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The Aries Ice, never looking back!!!
How Aries Break Up and Their Reflection on It
Aries tend to end relationships decisively and rarely look back, driven by their need for independence. They often do not feel guilty after breaking up but prioritize their own growth. This behavior stems from their assertive nature rather than meanness, making their breakups firm but not necessarily malicious.
I think you misunderstood the question...Has anyone else had to ever break it off with someone and never turn back? If you have, do you feel like you are heartless?
sagiTAUries, thanks for your input, but I don't quite understand the comment. Can you elaborate?
Arieswoman, everybody has been in a position to have to break off a relationship. And, when we do this, we never look back because we have moved on.
I think that is Sag's point (I think). When he said, "if you think it's more than that then . . . and probably proud too."
That was his slam at you for thinking that ONLY an Aries has the power to decide whether a relationship should be broken (the fist in the face); and to take pride in it.
Like I said, I think, that's what he meant. Perhaps, he will elaborate for you.
I know of a few aries-men and some of them have disappeared al of a sudden (when I made them wait to long I guess 🙂) but when I hear from them again, or when I run in to them they get interested again no matter what they screamed or sweared the moment they left.
My cousin is also an aries, and I find that when she falls in love, she falls in love seriously. If that person hurts her, it's still possible for her to fall for him again later on (when she sees him again eg.)
I think that an aries can totally block someone out when they just aren't interested anymore or when they get bored with someone. They call the shots so to speak. On the other hand, if someone did an aries wrong while they were still in love with that person, I think it's harder for them to let go. They just didn't have a say in it (I know it's horrible!!!!, specially for a cardinal sign 😉) and so they get pissed (with reason, I think 😉)
Little aries-creatures are so full of fire though, it wouldn't be odd for them to fall passionately for a "forgotten, blocked out" person again. An aries can surprise you, because in the long run, they will always keep their options open! x
Wow, that mamma monkey story is so sad. 😢
But it isn't just Aries that cut off and never look back. I'm a Virgo and I'm like that. I can't see the point in going out again later or just being "friends."
Uh, if I wanted to just be your "friend" I wouldn't have f*cked you. And since I don't want to be your friend and I don't want a relationship, what else is there? Go away. Quickly. Thank you.
Yeah, I guess I'm a b*tch.
Posted by cancimini
I know of a few aries-men and some of them have disappeared al of a sudden (when I made them wait to long I guess 🙂) but when I hear from them again, or when I run in to them they get interested again no matter what they screamed or sweared the moment they left.
My cousin is also an aries, and I find that when she falls in love, she falls in love seriously. If that person hurts her, it's still possible for her to fall for him again later on (when she sees him again eg.)
I think that an aries can totally block someone out when they just aren't interested anymore or when they get bored with someone. They call the shots so to speak. On the other hand, if someone did an aries wrong while they were still in love with that person, I think it's harder for them to let go. They just didn't have a say in it (I know it's horrible!!!!, specially for a cardinal sign 😉) and so they get pissed (with reason, I think 😉)Little aries-creatures are so full of fire though, it wouldn't be odd for them to fall passionately for a "forgotten, blocked out" person again. An aries can surprise you, because in the long run, they will always keep their options open! x
Yes, Yes and Yes! You hit this one on the head cancimini...this is all me!
Posted by Gemini_Rising414
Aries Ice is indeed worse than Aries fire. When I'm at my maddest, I get so quiet that you can hear a pin drop. If the other person says one word, I lose it. Then after I yell for a bit, I sever my ties and never speak to them again. If they say hey to me, I turn the other direction and not look back. I've done this with several of my exes as well.
LOL! That's how you know I'm really pissed, the Aries silence will cut you in half! I think people think Aries is just blunt and fire, fire, fire. But, if I get quiet all of a sudden? Watch the fuck out!
I can cut people out of my life in an instant.
Posted by Gemini_Rising414
Aries Ice is indeed worse than Aries fire. When I'm at my maddest, I get so quiet that you can hear a pin drop. If the other person says one word, I lose it. Then after I yell for a bit, I sever my ties and never speak to them again. If they say hey to me, I turn the other direction and not look back. I've done this with several of my exes as well.
oh my. i'm embarrassed to admit that this is exactly how i act when i'm furious. i get dead quiet, but i never yell. silent treatment is something ive been trying to fix about myself over the years because it is very childish. however, it also keep me from saying things i can't take back. what's also embarrassing is that i've ignored people right to their faces and won't even say hello back and that i still do it. being civil is obviously favorable but it's very hard after you've been deeply hurt
Good question! I'd love to know exactly why a lot of us do that. It's like we are so extremely pissed that we don't even know what to say. And Aries ALWAYS knows what to say so you know it's really bad at that point.
im a leo ,and i can just cut people off ,with no looking back
when im done im done,
as for aries,they like to keep their options open,they can dissapear for months then come back into your life,
from my personal experience its too decide what to do and make things better next time if allowed too
ive never been totally cut off by one.
Regarding the Ice thing, I find I can be a very forgiving person, but forgetting is something I cannot get past.
What sign are you Dew?
Of course it hurts! As an Aries, I would just be like WTF? I'd go ahead and see what's going on with him...but that's just me.
Posted by DewDrops
Capricorn.They do keep their options open dont they? I never understood why he denied seeing anyone when I casually asked him once if he did.
ramtwin, I tried to ping him but he has ignored them for the last 2 months. I find that confusing.
The thing is we had been chatting casually for 3 years. It was fun. and he kept asking me to meet him until I did. and now silence. I mean I dont care if he is seeing someone, I get over crushes easily, but I kind of miss our playful chats. 😢
did anything happen or were anyones feelings revealed? or did he literally just stop chatting you up overnight?
Posted by DewDrops
Capricorn.They do keep their options open dont they? I never understood why he denied seeing anyone when I casually asked him once if he did.
ramtwin, I tried to ping him but he has ignored them for the last 2 months. I find that confusing.
The thing is we had been chatting casually for 3 years. It was fun. and he kept asking me to meet him until I did. and now silence. I mean I dont care if he is seeing someone, I get over crushes easily, but I kind of miss our playful chats. 😢
that little frown just makes me want to kick him in the junk....hard.
Some do...I think some men especially do this. I personally never did when I was single.
2 months? Damn...something else may be going on in his life. When someone calls me out, I have a very hard time ignorning them.
I bet you do sweetie...Well, then that's exactly what you need to tell him.
Posted by lovelygirl89
something didnt go right im assuming , it takes us alot to get to the silent ice part
Lovely is right! It sure does, but once we are there (dot, dot, dot).......
did anything go on when you guys met around 4th of july? romantically that is
Ah...she very well could have and he probably feels like an ass. When we feel like asses, we sometimes retreat until we figure out what to say or do.
Don't regret meeting him. You may have found out sooner rather then later that he's not right for you. I'm beginning to really believe that everything does happen for a reason. I never used to be that way! Ug...what's happening to me??!! 😉
you say you knew you weren't right for each other, so just try to focus on the reasons it wouldn't have worked. think of the things you don't like about him rather than the things you do. it'll make it easier to deal with his behavior.
if you stick to it, it works like a charm. you may even find yourself hesitant to respond if he does contact you again.
you're welcome sb, best wishes to you. i know you'll be fine 🙂
im a little late. it was the other girl for sure. fortunately he didn't string you along and continue on with you after he met somebody (which suggests that he too thought you 2 shared something more than just friendship, even if nothing physical happened). you didn't say or do anything to make him turn cold
Posted by DewDrops
*sigh*Probably lovelygirl.
I wish we had faded away rather than this silent thud.
LOL! Aries are known for thudding...it's just our nature. We rarely do anything without noise!
Posted by DewDrops
Now if only I can stop listening to Coldplay's Warning sign, I think I can move ahead.
Ohhh...I love, love, love that song, but you need to stop! Just stop listening to Coldplay altogether...never good for a break up of any kind. 😉
Once you've moved on, then go back to one of the best bands of all time...k?
I have a very hard time ignoring anyone, whether or not they hurt me.
I have no idea why, I always welcome people back as long as they are sincere with apologies.
Especially with the guy I'm seeing now (I made a post awhile back), he still messes with my head and I keep falling for it.
I said I was done, I told myself I don't care, and I was.
Until he text me inviting me out to lunch, which was nice, then a movie, which he stood me up on.
Right now I'd like to say screw him, and get over it, but if he called me I'd probably forgive him.
I don't know if that's an aries thing or just my own stupidity?
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xD i don't know what pinging is. is it IMing?
Posted by SyntheticAnesthetic
I have a very hard time ignoring anyone, whether or not they hurt me.I have no idea why, I always welcome people back as long as they are sincere with apologies.
Especially with the guy I'm seeing now (I made a post awhile back), he still messes with my head and I keep falling for it.I said I was done, I told myself I don't care, and I was.
Until he text me inviting me out to lunch, which was nice, then a movie, which he stood me up on.
Right now I'd like to say screw him, and get over it, but if he called me I'd probably forgive him.
I don't know if that's an aries thing or just my own stupidity?
You are not alone on this. I often could kill someone one day and then be o.k. the next if they apologize or are super sweet. Us Aries can get over things quickly as long as there is a decent explanation and they make us feel good. I can forgive for the most part, but I have the Aries NEVER forget thing going on too.
You are not alone on this. I often could kill someone one day and then be o.k. the next if they apologize or are super sweet. Us Aries can get over things quickly as long as there is a decent explanation and they make us feel good. I can forgive for the most part, but I have the Aries NEVER forget thing going on too.
Same, I will forgive but the memory will never leave, and I tend to bring it up more than enough to annoy anyone, mostly as a reminder that they messed up.
That's probably wrong of me, but sometimes I can't help myself.
I also have a problem thinking I can do no wrong either, but that's a whole 'nother story :X
That's so me all the way SA!! I will bring it up almost in a joking way, but deep down I'm completely serious!
The Aries Ice concept is a naturally prevalent one me thinks as it occurs among down trodden and disenchanted Fire people. Basically its an unnatural vibration.
I will try to work the relationship off but once I cut it off, there is no looking or revisiting that ever again. I am not one who will go back to the same person over and over again to work it out. I just move on...
I have known aries men to keep coming back,and even iced me so I would think they
never ever were coming back! Sometimes you want them to stay gone but they won't
until the law gets involved because sometimes if you have let them come back too
many times before they don't think your serious when you want them to be gone!
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How do you ariens break it off with someone? Do you ever look back? Do you feel bad for the other person? I've noticed that it is true for me about the "Aries Ice is more dangerous than the Aries Fire" concept. Once I say we're through, we are THROUGH! Are we just mean people or is it something that we can't help doing?