5th house troubles!

Wow... I can't believe I haven't really known in depth how my 5th house in Pisces affects me. I have no planets there so it has taken me a while to recognize its presence in my life but now that I see where it fits in, it is SO obvious to me, even looking back at the charts of all the guy's I've had flings with or romantically fantasized about. I fear that I wont find a guy that not only lives up to what I seek or that I wont find someone who accepts me through all of my rapid changes. (Sun Sag, Moon LIbra, rising Scorpio, Mars Gemini).

Have you noticed your 5th house impacting you in noticeable ways? And what kinds of problems does it manifest?

Not exactly.

I tend to put my lovers on a pedestal unknowingly and I have this idealistic vision of how a great relationship would feel but the lover never matches the vision. It's a bad habit and I really do try to be realistic, I have 5 planets in Capricorn which are all in my 3rd house and I have a Neptune conjunct Saturn so I know that helps.
Basically I've just discovered that all of my romantic flings or fantasies about guys include that pisces essence and it just threw me for a loop because well.. that squares my sun and I didn't think I had that kind of energy in me. Im happy to figure it out but now I know that the guy I'm hoping exists is like ... extremely multifaceted and has to have so many different things lol. Geminis are drawn to me like a magnet, I like Leo's quite a lot and also Aquarius. None of these signs display pisces (unless theres a good mix) which i have only met once... so basically I just need a guy who can be mentally stimulating with me, hilarious, dramatically romantic and realistic ( gotta throw capricorn in there with my stellium so I'm understood)
Do you ever sit back and think about what the perfect combination would be? I realize how unrealistic that is but also... totally realistic because theres so many mixes of people! The universe must have known that I would be so neurotic as to look deeply into this sort of compatibility so perhaps it has prepared a man that i will recognize to fit my needs someday.

ramble ramble ramble ramble...

I think that's interesting you've never been in a relationship! That's hard to come by, especially since your moon is there. My moon is my 12th house. YAY

Honestly I would Google it because astromatrix has really good explanations for houses. I could tell you what I think but you'll get complete and in depth information from astromatrix.

Posted by astrogypsy7
Wow... I can't believe I haven't really known in depth how my 5th house in Pisces affects me. I have no planets there so it has taken me a while to recognize its presence in my life but now that I see where it fits in, it is SO obvious to me, even looking back at the charts of all the guy's I've had flings with or romantically fantasized about. I fear that I wont find a guy that not only lives up to what I seek or that I wont find someone who accepts me through all of my rapid changes. (Sun Sag, Moon LIbra, rising Scorpio, Mars Gemini).

Have you noticed your 5th house impacting you in noticeable ways? And what kinds of problems does it manifest?

Check your Neptune and read the description, it influences your 5th house too...since it's Pisces.

And with those Moon and Rising you should be fine for marriage...

5th house is just romance, in Pisces it can simply mean you idealise love, fall deeply in love, etc...if you tend to have problems, it's not that Pisces is bad for the 5th house. Au contraire, you love love, so to speak. You just need someone more Pisces oriented, or with Pisces in the 5th, 7th, or Pisces/Neptune aspecting important points in your chart.

Also, people can be changeable in their youth, but they calm down in their 30's...

Bricklemark,

That was very helpful, thanks. I recently have been looking into the synastry for the 5,7,8th house and it has changed my whole view. I just wasnt sure where I needed to see the pieces in a guy because I need just a dash, but in the right spot. I've met 6th house pisces and I can actually tell as soon as I have known then for just a short while. I can't relate to them at all because I'm a 6th house Aries, not to mention my sun Sagittarius. Placement is everything!

Mine is in Gemini, and empty. My mom used to criticize me for being boy crazy and flighty.

Rumi,
It makes complete sense now that you say that. You're just keeping yourself at bay until other things have been handled, good for you look I get sucked right in.

Sultrykitty,
That seems like a possibly tough placement and so annoying to not be understood by family.

Bricklemark,
My Neptune is capricorn 3rd house, it seems a bit contradicting to my pisces 5th house.

Posted by astrogypsy7
Bricklemark,

That was very helpful, thanks. I recently have been looking into the synastry for the 5,7,8th house and it has changed my whole view. I just wasnt sure where I needed to see the pieces in a guy because I need just a dash, but in the right spot. I've met 6th house pisces and I can actually tell as soon as I have known then for just a short while. I can't relate to them at all because I'm a 6th house Aries, not to mention my sun Sagittarius. Placement is everything!

My Neptune is capricorn 3rd house, it seems a bit contradicting to my pisces 5th house.

That's quite amazing that you figured out he had Pisces 6th...

I think many things can work though, things you didnt expect. Like any planet could perfectly aspect one of yours, and set off a chain reaction of energy through your chart or both your charts, it's so complex that you should probably give it a shot before involving astrology. I've had quite complex things that worked really well...i think its more about destiny than anything else...
Neptune in 3rd means your communication needs serve your romantic needs, and romance enhances your communication.

Yes I will always go with my guy or emotions when dating, but normally my feelings matches astrology so well it's crazy. There are still things I'm learning of course so I still fall into traps /blind spots of astrology that I haven't encountered yet. Which I truly am grateful for because it just helps me further understand my needs. I just wish we could all stay friends afterward!

Go with my gut*

Posted by astrogypsy7
Yes I will always go with my guy or emotions when dating, but normally my feelings matches astrology so well it's crazy. There are still things I'm learning of course so I still fall into traps /blind spots of astrology that I haven't encountered yet. Which I truly am grateful for because it just helps me further understand my needs. I just wish we could all stay friends afterward!

Ok. I'll leave you with this, I'm sure you'll find it mighty intersting. 🙂

Ruler of the 5th house in the 3rd house

The activities of the 5th house serve the agenda of the 3rd house. Creativity, personal self-expression, risk-taking, hobbies, romance and interactions with children serve the need to communicate, gather information and make daily connections with people. You are creative in everyday interactions with other people. You have an expressive and dramatic way of communicating. Children impact your ability to come and go. Children influence your writing. Children influence your approach to education, teaching and learning. Your hobbies involve listening and talking, learning and teaching. Your interactions with children are geared towards school and daily activities. Romance and fun express themselves through a love of reading and writing. You write romance novels. You read romance novels. You write about your sports heroes. Your hobbies revolve around reading, writing and conversation. Fun is found through gossiping. Relaxation comes through writing. Sports activities are local. You act in the local theater. You perform for local schools. You take risks with the way you communicate. You communicate in a playful and lighthearted way. You illustrate books.

Omg so validating. Thank you

Astrogypsy, I feel the same. Those rapid changes indeed...and the continuous striving to grow. I've thought so much about it and my latest conclusion is that not only I fear relationships because I cannot believe I really found the right person or because I fear it won't last, but also I actually cannot imagine myself being with someone so often! Maybe because I like going through these changes on my own. Sometimes I just want to be alone for weeks.

Scorpio rising too, 5th house is Pisces, but I have my sun and venus in Aries there. I'm romantic and feel a lot of love all the time, but ironically I find it hard to express it to someone I am in love with. So I'm overflowing with love and romance innerly, but it's missing in my reality.

Rumi, I've also never been in a relationship. But no flings either. What I had though was significant for both me and him.

Posted by Fragrance
Astrogypsy, I feel the same. Those rapid changes indeed...and the continuous striving to grow. I've thought so much about it and my latest conclusion is that not only I fear relationships because I cannot believe I really found the right person or because I fear it won't last, but also I actually cannot imagine myself being with someone so often! Maybe because I like going through these changes on my own. Sometimes I just want to be alone for weeks.

Scorpio rising too, 5th house is Pisces, but I have my sun and venus in Aries there. I'm romantic and feel a lot of love all the time, but ironically I find it hard to express it to someone I am in love with. So I'm overflowing with love and romance innerly, but it's missing in my reality.

Rumi, I've also never been in a relationship. But no flings either. What I had though was significant for both me and him.

I'm just shocked at how you guys haven't ever been in a relationship! Especially being so romantic. But Rumi, I know what you mean about being romantic in life in general, I have a friend like that and shes got the 5th house venus and its Aries. I get this vibe that in a past life she was alive in the 1920's. Where is your venus? It sounds like Fragrance has the same thing going on. My friends Sun is Pisces, moon and rising scorpio. So very similar!
I almost wish I could display it more easily too.. I think i just recently realized how romantic I am so thus far ive been dating guys that weren't very romantic.
Now I want some good stuff.. i cant even think of a famous couple in time to compare it to. Thats how new this is to me. I dont have any planets in my 5th house so it has taken me some time to discover the pisces essence there.

Posted by Agate
I also have Pisces in 5th and Saturn in the house as well. Idk what Saturn does there, probably something bad, but I can admit I am really 'in love with love'. I also tend to idealize my crushes, daydream about being in a relationship, I'm very romantic and sensitive, easily disappointed when something in my love life goes wrong. I'm also mostly attracted to artistic, creative, somewhat odd and unusual people. Also my Sun is opposite Neptune, which indicates being attracted to unusual experiences, out-of-the-ordinary life, escapist behaviors such as drugs, secret affairs, etc. Although I generally want to live an exciting, yet stable and secure life, I always feel like I am sent to earth just for the sake of finding unusual, crazy, out-of-space experiences and feelings.

Thanks for that, that is some good perspective for me 🙂
My saturn is in the same place with my venus too.. but it's in the 3rd house. Ad i believe that means anything else in the 3rd house would maybe be a bit restricted because of it.