what would an aries do?

asaries suppose someone you never had more than 5 min conversation with that you see everyday has snucked around to find out some of your information by including people you know who do not know this person.

1.now will you assume the person did it because they liked you or what will be your assumption? now mind you these infos were in places were anyone under the sun could find it but you also hope only people who you know will have access to it.

2. if you like the person will that stop you from liking them?

3. if you see the person will you confront them and when you do is it going to be a private confrontation or public one? will you scream?

4. will you be flattered?

Ahhh...Cancerinlove - I can of course only give you my personal Aries opinion however, I am sure others will also share their thoughts with you.

Personally, I would not like it at all. "has snucked around to find out." I'm not big on snuckerarounders - leaves me with the feeling that this is their character and I would most likely not trust that person somewhere in the back of my head. I prefer upfront honesty - want to know something? come ask me directly - I will respect you for honouring me.

Just my thoughts....

Bring more on!

Hope all goes well for you Cancerinlove with your Aries pal with whatever happens.

Opps, forgot the rest of my homework 😢



2. if you like the person will that stop you from liking them?

Nah...I will still like them - I forgive very easily.

3. if you see the person will you confront them and when you do is it going to be a private confrontation or public one? will you scream?

Not sure, depends on the info. that they found out and what mood I was in and if I liked the person. My reaction most likely would be a surprise to the other person - it usually is 😉

4. will you be flattered? No.


Is there a grade for this test?

no no grade for this test

but remember these are basic infos like birthday, name, your friends leaving messages and pictures on social networks that I visited for a while, but not everyday but something on another persons page leads me to believe that the person knows I have been there and made a stupid mistake in a particular info about myself that may have led the person to know i did. now wouldn't you rather I visited than a complete stranger. besides I got on both pages by accident.


I saw him today but I took another direction to avoid him. so i don't think he has seen me.

Hmmm...just wondering, why are you avoiding him?

because I am afraid he will make a public scene and I don't want others to know and think I am a weirdo. I much rather prefer quiet confrontations. sometimes read to much into things he seems really quiet but quiet people are usally very volcal when mad.

walk softly around him and carry a BIG stick 😉

I am a very curious person an dwhen I am interested in people friends or otherwise I want to learn as much about them w/o asking too much, maybe because I hate being asked and disclosing personal infos about me so I assume everyone else is like that. ofcourse I have heard people asking him the questions I would like to ask and he talks about it, but I get too shy and nervous to do so.

once I get to know people I don't even snoop anymore in fact I could care less what you do unless it affects me then I will ask youas oppose to being sneaky.

hehe but I wont hit him because i will feel guilty about it. of course now if he hits me first all bets are off.

Hey Cancerinlove....now is the time to break that old worn out belief that you have. Aries LOVE when people ask us questions - shows us that you are interested in us and that you care.

Why do you not like to disclose personal info. about you? This is how we connect to others...if you stay closed off you will begin to attract others who feel the same as you.

Me thinks you are ready to make a change - go ahead, ask him a question. He will reply honestly and with a big beautiful smile - we always do. 😉

I can share with you in my past with Cancer relationships....they really did not go too far because the Cancer peeps would not open up...so, we "stalled" out.

The more open you are with us, the closer you get to us. 🙂

well I have tried lately but it was more his doing than mine becuase he initiated the conversations.

my nerves on the other hands makes me clamp up

Hold the stick tighter...that might help with the clamming up 😉

i am, i am

"because I am afraid he will make a public scene and I don't want others to know and think I am a weirdo. I much rather prefer quiet confrontations. sometimes read to much into things he seems really quiet but quiet people are usally very volcal when mad."


This part really stands out to me .. it infers that what all this is about is that you did something to him that you are now embarassed about, or regret .. for what other reason would you be worried about a confrontation, or him being mad?

Perhaps, it was an accident .. we all do dumb things, where we wish we could go back in time to change, lol .. that's not the point. People are kind-hearted and forgiving in most cases and if he realizes that you didn't mean to do "whatever" it was, it's likely he will accept you are human and made an error.

But, how is he to do this if you avoid him? By avoiding him, you leave him no other option except to inquire about you, right? By avoiding this "episode" will actually cause him to explode because he has no understanding of the events that happened.

You are causing yourself grief here, and him .. by not stepping up to the plate. There's a simple solution .. it's called communication .. he cannot read your mind, he can only go by what you added to his page, or, whatever it is you did to make you say, "I am afraid he will make a public scene and I don't want others to know".

By avoiding it .. others WILL know, they WILL find out because he is left no option except to inquire about your business .. see my point?

I have been thinking about this for a while today and to be honest I don't feel like I did anything wrong except I involved his cousin which may make it look like I purposly was following him around.

when I got my facebook I was going through a list of my schoolmates and any people who were registered in my classes. at the time I did not know his name so as I was going through people in my school profiles I saw his and went on it and looked, some of the info I already knew because of conversations he was having with people around me. but I visited a few times not to look at the pix he had up (I barely read my own comments let alone comments for others, so no I did not read his comments). anyway about a month later I was going through myspace looking for someone i worked with before and did not recall their myspace address so Ityped in the name. so I was going through the list of people who were similar. I clicked on one of the profile to look at it and as I was looking at the person's friend list to make sure it was the person I was looking for the 4th person on their friends list caught my attention.

the picture up was the same as his facebook profile and when i looked at the name it was his frist name above the pictur so I realized it was him. then I looked at the persons pictures that were posted in their picture area. I went there a second time and his myspace was on private.

if it were just his profiles but because it involved another person which feels weird. now although I have no proof he knows I was on any of those sites, certain things have changed on the site to make me believe that he may know because you don't just disapear from your family members sites like that. so now I don't want him to think I am some kind of psycho stalker who went looking at pages of everyone he knew. so now ifeel like kicking myself. and since I make mountain out of molehills. so this more about how he judges me than anything.

Just talk to him .. problem solved .. if you don't, then he might think you're a stalker. Honestly, it's not that big a deal .. out with it, before you go nuts.

honestly I do not worship. when his not around I don't really think about him. and I can easily focused on things when i am occupied even if he is around. I have been arond him for a little over a year. like i said did not for found him when I was going through my class list. up until recently I he did not even no i liked him, I still don't think he does, but these recent events may have changed his mind, cause I have always been cold and distance towards him (can't help it the more i like a guy the farther I want from me.

I decided while I won't avoid him i won't say anything unless he brings it up. I am pretty good at keeping cool on the surface. but parts of me does not think he knows for sure either. maybe I just jumped to conclusion (because of his disappearance from his cousin page. it maybe nothing *hoping*.)

I finally spoke to him today and he did not even bring it up, so I am starting to think that either I jumped to conclusion or will you aries forgive and forget after not seeing the person for a week and pretend nothing happened?

We forgive but we don't forget.

To you it may seem like we are "pretending" that nothing happened. Yes, we remember that something did happen but....we do not carry it into the present moment. If something someone has done/said that I am curious about, I will bring it up to the person to dicuss and clear the air - then....move on. Done and dusted.

If an Aries person is not that much "into" the other person yeh, we act like no big deal and have no desire to talk about it with the other person...why? it isn't going to go anywhere.

Just my Arien female thoughts....


*note

If you ever intend on being in a relationship with an Aries, be upfront and honest from the beginning - trust is very important to us and we can read a persons character in a nano second!