She sounds like she's either really scattered brained, talking to someone else or really busy. Or all 3
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Posted by AriesLoveI'm an Aries, I take things slow. Not turtle slow but slow enough. I don't have much fire in my chart though. I'm mostly air/water.Posted by REpisRiesThe smart ones take it slow. But I have a little Pisces and Virgo as well. So I use all my traits to my advantage.Posted by AriesLove
She's taking it slow.
I know how Pisces men are. I've had a few friends that were Pisces they are heavily attracted to Aries women.
Pisces are cool on a friendship level. I can't say if she doesn't want to be in a relationship now but that's kind of what it looks like. Also Pisces men are a bit soft and sometimes I don't respect them like I should. It doesn't mean I don't like them, but since I know how they are it's easier for me to push them to the side.
Should i just sit back and wait for her to contact me? If you like someone you do initiate contact right? Never heard of Aries taking something slow tho 🙂
Yes don't send repeated texts. She'll respond eventually but I'm thinking she's not trying to rush with you and she knows the type of person you are.
You say there is heavy attraction but with me if I like someone I will respond within a couple of hours. I would not wait until the next day unless you text me at night. You are a friend to her.
Don't play games tho, be yourself. If you play games she will eventually resent you...and the Aries will come out.
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I don't play games, i like her, but if she's not responding i'm def not going to be forcing myself into her life, texting etc. if attention isn't given freely it's not worth having, there are people who value you as you are in your life, its been over 24hrs and she still hasn't read my text, i see it , but i think if she would want to talk to me, she would enter the chat and would see the message i wrote to her, but so far no good, i'm leaving for a small trip in 2days for 3days prob, mountains lakes ant etc i've heard fire signs likes nature and things of that sort, but i don't know should i invite her or not, i know if i see her online and write to her , she will def reply because each time she sees a message she replies, but this would look like i'm in her face really, text after texting without her replying, even for me this shit seems clingy, i don't have any clue what to do, i also know she's a little bit sick.
Posted by REpisRieshmm.. how long have you two been dating btw?
I don't play games, i like her, but if she's not responding i'm def not going to be forcing myself into her life, texting etc. if attention isn't given freely it's not worth having, there are people who value you as you are in your life, its been over 24hrs and she still hasn't read my text, i see it , but i think if she would want to talk to me, she would enter the chat and would see the message i wrote to her, but so far no good, i'm leaving for a small trip in 2days for 3days prob, mountains lakes ant etc i've heard fire signs likes nature and things of that sort, but i don't know should i invite her or not, i know if i see her online and write to her , she will def reply because each time she sees a message she replies, but this would look like i'm in her face really, text after texting without her replying, even for me this shit seems clingy, i don't have any clue what to do, i also know she's a little bit sick.
Or i should ask how she is and is shes feeling better i should invite her to join me?
Posted by RumiLnot long , it's only been a month , and she's been bussy so we only meet like once or twice a week 🙂Posted by REpisRieshmm.. how long have you two been dating btw?
I don't play games, i like her, but if she's not responding i'm def not going to be forcing myself into her life, texting etc. if attention isn't given freely it's not worth having, there are people who value you as you are in your life, its been over 24hrs and she still hasn't read my text, i see it , but i think if she would want to talk to me, she would enter the chat and would see the message i wrote to her, but so far no good, i'm leaving for a small trip in 2days for 3days prob, mountains lakes ant etc i've heard fire signs likes nature and things of that sort, but i don't know should i invite her or not, i know if i see her online and write to her , she will def reply because each time she sees a message she replies, but this would look like i'm in her face really, text after texting without her replying, even for me this shit seems clingy, i don't have any clue what to do, i also know she's a little bit sick.click to expand
Posted by REpisRiesI don't think she's really avoiding you or deliberately not replying to you... it's just been a month - too early to arrive at any conclusions imo 🙂 ..if she's unwell, and still busy with work plus just a month of seeing each other - it makes sense.Posted by RumiLnot long , it's only been a month , and she's been bussy so we only meet like once or twice a week 🙂Posted by REpisRieshmm.. how long have you two been dating btw?
I don't play games, i like her, but if she's not responding i'm def not going to be forcing myself into her life, texting etc. if attention isn't given freely it's not worth having, there are people who value you as you are in your life, its been over 24hrs and she still hasn't read my text, i see it , but i think if she would want to talk to me, she would enter the chat and would see the message i wrote to her, but so far no good, i'm leaving for a small trip in 2days for 3days prob, mountains lakes ant etc i've heard fire signs likes nature and things of that sort, but i don't know should i invite her or not, i know if i see her online and write to her , she will def reply because each time she sees a message she replies, but this would look like i'm in her face really, text after texting without her replying, even for me this shit seems clingy, i don't have any clue what to do, i also know she's a little bit sick.
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But, be assertive about what you want, let her know - she will atleast tell you if or not she can meet to your likings.. : )
I'm going to go with she's just being nice to you. It doesn't seem she's into you that much. I may be wrong . Good luck !
Yes like @Rumil said, be assertive. Especially if it's bothering you this much.
BUSY IS SPELLED WITH ONE S FOR FUCK'S SAKE.
*twitch*
She doesn't reply because of your atrocious spelling. It gives us hives.
*twitch*
She doesn't reply because of your atrocious spelling. It gives us hives.
Just read the rest of the thread-
You're clingy and needy.
This will drive her away. Knock it off or go away.
You're clingy and needy.
This will drive her away. Knock it off or go away.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamYou don't even know my language.. ^^
BUSY IS SPELLED WITH ONE S FOR FUCK'S SAKE.
*twitch*
She doesn't reply because of your atrocious spelling. It gives us hives.
Posted by rockyroadicecream
BUSY IS SPELLED WITH ONE S FOR FUCK'S SAKE.
*twitch*
She doesn't reply because of your atrocious spelling. It gives us hives.
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I don't play games, i like her, but if she's not responding i'm def not going to be forcing myself into her life, texting etc. if attention isn't given freely it's not worth having, there are people who value you as you are in your life, its been over 24hrs and she still hasn't read my text, i see it , but i think if she would want to talk to me, she would enter the chat and would see the message i wrote to her, but so far no good, i'm leaving for a small trip in 2days for 3days prob, mountains lakes ant etc i've heard fire signs likes nature and things of that sort, but i don't know should i invite her or not, i know if i see her online and write to her , she will def reply because each time she sees a message she replies, but this would look like i'm in her face really, text after texting without her replying, even for me this shit seems clingy, i don't have any clue what to do, i also know she's a little bit sick.
you sound crazy Pisces, she didn't even see the message how can you be mad because she didn't reply? Ask how she is and invite her to the journey, that shows how you like her, not cookiemonster texts and overthinking 😉
Posted by DaddyDamn straight. It gets hard to read some of these effing posts. It makes my brain cry.Posted by rockyroadicecream
BUSY IS SPELLED WITH ONE S FOR FUCK'S SAKE.
*twitch*
She doesn't reply because of your atrocious spelling. It gives us hives.
Posted by REpisRies"Illiterate" isn't a language, honey.Posted by rockyroadicecreamYou don't even know my language.. ^^
BUSY IS SPELLED WITH ONE S FOR FUCK'S SAKE.
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She doesn't reply because of your atrocious spelling. It gives us hives.click to expand
Well its been a 2nd day, i texted her yesterday and she didn't reply again, i'm thinking either she doesn't want to talk to me or she's just 2 busy, because she didn't read my message yet, i'm def going to sit back for now, can't be texting each day, that pisses me off and def will piss her off, if she will want she will text me as simple as that 🙂 i don't think you should be in a persons face so much if they don't reply to you, thanks everyone for advise and have a lovely day 🙂
DON'T try to analyze her behavior, you will get your brain fried. I have the same ''problem'' with an Aries girl.The difference is that we had a conversation about this, this is how they are and we don't have a relationship.I saw her doing the same with her friends, they just forget to answer.
I personally don't know how an Aries girl is in a relationship, I know only what I saw her doing with her ex... it's clearly that you started this without knowing her too well.Yes, they are slow at the beginning of a relationship, I don't know about your girl but my Aries friend always wanted to be sure before giving too much. Also, all of her relationships ended because of clingy behavior, jealous guys, too much possessiveness, they really hate that. It took her 5 to 6 months to catch some real feelings for her ex and to ignore those flaws. One month is nothing for an Aries, trust me, you are asking for smth she can't give you after one single month.Good news for you, Aries girls are honest.
My Aries friend called me after two bloody months when she was busy with her exams, and trust me, when she say that she is busy...she is busy ! I understand that you are frustrated with this behavior but once you start to know her better you will realize that it is her nature.I know it's hard to understand someone that is giving less than what you give in a relationship but it's only the beginning of the relationship.
I personally don't know how an Aries girl is in a relationship, I know only what I saw her doing with her ex... it's clearly that you started this without knowing her too well.Yes, they are slow at the beginning of a relationship, I don't know about your girl but my Aries friend always wanted to be sure before giving too much. Also, all of her relationships ended because of clingy behavior, jealous guys, too much possessiveness, they really hate that. It took her 5 to 6 months to catch some real feelings for her ex and to ignore those flaws. One month is nothing for an Aries, trust me, you are asking for smth she can't give you after one single month.Good news for you, Aries girls are honest.
My Aries friend called me after two bloody months when she was busy with her exams, and trust me, when she say that she is busy...she is busy ! I understand that you are frustrated with this behavior but once you start to know her better you will realize that it is her nature.I know it's hard to understand someone that is giving less than what you give in a relationship but it's only the beginning of the relationship.
Well i feel like she's playing with me, i see her online on facebook almost whole day, liking commenting on pictures/ videos also liking my pictures, but not writing me back, i mean, how bussy are you really? It might be just me, but this sounds prty lame excuse considering she has time to like/comment picture's including my own, but has no time to reply the simplest message? Feel like she's playing with me, i'll just cool off, maybe one day she will text me , maybe not, but she's not giving anything for me 3days in a row, how the hell should i know whats happenin, maybe she found another guy or somth, she could just simply say that to me, ignoring person is the worst think, atleast she could let me know she's ok or that she has other guy so i could be relieved 😄 thanks for advise anyways 😉
How is it easier, if you like and commend on my pics but can't reply to messages?
Posted by sakuraflowersYou are sick, or you're either not, i asked how you feeling because she was sick, how hard is it so say i'm feeling better or i'm not feeling so good, i don't know, you just might view things way 2 different, i just don't imagine things like this 🙂 thanks for your thoughts 🙂Posted by REpisRiesBecause the latter may require more thought than the former.
How is it easier, if you like and commend on my pics but can't reply to messages?
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Sounds 2 complicated from your point of view, either don't take this 2seriously and do find other dates or just do your thing, but don't rely for her to text you back or call you, from what i can tell, she's either not interested or she's bussy, but now you don't know where you're standing, so move forward in life, if she returns you can decide what to do , because from what GCGN says, she called him after 2 month's well i really couldn't wait for 2 month's if i wouldn't have any idea what's going on, and if she likes me or not, def moving on , don't waste 2months waiting for this girl, if you find another one attractive and the one you like, date her, she's not giving you anyting, no words and no nothing, or did she say she loved you or liked you or had feelings for you and asked you to wait or something?
Posted by sakuraflowersOn Sat she was sick, on sunday she felt bad 2, felt weak and things like that, she was bussy on sat but replied with an apology for not replying sooner and said don't be mad, i wasn't i just needed to know how she's feeling.On Monday in the morning she wrote me good morning 🙂 how are you feeling? i replied and asked how she was feeling and how's her health? I replied like in 1minute, and havn't had a reply ever scince, i'm also leaving on journey tomorrow, thats why i was texting her each day monday tue wed atleast 1 message how's your health how you feeling because i wanted to invite her to come with me to travel and have some good time, but she didn't even reply, and it shows she didn't even read the meesages from 1nday to wed, but she's online alot,comments and likes her own friends and even my own pictures, help me understand this? 🙂 I'm feeling like she's playin.Posted by REpisRiesSo she told you she was sick and you followed up with how she was feeling?Posted by sakuraflowersYou are sick, or you're either not, i asked how you feeling because she was sick, how hard is it so say i'm feeling better or i'm not feeling so good, i don't know, you just might view things way 2 different, i just don't imagine things like this 🙂 thanks for your thoughts 🙂Posted by REpisRiesBecause the latter may require more thought than the former.
How is it easier, if you like and commend on my pics but can't reply to messages?
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Omg the blind leading the blind.
lolz to follow.
lolz to follow.
Posted by REpisRiesI believe sakuraflowers explained to you the thought process of the Aries (with Mercury Taurus) responding to casual friends versus her responding to you.Posted by sakuraflowersOn Sat she was sick, on sunday she felt bad 2, felt weak and things like that, she was bussy on sat but replied with an apology for not replying sooner and said don't be mad, i wasn't i just needed to know how she's feeling.On Monday in the morning she wrote me good morning 🙂 how are you feeling? i replied and asked how she was feeling and how's her health? I replied like in 1minute, and havn't had a reply ever scince, i'm also leaving on journey tomorrow, thats why i was texting her each day monday tue wed atleast 1 message how's your health how you feeling because i wanted to invite her to come with me to travel and have some good time, but she didn't even reply, and it shows she didn't even read the meesages from 1nday to wed, but she's online alot,comments and likes her own friends and even my own pictures, help me understand this? 🙂 I'm feeling like she's playin.Posted by REpisRiesSo she told you she was sick and you followed up with how she was feeling?Posted by sakuraflowersYou are sick, or you're either not, i asked how you feeling because she was sick, how hard is it so say i'm feeling better or i'm not feeling so good, i don't know, you just might view things way 2 different, i just don't imagine things like this 🙂 thanks for your thoughts 🙂Posted by REpisRiesBecause the latter may require more thought than the former.
How is it easier, if you like and commend on my pics but can't reply to messages?
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Also, I have to add - your above scenario gives me the impression that you are a very demanding and possessive person. It's like - you're watching her every movement, especially on social media, and it's kind of creepy.
Maybe you should do what @rakac suggested, and move on from her. Especially if you feel she is playing.
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No... she's really busy 😢
I'm starting to feel we are bad at texting. I just forget, I can't explain how or why it happens.. I'm busy doing so many things at once most of the times, sometimes I forget to check, sometimes I keeep reading a text but leave it half-way because something comes up, sometimes, I think I reply when I did not, sometimes I leave half way through while typing.. But texting is just not my thing, so..
Trust what she says, I doubt an Aries would lie to your face lol.
My Aries bestfriend is the same, like me.. I know another Aries too.. she too is like me. And, we are somehow forgetfull... I feel so comfortable with them, because they understand my issue :'D
She will be upfront about her feelings though, atleast when you meet her face to face or on a phone call : D
I agree with this 100%
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Posted by sakuraflowersThat's the impression that I got as well. And maybe that's why she's been taking longer to respond.Posted by REpisRiesShe apologized for not replying sooner and said don't be mad? It sounds like she thinks if she doesn't reply soon enough, you'd get mad. So she might feel pressured in certain ways to respond sooner. It might also be that your daily messages might make her feel like you're trying to get her to respond sooner than when she's ready to respond, if that makes sense.Posted by sakuraflowersOn Sat she was sick, on sunday she felt bad 2, felt weak and things like that, she was bussy on sat but replied with an apology for not replying sooner and said don't be mad, i wasn't i just needed to know how she's feeling.On Monday in the morning she wrote me good morning 🙂 how are you feeling? i replied and asked how she was feeling and how's her health? I replied like in 1minute, and havn't had a reply ever scince, i'm also leaving on journey tomorrow, thats why i was texting her each day monday tue wed atleast 1 message how's your health how you feeling because i wanted to invite her to come with me to travel and have some good time, but she didn't even reply, and it shows she didn't even read the meesages from 1nday to wed, but she's online alot,comments and likes her own friends and even my own pictures, help me understand this? 🙂 I'm feeling like she's playin.Posted by REpisRiesSo she told you she was sick and you followed up with how she was feeling?Posted by sakuraflowersYou are sick, or you're either not, i asked how you feeling because she was sick, how hard is it so say i'm feeling better or i'm not feeling so good, i don't know, you just might view things way 2 different, i just don't imagine things like this 🙂 thanks for your thoughts 🙂Posted by REpisRiesBecause the latter may require more thought than the former.
How is it easier, if you like and commend on my pics but can't reply to messages?
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The more pressured/obligated we are made to feel about doing something, the more reluctant we are to do them. (Mercury Taurus)
rakac no I didn't waited for her, we were/we are friends and I saw her being too busy with the exams and I have decided to not waste my/her energy.The more you understand her behavior, the easier it gets.She called me and the 1st thing she said ''I'M DONE WITH THE EXAMS !'' ..also during the exams period she was totally isolated from her friends/gym.
I'm more curious how the relationship started between the OP and his girl because an Aries don't usually start a relationship without attraction or something. Also, OP, how long have you known her?
As a friend this behavior can be rightful because you know, she isn't your girlfriend, she don't owe you or vice versa but in a relationship this should change because as I said, an Aries is starting a relationship on purpose BUT demanding people like pisces for example can be quite exhausting for them because my friend for example is not the hugging everythere type of girl. My best advice is to spent a lot of real time with her, they are different and hard to catch on social media but face 2 face you will immediately notice if she's into you or not. Plus, they love to always be on the move.
I'm more curious how the relationship started between the OP and his girl because an Aries don't usually start a relationship without attraction or something. Also, OP, how long have you known her?
As a friend this behavior can be rightful because you know, she isn't your girlfriend, she don't owe you or vice versa but in a relationship this should change because as I said, an Aries is starting a relationship on purpose BUT demanding people like pisces for example can be quite exhausting for them because my friend for example is not the hugging everythere type of girl. My best advice is to spent a lot of real time with her, they are different and hard to catch on social media but face 2 face you will immediately notice if she's into you or not. Plus, they love to always be on the move.
Posted by GNGCSorry for late reply, i was away for a few days 🙂 Well we started chating on facebook, and met in real life, thats basically how it started, when we met she already said she has seen me couple of times in the city or in the cinema and she was watching me, i felt weird and asked why didn't see scream out my name she said because that would have been weird and she wasn't sure my name on facebook was real so yeah. 🙂 anyways it started out like this, she said on the first date i follow all your things on facebook and it seems i know you really well, we have similar interests, hobies and view of the world, while we are together it seems really good to be with her, but on messaging and communication part it's where i can't understand her, lack of texting, calling , i'm not expecting her to be my gf, but she could atleast reply to my messages, for now it's been 5days she hasn't replied, 6days not 5, so yeah, if she doesn't text she doesn't text, why should i bother with a person who isn't interested in communicating with me, texting or calling, now that i've lost my phone i can't even call her or text her with my phone, all i have is facebook, she hasn't replied my scince monday and i texted her mon tue wed how you feeling but got no reply, so i'm not going any further, i shouldn't be in her face so much, neither me or she feels good about it 🙂 and still on facebook it shows she hasn't read my messages. 😄 crazy, maybe she'll read after half a year or so 😄
rakac no I didn't waited for her, we were/we are friends and I saw her being too busy with the exams and I have decided to not waste my/her energy.The more you understand her behavior, the easier it gets.She called me and the 1st thing she said ''I'M DONE WITH THE EXAMS !'' ..also during the exams period she was totally isolated from her friends/gym.
I'm more curious how the relationship started between the OP and his girl because an Aries don't usually start a relationship without attraction or something. Also, OP, how long have you known her?
As a friend this behavior can be rightful because you know, she isn't your girlfriend, she don't owe you or vice versa but in a relationship this should change because as I said, an Aries is starting a relationship on purpose BUT demanding people like pisces for example can be quite exhausting for them because my friend for example is not the hugging everythere type of girl. My best advice is to spent a lot of real time with her, they are different and hard to catch on social media but face 2 face you will immediately notice if she's into you or not. Plus, they love to always be on the move.
My phone is glued to my hand.
No mattet how busy I am itbusually doesnt take me more than 1 hour to see if someone texted me (facebook, whatsapp, etc).
Sometimes I stop myself and dont reply immediatly just not to seem too eager. But if Im into someone and I get a text you are going to get a reply soon!
But if Im not into you, I stop myself from opening the msg because I know the person will see I read it and will expect a reply.
I dont think she is just busy.
If I were you I would ignore her a bit.
For some reason when someone starts ignoring me I feel intrigued and respond faster..
No mattet how busy I am itbusually doesnt take me more than 1 hour to see if someone texted me (facebook, whatsapp, etc).
Sometimes I stop myself and dont reply immediatly just not to seem too eager. But if Im into someone and I get a text you are going to get a reply soon!
But if Im not into you, I stop myself from opening the msg because I know the person will see I read it and will expect a reply.
I dont think she is just busy.
If I were you I would ignore her a bit.
For some reason when someone starts ignoring me I feel intrigued and respond faster..
Posted by IamAriesWell i'm deffo not texting her, i'm good looking and a decent guy, i have things to do 2, now i was in one 3day trip and in 1week i'm leaving for 8day trip , mountains, lakes and things like that, i love nature, adventure and discovering new places, i'd invite her, but no point in texting her because she doesn't reply anyways, if she texts before the trip i might invite her tho. 🙂 you can't miss with a mountains, they make you rich inside 🙂 all journeys do 😄 P.S just 20mins ago she liked a pic i uploaded on facebook, weeird, just weeird from my point of view 😄
My phone is glued to my hand.
No mattet how busy I am itbusually doesnt take me more than 1 hour to see if someone texted me (facebook, whatsapp, etc).
Sometimes I stop myself and dont reply immediatly just not to seem too eager. But if Im into someone and I get a text you are going to get a reply soon!
But if Im not into you, I stop myself from opening the msg because I know the person will see I read it and will expect a reply.
I dont think she is just busy.
If I were you I would ignore her a bit.
For some reason when someone starts ignoring me I feel intrigued and respond faster..
And i don't think everyone has their phone glued to their hand, neither do i 🙂
My Aries sister in law is horrible at replying to text messages. It's not because she's busy, she doesn't work. She says she looks at the message and forgets to reply. For someone like me, I don't see how it's possible but it's common for her.
I was also interested in an Aries man who was the same way about not replying for hours, days, weeks..... even if he initiated. I just figured that's way too big of an issue in our communication style s and he probably wasn't very interested in me. Constantly you hear on these boards about Aries..... 1. you'll never have to guess with them, if an Aries likes you, you'll know it and 2. Watch their actions.
Oh, and also about how bored they get lol so if she's not replying to you I suppose she's not very interested in you and/or you've made her bored. Don't be surprised if she contacts you whenever she gets bored with whatever she's not bored with at the moment. That Aries guy I was interested in also used to contact me out of the blue after weeks and say "Entertain me" lol totally made me feel like a toy on a shelf.
I was also interested in an Aries man who was the same way about not replying for hours, days, weeks..... even if he initiated. I just figured that's way too big of an issue in our communication style s and he probably wasn't very interested in me. Constantly you hear on these boards about Aries..... 1. you'll never have to guess with them, if an Aries likes you, you'll know it and 2. Watch their actions.
Oh, and also about how bored they get lol so if she's not replying to you I suppose she's not very interested in you and/or you've made her bored. Don't be surprised if she contacts you whenever she gets bored with whatever she's not bored with at the moment. That Aries guy I was interested in also used to contact me out of the blue after weeks and say "Entertain me" lol totally made me feel like a toy on a shelf.
Posted by RiverLeeWell i'm not geting my hopes up, i have things to do, if she texts me i'll ask what doe's she want from me, i'm not a toy and i don't have time for games like this, either your my woman or my friend, but don't ignore me an d text out of the blue after some time, just not my kind of life style , if she texts i'll make sure i'll tell her this, because i'm deffo not geting in her face again, she doesn't reply and i no longer want to be ingored, so i'd rather go and do my things 🙂
My Aries sister in law is horrible at replying to text messages. It's not because she's busy, she doesn't work. She says she looks at the message and forgets to reply. For someone like me, I don't see how it's possible but it's common for her.
I was also interested in an Aries man who was the same way about not replying for hours, days, weeks..... even if he initiated. I just figured that's way too big of an issue in our communication style s and he probably wasn't very interested in me. Constantly you hear on these boards about Aries..... 1. you'll never have to guess with them, if an Aries likes you, you'll know it and 2. Watch their actions.
Oh, and also about how bored they get lol so if she's not replying to you I suppose she's not very interested in you and/or you've made her bored. Don't be surprised if she contacts you whenever she gets bored with whatever she's not bored with at the moment. That Aries guy I was interested in also used to contact me out of the blue after weeks and say "Entertain me" lol totally made me feel like a toy on a shelf.
Posted by REpisRiesYeah just live your life, same thing happend to me and Aries. 😄 i texted her no reply for about 4days now, weird creatures, i don't think i'll be able to continue relationship or friendship with communication like this, either i'll need to talk to her if she reply's or end it. 😄Posted by RiverLeeWell i'm not geting my hopes up, i have things to do, if she texts me i'll ask what doe's she want from me, i'm not a toy and i don't have time for games like this, either your my woman or my friend, but don't ignore me an d text out of the blue after some time, just not my kind of life style , if she texts i'll make sure i'll tell her this, because i'm deffo not geting in her face again, she doesn't reply and i no longer want to be ingored, so i'd rather go and do my things 🙂
My Aries sister in law is horrible at replying to text messages. It's not because she's busy, she doesn't work. She says she looks at the message and forgets to reply. For someone like me, I don't see how it's possible but it's common for her.
I was also interested in an Aries man who was the same way about not replying for hours, days, weeks..... even if he initiated. I just figured that's way too big of an issue in our communication style s and he probably wasn't very interested in me. Constantly you hear on these boards about Aries..... 1. you'll never have to guess with them, if an Aries likes you, you'll know it and 2. Watch their actions.
Oh, and also about how bored they get lol so if she's not replying to you I suppose she's not very interested in you and/or you've made her bored. Don't be surprised if she contacts you whenever she gets bored with whatever she's not bored with at the moment. That Aries guy I was interested in also used to contact me out of the blue after weeks and say "Entertain me" lol totally made me feel like a toy on a shelf.click to expand
wow... people are breaking up with Aries because of our strange behaviour 😢
Posted by RumiLcommunication with people are important part of the relationship, if a person disapears for days without and text and no reply, and that would go on that wouldn't be relationship i would like to be in, and expecting something more from person than he gives now would be stupid and selfish, unless you could talk to him and make sure what you want, but for now even the Aries i'm dating doesn't answer my calls and text me back, i called 4times 4days ago and made couple of texts, i'm sure if she will want she can text me or call me back, i also texted her on facebook just in case she lost her phone 🙂
wow... people are breaking up with Aries because of our strange behaviour 😢
Posted by rakacHmm. *nods* ..it's rude..Posted by RumiLcommunication with people are important part of the relationship, if a person disapears for days without and text and no reply, and that would go on that wouldn't be relationship i would like to be in, and expecting something more from person than he gives now would be stupid and selfish, unless you could talk to him and make sure what you want, but for now even the Aries i'm dating doesn't answer my calls and text me back, i called 4times 4days ago and made couple of texts, i'm sure if she will want she can text me or call me back, i also texted her on facebook just in case she lost her phone 🙂
wow... people are breaking up with Aries because of our strange behaviour 😢
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How long have you been with your Aries, rakac?
Posted by RumiLNot 2long, 1-2months maybe 🙂 i wouldn't even call it relationship, but seems it is, funny thing is i've heard Cancers do shit like this, not Aries, seems like our signs are reveresed. 😄 She always says thank you when we spend time together, she's always smiling, happy and lovely when she's with me, we have good time together, mixture of crazy , adventure and some romance and fun moments, for me it feels really great, wouldn't want it to end like this 🙂Posted by rakacHmm. *nods* ..it's rude..Posted by RumiLcommunication with people are important part of the relationship, if a person disapears for days without and text and no reply, and that would go on that wouldn't be relationship i would like to be in, and expecting something more from person than he gives now would be stupid and selfish, unless you could talk to him and make sure what you want, but for now even the Aries i'm dating doesn't answer my calls and text me back, i called 4times 4days ago and made couple of texts, i'm sure if she will want she can text me or call me back, i also texted her on facebook just in case she lost her phone 🙂
wow... people are breaking up with Aries because of our strange behaviour 😢
How long have you been with your Aries, rakac?
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Posted by rakacPosted by RumiLNot 2long, 1-2months maybe 🙂 i wouldn't even call it relationship, but seems it is, funny thing is i've heard Cancers do shit like this, not Aries, seems like our signs are reveresed. 😄 She always says thank you when we spend time together, she's always smiling, happy and lovely when she's with me, we have good time together, mixture of crazy , adventure and some romance and fun moments, for me it feels really great, wouldn't want it to end like this 🙂Posted by rakacHmm. *nods* ..it's rude..Posted by RumiLcommunication with people are important part of the relationship, if a person disapears for days without and text and no reply, and that would go on that wouldn't be relationship i would like to be in, and expecting something more from person than he gives now would be stupid and selfish, unless you could talk to him and make sure what you want, but for now even the Aries i'm dating doesn't answer my calls and text me back, i called 4times 4days ago and made couple of texts, i'm sure if she will want she can text me or call me back, i also texted her on facebook just in case she lost her phone 🙂
wow... people are breaking up with Aries because of our strange behaviour 😢
How long have you been with your Aries, rakac?
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Hmm.. 😢
did you ever tell her, or ask her??
we seem mannerless, now that I think about it : (
Posted by RumiLit's the first time she hasn't responed for so long so i didn't have a change to talk about it, she always replies the same day even when she's busy 🙂 if she replies i'll def talk to her, i don't want to end things like this, especialy with this connection i have with her 🙂 also i don't want to text her to much, i texted 3times 4days ago and called 4 times, maybe in few days i'll try again, but if no answer i don't think i should text or call so much, at the end of the day you find a time for people you care about either text, call or meet up to talk about things 🙂 thats just the way i see things 🙂 any advise maybe? 🙂bPosted by rakacPosted by RumiLNot 2long, 1-2months maybe 🙂 i wouldn't even call it relationship, but seems it is, funny thing is i've heard Cancers do shit like this, not Aries, seems like our signs are reveresed. 😄 She always says thank you when we spend time together, she's always smiling, happy and lovely when she's with me, we have good time together, mixture of crazy , adventure and some romance and fun moments, for me it feels really great, wouldn't want it to end like this 🙂Posted by rakacHmm. *nods* ..it's rude..Posted by RumiLcommunication with people are important part of the relationship, if a person disapears for days without and text and no reply, and that would go on that wouldn't be relationship i would like to be in, and expecting something more from person than he gives now would be stupid and selfish, unless you could talk to him and make sure what you want, but for now even the Aries i'm dating doesn't answer my calls and text me back, i called 4times 4days ago and made couple of texts, i'm sure if she will want she can text me or call me back, i also texted her on facebook just in case she lost her phone 🙂
wow... people are breaking up with Aries because of our strange behaviour 😢
How long have you been with your Aries, rakac?
Hmm.. 😢
did you ever tell her, or ask her??
we seem mannerless, now that I think about it : (
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Posted by rakacI agree with you, at the end of the day one feels like retreating to their loved ones, or atleast for courtesy sake, one should contact especially because this is a romantic relationship. IDK what advise to give, I'm not experienced in this department 😄 ..do what you feel I guess 🙂Posted by RumiLit's the first time she hasn't responed for so long so i didn't have a change to talk about it, she always replies the same day even when she's bussy 🙂 if she replies i'll def talk to her, i don't want to end things like this, especialy with this connection i have with her 🙂 also i don't want to text her to much, i texted 3times 4days ago and called 4 times, maybe in few days i'll try again, but if no answer i don't think i should text or call so much, at the end of the day you find a time for people you care about either text, call or meet up to talk about things 🙂 thats just the way i see things 🙂 any advise maybe? 🙂bPosted by rakacPosted by RumiLNot 2long, 1-2months maybe 🙂 i wouldn't even call it relationship, but seems it is, funny thing is i've heard Cancers do shit like this, not Aries, seems like our signs are reveresed. 😄 She always says thank you when we spend time together, she's always smiling, happy and lovely when she's with me, we have good time together, mixture of crazy , adventure and some romance and fun moments, for me it feels really great, wouldn't want it to end like this 🙂Posted by rakacHmm. *nods* ..it's rude..Posted by RumiLcommunication with people are important part of the relationship, if a person disapears for days without and text and no reply, and that would go on that wouldn't be relationship i would like to be in, and expecting something more from person than he gives now would be stupid and selfish, unless you could talk to him and make sure what you want, but for now even the Aries i'm dating doesn't answer my calls and text me back, i called 4times 4days ago and made couple of texts, i'm sure if she will want she can text me or call me back, i also texted her on facebook just in case she lost her phone 🙂
wow... people are breaking up with Aries because of our strange behaviour 😢
How long have you been with your Aries, rakac?
Hmm.. 😢
did you ever tell her, or ask her??
we seem mannerless, now that I think about it : (
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Today she has seen the message. but i got no reply, i guess she doesn't want to talk to me anymore, because last words i wrote was if you ever see this write me back , she didn't. well i tried, no point in writing her again, if she wants, she has seen the message, if she wants she'll text 🙂 but i dont think i should be waiting.thanks everyone on this topic for advises and listening ear 🙂
Posted by tizianithats the only way i could communicate with her with facebook, i lost my phone and couldn't call her. 🙂 sometimes texting is the only way to make contact with someone .
Lean off the text messages, try something new in future.
Posted by REpisRiesNo it's not. You could have arranged a Skype date with her or a chat session with her. You didn't use your initiative so you lost out.Posted by tizianithats the only way i could communicate with her with facebook, i lost my phone and couldn't call her. 🙂 sometimes texting is the only way to make contact with someone .
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Posted by Ram416I don't have a skype and i don't use one, the only thing i use on my laptop is for work and facebook, not everyone has and needs skype, facebook has all options you need, it's not my loss, it's her's, she will understand, i know she's jelous of me when she sees the pictures of me traveling, while back we talked about it and she told me she would want to travel the world like i do, but hey, no one wants to be ignored and left to stand in the place where you don't know where you stand with a person, thats prob the worst thing person could do, atleast be honest and say i don't like you or don't waste your breath, but to leave person in the stand in i don't know zone is worst, no one who has enough self respect and knows his value wouldn't stay in a relationship where he feels unappreciated and unwanted, so yeah, this might feel a little bad now that she left me like this, but people who do this don't deserve my company 🙂 simple as that, i have high goals, high dreams, i love to travel and there's plenty of people who would love to meet me, just happens that the person i liked left me standing, life goes on. 🙂 thanks everyone for wise words and for those who don't judge, it's like they say , some people can't think so they decide to judge 🙂 have a nice day everyone, keep head high and be possitive! 🙂Posted by REpisRiesNo it's not. You could have arranged a Skype date with her or a chat session with her. You didn't use your initiative so you lost out.Posted by tizianithats the only way i could communicate with her with facebook, i lost my phone and couldn't call her. 🙂 sometimes texting is the only way to make contact with someone .
Lean off the text messages, try something new in future.
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@repisries
Aries love to travel, so if you're traveling upload some pics, she might get interested. 😄 thats how i met my 1st aries woman rly, i uploaded many traveling pics, she texted me and we met, didn't workout 2 well, but i noticed many aries doesn't matter woman or a guy are attracted to traveling, you might get back her attention if you travel and post some cool pics and quotes, the one i met like this we had 8months relationship, she left me for another man but after 2years all of a sudden she wrote me , thats weeird, she wanted to be in my life again,she made up some stupid shit just so i would go out and meet up with her, never thought aries would do such a thing, had couple of nice days, but that was it really, couldn't return to her after these years she got pissed, but i think she understood 😄 live your life to the fullest, follow your dreams and goals, the right people will come along the way and stay 😉
Aries love to travel, so if you're traveling upload some pics, she might get interested. 😄 thats how i met my 1st aries woman rly, i uploaded many traveling pics, she texted me and we met, didn't workout 2 well, but i noticed many aries doesn't matter woman or a guy are attracted to traveling, you might get back her attention if you travel and post some cool pics and quotes, the one i met like this we had 8months relationship, she left me for another man but after 2years all of a sudden she wrote me , thats weeird, she wanted to be in my life again,she made up some stupid shit just so i would go out and meet up with her, never thought aries would do such a thing, had couple of nice days, but that was it really, couldn't return to her after these years she got pissed, but i think she understood 😄 live your life to the fullest, follow your dreams and goals, the right people will come along the way and stay 😉
@RumiL my girl came back 😄 😄
Posted by rakacI am getting the impression that cancer and aries might be a good match (though others will disagree). Good luck, dude. Happy for you.
@RumiL my girl came back 😄 😄
Posted by Ram416Yeah i think so 2, thank you! 🙂Posted by rakacI am getting the impression that cancer and aries might be a good match (though others will disagree). Good luck, dude. Happy for you.
@RumiL my girl came back 😄 😄click to expand
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