when to give up?

i've been so inlove w/ this girl... aquarians. i wld do anything juz to please her. triedto handle her moods, her self centeredness. she wants me for being so selfless.we've been together for 3 yrs but now im far from her.we're 3 states apart.now, she's seeing another but she stil wants me to stay for her. to be here always.i dont know, i love her so much yet i feel that ive been taken for granted. she's not that faithful as i expect she would be as i weigh how she had loved me. i dont know when to give up coz im afraid to have regrets of losing her if i give up. she always say that i it should be me she's with if im just w/ her. but i can see no effort from her of fighting for this love. she just let things happen... but i really love her so much... so when shd i give up on loving her? i can see no one but her... and what mkes me hold on to her still is she always says thatshe loves me so much... she's just so weak and that just need somebody to be there for her.. which i clouldn't give her at the moment.

This touches me in a way that I thought no one ever would understand. I do understand your problem and the only advice I could give is do what your truly tells you. If you love someone you shouldn't feel that much pain in your heart. I could say let her go, get rid of her, she is not good enough for you but that is NOT what you need to hear. You do have friends at this board and we will support you and help you when you need it.

Try to have a good day,
Mt_Moonshine

Force your self to weigh what has been good and what has been bad...
If it has mostly been bad for you...do yourself a favor and move on...

Consider what you deserve and what you are getting...

Star

EVERYONE deserves respect. If you're not getting it, sit down and talk about it. If it fails, break up.

She IS taking advantage of you, someone who loves another would not do such a thing, u deserve better. the pain she causes you is too much, let it go, this does not mean don't love her. it just means that she is not the one for you to be with right now, she must grow up before she deserves you....
as i am always right...
it will be ok
tony