith she has a cancer. 😄

I don't know when i'm home i'll check my ven but i def think it was Sag, unless i misread and mixed with other one

I told her, she said sorry, but she just forgets somehow or is really bussy, well me as a fish i don't imagine how could someone forget things like this, as pisces i could never forget, we are emotional bound to texting talking calling and things like that so yeah, 🙂 I'll be ok i guess that just might be an aries trait

Posted by REpisRies
Sun Aries

Moon Sag

Merc Taurus

Venus Gemini

Mars Aries

loads of fire and almsot no water, only in lith she has a cancer. 😄

I don't know when i'm home i'll check my ven but i def think it was Sag, unless i misread and mixed with other one

Looks like a nice synastry to me! : D

Mercury Taurus must be slowing her down too(text responses). hmm 😕

Posted by REpisRies
I told her, she said sorry, but she just forgets somehow or is really bussy, well me as a fish i don't imagine how could someone forget things like this, as pisces i could never forget, we are emotional bound to texting talking calling and things like that so yeah, 🙂 I'll be ok i guess that just might be an aries trait

I can speak for three Aries I know.. we are like that 😢 And, two of us have super watery charts..

Also, I forgot to ask, does she reply at any time during the day.. say you send her a message now, does she text back in following 24 hours? or when she's gonna sleep?

I think we are like babies.. repsond to our immediate environment more 😢

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@RamOfPeace

Pisces Sun

Leo Moon

Aries Mercury

Saggy Venus

Capricorn Mars

I think you have Cap venus...? :p

I don't think Pisces suns can have Sag venuses.. :-)

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How do you have a Sag Venus? That's more than 2 signs away @REpisRies

Damn i have the same thing happening to me right now 😄 similar , in the morning she texts good morning 😄 i text back, i know she was sick and feeling bad yesterday so i asked how she was and how is she feeling and she didn't reply, it's been like 7hours. 😄 i think thats just an aries trait i noticed many aries i know including my oldest friend does this 😄

I hate texting

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@RamOfPeace

Pisces Sun

Leo Moon

Aries Mercury

Saggy Venus

Capricorn Mars

JFC.

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Posted by REpisRies
Sun Aries

Moon Sag

Merc Taurus

Venus Gemini

Mars Aries

loads of fire and almsot no water, only in lith she has a cancer. 😄

I don't know when i'm home i'll check my ven but i def think it was Sag, unless i misread and mixed with other one

Looks like a nice synastry to me! : D

Mercury Taurus must be slowing her down too(text responses). hmm 😕

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It is. -_-

I have that placement and I sometimes need time to think of an appropriate answer. I sometimes take days to answer or at least give some indication that I got the message.

OP has Aries Mercury so I think the slow response time may become an issue later.

OP, I think you really need to pull back a notch and not make quick assumptions about her when she doesn't answer you straight away.

I am really busy, especially, if you text me while I'm at work. I don't text and drive. I don't text while eating (or sleeping).

I find texts to be annoying.

Posted by VenusAquarius
I am really busy, especially, if you text me while I'm at work. I don't text and drive. I don't text while eating (or sleeping).

I find texts to be annoying.

So why would you initiate writing first and then no reply after i reply in a minute?

Sorry guys i'll be back home at night and i'll look at my chart if you guys say i can't be sag prob i missread or somth

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Posted by VenusAquarius
I am really busy, especially, if you text me while I'm at work. I don't text and drive. I don't text while eating (or sleeping).

I find texts to be annoying.

So why would you initiate writing first and then no reply after i reply in a minute?

Sorry guys i'll be back home at night and i'll look at my chart if you guys say i can't be sag prob i missread or somth

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To me, texting is a necessary evil because I don't have time or I'm busy. It's a tool for the multi-tasker. I don't expect to carry a conversation. Plus, when does the mesage really end? When a question is asked and answered? When does the "back" in "texting back" end?

I text my husband sweet sexy texts or texts of love and devotion while he's at work. He doesn't text me back. I don't expect him too. First, it's my idea and thoughts right now. It would be insincere to text just because I did.

I'm not talking about sexy messages, i'm talking about questions, you have a husband so you prob don't need to write goodmorning, but i don't live with her i just started dating, she texted me good morning, how are you , i replied within a minute and it's been over 7 + hours she didn't reply, my question is why ask something if you're not even considering checking what a person wrote?you asked that means you're interested right? so do you ussually wait for 10hour to hear back from texts like this? She said she's bussy yeah i understand when i text and she doesn't reply, but when she texts first with some kind of question and i reply and she doesn't i feel like i'm talking to a wall that doesn't give a fuck, but i know she cared about be, atleast she told me so

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I'm not talking about sexy messages, i'm talking about questions, you have a husband so you prob don't need to write goodmorning, but i don't live with her i just started dating, she texted me good morning, how are you , i replied within a minute and it's been over 7 + hours she didn't reply, my question is why ask something if you're not even considering checking what a person wrote?you asked that means you're interested right? so do you ussually wait for 10hour to hear back from texts like this? She said she's bussy yeah i understand when i text and she doesn't reply, but when she texts first with some kind of question and i reply and she doesn't i feel like i'm talking to a wall that doesn't give a fuck, but i know she cared about be, atleast she told me so

Well as i said, i have similar experience right now, and really i don't feel a need to write her something, she wrote me, i wrote her back, when she will have time or want she will text me, i see it as simple a that, maybe you should look at that from another angle like i do? 🙂 just an idea.

if i like someone, he will never hear my voicemail. He textz me at 8:01, i respond 7:59.

Posted by DMV
if i like someone, he will never hear my voicemail. He textz me at 8:01, i respond 7:59.

Might be, but you have some water in your chart, while she almost doesn't, only Cancer in lith.

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if i like someone, he will never hear my voicemail. He textz me at 8:01, i respond 7:59.

Might be, but you have some water in your chart, while she almost doesn't, only Cancer in lith.

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True dat

I see her active on facebook , liking pics and things like that. 😄 Do you Aries consider this bussy? Doesn't look that way for me, i'll just way if she texts she texts, if not i don't think she's really into me, actions are lounder than words that she speaks 🙂 thank you guys 🙂

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I see her active on facebook , liking pics and things like that. 😄 Do you Aries consider this bussy? Doesn't look that way for me, i'll just way if she texts she texts, if not i don't think she's really into me, actions are lounder than words that she speaks 🙂 thank you guys 🙂

You're reading too much into her actions.

Take it from the Cancer @rakac - keep things simple, even in your head. When you start overthinking and reading too much, it will only confuse you even more.

Posted by REpisRies
I see her active on facebook , liking pics and things like that. 😄 Do you Aries consider this bussy? Doesn't look that way for me, i'll just way if she texts she texts, if not i don't think she's really into me, actions are lounder than words that she speaks 🙂 thank you guys 🙂

Write her a message, and if she doesn't reply that means she fainted 😉 Lol ofc i'm joking, but rly don't read that much into her actions, Aries are not the water people like scorp or a cancer. 😄 try to let go and take more actions be more active.

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I see her active on facebook , liking pics and things like that. 😄 Do you Aries consider this bussy? Doesn't look that way for me, i'll just way if she texts she texts, if not i don't think she's really into me, actions are lounder than words that she speaks 🙂 thank you guys 🙂

Write her a message, and if she doesn't reply that means she fainted 😉 Lol ofc i'm joking, but rly don't read that much into her actions, Aries are not the water people like scorp or a cancer. 😄 try to let go and take more actions be more active.

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but i don't understand, i wrote her on facebook also around 2hours ago, she doesn't reply to me, but i see her commenting on pictures and liking , how can a person be like that when the person he says he likes wants to initiate some texts with him? i just can't understand this behavior

She doesn't sound that into you.

Posted by AriesLove
She's taking it slow.

I know how Pisces men are. I've had a few friends that were Pisces they are heavily attracted to Aries women.

Pisces are cool on a friendship level. I can't say if she doesn't want to be in a relationship now but that's kind of what it looks like. Also Pisces men are a bit soft and sometimes I don't respect them like I should. It doesn't mean I don't like them, but since I know how they are it's easier for me to push them to the side.

Should i just sit back and wait for her to contact me? If you like someone you do initiate contact right? Never heard of Aries taking something slow tho 🙂

OP, when was the last time you took her out on a date?

Also, is texting 90% of how you communicate with her or do you call her up to talk?

This is only my opinion but, after awhile, I can find texting to be highly impersonal and annoying. Especially if it's by someone I am interested in.

Face to face and vocal conversations help me at least gauge the other person for any potential I might be looking for.

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She's taking it slow.

I know how Pisces men are. I've had a few friends that were Pisces they are heavily attracted to Aries women.

Pisces are cool on a friendship level. I can't say if she doesn't want to be in a relationship now but that's kind of what it looks like. Also Pisces men are a bit soft and sometimes I don't respect them like I should. It doesn't mean I don't like them, but since I know how they are it's easier for me to push them to the side.

Should i just sit back and wait for her to contact me? If you like someone you do initiate contact right? Never heard of Aries taking something slow tho 🙂

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It's more common than you think. We initiate but our follow through can sometimes be a bit weak.

Posted by tiziani
She could be bored and just being polite. Consider how annoying text messages can be.

Even with my Mercury Taurus, constant texting with almost no physical contact kind of kills the passion for me.

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She's taking it slow.

I know how Pisces men are. I've had a few friends that were Pisces they are heavily attracted to Aries women.

Pisces are cool on a friendship level. I can't say if she doesn't want to be in a relationship now but that's kind of what it looks like. Also Pisces men are a bit soft and sometimes I don't respect them like I should. It doesn't mean I don't like them, but since I know how they are it's easier for me to push them to the side.

Should i just sit back and wait for her to contact me? If you like someone you do initiate contact right? Never heard of Aries taking something slow tho 🙂

The smart ones take it slow. But I have a little Pisces and Virgo as well. So I use all my traits to my advantage.

Yes don't send repeated texts. She'll respond eventually but I'm thinking she's not trying to rush with you and she knows the type of person you are.

You say there is heavy attraction but with me if I like someone I will respond within a couple of hours. I would not wait until the next day unless you text me at night. You are a friend to her.

Don't play games tho, be yourself. If you play games she will eventually resent you...and the Aries will come out.

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well on facebook it shows that she didn't see the message yet, that might be the case, because when she sees message on facebook she always replies, i can't be sure about the phone tho, i don't really text that much on the phone, i either text fb or call her, but she's often time bussy i i end up texting via facebook. 😄 just more comftable

Well i'll just sit back and let her text me then. 🙂 Thanks everyone for advise

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Well i'll just sit back and let her text me then. 🙂 Thanks everyone for advise

GOODLUCK 😉

Posted by REpisRies
Well i'll just sit back and let her text me then. 🙂 Thanks everyone for advise

No, I wouldn't just sit back. You need to be actively present. You didn't answer @Ram416's question: "Also, is texting 90% of how you communicate with her or do you call her up to talk?"

With Pisces, you have to be careful not to live most of your dating in the virtual...in your head. Be present... physically.

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Well i'll just sit back and let her text me then. 🙂 Thanks everyone for advise

No, I wouldn't just sit back. You need to be actively present. You didn't answer @Ram416's question: "Also, is texting 90% of how you communicate with her or do you call her up to talk?"

With Pisces, you have to be careful not to live most of your dating in the virtual...in your head. Be present... physically.

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Well i call her, but she's often bussy so i end up texting her, i invited her to meet up this week she happily accepted, but how can i invite her now if she doesn't reply to my messages or is to bussy for my calls? i don't think i should be so clingy and get in her face, hey come to date, come to date, i think if she agreed that means she wants to go, or do you forgets things like these 2? Any advise ?

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Well i'll just sit back and let her text me then. 🙂 Thanks everyone for advise

No, I wouldn't just sit back. You need to be actively present. You didn't answer @Ram416's question: "Also, is texting 90% of how you communicate with her or do you call her up to talk?"

With Pisces, you have to be careful not to live most of your dating in the virtual...in your head. Be present... physically.

Well i call her, but she's often bussy so i end up texting her, i invited her to meet up this week she happily accepted, but how can i invite her now if she doesn't reply to my messages or is to bussy for my calls? i don't think i should be so clingy and get in her face, hey come to date, come to date, i think if she agreed that means she wants to go, or do you forgets things like these 2? Any advise ?

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Go for it! It's the only way to be sure that she's interested.

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Well i'll just sit back and let her text me then. 🙂 Thanks everyone for advise

No, I wouldn't just sit back. You need to be actively present. You didn't answer @Ram416's question: "Also, is texting 90% of how you communicate with her or do you call her up to talk?"

With Pisces, you have to be careful not to live most of your dating in the virtual...in your head. Be present... physically.

Well i call her, but she's often bussy so i end up texting her, i invited her to meet up this week she happily accepted, but how can i invite her now if she doesn't reply to my messages or is to bussy for my calls? i don't think i should be so clingy and get in her face, hey come to date, come to date, i think if she agreed that means she wants to go, or do you forgets things like these 2? Any advise ?

Go for it! It's the only way to be sure that she's interested.

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Go for it you mean be clingy in her face and write her date me, date me, date me? 😄 😄 somehow this shit sounds like she would more likely to get pissed of and leave than meet me 😄

by saying in her face i mean texting her, because i can't meet her if she doesn't reply, i don't know where she lives 😄

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Well i'll just sit back and let her text me then. 🙂 Thanks everyone for advise

No, I wouldn't just sit back. You need to be actively present. You didn't answer @Ram416's question: "Also, is texting 90% of how you communicate with her or do you call her up to talk?"

With Pisces, you have to be careful not to live most of your dating in the virtual...in your head. Be present... physically.

Well i call her, but she's often bussy so i end up texting her, i invited her to meet up this week she happily accepted, but how can i invite her now if she doesn't reply to my messages or is to bussy for my calls? i don't think i should be so clingy and get in her face, hey come to date, come to date, i think if she agreed that means she wants to go, or do you forgets things like these 2? Any advise ?

Go for it! It's the only way to be sure that she's interested.

Go for it you mean be clingy in her face and write her date me, date me, date me? 😄 😄 somehow this shit sounds like she would more likely to get pissed of and leave than meet me 😄

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No, firm. Either she's going to say yes or no. Don't stop until you get an answer. Or, what you feel is clear enough for you.

I don't think like i should ask this shit with message. 😄 And i can't meet her if she doesn't reply anyways, i have leo moon, and thats pride i think, if she doesn't want me she can just ignore these texts i sent that would be clear enough for me, i don't think if you like a person you will ignore the messages, fire signs don't play like this, they are straight forwards i've heard 🙂

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I don't think like i should ask this shit with message. 😄 And i can't meet her if she doesn't reply anyways, i have leo moon, and thats pride i think, if she doesn't want me she can just ignore these texts i sent that would be clear enough for me, i don't think if you like a person you will ignore the messages, fire signs don't play like this, they are straight forwards i've heard 🙂

True

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I don't think like i should ask this shit with message. 😄 And i can't meet her if she doesn't reply anyways, i have leo moon, and thats pride i think, if she doesn't want me she can just ignore these texts i sent that would be clear enough for me, i don't think if you like a person you will ignore the messages, fire signs don't play like this, they are straight forwards i've heard 🙂

I would give her a few days ... maybe a week ... or til she replies, whichever came first ... before you reach your conclusion of her interest. 🙂

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Such a sweet face champ... cutie pie

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I don't think like i should ask this shit with message. 😄 And i can't meet her if she doesn't reply anyways, i have leo moon, and thats pride i think, if she doesn't want me she can just ignore these texts i sent that would be clear enough for me, i don't think if you like a person you will ignore the messages, fire signs don't play like this, they are straight forwards i've heard 🙂

I would give her a few days ... maybe a week ... or til she replies, whichever came first ... before you reach your conclusion of her interest. 🙂

Such a sweet face champ... cutie pie

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Well now it's been 24hours and she still didn't reply to my message, as i look into facebook she still didn't read it. 🙂 I lost my phone so i can't contact her like that for now, well i hope she writes me back and reads the message, fingers crossed

Posted by REpisRies
I'm not talking about sexy messages, i'm talking about questions, you have a husband so you prob don't need to write goodmorning, but i don't live with her i just started dating, she texted me good morning, how are you , i replied within a minute and it's been over 7 + hours she didn't reply, my question is why ask something if you're not even considering checking what a person wrote?you asked that means you're interested right? so do you ussually wait for 10hour to hear back from texts like this? She said she's bussy yeah i understand when i text and she doesn't reply, but when she texts first with some kind of question and i reply and she doesn't i feel like i'm talking to a wall that doesn't give a fuck, but i know she cared about be, atleast she told me so

SHIT. I'm the same.

Trust me, she's not lying or playing games 😢

If she's initiating it means she IS interested in you, very much.