@bricklemark
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Your chiron in which house and tell me if you have this pain
Mine =10 th house, yes my parents pushed me way too much, even when l was doing well, giving my all, or suffering like crazy at school....gave me a "dont give a fk" attitude, a "why bother". I also feel like an outsider no matter where l go. Hated for what l am, but lm white, l should be accepted.
Chiron in 11th house, conjunct sun and Venus.
I identify strongly with the pain described. I've shelved goals, both career wise and personal, for family, friends and lovers.
Chiron in the 9th.. I have a relationship with God .. It would have been nice to further my education more but I don't dwell on it
Posted by Oneirataxia
"Chiron in the 8th HouseThis native seems to try to be better than his animal nature. One has an animal nature, whether or not one agrees. If one tries to rise above it, to a neurotic degree, one will have a self made prison. In truth, the native is the same as any human being. It is just not okay to be down and dirty. This applies to emotions as well as bodily passions. I think this Chiron is one of the hardest."
I have a very strong sexual energy, which I have tried to suppress most of my life. There's multiple reasons for that though.
I had an ex with this...dunno what to really make of it.
Chiron in Cancer in the 2nd house
I've always suffered for money, love or a good life and its the main thing that I've been looking for in my whole life.
The funny thing is that to heal my Chiron I need to let it go, to forget about these matter and in the few times that I did, my 2nd house improved.
4th
Yes it fits and she is not part of my life really since I was 28.
Younger childhood, she didn't protect us from my abusive father, but she also couldn't protect herself.
Chiron in 12th
"This Chiron seems to deny his own pain. It seems to come out sideways, in some manner to which he is not aware, such as an addiction, for one example."
No addictions thankfully, and no denial of pain, though maybe when I was younger I distanced from it more so it was closer to denial. I'd say that of all of the descriptions, the 6th house Chiron fits best but is still not quite right.
Posted by Fox
if that means what i think it means.
It means it's not ok to rise above your lower instincts, but it's not ok to indulge either...the fvk they on about...
Posted by Nevermore
Chiron in 10th house.Conjunct Mars, South Node & Midheaven.
Thanks very useful info
Nvm not 4th house.
It's third house. Yeah I have trouble communicating.
Posted by Nevermore
Chiron in 10th house.Conjunct Mars, South Node & Midheaven.
Pretty much the same thing for me, except for the south node part. What does this really mean?
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Torment. Being pulled down..
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Never heard of this, where u gettin this from?
Posted by everlynn
All I know is my Chiron is in Aries. Now I don't know what house it's in or none of that stuff. I read that Chiron in Aries suffers frequent headaches and yes I can relate to that.
Mine's in Aries too. Used to get severe migraines as a child. I still get them once a blue moon but at least I know what to do now.
chiron in the 12th. yes, i have struggled with addiction in the past. im happy to say im living a different, happy life now. free of them.
Chiron in the 12th
This Chiron seems to deny his own pain. It seems to come out sideways, in some manner to which he is not aware, such as an addiction, for one example.
Yes i have denied my pain in the past, i am the opposite to a hypochondriac, as in if i feel ill i will try to not talk about it, although i will do all in my power to heal it.
I believe that Chiron has a huge influence on the birth chart
Posted by bricklemark
Mine =10 th house, yes my parents pushed me way too much, even when l was doing well, giving my all, or suffering like crazy at school....gave me a "dont give a fk" attitude, a "why bother". I also feel like an outsider no matter where l go. Hated for what l am, but lm white, l should be accepted.
That sounds tough 😢
Why do you think you are hated?
Chiron in the 5th, I'm very creative, don't feel that pain, maybe the letting go childlike, I was told, I was born and adult, so maybe in that way?
Posted by TaurusinTexas
Chiron in the 5th, I'm very creative, don't feel that pain, maybe the letting go childlike, I was told, I was born and adult, so maybe in that way?
Funny, sometimes it's the exact opposite...do you have any squares or ops to chiron?
Posted by TaurusinTexas
Chiron in the 5th, I'm very creative, don't feel that pain, maybe the letting go childlike, I was told, I was born and adult, so maybe in that way?Funny, sometimes it's the exact opposite...do you have any squares or ops to chiron?
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It does square my saturn and mars. And ops uranus.
Posted by TaurusinTexas
Chiron in the 5th, I'm very creative, don't feel that pain, maybe the letting go childlike, I was told, I was born and adult, so maybe in that way?Funny, sometimes it's the exact opposite...do you have any squares or ops to chiron?
It does square my saturn and mars. And ops uranus.
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Could literally not have been more tense....lol maybe the negativity actually reverses the effect...even if the effect is negative?
Posted by TaurusinTexas
Chiron in the 5th, I'm very creative, don't feel that pain, maybe the letting go childlike, I was told, I was born and adult, so maybe in that way?Funny, sometimes it's the exact opposite...do you have any squares or ops to chiron?
It does square my saturn and mars. And ops uranus.
Could literally not have been more tense....lol maybe the negativity actually reverses the effect...even if the effect is negative?
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Hahaha, I would expect nothing less from my chart.... after spending time on dxp, I've learned that I was born into my crazy, not sure what everyone else's excuse is. ?
I'm guessing something cancels some of this out because like I said, I'm very creative and I use drawing and painting to soothe my soul. I often say art puts the pieces of our soul back together.
Posted by PeanutButterandElly
Chiron in Cancer in the 7th. Conjunct moon.'Chiron in the 7th House
This native may have pain with marriage and/or serious relationships.'
^and that feels like a rip off. I may have pain with serious relationships? Okwhodoesnt.
Because the sign actually matters. Try reading Chiron in Cancer and Libra (7th house) - http://www.alwaysastrology.com/chiron-signs.html Cancer will be the actual wound...and Libra will be the area where you feel it deeply. So something like you pour so much love and care into a relationship but often feel like it's not reciprocated which leaves you feeling unwanted and unloved. You should have some idea of what it is when you read the 2 entries there...like a light comes on.
The thing about Chiron's wound is that it never healed. It was always there. He just learned to deal with it. That's the kind of wound Chiron talks about...you will never really "fix"it, you'll just learn to accept it and deal with it in appropriate ways (hopefully).
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Posted by CopperDove
Chiron in 12th"This Chiron seems to deny his own pain. It seems to come out sideways, in some manner to which he is not aware, such as an addiction, for one example."
No addictions thankfully, and no denial of pain, though maybe when I was younger I distanced from it more so it was closer to denial. I'd say that of all of the descriptions, the 6th house Chiron fits best but is still not quite right.
You're in denial about your denial.
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Damn, you're right.
I'm CopperDove and I'm a denialoholic.
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Posted by CopperDove
Chiron in 12th"This Chiron seems to deny his own pain. It seems to come out sideways, in some manner to which he is not aware, such as an addiction, for one example."
No addictions thankfully, and no denial of pain, though maybe when I was younger I distanced from it more so it was closer to denial. I'd say that of all of the descriptions, the 6th house Chiron fits best but is still not quite right.
You're in denial about your denial.
Damn, you're right.
I'm CopperDove and I'm a denialoholic.
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Hi Copperdove ?
Only you can know, or others that know you, also it seems that aspects to a planet can reverse the effect...
Chiron in the 10th - no aspects. I've always had trouble with bosses and working for others, male authority figures. It finally got better when I decided to work for myself. It may not pay as well, yet, but I'm in control, less stressed and more fulfilled. I'm meeting great people with the same interests and some with whom I can collaberate. I'm not in as much pain as I used to be before making the break from something that wasn't working at all.
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Posted by CopperDove
Chiron in 12th"This Chiron seems to deny his own pain. It seems to come out sideways, in some manner to which he is not aware, such as an addiction, for one example."
No addictions thankfully, and no denial of pain, though maybe when I was younger I distanced from it more so it was closer to denial. I'd say that of all of the descriptions, the 6th house Chiron fits best but is still not quite right.
You're in denial about your denial.
Damn, you're right.
I'm CopperDove and I'm a denialoholic.
Hi Copperdove ?
Only you can know, or others that know you, also it seems that aspects to a planet can reverse the effect...
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haha 🙂
I do have positive aspects with it - trine Mercury and Neptune, and sextile moon - so maybe that helps.
Posted by Season
Chiron in the 10th - no aspects. I've always had trouble with bosses and working for others, male authority figures. It finally got better when I decided to work for myself. It may not pay as well, yet, but I'm in control, less stressed and more fulfilled. I'm meeting great people with the same interests and some with whom I can collaberate. I'm not in as much pain as I used to be before making the break from something that wasn't working at all.
Awesome !! I hope l get so lucky....?
Posted by bricklemark
Mine =10 th house, yes my parents pushed me way too much, even when l was doing well, giving my all, or suffering like crazy at school....gave me a "dont give a fk" attitude, a "why bother". I also feel like an outsider no matter where l go. Hated for what l am, but lm white, l should be accepted.That sounds tough 😢
Why do you think you are hated?
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Yes chiron is huge!...
I guess l have englishman ears in a french land...they're very racist...
Posted by Season
Chiron in the 10th - no aspects. I've always had trouble with bosses and working for others, male authority figures. It finally got better when I decided to work for myself. It may not pay as well, yet, but I'm in control, less stressed and more fulfilled. I'm meeting great people with the same interests and some with whom I can collaberate. I'm not in as much pain as I used to be before making the break from something that wasn't working at all.Awesome !! I hope l get so lucky....?
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I hope so too. I'm not so sure that it's entirely luck as much as choosing not to remain a slave to a painful situation. Where's your NN? Mine is in Sag, so it seemed like a good time to expand in this way and take a chance on something better.
Good luck to you.
Posted by Season
Chiron in the 10th - no aspects. I've always had trouble with bosses and working for others, male authority figures. It finally got better when I decided to work for myself. It may not pay as well, yet, but I'm in control, less stressed and more fulfilled. I'm meeting great people with the same interests and some with whom I can collaberate. I'm not in as much pain as I used to be before making the break from something that wasn't working at all.Awesome !! I hope l get so lucky....?
I hope so too. I'm not so sure that it's entirely luck as much as choosing not to remain a slave to a painful situation. Where's your NN? Mine is in Sag, so it seemed like a good time to expand in this way and take a chance on something better.
Good luck to you.
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Nn in libra....no l don't have any hope...
Posted by DwellingOnMove
in the 3rd:"felt pain associated with communication"
very often.
I feel bad for things I say.
As Sag Sun I talk boldy then I ask myself if the audience is now condemning me cause MC square to Mercury.
Also I talk confusingly with Mercury detriment. Often the others say they don't get what I wanna say. There I hate myself why I cannot learn to talk simple. Or in patterns known to them.
With family talks bring memories and melancholy to me.
"tuttered"
no
"learning disability"
no
"extreme shyness"
no
but I'm cautious with unknown people. almost distrustful.
"siblings"
it got painful communication only in the recent years. During childhood all was nice with them.
"early school experiences"
In primary school I detected I was jealous cause my bff had found new girls and I had missed the point.
"something happening in the neighborhood"
When I was five years old I found out the girls in the neighbourhood had met in a house and didn't tell me. Also they didn't open the door for me. Not sure if it was an accident, they were not at home and I was parnoid or it was true.
Gee, thanks for sharing! Maybe now you can encourage others to communicate, you can be a positive influence to your neighborhood...
Do you have any Cancer placements?
Posted by DwellingOnMove
in the 3rd:...
Gee, thanks for sharing! Maybe now you can encourage others to communicate, you can be a positive influence to your neighborhood...
Do you have any Cancer placements?
funny question. NN Cancer in the empty 8th house.
the only Cancer placement I have is the thing Astrology says I need to add to my character. yeah, the Cap SN is hard to leave.
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And wheres your moon?
"siblings"
it got painful communication only in the recent years. During childhood all was nice with them.
I think the reason for this difference is that I have Jupiter in the 4th. So my childhood home was very nice to me and may they enjoyed my good luck. provided that we belive in "Jupiter brings luck".
But now we all live in different places. They have problems and I cannot help them and our communication patterns repeat and we feel each other's pain.
wait, I'm complaining.gonna stoppit.
Mine is in the 10th house - I feel like an outsider no matter where I go too... Even among my own people. It's come to a point where I've become numb to societal trends and pressures. They don't influence me at all. I've found it rare to come across others like me. It can suck. It is what it is. I could also never work for a corporation. I'm all for small businesses and self-employment. I look for ways to work the system rather than I working for it.
Posted by DwellingOnMove
in the 3rd:...
Gee, thanks for sharing! Maybe now you can encourage others to communicate, you can be a positive influence to your neighborhood...
Do you have any Cancer placements?
funny question. NN Cancer in the empty 8th house.
the only Cancer placement I have is the thing Astrology says I need to add to my character. yeah, the Cap SN is hard to leave.
And wheres your moon?
Ah, there I have a little advantage. It is Pisces.
only it is too much of the good probably.
up to a certain level I want to care for others. when it is overwhelming the 1st house Sun's egoism and Cap SN orders to escape.
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But...do you have Moon in 4th house? Or close? Cause that's significant.
My chiron is in the 4th house. Description further from the truth.
I don't even know what "pain upon having my mother" even means.
Posted by SassyKiwi
Mine is in the 10th house - I feel like an outsider no matter where I go too... Even among my own people. It's come to a point where I've become numb to societal trends and pressures. They don't influence me at all. I've found it rare to come across others like me. It can suck. It is what it is. I could also never work for a corporation. I'm all for small businesses and self-employment. I look for ways to work the system rather than I working for it.
Dayum same here...l hate everything about society. I just want a big house, lots to do, crystal clean water...that's about it... maybe we should meet, there'd at least be two of us ?
Posted by DwellingOnMove
in the 3rd:...
Gee, thanks for sharing! Maybe now you can encourage others to communicate, you can be a positive influence to your neighborhood...
Do you have any Cancer placements?
funny question. NN Cancer in the empty 8th house.
the only Cancer placement I have is the thing Astrology says I need to add to my character. yeah, the Cap SN is hard to leave.
And wheres your moon?
Ah, there I have a little advantage. It is Pisces.
only it is too much of the good probably.
up to a certain level I want to care for others. when it is overwhelming the 1st house Sun's egoism and Cap SN orders to escape.
But...do you have Moon in 4th house? Or close? Cause that's significant.
yes, it is in the 4th.
4th house is extended from Pisces to Aries. So I have PiMoon and JupAr there. Also part of Spirit, of Courage and of Love, all in the 4th house. Happy home.
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Moon in 4th is like moon in cancer, and it's an angular house so it counts for more 🙂
And jup 4 is great !! Large happy home...
oh, I'm slow. you asked for the 4th house cause it's like Cancer. i got it.
oops, we were synchron, brickl.
Posted by DwellingOnMove
oh, I'm slow. you asked for the 4th house cause it's like Cancer. i got it.
Yeah and jupiter adds to that...if its in 4 ?
Also apects...you just seem to have Cancer energy, l could be wrong tho.
Posted by DwellingOnMove
oh, I'm slow. you asked for the 4th house cause it's like Cancer. i got it.Yeah and jupiter adds to that...if its in 4 ?
Also apects...you just seem to have Cancer energy, l could be wrong tho.
wow, you gave me life.
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Really? Haha cool
Posted by AneemA
Chiron in Gemini and its in the 7th houseWell, yeah I totally agree. So far my love life sucks and I'm thinking to just dedicate my life to travel and my hobbies. I don't want to bother looking for "the one" for me. It's bullshit.
However I should seek out dates tho. One must fulfill her sexual needs. Guys who are with me nowadays would feel great coz I won't ask them no commitment. I'm sick of it and so I expect none at all when it comes to relationships.
Wish me luck!
Good luck ?
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No use in just saying which house, SAY SOMETHING about it ?
Do you feel pain related to you appearance 1st house, or relationships 7th house, or romance/hobbies/fun 5th house....
Thank you.