Does astrology ever scare you

So I decided to study what was going on in the sky around the time someone from my immediate family passed away. I've also mapped out all the major events in my life from the past eight years precisely by date. Now that I can see what has been happening during those times, it makes me feel sick how the negative events map so precisely with the transits and difficult aspects. Somehow it all makes sense on paper and I'm not sure how to feel about it. Maybe I am looking too much into it, but I feel a bit freaked out / shaken. I want to learn and know more but at the same time I'm thinking I'm going too far with it. I want to think that the universe has our best in mind, but it's hard to find the trust and courage.

Have you ever gotten such negative emotions from astrology, has it scared you? How have you dealt with those feelings?

Yes, reading people's charts and seeing their "stuff..." I keep quiet... unless asked specifically.

I've seen some sad things, like never to be partnered; learning disability; and other things, I don't want to speak of.

I know better than to look that far into my chart. I resisted predictions or the intent to predict. If I see it, I see it...

One thing that keeps me away from heavy involvement in transits is my strong will. I believe in my will.

Yes. I love astrology, but figuring out what's going to happen scares me too. Life is a mystery, but when you know what is going to happen, you probably want to change it or tell someone about it. I can't. Astrology definitely help me have a better understanding of myself and people around me but I don't think I can go that far.

Question: how did you figure out the major aspects around the events that was happening in your life? I've been through a lot and I also want to look at the transits in chart when certain events affected me deeply.

Knowing your destiny can help you change it. Don't be scared. Use the information to help and heal. We all have our charts for a reason. The rules of our man made society might make certain placements seem bad, but they are all blessings.

Each placement allows us more individuality. Dont be afraid. We are all eclectic universes. And when we come together we create new worlds. One universe has what the other doesnt. We can help each! 🙂

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Posted by Curiousram

Posted by VenusAquarius
Yes, reading people's charts and seeing their "stuff..." I keep quiet... unless asked specifically.

I've seen some sad things, like never to be partnered; learning disability; and other things, I don't want to speak of.

I know better than to look that far into my chart. I resisted predictions or the intent to predict. If I see it, I see it...

One thing that keeps me away from heavy involvement in transits is my strong will. I believe in my will.

LOL is that why the only thing you saw in my chart was "quiet"?

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I told you about your trines as well. You reminded me of another reason. I don't do readings that often.

I paid for a birth chart app that scares me.

My mom's said something about her maybe losing her father which she did in school.

Something about my step dad losing his father which he did as a child.

Something about my Libra friend losing his mother early in life and having a family that doesn't care which is 100% true.

I almost want to have a child and immediately read their chart so I can see if it pre determines the fate of me, the mother, and family.

Posted by Curiousram

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by Curiousram

Posted by VenusAquarius
Yes, reading people's charts and seeing their "stuff..." I keep quiet... unless asked specifically.

I've seen some sad things, like never to be partnered; learning disability; and other things, I don't want to speak of.

I know better than to look that far into my chart. I resisted predictions or the intent to predict. If I see it, I see it...

One thing that keeps me away from heavy involvement in transits is my strong will. I believe in my will.

LOL is that why the only thing you saw in my chart was "quiet"?

I told you about your trines as well. You reminded me of another reason. I don't do readings that often.

I didnt mean it as an insult i meant it as.. damn i must have something wrong with my chart is all. You told me i had two fire trines and i didn't really know what that meant.. you said i'm quiet. Thats why i was alarmed when you mention your predictions, because you didn't really say anything significant.

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I didn't have any intentions in giving a reading. Showing you a special configuration is insignificant? Okay. You mention it often now.

I commented on a comment you made in the Aries forum, Crab flows thread, that I didn't want to be intrusive, perhaps you didn't see it.

Did some synastry for you once. How did it turn out?

Most times, I look and keep analysis to myself. I'm more responsive if a person has a problem or is hurting.

For some strange reason, I read a chart and the person says absolutely nothing in response. They disappear, delete?

Ands read a Caps chart, and quite thorough. The Cap says nothing in response. Later, asks "anyone else?" I was amazed. Wow.