Will an Aries man come back into a relationship after having asked for time alone (twice) but says that he truly loves you and has not verbally said that he doesn't want to be with you.. and how will you know if he does..
So, I was married for 30+ years. Before we got married I cut myself off and went someplace and had a long debate with myself. The debate was whether this was the right thing to do, or not.
I cannot actually say this is what is happening, as I have virtually no info to form an opinion on. My point would be that sitting down and thinking things through, and taking a while to do so, is not unknown amongst Aries males.
to give you some insight dofacc, we started out 8 months ago with a very beautiful relationship, it was amazing and we were a perfect match, we fit so well together, he asked me to marry him, he asked me to move in, and then he had to leave for work which took him away for 3 months, while away he experience a tragedy with one of his coworkers and then he and i kind of had a disagreement and the next thing i knew he shut down and shut me out and told me he needed time to himself, i didn't understand that about aries at the time so i didn't understand why he needed time and why he would not talk to me for a month, when he finally came home he called me and we sat down and talked about everything and he asked me if we could take it slow and be friends i said i would try, we continued to talk and see each other but i wanted more than just friends, it was hard for me going from where we were to being just friends, eventually we ended up being back in relationship status and him and i professing our love for each other but he was different, things he did was different, his actions were different but i loved this man so i didn't say anything to him for fear of him shutting me out again, he was stressing about his work so i would be creative and try and ease his stress level, plan trips just to get away (which i ended up going alone)i tried to do everything possible to make him feel and know i was in his corner, just last month i planned a trip, he was excited about going but then he said at the last min he wouldn't be able to go because he wouldn't be back from work, then on the day i was leaving he called me that morning saying he would be back that day but he was too tired to go (i was pissed, but that wouldn't be the first sign to set my alarm off )mind you he had been gone a month this time, then after i returned home i still hadn't seem him for 2 weeks, either he was stressed out, really busy with work , getting off late, it was always something and i started feeling like they were all just excuses, finally i was to my breaking point and i had a talk with him about how i was feeling about everything and asked him to be honest with me, he told me he loved me and wants to be with me but he's just been so busy and stressed and i asked when were we going to see each other it has been almost 2 months and that i missed him, well after that talk i get the call that he needed time again, he really and truly loved me but he needed time to get his head right, i lost i
it, and it went to no communication at all, then a couple of days later i get a text saying "i love you" he does not respond to any of my texts but then 2 days ago i get a call saying he was just checking on me. i asked him if this was really over with us but he did not respond, being this is my first time every being in a relationship with an aries i had no clue about needing space and time, so i didn't understand when he asked, after reading about the aries man i now know that it is apart of who they are or who he is, but it is still a struggle for me, i love this man and i want to be with him but i would like to have what we had or at least try to have that, i don't like taking time for granted but i am sort of in limbo, do i continue to give him his time and space, do i let go, i don't want to miss out on a man that may very well be the one for me while waiting on someone who can't decide on what we wants to do about us, i read that aries men won't come out and tell you if they don't want to be with you anymore, i have read so much lately trying to figure this man out... i just need some insight...