Fixed, Cardinal And Mutable

Im sure everyone is well aware of the traits of the three categories... I wanted to know everyone's take on how they go about starting a relationship..

Being fixed myself... I am a slow starter.. I don't like to come on strong but will definitely let it be known that I'm interested. I don't know how much venus or mars plays a role since I've seen people of the same sun sign go about it the same way.. I've had 2 previous cancer ex's/flings and a pisces who made the first moves... Now the pisces had venus aries and libra mars, 2 cardinal signs and cardinal signs are known to be the initiator's and I have a lovely cancer woman who's making a move rightnow... lol I dont know why I attract so much water. I feel emotionally drained but I have plenty of fire to keep the flames going.

So ladies and gentlemen... What has your experience been? Have you had more cardinal signs fixed or mutable make the first move?

I hardly have any earth.. But with all that fire, I make it pretty obvious I'm interested lol.

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Posted by AL4813
I hardly have any earth.. But with all that fire, I make it pretty obvious I'm interested lol.

How much fire?

Sun, asc and moon fire like mine?!

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Leo sun
Sag moon
Aries ascendant
Aries mars

Cardinal... I'm very quick to jump in to things, but I'm guilty of jumping out of them just as quickly. :/

I bet it won't last... Good luck to you..lol..
The fixed sign because I am one myself, is slow and like to get to know someone...Unfortunately my VIT, CR, and MIT makes me feel caution...

Hey I can be the initiator and it's pretty cool. Still I'm a fixed quatro fixed type. So I don't usually go for it, I think I get super nervous and often will miss opportunity..but sometimes if you smell nice, and take care of yourself. I might approach.

I like that avatar.
Is that you AL48 lifting that big woman?

I definitely think the approaching thing is not mutually exclusive to sex nor is it dependant on whether you are Cardinal or mutable. It probably has to do with the placement in your chart or even experience.

Posted by SingASong41
I really feel like mutables are cautious and fickle about relationships in general since it pulls on their freedom. well, maybe except for Pisces women.. they are always in a relationship. The ones around me anyways. Flirty yet uncommitted.

Fixed signs are the biggest romantics, always searching for their one true love. They don't mind taking it slow, but once they are sure about you they want you asap. Hopeless romantics.

Cardinal signs go in for the kill. It's obvious when they like you and they waste no time. Are willing to make changes. Not sure about Cancer, it depends how you act with them first I think.

+1

I agree with you on the fixed signs part. We definitely take it slow.. want to get to know first then once we are satisfied..we are loyal committed and in it for the long haul.

Posted by xtina
I definitely think the approaching thing is not mutually exclusive to sex nor is it dependant on whether you are Cardinal or mutable. It probably has to do with the placement in your chart or even experience.

Oh snap look at this gangster ass chola........

yea you make a good point.

I have a ton of cardinal in my chart. Yes, I tend to go for the kill. I did when I met my ex. I do it in such a way that they think it was their idea, though. 😛

Alot of mutable in my chart and anytime I think/feel like my freedom is on the line and that it may be sacrificed....I automatically (by default) put on brakes.....smh @ having to constantly replace airbags for passenger side....LOL!

Cardinal: [46.5% ]

I go for the kill.