
Joanne_P
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Posted by AriesRottieI totally agree with this ...
So, I'm a 40 something Aries woman who has a similar personality to you. You're young...and the guys who are your age are also young. They have no idea how to handle a vibrant, strong Aries woman. My advice is don't change who you are and just be who you are.
Don't worry about finding a guy...the right guy who can handle all of you will show up when you least expect it. And that usually happens when you stop actively looking for him.
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I am an Aries 27 yo woman. I have a big problem with men. I am very hard working, easy going, outgoing. I am sometimes considered as a party girl.Not like easy girl but party girl.
My personality is very colorful, sometimes i try to hide it in front of the world, society to fit in.
But I understand maybe i see world in different colors.
The problem is that I am nonchalant, fast and some men even tell me i am intimidating.
I do not know what is wrong with me. I am not harsh but i see boys/men are afraid of me. I do not know- my mimic, my face or sth i have no idea.
The problem is that i am a very good student, i am a hard worker but in the same time i can be a very easy going person with a light attidute- and i do not worry a lot. But usually my friends worry a lot so i worry like them even when i must lie.
Because they think I lie. and the world is full of dark and bad things. For me its not like this.
Maybe its my face, maybe its my personality. I know i have my own world. Maybe i am an artist - no idea.
I see even colorful boys/men with cool personalities choose 'grey' and timid women. I want to have a boyfriend like me. But boys like me dont want to be intimidated(?) and they usually choose shy, timid, non personality girls.
I of course do not consider myself as a superwoman, someone who is the best. But i see the difference. I do not know what to do. I live in Poland which is very 21 c country but even now, old habits like choosing a partner or sth is very old fashioned....And i know sometimes i can be 'talked about, gossiped about' because i am 'too artistic, colorful'.
What should i do?
If you want i can give you my picture to see - maybe i am very weird.