@Moonbutter
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What placement shows how you go after a love interest?
I vote for mars...especially if conjuncts with other planets like sun.
Venus might slow down, but mars is always the intention 🙂
Cultural infuence plays a big role aswell.
And yes i think it differs for girls. Guys act like their mars, and girls like their moon and venus.
But sometimes for girls it gets fully reversed. I have a venus in aries, and i never ever chased a guy and never will. My venus represents how i want to be persued and not how i persue.
Posted by Espresso
And yes i think it differs for girls. Guys act like their mars, and girls like their moon and venus.But sometimes for girls it gets fully reversed. I have a venus in aries, and i never ever chased a guy and never will. My venus represents how i want to be persued and not how i persue.
Yes, I agree! I have Leo Venus and I like to "attract" love by just preening or body language in a way lol and then I throw in some firey sass thanks to my Sag Moon lol
Posted by Dastard
Mars. Venus too but to a lesser extent.
Yup,I think so too... ?
Posted by Espresso
I vote for mars...especially if conjuncts with other planets like sun.Venus might slow down, but mars is always the intention 🙂
Cultural infuence plays a big role aswell.
Agreed, Mars is the action planet ?
Breast
Posted by andstill
mars for methen venus is what you do with it
What is your Mars?
Posted by Espresso
And yes i think it differs for girls. Guys act like their mars, and girls like their moon and venus.But sometimes for girls it gets fully reversed. I have a venus in aries, and i never ever chased a guy and never will. My venus represents how i want to be persued and not how i persue.
I know a libra guy who acts pretty scorpio like his moon and venus..
but his mars is in libra.
Posted by andstill
mars for methen venus is what you do with it
What is your Mars?
scorp
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Very nice ?
Mars. But since my Mars is in Gem. I'm still still trying to figure to out how that works. LoL.
I know for me it's mars.
mars in Libra = I just let myself be chased
if it was my venus in Scorp, I'd have won my love by doing moonlight witchcraft with his hair clippings I dug out his trash one night .. but I ain't about that life.
Posted by Season
Mars. But since my Mars is in Gem. I'm still still trying to figure to out how that works. LoL.
Oh me too! I think it means we use a "now u see me. Now u don't" method... Playful banter lots of texting!! 😄
Posted by Season
Mars. But since my Mars is in Gem. I'm still still trying to figure to out how that works. LoL.Oh me too! I think it means we use a "now u see me. Now u don't" method... Playful banter lots of texting!! 😄
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I was wondering how Melania Trump and Donald trump got together. Did they do some playful banter?
she has Mars in Gemini.
Her Taurus/Capricorn gives off that aloof, coolness, but i'm sure in private....LOL! with Donald. haha 😆
there's probably a lot of CHAT loving. tickle tickle, talky walky. 😆
Posted by fugu2
I know for me it's mars.mars in Libra = I just let myself be chased
if it was my venus in Scorp, I'd have won my love by doing moonlight witchcraft with his hair clippings I dug out his trash one night .. but I ain't about that life.
I just died omg
Melania Trump is gonna be awesome with that Mars Gemini trolling the U.S. 😆
the conservatives are going...OMYGAWD....
Posted by fugu2
I know for me it's mars.mars in Libra = I just let myself be chased
if it was my venus in Scorp, I'd have won my love by doing moonlight witchcraft with his hair clippings I dug out his trash one night .. but I ain't about that life.
venus for a woman is how you FLIRT.
mars libra, or air mars, goes about not in action like the way earth mars is...
more like,
loves to hear your partner talk/listen, does not want to be alone, wants to be with partner a lot.
acting out graciously, politely, kind, accommodating and pleasing to the partner,
super romantic, sending cards, small gifts and flowers. ect. very very pleasing/loving.
Probably mars.. but I play up my venus when I like someone and want them to pursue me
I don't get this at all.
Do I consider my own venus and mars signs or do I look for the woman's venus and mars signs?
Libra Mars
Leo Venus
"MagnetoReborn, you are the showiest of the Mars in Libra Lovers and the one most enamored with the concept of perfect love. You exult in courtship and take to the delicate arts of romance as naturally as a great actor takes to the stage. The warmth and optimism of your erotic nature will attract many admirers as will your sparkling charm. Of course, as a Mars in Libra Lover, you are only looking for the one partner who will fulfill all your idealistic dreams. In the meantime, you manage to keep everyone else, including yourself, well entertained.
Finding your perfect partner is your ultimate goal, but it can also be your downfall. You are so skilled in the stagecraft needed to attract a mate that your partners are often disappointed when they learn that behind all your charm and playful energy there is a very limited capacity for intimacy. As a Lover you are capable of great loyalty and noble acts of kindness but your passions do not run deep and your tolerance for maudlin emotionalism or sexual obsessions is low. You need a partner who sees love the way you do; as a means of extending the thrill of courtship until it fills a lifetime."
Come here.
Posted by fugu2
I know for me it's mars.mars in Libra = I just let myself be chased
if it was my venus in Scorp, I'd have won my love by doing moonlight witchcraft with his hair clippings I dug out his trash one night .. but I ain't about that life.
venus for a woman is how you FLIRT.
mars libra, or air mars, goes about not in action like the way earth mars is...
more like,
loves to hear your partner talk/listen, does not want to be alone, wants to be with partner a lot.
acting out graciously, politely, kind, accommodating and pleasing to the partner,
super romantic, sending cards, small gifts and flowers. ect. very very pleasing/loving.
Yeah I pay a lot of attention to my partner which is a good thing with her being a Leo moon and all lol. And I'm definitely a pleaser. Yup I'm definitely a block of gooey cheese lol.
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lol not all leo moons are the same.
anyway your woman has libra mars too.
so you both "get" each other in ways of wanting to please.
Posted by TheSag
I don't get this at all.Do I consider my own venus and mars signs or do I look for the woman's venus and mars signs?
Yours. When you start bringing someone else's into the mix, that's synastry.
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But what does it tell me? Does it tell me what kind of women I am attracted to or what kind of women gets attracted to me? If it's the first then it's useless because I get attracted to women for different reasons.
Posted by fugu2
I know for me it's mars.mars in Libra = I just let myself be chased
if it was my venus in Scorp, I'd have won my love by doing moonlight witchcraft with his hair clippings I dug out his trash one night .. but I ain't about that life.
venus for a woman is how you FLIRT.
mars libra, or air mars, goes about not in action like the way earth mars is...
more like,
loves to hear your partner talk/listen, does not want to be alone, wants to be with partner a lot.
acting out graciously, politely, kind, accommodating and pleasing to the partner,
super romantic, sending cards, small gifts and flowers. ect. very very pleasing/loving.
I don't mind pleasing, but I need reciprocity. Things must be balanced.😉
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I was reading on another astro site about people who have double libra or too much libra or stelliums and they are doing ALL the work!! making sure the partner is just following along....if she wanted to be commited, the guy was all like OK fine. If she wanted the relationship to be this way or that way, he would be following along like a puppy... lmao!! the reading made me LOL cause it does sound like shes masturbating by herself. 😆 doing all the work.
hm but maybe those types like that!! doing all the LEADING.
something to ponder on.
while the guy is like, OK OK sure, follows happily like a puppy.
Posted by themagnetoreborn
Libra MarsLeo Venus
"MagnetoReborn, you are the showiest of the Mars in Libra Lovers and the one most enamored with the concept of perfect love. You exult in courtship and take to the delicate arts of romance as naturally as a great actor takes to the stage. The warmth and optimism of your erotic nature will attract many admirers as will your sparkling charm. Of course, as a Mars in Libra Lover, you are only looking for the one partner who will fulfill all your idealistic dreams. In the meantime, you manage to keep everyone else, including yourself, well entertained.
Finding your perfect partner is your ultimate goal, but it can also be your downfall. You are so skilled in the stagecraft needed to attract a mate that your partners are often disappointed when they learn that behind all your charm and playful energy there is a very limited capacity for intimacy. As a Lover you are capable of great loyalty and noble acts of kindness but your passions do not run deep and your tolerance for maudlin emotionalism or sexual obsessions is low. You need a partner who sees love the way you do; as a means of extending the thrill of courtship until it fills a lifetime."
Where did you find that reading?
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https://www.goodgollyastrology.com/your-mars-and-venus-playbook.html
Posted by themagnetoreborn
Libra MarsLeo Venus
"MagnetoReborn, you are the showiest of the Mars in Libra Lovers and the one most enamored with the concept of perfect love. You exult in courtship and take to the delicate arts of romance as naturally as a great actor takes to the stage. The warmth and optimism of your erotic nature will attract many admirers as will your sparkling charm. Of course, as a Mars in Libra Lover, you are only looking for the one partner who will fulfill all your idealistic dreams. In the meantime, you manage to keep everyone else, including yourself, well entertained.
Finding your perfect partner is your ultimate goal, but it can also be your downfall. You are so skilled in the stagecraft needed to attract a mate that your partners are often disappointed when they learn that behind all your charm and playful energy there is a very limited capacity for intimacy. As a Lover you are capable of great loyalty and noble acts of kindness but your passions do not run deep and your tolerance for maudlin emotionalism or sexual obsessions is low. You need a partner who sees love the way you do; as a means of extending the thrill of courtship until it fills a lifetime."
yup same
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Really?
You have Leo moon and midheaven as well?
Posted by themagnetoreborn
Libra MarsLeo Venus
"MagnetoReborn, you are the showiest of the Mars in Libra Lovers and the one most enamored with the concept of perfect love. You exult in courtship and take to the delicate arts of romance as naturally as a great actor takes to the stage. The warmth and optimism of your erotic nature will attract many admirers as will your sparkling charm. Of course, as a Mars in Libra Lover, you are only looking for the one partner who will fulfill all your idealistic dreams. In the meantime, you manage to keep everyone else, including yourself, well entertained.
Finding your perfect partner is your ultimate goal, but it can also be your downfall. You are so skilled in the stagecraft needed to attract a mate that your partners are often disappointed when they learn that behind all your charm and playful energy there is a very limited capacity for intimacy. As a Lover you are capable of great loyalty and noble acts of kindness but your passions do not run deep and your tolerance for maudlin emotionalism or sexual obsessions is low. You need a partner who sees love the way you do; as a means of extending the thrill of courtship until it fills a lifetime."
yup same
Really?
You have Leo moon and midheaven as well?
No I have Taurus moon, Leo venus, Libra mars and Scorpio midheaven.
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Ohh ok. Nice nice
Well...ahem...I suppose I still hold that Virgo-Leo-Leo-Leo distinction on here
Posted by themagnetoreborn
Libra MarsLeo Venus
"MagnetoReborn, you are the showiest of the Mars in Libra Lovers and the one most enamored with the concept of perfect love. You exult in courtship and take to the delicate arts of romance as naturally as a great actor takes to the stage. The warmth and optimism of your erotic nature will attract many admirers as will your sparkling charm. Of course, as a Mars in Libra Lover, you are only looking for the one partner who will fulfill all your idealistic dreams. In the meantime, you manage to keep everyone else, including yourself, well entertained.
Finding your perfect partner is your ultimate goal, but it can also be your downfall. You are so skilled in the stagecraft needed to attract a mate that your partners are often disappointed when they learn that behind all your charm and playful energy there is a very limited capacity for intimacy. As a Lover you are capable of great loyalty and noble acts of kindness but your passions do not run deep and your tolerance for maudlin emotionalism or sexual obsessions is low. You need a partner who sees love the way you do; as a means of extending the thrill of courtship until it fills a lifetime."
yup same
Really?
You have Leo moon and midheaven as well?
No I have Taurus moon, Leo venus, Libra mars and Scorpio midheaven.
Ohh ok. Nice nice
Well...ahem...I suppose I still hold that Virgo-Leo-Leo-Leo distinction on here
Not taking anything away from you Leo mooner don't worry lol.
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Apologies in advance if this sounds a bit ominous...
But if you were by any chance,
I'd deal with you like I deal with the rest.
@yupvirgo
I'm just messing - I don't discriminate.
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