@dward417
19 Years1,000+ Posts
no, I am not having a hard time committing dward - at the moment, I have no desire to be in a long term relationship. I am independent and my goal right now is to create my own business and continue to be financially independent. IF the right guy came along then I may change my mind - for now....it's all me baby! π
I do agree that we can be too much woman for certain men.
so maybe thats my problem...maybe im just not ready!
i used to have a problem comitting in a relationship, and i think it's about meeting the right person. i only had two serious relationships in my life. considering i am 33 that's not much. for me to commit, it takes a person who in my eyes is brilliant, intelligent, warm and a hundred other things. and to meet someone like that doesn't happen all too often. so, with most men i knew, i kept it very, very casual and made it very clear that it was more or less a physical thing. or a physical thing with sympathy involved, but not more. once i met the right person, my fears of losing independence and the solitude i need to be happy are gone, cause he not only allows me my freedom, but appreciates me having my own life and understands why i need to be alone at times. he doesn't take it as an offence or a sign that i don't want to be with him anymore at all. so, if aries girls meet the man who truely fits and understands them, they'll stay. and in that case, there's no hard time committing.
you are do right tl...meeting that right person now a days is like trying to find a needle in haystack...
yeah, took me almost 30 years. but never settle down with someone who doesn't understand your needs
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Any aries woman having a hard time committing to a long term relationship? Any single aries woman wanting to be committed but just cant get it right? Do you think sometimes its you? Being dependent and strong-willed. Is it that we are too much woman for the average male?