My cap is in my circle of friends. The last few times we have all been out, he tells me how much he likes me. I always listen but don't say much back since I never know if it's true. And it's usually inbetween him singing songs with his guitar. So, the other day he's calling me all day and evening. Never calls me ever. I have been out drinking and at 12am I answer the call. He comes over to tell me he read the poem I wrote for him. I told him that blog was actually about someone else from a while ago. He tells me how much he likes me, has for a while. When he left it was a blur. Now, is this stuff he said true? I can't figure out if cappy just felt like that because he is lonely or do they really have a hard time sharing their feelings? Does intimacy scare them? What about first moves?
caps generally mean how they say they feel. just because he's lonely? nah, caps are content loners and we hardly 'feel' our loneliness. being alone will almost never be the driving force in having feelings for someone. and we hardly say everything that we feel, so there's probably even more to him than what he's already said. if you like him, give him a chance. only if you like him though, otherwise that's just not fair.
I'm a female Cap/Aquarius rising so I KNOW about not being about to express feelings 😉 ...I'm not your guy, of course, but personally, I do not express them until I am certain that they are real...like CreepyPants, I mean what I say, otherwise I wouldn't waste the time saying it. And intimacy is terrifying to me at first until I get comfortable with the idea; it takes me quite a bit of time though. And, true to form, I don't say everything that I am thinking either, so, if he's anything like me, I would say this guy likes you more than he's letting on, even.
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So, the other day he's calling me all day and evening. Never calls me ever. I have been out drinking and at 12am I answer the call. He comes over to tell me he read the poem I wrote for him. I told him that blog was actually about someone else from a while ago. He tells me how much he likes me, has for a while. When he left it was a blur.
Now, is this stuff he said true? I can't figure out if cappy just felt like that because he is lonely or do they really have a hard time sharing their feelings?
Does intimacy scare them? What about first moves?
Thanks all!
Wiggs the Leo