Are air signs are nosey af?

They have no concept of minding their own business bcuz 5hey think everything is their business.

Depends which one you're talking about

Does this mean all earth signs are whiners? Cause that’s all you seem to do so...

That really all depend on their chart, aspects and what have you. It's not so much being nosy per say but more curious to know and learn a lot of things to gain knowledge. That's what air signs are all about. The quiet ones like myself are the sneaky types to gain knowledge and being curious the quiet way. No one will never know.

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I think Aquarian’s can be nosey af IME, but Geminis and Libra’s have been rather presumptuous in my experience- the types to insist they “know” me when they haven’t even taken the time to get to know me.

I’m not sure if it’s due to astrology, or if those are just the type of people I’ve been drawing into my life. I have a Virgo friend and a cancer friend who are both also rather presumptuous in their dealings with me- like they project their own personas onto me. So maybe I just draw in those types, especially with my Pisces rising.

I will also say the moon signs act differently than the suns- I have found Gemini and Libra moons to be nosey. And aqua moons to NOT be nosey like the aqua suns.

Posted by Whorpio
I think Aquarian’s can be nosey af IME, but Geminis and Libra’s have been rather presumptuous in my experience- the types to insist they “know” me when they haven’t even taken the time to get to know me.

I’m not sure if it’s due to astrology, or if those are just the type of people I’ve been drawing into my life. I have a Virgo friend and a cancer friend who are both also rather presumptuous in their dealings with me- like they project their own personas onto me. So maybe I just draw in those types, especially with my Pisces rising.

I will also say the moon signs act differently than the suns- I have found Gemini and Libra moons to be nosey. And aqua moons to NOT be nosey like the aqua suns.

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Kind of but it's mostly out of curiosity and to learn which might be the worst kind of noseyness.

Then it would depend on how the moon sign would interpret that info.

I personally am nosey to learn and to avoid situations and people. It's better than going through things when you don't want/need to. Imo.

Hmmmm....maybe with their families. My mom is a gemini and was a helicopter parent to me growing up lol. I find Geminis to be very controlling towards their family members actually, and super intrusive/nosey. When it came to others, she didn't pry too much.

I haven’t found air signs to be nosey. For that, most sag women I’ve met have been nosey. Air signs to me are just for superficial friends with no emotional connection. They live in their minds and some like to push the limits of that and that can be seen as nosey because some just don’t give a butter about anything.

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I haven’t found air signs to be nosey. For that, most sag women I’ve met have been nosey. Air signs to me are just for superficial friends with no emotional connection. They live in their minds and some like to push the limits of that and that can be seen as nosey because some just don’t give a butter about anything.

Yeah pretty accurate. We really don't care to be a part of what others do. More of watching from afar and analyzing the situation so we don't end up entangled. Unlike maybe a water or earth sign who would engage. We don't like to engage, it ties us down. And when we do engage it's by accident or by necessity. At least that's how I go about other people's business.

tbh i make friends with air signs pretty quickly.

but i did notice this one weird thing. idk if it's just me but i could've sworn they're nicer to me when i'm struggling but are absolute aholes when I'm doing better. there's treating you less nice then there's just straight up ahole.

like when this air sign chick found out i was engaged, she was COMPLETELY, PERFECTLY nice before finding out then right after, she started passive-aggressively letting me know right after sharing like ONE argument that i've had with my husband that "people deserve who they marry." like GIRL, is it my fault that none of your dates ever work out for you?

then there's that other air sign chick who pretty much acted this way too but she tried to be sneaky and subtle about it at first but it just comes out finally as as some insecurity as if i'm triggering whatever trauma she's got about being a pick me or whatever.

like it's not that big of a deal, can you just congratulate me and not make it about your insecurities?

i swear, other women started hating me when i got engaged.

bet men don't have this problem, every day i have to remind myself that i'm sexist in reverse or whatever 🤦🤦

Posted by Whorpio
I think Aquarian’s can be nosey af IME, but Geminis and Libra’s have been rather presumptuous in my experience- the types to insist they “know” me when they haven’t even taken the time to get to know me.

I’m not sure if it’s due to astrology, or if those are just the type of people I’ve been drawing into my life. I have a Virgo friend and a cancer friend who are both also rather presumptuous in their dealings with me- like they project their own personas onto me. So maybe I just draw in those types, especially with my Pisces rising.

I will also say the moon signs act differently than the suns- I have found Gemini and Libra moons to be nosey. And aqua moons to NOT be nosey like the aqua suns.

Is being presumptuous a good thing or a bad one overall? Why?

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I think Aquarian’s can be nosey af IME, but Geminis and Libra’s have been rather presumptuous in my experience- the types to insist they “know” me when they haven’t even taken the time to get to know me.

I’m not sure if it’s due to astrology, or if those are just the type of people I’ve been drawing into my life. I have a Virgo friend and a cancer friend who are both also rather presumptuous in their dealings with me- like they project their own personas onto me. So maybe I just draw in those types, especially with my Pisces rising.

I will also say the moon signs act differently than the suns- I have found Gemini and Libra moons to be nosey. And aqua moons to NOT be nosey like the aqua suns.

Is being presumptuous a good thing or a bad one overall? Why?

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Honestly, in business I use it as a glimpse into someone’s mind, a key tool to understanding someone’s inner world. So in that context, presumptuous can be good.

With casual relations, idgaf either way.

But in personal relationships (platonic, romantic, kindred) I don’t think it’s good.

I understand the role I play in people’s assumptions- I am super secretive, even with people I’ve known for 10+ years. Depending on the context in which someone fits into my life, I’ll give them 1-3 pieces of the puzzle. There’s just a difference between the people who will ask for more puzzle pieces (curiosity) and those who believe those 1-3 pieces are the entire puzzle (presumptuous, will base our entire relationship off of those 1-3 pieces and have the audacity to believe our connection is deeper than it is).

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I think Aquarian’s can be nosey af IME, but Geminis and Libra’s have been rather presumptuous in my experience- the types to insist they “know” me when they haven’t even taken the time to get to know me.

I’m not sure if it’s due to astrology, or if those are just the type of people I’ve been drawing into my life. I have a Virgo friend and a cancer friend who are both also rather presumptuous in their dealings with me- like they project their own personas onto me. So maybe I just draw in those types, especially with my Pisces rising.

I will also say the moon signs act differently than the suns- I have found Gemini and Libra moons to be nosey. And aqua moons to NOT be nosey like the aqua suns.

Is being presumptuous a good thing or a bad one overall? Why?click to expand

Honestly, in business I use it as a glimpse into someone’s mind, a key tool to understanding someone’s inner world. So in that context, presumptuous can be good.

With casual relations, idgaf either way.

But in personal relationships (platonic, romantic, kindred) I don’t think it’s good.

I understand the role I play in people’s assumptions- I am super secretive, even with people I’ve known for 10+ years. Depending on the context in which someone fits into my life, I’ll give them 1-3 pieces of the puzzle. There’s just a difference between the people who will ask for more puzzle pieces (curiosity) and those who believe those 1-3 pieces are the entire puzzle (presumptuous, will base our entire relationship off of those 1-3 pieces and have the audacity to believe our connection is deeper than it is).

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That's interesting. Sometimes presumptions can be dangerous but other than that I think they are the funniest thing to exist in a social context.

I like being misunderstood/misjudged cause it draws attention to me and it's something I can manipulate if it's incorrect. It would actually bother me if someone understood me, then I'd feel vulnerability.

That's why I usually don't stay in one town/city for too long cause then I lose my unpredictability.

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I think Aquarian’s can be nosey af IME, but Geminis and Libra’s have been rather presumptuous in my experience- the types to insist they “know” me when they haven’t even taken the time to get to know me.

I’m not sure if it’s due to astrology, or if those are just the type of people I’ve been drawing into my life. I have a Virgo friend and a cancer friend who are both also rather presumptuous in their dealings with me- like they project their own personas onto me. So maybe I just draw in those types, especially with my Pisces rising.

I will also say the moon signs act differently than the suns- I have found Gemini and Libra moons to be nosey. And aqua moons to NOT be nosey like the aqua suns.

Is being presumptuous a good thing or a bad one overall? Why?click to expand

Honestly, in business I use it as a glimpse into someone’s mind, a key tool to understanding someone’s inner world. So in that context, presumptuous can be good.

With casual relations, idgaf either way.

But in personal relationships (platonic, romantic, kindred) I don’t think it’s good.

I understand the role I play in people’s assumptions- I am super secretive, even with people I’ve known for 10+ years. Depending on the context in which someone fits into my life, I’ll give them 1-3 pieces of the puzzle. There’s just a difference between the people who will ask for more puzzle pieces (curiosity) and those who believe those 1-3 pieces are the entire puzzle (presumptuous, will base our entire relationship off of those 1-3 pieces and have the audacity to believe our connection is deeper than it is).click to expand

That's interesting. Sometimes presumptions can be dangerous but other than that I think they are the funniest thing to exist in a social context.

I like being misunderstood/misjudged cause it draws attention to me and it's something I can manipulate if it's incorrect. It would actually bother me if someone understood me, then I'd feel vulnerability.

That's why I usually don't stay in one town/city for too long cause then I lose my unpredictability.

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Posted by FuelAirPropellantThat's interesting. Sometimes presumptions can be dangerous but other than that I think they are the funniest thing to exist in a social context.

I like being misunderstood/misjudged cause it draws attention to me and it's something I can manipulate if it's incorrect. It would actually bother me if someone understood me, then I'd feel vulnerability.

That's why I usually don't stay in one town/city for too long cause then I lose my unpredictability.

Yea, like I said in casual connections I don’t mind.

It’s the people I’ve “known” for 5-20 years who operate on presumptions and either act entitled to more of my energy/attention than I’m willing to share, or they have out-of-pocket reactions when I reveal new information about myself.

I suppose there are a few people I’ve known for long periods who operate on presumptions who ARE NOT demanding- I have no issue with them. But I’ve only come across a few who are chill like that; most of the presumptuous people in my life are controlling/entitled/demanding- all threatening qualities to my avoidant attachment style and my Sagittarius bits.

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It’s the people I’ve “known” for 5-20 years who operate on presumptions and either act entitled to more of my energy/attention than I’m willing to share, or they have out-of-pocket reactions when I reveal new information about myself.

UPDATE: This thread led me to reflect further on these specific “friendships” and inspired me to cut them out of my life this holiday season 🦃

Gemini = nosey

Libra = can be overbearing or controlling

Aquarius = nosey in an offensive way.. they tend to like to collect info to secretly judge you. Can be prying, which annoys me.