The deciding factor!

Aries, what kind of gestures make you fall head over heels in love with someone? Something special that someone does that make you think Wow I wanna give this person my heart and soul lol

The exact moment that you fall in love? The deciding factor! lol

Complete this sentence below:
If they do (insert gestures and behaviors), I'm in love.

I've been watching too many lovey dovey films lately lol

i'm always touched when someone genuinely cares about me and asks me stuff like if i'm ok. someone who for some reason goes out of their way to understand what i'm feeling and sh $ t. with me there's no such thing as trying too hard to get my attention. any effort you put in toward getting to know me will be appreciated. i won't find you annoying lol

anybody who goes out of their way to come closer to me emotionally. almost like they're trying to understand what's in my heart. i dunno how to explain it that well lol
but yeah people like that always make me feel like i wanna return their kindness 10 fold.

^^Aww that's sweet! 🙂

For me it's when a guy shows he pays attention to things you like & dislike. When a guy for example picks stops at a store for something for himself but picks up something he sees for and says its because he remember you mentioned you like them.

I dated a guy back in HS (so this was the 90s kiddos lol) who knew I loved stars. For my birthday he has a star registered as my name & got me a star key chain with my name on it.

Ohhhh total heart melt

^ I have to agree with the statements above.

If someone remembers something I said and showed that during their day they thought of me, I'd love it. I do the same thing to those I care for without battin an eye or expecting g something in return.

I can't think of anything someone has given me or done for me lol

Just something that says, I wasn't with you but the moment I saw this I thought of you.

Not an Aries but I agree with the two women above. I love it when my man remembers things I mentioned casually in our past conversations. Just the fact that he bothered to remember is flattering.

Having a bad memory is never an excuse to not remember important information about your women like her birthday for example!!! lol

i like having my head hugged and kissed and pressed against boobs when i sleep

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i like having my head hugged and kissed and pressed against boobs when i sleep

Men are such simple creatures lol

Posted by Jesse91

but yeah people like that always make me feel like i wanna return their kindness 10 fold.

10 fold?! Sweetie it's dangerous to be that naive. I wouldn't let my guard down that far if I were you lol Just because some girl acted like she cared about you on a few occasions doesn't mean she's 100% free of ulterior motives. This is why Aries are easy to fool lol

Don't be giving her all your love, money, time, and unlimited free access to your body (lol believe it or not some women are after men's bodies too) as thank-you gifts before you know for sure what she's really after lol

I was having a moment and it was a huge moment. I even felt embarrassed. Inside I was nearly at break down level and the guy I was with just hugged me. He looked me in my eyes and said you need a hug. He didn't try to fix the situation or tell me how strong or weak I was in that moment. Inside I said finally someone gets me after nearly balling my eyes out. I just melted in his arms.

*taking notes*

Posted by Love366
I was having a moment and it was a huge moment. I even felt embarrassed. Inside I was nearly at break down level and the guy I was with just hugged me. He looked me in my eyes and said you need a hug. He didn't try to fix the situation or tell me how strong or weak I was in that moment. Inside I said finally someone gets me after nearly balling my eyes out. I just melted in his arms.

Aww that's really beautiful. Are you currently still with this man or have you parted ways...?

Posted by MelanieG
*taking notes*

if we love you - you can look ugly a number of times a week, if you overdo it we will start being embarrassed of you,
this girl i dated in summer, she was okay, 4/10 hot banging body, cute face, but her old glasses that were those transitions that have burned out and were yellow now 24/7 they made her look so ugly its not even funny, so i avoided places where people might recognize us and when someone did recognize me id act like shes my friend, but i dont think its relevent since i didnt have feelings for her at all

The day that my heart melt for my sweetie is when he told me that he had something for me. Being the spoiled person that I am I thought that it was something expensive. I was excited and couldnt wait to see my gift. I drive up in his driveway and I see him standing there with a car mirror...lol I have been riding around for almost a month with my right mirror off because too busy to get it fixed. And my baby took the time to order the part for me and he drilled it on while hobbling around on one leg because the other leg had a cast on it. He had me that very moment! The simple gift of the car mirror is the best gift ever! Another heart warming moment is that he remembered my birthday. We met in a March and my birthday was in the next month April. We were not dating I just met him and we would talk about his progress with remodeling the house next door and other things. He saw me leave out really dressed up and asked was it my birthday. The following year we are seeing each other and a few days before my birthday he mentions what would I like to do for my special day. I totally forgot that he saw me the year before on my birthday, but what was so special is that we only knew each other a month, wasn't dating, and he remembered the exact day.

aries415 Your story made my heart feel all warm and fuzzy 🙂

There's a pattern here. Thoughtful gestures are what seem to grab our hearts!

lol KoA.
i wouldn't be caught dead looking gross in public so my future bf will never have to worry about being embarrassed by me lol

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Posted by Love366
I was having a moment and it was a huge moment. I even felt embarrassed. Inside I was nearly at break down level and the guy I was with just hugged me. He looked me in my eyes and said you need a hug. He didn't try to fix the situation or tell me how strong or weak I was in that moment. Inside I said finally someone gets me after nearly balling my eyes out. I just melted in his arms.

Aww that's really beautiful. Are you currently still with this man or have you parted ways...?

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Nope!

Not an Aries sun, but moon....

I like it when someone shows a genuine concern for me and who takes the time to get to know me as a person. Someone who is not afraid to express their concern and goes out of their way to help me (without me asking) you know, the "just because" type.

I'm not sure if this is just me or generally an Aries thing, but I honestly can't just fall head over heels in love with someone in the blink of an eye. Sure, there will be heart-melting moments, there will be small gestures that make me HOT, there will be words or facial expressions that make my insides melt... but as far as falling in love is concerned, it takes time AND work... usually hard work, and usually on both sides.
That being said, it's annoyingly easy for me to crush over someone just for looking a certain way or doing a certain thing, like exhibiting unfaltering confidence in himself...
But a crush is just a crush. It's very intense and it rarely lasts more than a couple of months. It's gotten so bad I sometimes actually question my ability to fall in love.
I guess it'll happen when the time is right. *shrugs*