@zerofromouterspace
9 Years
What kind of issues? Just not meshing well with them?
Posted by Koniuchaa
http://healinguniverse.com/love-in-hiding-venus-in-the-12th-house/
This is eerily familiar in a lot of ways. Yeah maybe I do have some issue with them. I just got over a long pointless relationship with one.
But I wouldn't have said it had anything to do with the gender. Just the person.
I think I may have issues with both after that relationship. That link you sent says you attract unstable partners, which is definitely true. I couldn't maintain any boundaries with her or keep any kind of identity of my own, period. I mean this is so incredibly accurate-- down to the detail of your partner wanting to keep the relationship a secret. It's remarkable.
I have issues with people like that for sure. Men or women.
Do you attract unstable men then?
I believe she was a full blown psychopath and suffering heavy on narcissistic traits that did not allow her to be very fruitful in her psychopathic thinking (could not keep jobs or keep up appearances, etc.)
I never thought of her as having an addictive personality while in the relationship, but upon it ending and reflecting... yeah I think she was fixated on a lot of things. All of which were her own feelings, with no ability to look outside her self to know if she cared to in the first place.
You also have Uranus conjunct your ascendant--
Do people tend to find you a bit quirky or even
eccentric?
Probably. If that means having interests outside of my social... thing. I can't think of the word. But yes, probably they do.
I don't, but I'm not people and I know how I roll.
Wow NN as a handle in a bucket chart....which means all your energy is preventing you from reaching your destiny...
Posted by Koniuchaa
I have a friend with Venus in the 12th and he has said the same
What can you do about it? Just be more careful about who you attract? Or just stop all together.
Posted by bricklemark
Wow NN as a handle in a bucket chart....which means all your energy is preventing you from reaching your destiny...
That somehow seems accurate, but I also have no idea what it really means. I'm too passionate about achieving the meaningful in a way that is not linear toward actually accomplishing anything?
Posted by Koniuchaa
I have a friend with Venus in the 12th and he has said the sameWhat can you do about it? Just be more careful about who you attract? Or just stop all together.
Just be aware of it. It is a nice placement still. Make sure you really get to know someone
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I will definitely and definitely am more than weary after I deluded myself into thinking that it's okay to be in a relationship with a psychotic person as long as you love them (god kill me).
I'm trying to look up about bucket charts, but I can't figure it out. Especially not with a North placement on the handle. I didn't even know what that North node thing was.
I did notice that my chart had an unusual shape before, though.
I dont really know....l dont understand NN it hasnt really worked for the people l tested it on.
What do you mean? That it tends not to be accurate to matter?
Posted by Koniuchaa
Do you have issues with women? You have Venus in the 12th house.
Lol, you can't just ask people if they have issues with the opposite sex...
Posted by Koniuchaa
Do you have issues with women? You have Venus in the 12th house.Lol, you can't just ask people if they have issues with the opposite sex...
Because Venus represents women, that's why ?
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yup.
moon and venus. and Neptune (I think men need another feminine planet) cause some astrologers give women three, sun/mars and Jupiter is your husband.
for women, it's sun and mars and Jupiter.
Posted by Koniuchaa
Do you have issues with women? You have Venus in the 12th house.Lol, you can't just ask people if they have issues with the opposite sex...
Because Venus represents women, that's why ?
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Ohh.
Ha, I knew that.
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What does it all mean? What advice would you give me? Any additional comments? Concerns?
Serious though, I appreciate any and all interpretations and advice and things.
I hope this posts okay.