Me (Aries) been with my cancer man off and on for almost a year. We broke up like 5 times! Last night this man asked me to pack up me and my kids and move with him to a different state. We don't live together now, and when I asked him if he loves me (never said it before) he wouldn't answer! Why would a man ask you to live with him, but wont tell you he loves you—?!!!!!
ugggh!
Understanding Why He Asks to Move Without Saying He Loves You
A man might ask you to move without expressing love due to uncertainty or fear of commitment. It could also be a way to test your loyalty or see how serious you are. Open communication is essential to clarify his feelings and intentions before making such a big decision.

I have no idea. Can't help you there... maybe he has trouble expressing things?
If I was you I would think long and hard about what you do, moving in with somebody is a huge thing, especially if you've broken up 5 times already and you've only been dating for a year... sounds like a recipe for disaster if you ask me. :/
If I was you I would think long and hard about what you do, moving in with somebody is a huge thing, especially if you've broken up 5 times already and you've only been dating for a year... sounds like a recipe for disaster if you ask me. :/

Don't move with him. He can't say he loves you, you've broken up multiple times. Too many red flags. Does he rely on you financially?

wow....he sounds insane.

Posted by JROI
I have no idea. Can't help you there... maybe he has trouble expressing things?
If I was you I would think long and hard about what you do, moving in with somebody is a huge thing, especially if you've broken up 5 times already and you've only been dating for a year... sounds like a recipe for disaster if you ask me. :/
+ 1 billion. Red flag: he's nuts.

No! multiple NOs but for the benefit of doubt maybe ask him why he is fucking around with you?

Havent you posted about this b4?
Posted by DMVYeah, on the cancer board
Havent you posted about this b4?
Posted by wateryramNo, he has a great job
Don't move with him. He can't say he loves you, you've broken up multiple times. Too many red flags. Does he rely on you financially?
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