whose side would you take...

I have this friend whose been dating someone for awhile now. He's an aries, but I don't know her sign. Anyway, he's ditching his crappy place and wants to move in with her. He has a cat that belonged to his former cheating fiance (b*t*h)and he's always had it for the past few years. he mentioned giving it up since he's not keeping his place, but never followed through. Long story short, she doesn't want the cat in her appt., and now, he's saying that he's not going to move in w/ her.

Now, I know him very well, but I don't know his g-friend that well. He's going to be working longer hours which is why he suggested them moving in in the first place. Me being a female, however, it sounds like he value's the cat more than his girl. But then, I don't own a pet so I don't know what it's like to have that kind of relationship. What do you guys think...

Hey Truth,

So, let me ask you a few questions, do you know the reason why she doesn't want the cat there? Does her lease not allow pets, does she hate cats, is she allergic?

How many years had he had the kitty? Is he very attached to it? Male or female cat? How old is the cat? What made him, at first, consider getting rid of the cat?

AW

Well,if hes had the cat for years,so what!If he values the cat more than his girl.Pets are almost like kids in a way...if they're not safe when relocating them(finding a home) forget it!


If it was an agressive dog maybe I'd agree with the lady but a cat—You don't have to put up with "accidents" on the carpet,they're for the most part independant and the most damage they can do is when they're not declawed besides allergies🙂