leo500
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When everything is ok, you create war?
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Could be jealous? I mean, she thinks that I will have less time for her? Every reason can be possible..
Posted by Impulsv
Why get mad when u owed money. She probably figure u forgot about it.
Did you read the entire message? She owed much more than this to me, but I didn't care.. But you are right, I should pay her, and that's what i am going to do next time i see her, but write this: Money subject between us died today. I will not accept any payment from her from now, the same to me. She wants war, she will have it.
That's what my ex Aqua used to say about me... I'm a Virgo sun libra moon he was a Aqua sun cap moon; we clashed badly.. He always thought I was attacking him or creating unnecessary fights; but to me I was just trying to communicate and make our relationship stronger, by communicating when I was having an issue w us or when I was scared or worried; he couldn't handle it! Oh well! It seems maybe this was in her mind and this text was an opportunity to let u know she Is aware u owe her and it's prob not even about he money it's prob just she wants you to acknowledge that you do owe her and will cuz she's importany to u.. So she wants to feel it by u making the effort to pay her back🙂 maybe..?! GL
why do I feel like you are omitting the important part of this story?
Posted by biosynthesis
why do I feel like you are omitting the important part of this story?
This and if you aren't married do not mix monies. That will end it.
By conflict you mean when and what exactly? And if you can make a laundry list then you have more than conflict, you all just may be a mismatch personality wise.
Posted by bmoon8Posted by Impulsv
Then if she owed u more N keeping count she's stingy n keeping count so yeah dump her.
The problem is she didn't stroke his ego the way he wanted her to..... she should dump him.click to expand
lol.. my ego? grow up.. I didn't want any stroke, are you crazy? But of course, that answer is horrific for any sign, not only for leos. That's cruelty, when someone is trying to do something for life (which incldes her).
I paid her yesterday guys, but I did remind her some of the money that she owed me too.. Guess what? Poker face, oh yeah.. We are fine now but she learned the lesson. She obviously was very sad for what she told me on that day. Today was my second class, and in the end on the phone the answer was tottally diferent, and no, i don't need any "Wow my dear, i love you, you are my king" just someone to understand my efforts, and she is the only motive that i do some of extra cash...
Posted by bmoon8
"The war thing" ... too many articles out there link Aries women with war because we are ruled by Mars.
Bmoon....I grew up in a household with not 1 but 2 older Aries sisters....and I swear if the house was too quiet (something us Virgos love)...one or both of them together would get into something they know dam well would piss my mom off and make her come unhinged...or they'd just do *ish that would get all of us in trouble...smdh!!!! Never a moment of silence except when my mom said prayer over dinner...LOL!!! Gawd I do NOT miss living with the both of them...because even today they're still at it causing small wars here and there all on their own...even in their relationships...this time I only get the stories via telephone which is the way I prefer it!!!...LOL!!!
Posted by FlaviaPosted by biosynthesis
why do I feel like you are omitting the important part of this story?
This and if you aren't married do not mix monies. That will end it.
By conflict you mean when and what exactly? And if you can make a laundry list then you have more than conflict, you all just may be a mismatch personality wise.click to expand
I mean when we are ok, when we are a "normal" couple like everyone she starts a new conflict just to shake things. I think that she can't live in peace for too long. Like we leos, we adore creativity for time to time, aries, they need conflict. As an example: Last week, we were fine again, suddenly she starts her bad mood because of her work, and I was supposed to be the guilty for her bad mode at her work, which was false. As a Leo, you can't just create war like everything is ok, you need to finish it and explain why you created such instability. She is selfish because she never thinks that when this instability happens it affects her friends, family and me, and this also can affect my work.. but no, the warrior just wants to fulfill her brave instinct with some stupid conflict from time to time. I am waiting an Aries that everyone reads in articles who is brave but for new projects and positive goals, not stupid wars with the loved ones just to shake things. I think i am dealing with an immature one. In these tiny wars, I usually ignore, because i think that it's the best thing to do when dealing with her. But some subjects are sensible for me. Money/Fincanes is just one of them, worst is when you make extra cash because of her, because she wants me to join her in her trips around the world (her favourite goal every year, trips). For that I need money. I am talking about long trips. Last trip was Cambodja, and for that I need money for these long trips.
Aries are thugs...we dont think too far, our goal is to just destroy. We're naturally angry.
Now that the money issue is solved.. it is a count down for the next conflict. Maybe next week? let's see.
I put her in her place when confront her about the money issue when i paid her yesterday. I explained she also owed more than 25 euros with physical recipes that I printed just to show her. I never did something like that before, showing proofs to someone explaining how much they owed. She was totally astonished when I showed that. Basically she turned to a lil sheep. I explained her that she was right and I should paid her from the moment she lent me that money, and I was stupid for not respect that money. What about her expenses? in the end, I gave her no money because she owed me more that 25. She apologised and knew that she was wrong on the phone. She should pick any moment to remember that except that moment. She also showed me some kind of jealous because of my capacity to start new projects (extra cash in Math classes) which she can't do because of her work. That scared me, because I am an ambitious career guy, and she showed me jealous because of that. WTF? If i was her, i was very happy..
I put her in her place when confront her about the money issue when i paid her yesterday. I explained she also owed more than 25 euros with physical recipes that I printed just to show her. I never did something like that before, showing proofs to someone explaining how much they owed. She was totally astonished when I showed that. Basically she turned to a lil sheep. I explained her that she was right and I should paid her from the moment she lent me that money, and I was stupid for not respect that money. What about her expenses? in the end, I gave her no money because she owed me more that 25. She apologised and knew that she was wrong on the phone. She should pick any moment to remember that except that moment. She also showed me some kind of jealous because of my capacity to start new projects (extra cash in Math classes) which she can't do because of her work. That scared me, because I am an ambitious career guy, and she showed me jealous because of that. WTF? If i was her, i was very happy..
Posted by bmoon8Posted by Impulsv
Then if she owed u more N keeping count she's stingy n keeping count so yeah dump her.
The problem is she didn't stroke his ego the way he wanted her to..... she should dump him.click to expand
Lol yer we don't do that, well at least I don't anyway lol
Although I really don't get why making the money was an important factor. When someone makes financial or material things the focus it's a big turn off for me!
Posted by starlover
I grew up with an Aries dad with Moon in Saggi~he loved arguing and when things got too quiet he seemed to have to push things and end up exploding like a bottle of soda
My poor Moon in Taurus would hide behind the chair till he calmed down
He was never violent, but had the temper of a toddler during the terrible twos phase.......very very silly
Yeah exactly. When I get mad I throw stuff, I scream so loud people's hearts stop...the neighborhood goes quiet for a few hours...lol
Posted by grayid2
Aries are thugs...we dont think too far, our goal is to just destroy. We're naturally angry.
Lol!
I love this.
Leo500,
Before you consider breaking up with her, give her that lion's roar you sitting on. It really works wonders for the beast in us all.
Before you consider breaking up with her, give her that lion's roar you sitting on. It really works wonders for the beast in us all.
I think y'all are having a communication problem! there is also more to the story that you are not sharing or seeing and when we feel like situation is not solved we tend to stay angry! so you will always have conflicts unless you figure out what's going on! I don't think it was about the money!
LOL i used to be friends with an aries and all of us would always pay for her but the second she even bought gum for someone oh she will keep that in her head and wont let u forget that she bought u gum and u need to pay her back, even though EVERYONE SPENDS MORE ON HER. The problem here isn't that she didn't "stoke his ego" its the fact that she DEMANDED him to pay her when she has no right to demand anything! Your gf sounds just like her, she got so annoying to me i stopped being friends with her because she was too damn selfish, only thought about herself.
dump her
Posted by MoonshineLeo
LOL i used to be friends with an aries and all of us would always pay for her but the second she even bought gum for someone oh she will keep that in her head and wont let u forget that she bought u gum and u need to pay her back, even though EVERYONE SPENDS MORE ON HER. The problem here isn't that she didn't "stoke his ego" its the fact that she DEMANDED him to pay her when she has no right to demand anything! Your gf sounds just like her, she got so annoying to me i stopped being friends with her because she was too damn selfish, only thought about herself.
lol exactly! finally.
Posted by Amorprohibido1980
I think y'all are having a communication problem! there is also more to the story that you are not sharing or seeing and when we feel like situation is not solved we tend to stay angry! so you will always have conflicts unless you figure out what's going on! I don't think it was about the money!
No, there aren't communication problems.
Successful relationships with an aries girl? I mean, last long relationship? anyone there? share your experience. How do you deal with this type of aries?
Posted by leo500
Successful relationships with an aries girl? I mean, last long relationship? anyone there? share your experience. How do you deal with this type of aries?
I think aries need space to clear their minds, because we tend to react....so to prevent that, maybe suggest that you should give her some space for now, and come back to it later. Good luck.
I am very generous with money, gifts etc. I won't use it against anybody, because I chose to do it and I enjoy doing it.
But, if I feel like I'm not being appreciated enough it has been known (not very often though) for me to throw a mini tantrum, completely forgetting that they have also done the same for me at some point. This is just another one of Aries childish traits I guess.
The fact that you confronted her about it is good, and even though she may not admit to being in the wrong, she will definitely have thought about it and realised that she was.
But, if I feel like I'm not being appreciated enough it has been known (not very often though) for me to throw a mini tantrum, completely forgetting that they have also done the same for me at some point. This is just another one of Aries childish traits I guess.
The fact that you confronted her about it is good, and even though she may not admit to being in the wrong, she will definitely have thought about it and realised that she was.
Posted by leo500
Now that the money issue is solved.. it is a count down for the next conflict. Maybe next week? let's see.
I put her in her place when confront her about the money issue when i paid her yesterday. I explained she also owed more than 25 euros with physical recipes that I printed just to show her. I never did something like that before, showing proofs to someone explaining how much they owed. She was totally astonished when I showed that. Basically she turned to a lil sheep. I explained her that she was right and I should paid her from the moment she lent me that money, and I was stupid for not respect that money. What about her expenses? in the end, I gave her no money because she owed me more that 25. She apologised and knew that she was wrong on the phone. She should pick any moment to remember that except that moment. She also showed me some kind of jealous because of my capacity to start new projects (extra cash in Math classes) which she can't do because of her work. That scared me, because I am an ambitious career guy, and she showed me jealous because of that. WTF? If i was her, i was very happy..
^^ This whole thing.
It seriously sounds like this relationship has gone sour or been sour from the beginning. I think with Leo and Aries, to be in a relationship you have to be a team, and this sounds like you're battling against each other. The fact that she's showing jealousy towards your achievements really isn't healthy. I think you need to both consider sitting down and talking this out before it gets worse. :/
I don't know if you said it already, but how long have you been dating?
Posted by JROIPosted by leo500
Now that the money issue is solved.. it is a count down for the next conflict. Maybe next week? let's see.
I put her in her place when confront her about the money issue when i paid her yesterday. I explained she also owed more than 25 euros with physical recipes that I printed just to show her. I never did something like that before, showing proofs to someone explaining how much they owed. She was totally astonished when I showed that. Basically she turned to a lil sheep. I explained her that she was right and I should paid her from the moment she lent me that money, and I was stupid for not respect that money. What about her expenses? in the end, I gave her no money because she owed me more that 25. She apologised and knew that she was wrong on the phone. She should pick any moment to remember that except that moment. She also showed me some kind of jealous because of my capacity to start new projects (extra cash in Math classes) which she can't do because of her work. That scared me, because I am an ambitious career guy, and she showed me jealous because of that. WTF? If i was her, i was very happy..
^^ This whole thing.
It seriously sounds like this relationship has gone sour or been sour from the beginning. I think with Leo and Aries, to be in a relationship you have to be a team, and this sounds like you're battling against each other. The fact that she's showing jealousy towards your achievements really isn't healthy. I think you need to both consider sitting down and talking this out before it gets worse. :/
I don't know if you said it already, but how long have you been dating?click to expand
6 months. Sometimes yes, it is more a battle than a relation. But not always (she is the one who started all battles). Well, since I am not a very easy "defeat" person i usually step in to any battle. So, the perfect guy for you is the one who likes to get hurt without any answer? lol I am sorry but i am not like that. Yes i have my pride too.. so you need to live with that and learn that if you like to attack you must be prepared for defense too lol
Posted by biosynthesisPosted by leo500
Successful relationships with an aries girl? I mean, last long relationship? anyone there? share your experience. How do you deal with this type of aries?
I think aries need space to clear their minds, because we tend to react....so to prevent that, maybe suggest that you should give her some space for now, and come back to it later. Good luck.click to expand
Hi biosynthesis 🙂
Yes, i believe it. We need some space also, but it is clear that you aries need your space very seriously 😉 I do not have problems with that. With this particular aries it is different. When I give her space, she show some fear, she thinks that I am leaving her which is not true. So, what kind of space you mean? Mental space, or physical space? thanks 😉
Posted by leo500Posted by JROIPosted by leo500
Now that the money issue is solved.. it is a count down for the next conflict. Maybe next week? let's see.
I put her in her place when confront her about the money issue when i paid her yesterday. I explained she also owed more than 25 euros with physical recipes that I printed just to show her. I never did something like that before, showing proofs to someone explaining how much they owed. She was totally astonished when I showed that. Basically she turned to a lil sheep. I explained her that she was right and I should paid her from the moment she lent me that money, and I was stupid for not respect that money. What about her expenses? in the end, I gave her no money because she owed me more that 25. She apologised and knew that she was wrong on the phone. She should pick any moment to remember that except that moment. She also showed me some kind of jealous because of my capacity to start new projects (extra cash in Math classes) which she can't do because of her work. That scared me, because I am an ambitious career guy, and she showed me jealous because of that. WTF? If i was her, i was very happy..
^^ This whole thing.
It seriously sounds like this relationship has gone sour or been sour from the beginning. I think with Leo and Aries, to be in a relationship you have to be a team, and this sounds like you're battling against each other. The fact that she's showing jealousy towards your achievements really isn't healthy. I think you need to both consider sitting down and talking this out before it gets worse. :/
I don't know if you said it already, but how long have you been dating?
6 months. Sometimes yes, it is more a battle than a relation. But not always (she is the one who started all battles). Well, since I am not a very easy "defeat" person i usually step in to any battle. So, the perfect guy for you is the one who likes to get hurt without any answer? lol I am sorry but i am not like that. Yes i have my pride too.. so you need to live with that and learn that if you like to attack you must be prepared for defense too lol
click to expand
It sounds like she is a little bit childish to be honest.
Tell her you think you both need some space. She might not realise that she needs it until she gets it.
Ok. Are you Cancer rising? Oh man, with Cancer rising i believe you are the perfect girl for any leo 😉 correct?
I've never heard that before, whhyyyyy do you say this?
I have a lot of Leo's in my life but I'm yet to date one, I would like to but I don't think long term... maybe FWB, I think it might be too much like hard work for me.
Especially after reading your posts anyway 😛
I have a lot of Leo's in my life but I'm yet to date one, I would like to but I don't think long term... maybe FWB, I think it might be too much like hard work for me.
Especially after reading your posts anyway 😛
Posted by leo500Posted by biosynthesisPosted by leo500
Successful relationships with an aries girl? I mean, last long relationship? anyone there? share your experience. How do you deal with this type of aries?
I think aries need space to clear their minds, because we tend to react....so to prevent that, maybe suggest that you should give her some space for now, and come back to it later. Good luck.
Hi biosynthesis 🙂
Yes, i believe it. We need some space also, but it is clear that you aries need your space very seriously 😉 I do not have problems with that. With this particular aries it is different. When I give her space, she show some fear, she thinks that I am leaving her which is not true. So, what kind of space you mean? Mental space, or physical space? thanks 😉click to expand
thats a good question...maybe in her case some physical space...she needs to know that you are still there for her, but perhaps needs some time to herself to gather her thoughts
We break up today. We just couldn't see any solution for us. Too much fight, and less love. Sad but true
Aw sorry to hear that... but at least it didn't get any worse?
Posted by JROI
Aw sorry to hear that... but at least it didn't get any worse?
I don't know. I called her this morning, to see how she was. If she slept well and so? She said, she didn't sleep and she is working now in effort just to maintain awake. I hate to be like this. I just have that bad mode that I can't even see sometimes. I hate myself because of that. She is a master in telling me that, though I know that she is also responsible in a different way. The thing is, the money issue for instance, provoked me a reaction, a negative mode that she can't deal nor understand. Yes it is true, I am cruel when people do that to me, but she can't see that the root of our problems was caused by her. We both need to change, i am accepting that i need to change even more than her. I need to tell her every moment that i feel betrayed by her and not waiting for a similar situation just to show her how I felt when she did the same. She told me that i am a revengeful guy and she can't live with someone whith this behaviour. But how about her?
Posted by leo500Posted by JROI
Aw sorry to hear that... but at least it didn't get any worse?
I don't know. I called her this morning, to see how she was. If she slept well and so? She said, she didn't sleep and she is working now in effort just to maintain awake. I hate to be like this. I just have that bad mode that I can't even see sometimes. I hate myself because of that. She is a master in telling me that, though I know that she is also responsible in a different way. The thing is, the money issue for instance, provoked me a reaction, a negative mode that she can't deal nor understand. Yes it is true, I am cruel when people do that to me, but she can't see that the root of our problems was caused by her. We both need to change, i am accepting that i need to change even more than her. I need to tell her every moment that i feel betrayed by her and not waiting for a similar situation just to show her how I felt when she did the same. She told me that i am a revengeful guy and she can't live with someone whith this behaviour. But how about her?click to expand
Well at least you are admitting to and accepting your faults, that's very understanding of you, and she needs to do the same in order to work things out. Sometimes that can be hard for Aries because they're so defensive of themselves they forget to see the bigger picture. I think giving each other time and space is a good idea.
But honestly if it's only been 6 months and you're already having these problems, it might be a no-go. Although, they do call it the 7 month itch?
Posted by leo500
We break up today. We just couldn't see any solution for us. Too much fight, and less love. Sad but true
Full moon dude...make sure you made the right decision.....
SCORPIO full moon...people were hardcore cray cray these past few days...
We are back... Today I went to her job office deliver her laptop which I was doing a backup. We spoke for about 3 hours. For now things are quiet. We talked about alot of things that happened. Still a sad mode between us but we will try one more time. I am in a mix of emotions right now.
Posted by grayid2Posted by leo500
We break up today. We just couldn't see any solution for us. Too much fight, and less love. Sad but true
Full moon dude...make sure you made the right decision.....
SCORPIO full moon...people were hardcore cray cray these past few days...click to expand
Hi grayid2.
What do you mean "full moon" What is the meaning of the full moon in astrology?
Its more of a popular notion than an astrological one...its proven that people go mad, and mad people go out more, during full moons. It has been reported that police have more work
Ok. Interesting I found some nice articles about that, the full moon. It changes our sleep, behaviour and for the ladies the menstrual cycle it is still roughly synchronised to the lunar cycle. Intersting for sure. They relate this moon to our natural instinct. Yep, i learn something today 😉 but why scorpio full moon and not Aries full moon for instance?
I found this also about the Scorpio moon. WOW!
"This Full Moon squares Jupiter in Leo, which can have the effect of exaggerating or blowing things way out of proportion. There is a strong tendency to overdo or overstate."
OMG it just makes me guilty?
By the way, I just listened her today (3 hours), she spoke and spoke and spoke. Seems that she wanted to speak to me, and I just listened. I made that effort and I saw that her gas bottle was calming down.
"This Full Moon squares Jupiter in Leo, which can have the effect of exaggerating or blowing things way out of proportion. There is a strong tendency to overdo or overstate."
OMG it just makes me guilty?
By the way, I just listened her today (3 hours), she spoke and spoke and spoke. Seems that she wanted to speak to me, and I just listened. I made that effort and I saw that her gas bottle was calming down.
Yep sounds bad..., must say the recent tension in my marriage came to a head, we talked about divorce, and then we worked it out...tough moon 🙂
Seems like you are dealing with an immature one. When I was in high schools I used to create such drama every now and then. The only way to deal with her drama is to just ignore her when she gets angry. She will get more angry but eventually she will learn to calm down. As far as money issue is concerned we like our guy to be the man. No matter how much money we owe to you but she shouldn't borrow anything from us because you are a man you should believe in giving not in taking. Not even once. At least that's what I think.
You not she. You shouldn't borrow anything from us
Posted by leo500
Successful relationships with an aries girl? I mean, last long relationship? anyone there? share your experience. How do you deal with this type of aries?
I wonder what your placements are?? I am in a relationship with a Leo, almost two years now. I would never cause conflict for drama. I like normal & content. I'm a wargodess yes, but not with my man.
Leo500,
You need to read this:
http://www.cyberspacei.com/englishwiz/library/names/zodiac/aries.htm#_Toc6671970<BR>
The Aries girl is rather a pushover for flattery, if it has an honest base. Let her know you admire her, but don't be too flowery or sugary about it. Her loyalty in love is gigantic, as long as you keep the sentiment alive, for she is deeply sentimental. There's the typical Arian contradic?_tion in her: she doesn't want to be obviously chased, yet she quickly loses interest if you're too detached. She doesn't want a completely domineering male, but neither will she warm up to a man who sits adoringly at her feet. Before love can bring her happiness, the Aries woman must meet the eternal Mars challenge-her strong desire to control the lover, conflicting with her secret wish to be controlled??by him.??Unbelievably idealistic, sometimes she searches in vain for that brave knight in shining armor, who will sweep her off her feet, conquer the world, hand it to her gently and yet never sacrifice his manhood. Since he exists only in fairy tales and the myths of King Arthur's court, the Aries woman often alone, without a star to guide her. Her days are bright and full of excitement, her nights are sometimes dark and full of longing. Yet, when her defeated dreams become smoldering ashes-just as you think the flame is dying, Aries leaps up to build another fire.
She's trying to deal with the disillusioning that occurs with relationships. You borrowing money is disillusioning... you're not the knight in shining armor. Each Aries has their own brand of idealism, optimism, even naivete.
+++anna1's comment
You need to read this:
http://www.cyberspacei.com/englishwiz/library/names/zodiac/aries.htm#_Toc6671970<BR>
The Aries girl is rather a pushover for flattery, if it has an honest base. Let her know you admire her, but don't be too flowery or sugary about it. Her loyalty in love is gigantic, as long as you keep the sentiment alive, for she is deeply sentimental. There's the typical Arian contradic?_tion in her: she doesn't want to be obviously chased, yet she quickly loses interest if you're too detached. She doesn't want a completely domineering male, but neither will she warm up to a man who sits adoringly at her feet. Before love can bring her happiness, the Aries woman must meet the eternal Mars challenge-her strong desire to control the lover, conflicting with her secret wish to be controlled??by him.??Unbelievably idealistic, sometimes she searches in vain for that brave knight in shining armor, who will sweep her off her feet, conquer the world, hand it to her gently and yet never sacrifice his manhood. Since he exists only in fairy tales and the myths of King Arthur's court, the Aries woman often alone, without a star to guide her. Her days are bright and full of excitement, her nights are sometimes dark and full of longing. Yet, when her defeated dreams become smoldering ashes-just as you think the flame is dying, Aries leaps up to build another fire.
She's trying to deal with the disillusioning that occurs with relationships. You borrowing money is disillusioning... you're not the knight in shining armor. Each Aries has their own brand of idealism, optimism, even naivete.
+++anna1's comment
Posted by VenusAquarius
Leo500,
She's trying to deal with the disillusioning that occurs with relationships. You borrowing money is disillusioning... you're not the knight in shining armor. Each Aries has their own brand of idealism, optimism, even naivete.
+++anna1's comment
According to this text, and thank you by the way, nice article, Aries woman has a secret wish to be controlled by her partner. I already know that. Don't get me wrong for what I am going to say next (don't interpret me like if I am an arrogant, this is genuine): The leo man, and myself inclusive are very confident. We feel like a king literally. This doesn't mean that we are arrogant and we don't considere the bright in other signs. But we feel naturally that we have that "light". Ask this to a leo friend, and he will tell you that he can't explain, he just feels something. That's because of the sun only. Often we think that we doesn't need to make efforts because we don't need to achieve anything. That light make us fell that we already are the king in every aspect of life. This cause many leos to live without effort, job achievement etc.. In love, same story, we think that we are perfect for our woman. We also aren't dominated by anyone. Think like a lion, the animal. They are the masters in controlling. So, in a relation with an aries you will be always fighting against us in a positive way because you can't dominate us. What really happens with me and my aries is jsut one thing. She leads the relation in lots of aspects, and I am the listener and I compromise... Well, in some important moments I enter in the screen like a lion, and I decide important things. I can see literally that she loves that, but this time with the money issue, I couldn't accept her behaviour. That's what a king needs: loyalty confidence and share between loved ones. She failed on that, I get mad, like a mad lion 😢 she saw that mode for the first time with me. So, in conclusion. According with this article, I am the perfect guy for you lol.. and of course you are the perfect girl for me 🙂 just because one thing: I control her 20% of the time of our relation, but these 20% are strong, cold, decisive and in the right moment. She loves that and I love her behaviour too. I stayed in her house this night. She was totaly different. I really hope that we get along.
Posted by anna1
Seems like you are dealing with an immature one. When I was in high schools I used to create such drama every now and then. The only way to deal with her drama is to just ignore her when she gets angry. She will get more angry but eventually she will learn to calm down. As far as money issue is concerned we like our guy to be the man. No matter how much money we owe to you but she shouldn't borrow anything from us because you are a man you should believe in giving not in taking. Not even once. At least that's what I think.
The money issue: For the last time... I had her card in my wallet while she was working in Friday. We were preparing our weekend in a hotel in the Countryside. Since I had no work on that day she asked me to buy her a swimsuit and a cap to be able to enter in the interior pools of the hotel. So i did that, she left me her card in the morning. At the mall, after buying the necessary items, i saw a small store with black bracelets, that I was searching for one for a while (navy bracelets for the curious ones). I entered and I couldn't resist myself to buy one for me. I left my card in the car in my wallet, so i thought in use her card and then pay her back. (The car was parked far from the mall) Anyway, i texted her before that asking if I could use her card and then I obviously would pay her, and she promptly agreed. My mistake was just one: I just needed to fetched my wallet and pay the damn bracelet with my card. I did payed with her card, and I completely forgot to pay her. I have to admit that, among the things I bought her and paid her in the past, I thought she did not want the money back.. I was fk** wrong. Her pain was only because I did not respect her money even knowing the things I bought for her in the past (I am not talking about gifts of course). She was right of course, but the moment she choosed to remember that to me was terrible, like i said in the first coments.. she had to pay me more than 25 euros that I already forgot.. because it didn't matter for me nor didn't wanted that money.
The Aries Female/Leo Male can be one of the most rewarding relationships in the Zodiac, but you need to be a Lion not a cub. There has to be a lot of give and take in this relationship, learning to compromise is key. The Lion also needs to remember, you may in the jungle defend your Kingdom, the Lioness controls the PRIDE. She brings the food back, she controls the less dominate of the PRIDE, she also bares the Cub's. You may defend the PRIDE as a whole for dominance in the wild, but really the Lioness controls the rest. The Aries female mature or imature can run circles are anyone in this role, but at the end of the day, she wants a differnt type of dominance contolled by you.
Leo's who have not matured or who are in a dark place, are poison for an Aries female. You end up draining too much of our energy and kill the lust for childlike playfulness, which is one of the things you like about us.
If you learn about each other, these two signs are a lot alike, fall into many of the same personality traits. Neither has to have a 100% control, you will find your balance.
Leo's want Pride and respect in public, they do not like a public display of disrespect, act like a lady until your at home, then blow your stack. They will show everyone around them, you are their's, they are PDA, its pride and dominance to let the other's know you are theirs.
Aries put their man on the throne, their bright always cheerful adventureness shows your their man. She holds your hand, she's respectful of you, loyaly to a fault, and will hold your trust high. You wear the crown until you do something that takes that away. She is forgiving by nature in many ways, but hurt her heart or trust and its over. You will be dead to her, you never existed in her mind after that.
This couple shares, passion, caring, compassion, inspiration to each other, both have a drive for success, both are a fire power house in the bedroom.
Learn about each other, communication is huge here, and learn to love all things about each other and respect the differences and you will have one hell of a relationship.
Leo's who have not matured or who are in a dark place, are poison for an Aries female. You end up draining too much of our energy and kill the lust for childlike playfulness, which is one of the things you like about us.
If you learn about each other, these two signs are a lot alike, fall into many of the same personality traits. Neither has to have a 100% control, you will find your balance.
Leo's want Pride and respect in public, they do not like a public display of disrespect, act like a lady until your at home, then blow your stack. They will show everyone around them, you are their's, they are PDA, its pride and dominance to let the other's know you are theirs.
Aries put their man on the throne, their bright always cheerful adventureness shows your their man. She holds your hand, she's respectful of you, loyaly to a fault, and will hold your trust high. You wear the crown until you do something that takes that away. She is forgiving by nature in many ways, but hurt her heart or trust and its over. You will be dead to her, you never existed in her mind after that.
This couple shares, passion, caring, compassion, inspiration to each other, both have a drive for success, both are a fire power house in the bedroom.
Learn about each other, communication is huge here, and learn to love all things about each other and respect the differences and you will have one hell of a relationship.
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