all signs what do you dislike...

so, in your dealings with people of all signs (or maybe you haven't dealt extensively with all signs, or known which signs you were dealing with...but you get my drift), what patterns of behavior or personality have you noticed that you absolutely could not stand, or at least were irritated by? would any of those traits make you want to completely avoid interaction with those signs? this question goes for any kind of relationship you had with them: friendship, dating, roommates, aquaintances, family, etc.

everyone has their own positive and negative traits.. it's difficult to pinpoint a group of people under one sign, i think. i just dislike inconsiderate and aloof people.

i agree fiddle, i was just asking if anyone has observed a pattern in the signs, not something stereotyped or generalized, but an actual pattern that they have witnessed by having contact with certain signs. it could be that you've just come across a specific type of person and had bad luck with that sign, but i'm curious to know the patterns, if any, and if they're consistent with the sign.

this is just a question about personal experience with signs, therefore its subjective, and isn't meant to offend or be some sort of objective account of what people are due to their signs.

oh i wasn't trying to be offensive.. i just don't generally get people's birthdays if i dislike them 🙂

in other words, by saying you've noticed said pattern, you're not saying all people of that sign are like that, you're just stating your experience with that sign. that's all i'm asking about.

ha ok 🙂

The only thing I dislike about people is ...


LACK OF COMMON SENSE!!!....or as i call them SAP's (Stupid Ass People)

I don't think bad qualities are limited to sun signs. I do however cannot stand nosy (sp) people nor arrogant people nor those who think they have all the answers to life but can't figure out why they run into the same problem over and over.

In my second sentence I meant to say "However ......." Sorry I am a bit of a perfectionist when I type.

My issues have been with Scorp women: One in my own family and one in my fiance's family:

This is the pattern that I have witnessed with them:
They can be two faced- one minute acting like they like you and then the next acting mean, like you're a bother; they act like you have to meet their standards in order to be accepted into their "circle of loved ones or friends"; no matter what kind of "nice" front they put up, if they don't care about you, then they just don't care- no matter how nice or accepting you are of them and no matter how sincere you try to be to them; they care about their own- mainly family and outside people that they have accepted as being "good enough" to be their friends; their JEALOUS ways are outrageous, childish, and a waste of time.

I being a Pisces am soooooo sincere in meeting someone and truly accepting who you are and trying to get to know you- I love easily, but when someone like this is being this difficult in allowing someone to love her, you're not worth it and you become invisible to me. I stop trying and for me it's for good. You won't let me in and try to love you, then so be it. I speak on this on a friendship level because these are the women I'm referring to. Never had this problem with the Scorp men I have encountered.

My issues have been with Scorp women: One in my own family and one in my fiance's family:

This is the pattern that I have witnessed with them:
They can be two faced- one minute acting like they like you and then the next acting mean, like you're a bother; they act like you have to meet their standards in order to be accepted into their "circle of loved ones or friends"; no matter what kind of "nice" front they put up, if they don't care about you, then they just don't care- no matter how nice or accepting you are of them and no matter how sincere you try to be to them; they care about their own- mainly family and outside people that they have accepted as being "good enough" to be their friends; their JEALOUS ways are outrageous, childish, and a waste of time.

I being a Pisces am soooooo sincere in meeting someone and truly accepting who you are and trying to get to know you- I love easily, but when someone like this is being this difficult in allowing someone to love her, you're not worth it and you become invisible to me. I stop trying and for me it's for good. You won't let me in and try to love you, then so be it. I speak on this on a friendship level because these are the women I'm referring to. Never had this problem with the Scorp men I have encountered.

hi OBPisces,
that's interesting about your experience with scorp women. i have to say that i can see what you mean, i can agree that i do this. although, its not for the reasons you believe, so while i can't speak for all scorps, i believe i can speak for certain types of them.
being a scorp means noticing everything and being very critical, not just on others but on oneself. its hard to constantly be aware of this, its exhausting and irritating to oneself. it also means that WE don't know how to show an emotion that we don't feel. if i'm not interested i can be civil and polite but i DO NOT know how to Pretend, in other words, to scorpios- acting like you are happy, sad, etc when you are not, or acting as if you like someone when you don't are all an indication of not being genuine, and not being true to oneself, and i think that scorpios hold that to be the most important thing: to be true to oneself. they're not good at small talk, at socializing etc they like to get right down to it and talk about the things they believe are important, and they are better at more intimate relationships rather than social ones. scorps see it like this: because they are so critical and as well curious they try to get a sense of people as soon as they feel they can, and once they decide they know enough about you to decide whether you are compatible with them or not, they won't waste their time so to speak- if they believe you two are not compatible, they won't make an effort to know you much more, and if they think you are, they will. you shouldn't take this personal, its just common sense to them: if two people aren't alike they most likely will not make good friends, and so they think: why waste your or their time.
that's why they come off as having standards as you said, but its really not about standards- its just that scorpios know that they work better with more intimate relationships, they may be social but they are really interested in knowing people very well and closely, and they do this with a limited amount of people, as obviously its hard to know many people very well, so they stick to a close set who they can know intimately, and the way they choose those people is really just by common sense and/or emotion: they either believe or feel that that person is similar to them or has common ways of thinking or whatever other reason that is of value to a scorp. they are all about intensity, and that's why they seem exclusive.

and its not possible to be intense with many people, they're only able to do this with a few.

its funny because, and i mean no offense, but in my dealings with pisces, the pattern i've noticed is that pisces are not critical enough, they seem to accept too easily without knowing people well enough and without knowing what they are accepting- to a scorp this feels unsafe. when you say you "love easily," to a scorp this sounds unsafe and temporary, they think: if this person can love so easily and accept so easily, what makes me different from anyone else to this person, who is the next person they are going to love, to the scorpio that i am, pisces seems unstable and unpredictable, and too easily flip-floping with their emotions.
again, no offense, i have known many pisces and they are all very nice and sweet, caring people, and i respect that about them, but as far as getting into a more intimate relationship with them, me as a scorp would never feel secure.

which brings me to another point: scorpios are very sensitive and are always careful with who they trust and/or care about.
for a scorp, once they decide they care about you its a HUGE deal, that means they care about you completely, they've let you in, they are admiting that you mean so much to them and therefore you now have the power to hurt them.
and scorpios hate being hurt, they hate giving someone this power over them, they are all about defending and protecting themselves. that's why they only love a few and are selective- they don't want to open themselves up to too much pain, so they must choose carefully the people who they think won't hurt them.
so, again, don't take offense if a scorpio doesnt get involved with you or acts as if they don't care for you- it may just mean they like you and really wish that they could like you even more but something has made them feel that their emotions would not be safe with you, and i think its that whole "lovimg easily" statement you made that i addressed above.

Hi WS:

Thanks for the response. I guess I need to clarify when I say love easily- I mean I accept people and their flaws and don't hold it against them in getting to know them or their circumstances- I guess this is a good example for instance, I am not going to have a preconceived idea of who you really are just by seeing that you live in a maybe not so nice neighborhood or that you don't drive the best luxury car. I don't love people in a superficial sense based on material things but I accept that every indiviual is unique and that each person is deserving of not being judged by unknown preconceptions or stereotypes. I must say ironically that I have a great respect for Scorp if they feel that hey, if you're not someone I can click with then don't waste time- I can respect that a great deal and couldn't agree more. Another ironic thing is that I too am verrry sensitive about letting people into my heart on a deep level- you have to show the utmost sincerity in getting to know who I am and not act flip floppy about it- like for instance, nice one minute and annoyed the next. Why do this? I can accept so much more someone at least giving a fair chance to know who I am and deciding at whether or not they like me as a person and then if I don't click with who they are, then being honest with me and telling me because you're right it saves time on both ends and believe me I can leave that person alone. I am not naiive enough to think that everyone accepts me or will love me- I been here too long for that kind of thinking plus at a very young age I've always felt that way.

I don't have many close friends at all in my life because I am very selective in that- I've opened my heart up to people (meaning friendships) before only to have my heart broken way too quickly with them putting up a front of sincerity.

So in a way, ironically, I can relate to a Scorp in many ways on that level- I don't know, maybe we are just too much a like to click. I am more open at least trying I guess is the difference in us. It also seems like to me that Scorps more openly accept silly, not so deep people than ones who would better relate to them on a more emotional level- like they love to be around Aries, Geminis, and Aquarius which I don't understand because these people aren't deep and are usually rather shallow acting. The only ones Scorps seems to accept on an emotional level or deepness is Cancers. If that's their preferences then so be it. Like I said I c

can leave you guys alone if I don't fit your bill. Me being optimistic though if it ever were to miracously happen for me to have a friendship with a Scorp woman then I welcome it with open arms or should I say fins🙂

Oh and to add to that WS after going back and reading again all that you said about the part where you said that doing something that has made them feel insecure or emotions not being safe, I can honestly say I have not done this with the two Scorp women I am referring to, NEVER. I take someone opening up to me very seriously and it means so much to me. It's just for some reason, even after they have opened up to me which both have done, they all of a sudden get closed up and mean. I am being totally honest about this. I am referring to the person in my fiance's family now- bottom line is she totally flipped flopped on me and not just on one occassion and I just got tired of it.

I think to Scorps, some people can come off as weak and mistake sincere kindness as weakness and somehow I guess she perceived me as being weak and being able to toy with my emotions in this way, but she unfortunately had to experience the very tough side of me that showed her I am not a footstool and I that I wasn't afraid to show her that I didn't appreciate her actions toward me. Her whole family knows that I am done with her especially my fiance- I could tell the whole story but he and she both did wrongs to me that he admits and now he feels so much remorse for it because he knows he contributed to it where he shouldn't have and now she and I, mostly based on her own immature actions, probably will never have a relationship at all.

Oh and to add to that WS after going back and reading again all that you said about the part where you said that doing something that has made them feel insecure or emotions not being safe, I can honestly say I have not done this with the two Scorp women I am referring to, NEVER. I take someone opening up to me very seriously and it means so much to me. It's just for some reason, even after they have opened up to me which both have done, they all of a sudden get closed up and mean. I am being totally honest about this. I am referring to the person in my fiance's family now- bottom line is she totally flipped flopped on me and not just on one occassion and I just got tired of it.

I think to Scorps, some people can come off as weak and mistake sincere kindness as weakness and somehow I guess she perceived me as being weak and being able to toy with my emotions in this way, but she unfortunately had to experience the very tough side of me that showed her I am not a footstool and I that I wasn't afraid to show her that I didn't appreciate her actions toward me. Her whole family knows that I am done with her especially my fiance- I could tell the whole story but he and she both did wrongs to me that he admits and now he feels so much remorse for it because he knows he contributed to it where he shouldn't have and now she and I, mostly based on her own immature actions, probably will never have a relationship at all.

i'm sorry to hear about your dealings with these scorp women, it seems unjust. maybe you've come across the wrong types of scorps, the more badly-aspected ones- afterall people are people and no positive aspects of a sign can make up for someone who is immature.
it does seem from your descriptions that pisces and scorpio are very alike, especially if you're talking about mature people, i think immaturity is the groundwork for most problems between people- some maturity and respect would probably allow any signs to get along.
when you made that statement about scorpios liking cancers haha i could not agree more, scorpios always go for cancers. its ridiculous how often this occurs.
the only reason i think scorpios are often around air signs or fire signs like you mentioned (gemini's,etc) i believe its because either:
1) these people bring out the playful side of scorpio so their not always soo serious or
2) the air and fire signs pursue us.

its wierd b/c i have always tried to look for people who i might have a real connection with, someone more like myself, and it seems that the people i'm always surrounded by end up being the air and fire signs- and i know in my case its because these are the more outgoing people and they have always been very comfortable pursuing me and becoming my friend, i'm more just passive about it. i realized a little while ago that maybe because water signs are more internal, more sensitive and careful its harder for them to pursue someone they think they might have something with, and instead they end up being the one pursued by others, because the ones they think they might be similar to are also ones who are probably not easily the kind to pursue you.

perhaps your scorp who opens up to you and then gets mean is again doing so out of defense- she may think that she gave you a lot personal information, she let herself be vulnerable and now she's got to back off to get back the balance in the relationship. who knows, maybe your relationship with these scorps will improve somewhere down the road- after all time allows for wisdom and growth, maybe with some time they'll come to learn from their behavior. one can only hope! i think the best you can do is show them that you are mature and beyond their games, that will probably make them feel embarressed for their behavior. good luck! 🙂

ok patterns i've seen live and in person:

gemini's: haven't known enough gemini women but the men i've come across all Love to talk, especially on the phone.
aquarius: haven't known hardly any aquarius men, but all the aquarius women i've come across have been messy as far as how they keep their living spaces!
capricorns: men- good conversation, witty and good sense of humor
women- distant, not very engaging
taurus: women a bit vain the ones that i've come across, really concerned with their appearance, but have good taste.
virgo: women- smart with their verbal and written expression, creative use of words.
scorpio- both men and women hard to get to know
pisces- both men and women i've come across seem to be "bleeding hearts" so to speak, nice and friendly and the women easily emotional over something; kind of absentminded/spacey
cancer- the women i've come across have come off as closed.
the men- hard to pin down as to what they are thinking/feeling

just silly patterns i've witnessed, by no means do i imply that all are like this. also, i think the sign you are affects how you view other signs.

I just don't like people who interfere with peoples' right to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.

I would have to say Scorpio; it's to hard to reason to them; the GUYS anyway.....Feelings first, after the blades been swung....I see the larger picture more so than just my feelings, but I'm called affective for it...lol


waterscorpgirl:and scorpios hate being hurt, they hate giving someone this power over them, they are all about defending and protecting themselves. that's why they only love a few and are selective- they don't want to open themselves up to too much pain, so they must choose carefully the people who they think won't hurt them.
so, again, don't take offense if a scorpio doesnt get involved with you or acts as if they don't care for you- it may just mean they like you and really wish that they could like you even more but something has made them feel that their emotions would not be safe with you, and i think its that whole "lovimg easily" statement you made that i addressed above.

so uh, what's the difference between Virgos and Scorpios?.....it's just too complex and exhausting to explain over, and over again you love them.....it's a constant hazing....too much for me....I admitt it; if it's power you want, than so be it, just without this Virgo in the equation. Is your love for power greater than you love for another? I think that's what it ultimately comes down to.

You Scorps however are just very complicated beings; I think it's just the way you want it? is it? Gems can bug the F**K outta me becuase they can give, give, give advice, but when it comes to turning it inward for progression, they suck at taking...