Anyone have Sun or Mercury in the 12th house?

What effect do you feel it has one you?

This question gets asked at least once a week ??

LOL I never noticed! Are they lots of trouble?

I have a few planets in 12th. Including my sun.... it's a long road. Is your sun in the 12th

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
I have a few planets in 12th. Including my sun.... it's a long road. Is your sun in the 12th

No my moon is, but someone I care about deeply has Sun and Mercury there.

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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
I have a few planets in 12th. Including my sun.... it's a long road. Is your sun in the 12th

No my moon is, but someone I care about deeply has Sun and Mercury there.

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What's the sun sign?

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by ladylibra21

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
I have a few planets in 12th. Including my sun.... it's a long road. Is your sun in the 12th

No my moon is, but someone I care about deeply has Sun and Mercury there.

What's the sun sign?

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Capricorn

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Posted by ladylibra21

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
I have a few planets in 12th. Including my sun.... it's a long road. Is your sun in the 12th

No my moon is, but someone I care about deeply has Sun and Mercury there.

What's the sun sign?

Capricorn

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12th House in Capricorn

Subconsciously, you feel like you’re constantly restricted in your life, no matter what you do. You can seem overwhelmed by responsibility on the outside, but when alone, comfortable, or out of the spotlight, you’re practical, responsible, and focused.

Natal Sun in the 12th house

With your natal Sun in the 12th house, the 12th house is a house that tends to swallow up the energy of whatever planet is in it, and since the Sun rules you, you tend to hide yourself, come across as very shy and quiet, and seem reserved. You’re uncomfortable in social situations, with strangers, and make seem awkward or antisocial. This can be completely different from how you act in private though, especially if you’re a fire or air sign, and with people you’re close to, you can bounce off of the walls. You have to work hard to figure out your own identity so you don’t absorb the identity other people put on you. You need time alone away from people periodically so you can recharge, but you have to make sure you don’t completely cut yourself off from people. Try to connect with others through your compassion, and try to do good for others.

http://www.thedarkpixieastrology.com/the-12th-house.html

Natal Mercury in the 12th House

With your natal Mercury in the 12th house, you tend to keep your thoughts and opinions to yourself. The 12th house tends to hide whatever energy the planet within it rules, and with Mercury, it’s all about your mind. You’re less willing to volunteer your ideas, and you may come across as shy and quiet, especially in your younger years. It takes time for you to learn how to communicate in a clear, direct way. Learning is best done through emotions and imagination rather than through cold, hard facts. You likely learn best on your own, away from other people. You may find that people drain your mental energy, and you need time away to recharge.

I have both in the 12th

My moon too

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Posted by ladylibra21

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
I have a few planets in 12th. Including my sun.... it's a long road. Is your sun in the 12th

No my moon is, but someone I care about deeply has Sun and Mercury there.

What's the sun sign?

Capricorn

12th House in Capricorn

Subconsciously, you feel like you’re constantly restricted in your life, no matter what you do. You can seem overwhelmed by responsibility on the outside, but when alone, comfortable, or out of the spotlight, you’re practical, responsible, and focused.

Natal Sun in the 12th house

With your natal Sun in the 12th house, the 12th house is a house that tends to swallow up the energy of whatever planet is in it, and since the Sun rules you, you tend to hide yourself, come across as very shy and quiet, and seem reserved. You’re uncomfortable in social situations, with strangers, and make seem awkward or antisocial. This can be completely different from how you act in private though, especially if you’re a fire or air sign, and with people you’re close to, you can bounce off of the walls. You have to work hard to figure out your own identity so you don’t absorb the identity other people put on you. You need time alone away from people periodically so you can recharge, but you have to make sure you don’t completely cut yourself off from people. Try to connect with others through your compassion, and try to do good for others.

http://www.thedarkpixieastrology.com/the-12th-house.html

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Both examples are him all the way he wants told me he wasn't sure if he could ever be fixed another time he told me maintain relationships with people is hard work not that he doesn't want to do the work but it's a lot of work. I agree there are times I need to disappear but I still need to connect with people this guy shits himself away so much and doesn't know how to always express himself Lexi pretend like he doesn't give a crap about what people think which he mostly does it but he also won't let people know what he thinks. His favorite phrases "it's fine it's fine it doesn't matter" which I retort it does matter to you stop pretending like things don't matter to you because they do if you continue to say that things don't matter to you people will believe you and you won't ever get your way.

@ladylibra21

I assume by your username you are Libra?

In my experience based on sun signs alone... Libra and Capricorn are difficult relationships to work on.

The only advise I can give you is, that you will need to be very understanding and patient but at the same time don't let him walk all over you. Cap tends to be very controlling and selfish in some ways. But as long as you set boundaries, understanding and keep the communication up it can work.

Caps for all their faults are still great loyal people to have around. So when he gets in his poor me mode and the world does not love me phase, give him time and a bit of space first off..... and then get him to snap out of it, by showing him how silly he is being.

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@ladylibra21

I assume by your username you are Libra?

In my experience based on sun signs alone... Libra and Capricorn are difficult relationships to work on.

The only advise I can give you is, that you will need to be very understanding and patient but at the same time don't let him walk all over you. Cap tends to be very controlling and selfish in some ways. But as long as you set boundaries, understanding and keep the communication up it can work.

Caps for all their faults are still great loyal people to have around. So when he gets in his poor me mode and the world does not love me phase, give him time and a bit of space first off..... and then get him to snap out of it, by showing him how silly he is being.

Thanks I am pretty much a fight I'm done pursuing him romantically but I know he is someone I need in my life because of the perspective and kindness he provides but from a strictly friends point of view he misses out on so much because he holds his tounge but then complains about it I don't mind hearing him complain but at the same time I'm like why let things stab you over and over again

Posted by ladylibra21

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
@ladylibra21

I assume by your username you are Libra?

In my experience based on sun signs alone... Libra and Capricorn are difficult relationships to work on.

The only advise I can give you is, that you will need to be very understanding and patient but at the same time don't let him walk all over you. Cap tends to be very controlling and selfish in some ways. But as long as you set boundaries, understanding and keep the communication up it can work.

Caps for all their faults are still great loyal people to have around. So when he gets in his poor me mode and the world does not love me phase, give him time and a bit of space first off..... and then get him to snap out of it, by showing him how silly he is being.

Thanks I am pretty much a fight I'm done pursuing him romantically but I know he is someone I need in my life because of the perspective and kindness he provides but from a strictly friends point of view he misses out on so much because he holds his tounge but then complains about it I don't mind hearing him complain but at the same time I'm like why let things stab you over and over again

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I don't know a single cap who does not get off on complaining. The ones I know complain all the bloody time. Its endless, and very tiring.

I think it's their thing... Like I said earlier poor me syndrome LOL