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This topic was created in the Aries forum by ariesheart on Thursday, June 25, 2015 and has 8 replies.

Understanding Why He Asks to Move Without Saying He Loves You

A man might ask you to move without expressing love due to uncertainty or fear of commitment. It could also be a way to test your loyalty or see how serious you are. Open communication is essential to clarify his feelings and intentions before making such a big decision.

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@ariesheart
11 Years

Me (Aries) been with my cancer man off and on for almost a year. We broke up like 5 times! Last night this man asked me to pack up me and my kids and move with him to a different state. We don't live together now, and when I asked him if he loves me (never said it before) he wouldn't answer! Why would a man ask you to live with him, but wont tell you he loves you—?!!!!!

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@JROI
11 Years500+ Posts

I have no idea. Can't help you there... maybe he has trouble expressing things?
If I was you I would think long and hard about what you do, moving in with somebody is a huge thing, especially if you've broken up 5 times already and you've only been dating for a year... sounds like a recipe for disaster if you ask me. :/

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@wateryram
11 Years

Don't move with him. He can't say he loves you, you've broken up multiple times. Too many red flags. Does he rely on you financially?

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@biosynthesis
11 Years1,000+ PostsAries

Posted by JROI
I have no idea. Can't help you there... maybe he has trouble expressing things?
If I was you I would think long and hard about what you do, moving in with somebody is a huge thing, especially if you've broken up 5 times already and you've only been dating for a year... sounds like a recipe for disaster if you ask me. :/

+ 1 billion. Red flag: he's nuts.