guess i'll be getting married soon.....

😛😛... this aries IS amazing....i think i'll marry him coz hes AWESOME....maybe next year we'll get married 🙂....never met a man like him... hes INCREDIBLE....a very generous and caring man, who not only cares about me but every single human being.... he amazes me with his honesty and selflessness....what a man!!

does he know that he's going to be getting married? 😉

LMAO @ peach...

jeeez im one lucky gal, i never thought i'd meet such a considerate, devoted and caring man.. yes hes a bit nutty at times but we click 100% .... hes a BOMB 🙂

dont worry guys i'll post my wedding pixxx.. thats a promise 🙂

about 2 and a half weeks 🙂... but it feels like i've known him forever... we have this secret understanding of hearts....

and well i have heard alot about his good works from my sis-in-law and everyone... hes an awesome man... BTW hes in his 30s, an aeroneutical engineer... very mature and wise person....

you're going in with all heart on this? did he propose or all you all just talking about marriage at this point?

i'd be leery that he's saying this stuff to get intimate with you...but you two could possibly have a connection after 2.5 weeks.

if so, congrats.

lol

"does he know that he's going to be getting married? "

Does he know what means to get married?

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Arians are like that. They come fast, take fast....and leave fast. You will never be successful in explaining them what is really wrong.

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"How long have you actually known him?"

I think it doesnt matter Brandon. I belive she's acting out of desperation, which I think was what really you wanted to ask.

ofcourse we do .....BUT with the right person....

I belive she's acting out of desperation, which I think was what really you wanted to ask.

desperation and ME— ooo haffo please stop it...i dont give a damn if u dont like arians... this one is nothing like the others... hes a very sensitive and caring man and hey hes less talk ALL ACTION.. so i know what im talking about....

Oh well, I think it is stupid to want to marry somoene after two weeks,

total BS... i know some people who got married after knowing each other for less than a week and they are happily married... and others dated for 8 years and ended in divorce... so thats BS....

But thats just MY opinion, you do you.

ya thats your opinion... aint reality ....

You'll be together anyway, right?

we're not getting married tomorow... i said soon...

eliza, seriously be leery about this. i think i read some short blip you typed last week about this guy and there weren't any fireworks then.

i'm sure we all want you to be happy, and i'm guilty of it too, but don't go into this with just your heart.

Eliza,

Such people look for a woman to sleep, use and leave them. Nobody in his right mind would propose a marriage in 2 weeks. And nobody in "her" right mind would not accept it in 2 weeks. First, a guy, is either a player or desperate. The second, a girl, is either desperate or stupid. I don't think you are stupid, so I think you act out of desperation. Your brake up with Mr.Scoripo probably moved you to this decision, because you probably thought that you want end up getting constantly hurt, and when you found this "sweet", "wise" blah blah blah guy (which I think could be easily fabricated to lure the opponent) you just jumped on it. A guy, such a great guy, such a nice guy, such an aeronautical engineer and proposes marriage? Where could I find someone better than that? And he gonna save me from my shit. You decided that you don't need to know him well, it will come in time. You will know him later, today you better find a means to "tie" him so he wont go.

The guy, probably desperate guy, because I find him stupid. He proposed you a marriage after 1-2 weeks, which shows the level of his intelligence about human relations. He probably will leave you whenever a little problem arise, because in reality, nothing bonds you two. You in reality don't know him. You don't know his strings. You don't know in which situaiton which string to touch. You absolutely gonna fuck up.

Anyway,

You choice.

well primegen,

i wasnt bitching about him the other day...i just was afraid of committment coz hes very serious about our relationship and that was kindda scary but i gave him a chance coz theres definitely a connection here...

but sounds like something less than love.

I dont believe in love at first sight BS... it doesnt exist.. love is something that grows with time and as i've spent time with him and learned about him and his awesome personality ( actions speak louder than words and i've seen his selflessness)i've started to really like him......

aquaaqui..

i know u guys might think im naive or stupid.. but uh..uh im NOT.. i've dated TONS of guyz and i can tell a difference...

but don't go into this with just your heart.

just heart and me— im not that stupid... im using both my mind and heart here 😛

Aquarians - unpredictible people.

True though.

i'd be leery that he's saying this stuff to get intimate with you. - that's what i said earlier. I'm still feeling it.

Haffo is saying it too.

I didn't know the story about the breakup with the Scorpio. You are bouncing, Eliza. You say it takes time for love to grow and you've spent time with him and learned about him in this short time, let me ask you these questions. Do you know the following about him:

1-Where did he get his Undergrad?
2-Does he want kids?
3-Does he have any siblings?
4-Where does he stand on religion?
5-What's his favorite sport?
6-Has he ever had an STD?
7-Does he have any fears?
8-What are his short-term and long-term goals>

I could go on, but my point is, if he was so serious about marriage at this junction, you and him must have spent the last 400+ hours together (equates to approx. 2.5 weeks) and he's shared some intimate details about himself and his family.

you don't have to answer this to the board, but have you slept with him? If he has, and he's pursuing you and even talking about marriage, then i would be inclined to think he has a warped idea of what "love" is or if you haven't, then he's charming you into his bed...time will only tell, but best of luck nonetheless.

Haffo,

whats all this BS ur talking— did i for once said how soon im getting married— i just wanted to let u guys know that i've met a mind-blowing man and i'm thinking of marrying him coz he proposed ... jeeeez be easy....cut down all the crap....

i'd be leery that he's saying this stuff to get intimate with you. - that's what i said earlier. I'm still feeling it.

Haffo is saying it too.

I didn't know the story about the breakup with the Scorpio. You are bouncing, Eliza. You say it takes time for love to grow and you've spent time with him and learned about him in this short time, let me ask you these questions. Do you know the following about him:

1-Where did he get his Undergrad?
2-Does he want kids?
3-Does he have any siblings?
4-Where does he stand on religion?
5-What's his favorite sport?
6-Has he ever had an STD?
7-Does he have any fears?
8-What are his short-term and long-term goals>

I could go on, but my point is, if he was so serious about marriage at this junction, you and him must have spent the last 400+ hours together (equates to approx. 2.5 weeks) and he's shared some intimate details about himself and his family.

you don't have to answer this to the board, but have you slept with him? If he has, and he's pursuing you and even talking about marriage, then i would be inclined to think he has a warped idea of what "love" is or if you haven't, then he's charming you into his bed...time will only tell, but best of luck nonetheless.

Something honestly don't add up about this whole story.

wait and see.....

1-Where did he get his Undergrad?
2-Does he want kids?
3-Does he have any siblings?
4-Where does he stand on religion?
5-What's his favorite sport?
6-Has he ever had an STD?
7-Does he have any fears?
8-What are his short-term and long-term goals>

i know much more about him than that... u think im that SYUPID to not talk about sooo important things in life?? i know about his bank balance, his investments and everything... thats what amazes me... he trusts me a whole lot... now that aint common.. but thats not the only reason why i admire, respecta dn love that man... hes just awesome....

i know about his bank balance, his investments and everything..

hey, get his social security number and you can get some joint credit cards, too.

ok, i'm out...off to the Astros game.

"My Aries boss has been married to her husband for 32 years and she says she still don't know him. "

Brandon there is nothing mysterius about them. They just missing pieces of mind. They are like myelined nerve cells. Just like electrical charges "jump" over nerve cells these guys are same. They jump on many things and don't think about it. They don't think about it and they can't be bothered with such "mudane" thing. Surely, 99% of the time they fuck up, but who counts? They move on and start something new. And cycle begins again. Trust me, Arian thinking style is very simple: "If you do not know what it is then it does not exist. Do what you know because it's the only right thing". Period.

As I always say,

Aries Men are stupid creatures. ALL of them.

have you told your family?

they love him to bits... especially my sis-in-law and bro coz actually shes the one who introduced him to me.....

hey, get his social security number and you can get some joint credit cards, too.

lol... well i know we're pretty serious coz hes told everyone....my family knows...his knows....i'll see how it goes... we havent decided the date or anything yet but it'll be 'soon'....

" whats all this BS ur talking— did i for once said how soon im getting married— i just wanted to let u guys know that i've met a mind-blowing man and i'm thinking of marrying him coz he proposed ... jeeeez be easy....cut down all the crap...."

Does it really matter "when" you gonna marry him? Thinking about it now is STUPID. How do you know, maybe you will leave him in a week. Can you then speak about marriage? Surely no. Then what is the point in talking about it now or even planning.

Oh and he has purposed you, right, for me he is a stupid guy.

no aint no rush....but my mom's kindda pressuring me to get married....

" Something honestly don't add up about this whole story.

wait and see....."

Are you toying with us? Is this story a joke?

but my mom's kindda pressuring me to get married...

not that i care but i really think we can bless alot of lives together.. he wants to adopt this kid and awwwww i want that too.....hes got a heart of gold.. thats all i can say...

we can be really harsh in our judgements....

"no aint no rush....but my mom's kindda pressuring me to get married...."

LOL! And plus your unsuccessful love life. Makes sense now.

for me he is a stupid guy.

o haffo...

PLEASE stop calling him that coz i hate it... i really do....

Probably you want to gain your independence that way Eliza?

Kinda leave your family enviroument and live on your own, perhaps with your husband. But in one sense, it's independence.

Right?

"PLEASE stop calling him that coz i hate it... i really do...."

Well this is what I think about him. You want me to stop thinking about him that way? How you gonna do that?

haffo,
im already VERY independant... infact when i get married its gonna be a different life.... lots of responsiblities BUT im ready for it....i'll still be going to college, hes fine with that, so why not ....

How you gonna do that?

i can never do that.... but i always took u as a friend and ur calling my guy 'stupid' is hurting....

"i can never do that.... but i always took u as a friend and ur calling my guy 'stupid' is hurting...."

Well no backmailing here. I speak what I think. You have problems with that, then don't call me friend.

blackmailin'—?... Whatever.. i dont give a damn....

It doesn't hurt anything,

why do u think i posted it here?? coz i wanted your opinions especially branh0913's...

but calling someone stupid without knowing anything about them is STUPID in itself..

"but calling someone stupid without knowing anything about them is STUPID in itself.."

Proposing marriage to a girl whom you talk only 2 weeks is stupid.

maybe for you haffo... every ones different.....

aint taking it personally...im chill...

"maybe for you haffo... every ones different....."

There is no possible way to know a person well enough for marriage in 2 weeks. It's rather tactless.

haffo,

thanx SB 🙂

" u can never know a person 100% .... u may keep dating them for ages and u'll never know them completely... the things that matter to me and the things that are important to know, i know them...."

True. You can never know a person % 100 even after 100 years. But you can max out your chances in some time.

However, you definetly cannot reach to that level in 2 weeks!!!

you definetly cannot reach to that level in 2 weeks!!!

its possible...YOU CAN... i never thought one could but ITS POSSIBLE....

No it is not.

You probably spend more time here on DXP than with your boyfriend. And what you know about him, is just what others said to you. You have not experienced him and his behaviours personally. And getting to know a person personally takes more than 2 weeks. Just because he looks sweet, it does not necessarily makes him sweet person. You should look at this behaviour in long run. You don't even know how he handles relationship problems, which is vitally important to you, maybe he will pack up and leave? How you gonna deal with that when you married? Or maybe you won't even come to that point to marry him, because you'll know this side before? Then what is the poin in talking about marriage now?