Dating Co-Workers...

Is it a smart idea to date a co-worker? To play where you get your pay?
If you ever had a successful, long-term, & serious relationship with your co-worker - How did you keep it drama-free?

Bad Bad Bad! I met my last ex at work. It was ok as long as we wern't fighting,then it was horrible,cause we were forced to work together 0.0 . It might work out if you guys don't work directly together,otherwise I don't suggest it!

Posted by AngelicTears
Bad Bad Bad! I met my last ex at work. It was ok as long as we wern't fighting,then it was horrible,cause we were forced to work together 0.0 . It might work out if you guys don't work directly together,otherwise I don't suggest it!

exactly why i don't mix that kinda pleasure with business. it might be easier if u guys work in separate departments.

Well it can work out. You have to switch your mindset at work and think of them as only a coworker there. Hard to do. You cannot take things that happen at work out on them at home either. Your mindset has to switch back to the relationship outside of work. It can be done but not recommended.

I've tried it in the past and it didn't work out well for me at all. It just seem to create alot of drama and chaos. I don't work there anymore either.

I think the work place is where most people meet their partners. But it depends on what you're looking for and how quickly you can come to a decision and "commit" to it.

If you're like the many other Librans that girls are constantly talking about on this forum i suggest you steer clear. You'll probably be all sweet and head over heels for the first week and then pull away and do her head in and drive her crazy trying to work out why you dove head first then ran in the opposite direction.

Sorry, didn't realise you were female. i take that back. Give it a shot...

About 8 years ago I almost did until I found out the bastard had a girlfriend!

:/