I’ve been with my boyfriend for 6 months. Our relationship when it’s good is GREAT. But we’ve always had struggles adjusting to being together because I’m still dancing right now(exotic) and he’s kind of insecure about it even tho we’re together every day. I’m in bartending school right now tho and he says once I get a job he will help me with my bills. Before I got a job I wanted to go on a trip before it get to cold and he agreed. So he told me to plan the trip & ive been getting so excited & I finally found the perfect hotel. So I ask him for the money for it & says he wants to wait. Ok cool. So later that day he buys us Beyonce tickets that cost the same amount of the hotel I wanted. That’s when the arguing began. I keep asking him if he doesn’t want to go and he tells me to keep planning. So it’s been weeks and we’ve been arguing constantly. He’s been acting so selfish, everything is on his time lately and what he wants to do. If I wanna go out he wants to stay in, if I want to see this movie he wants to see another one. Cool. So I keep bringing up the vacay and he still won’t past for it but insisted we’re going in a few weeks. He’s been saying things that are so careless to me like “go with someone else” or he won’t call me all day. He didn’t even want to walk me to my car in the middle of the night which was 2 blocks down. I’m so scared to lose him but he told me he didn’t want to go on the vacation anymore and hasn’t for awhile and asked him why he lied and he said he was going to wait til I “got over it” we had a talk last night and both agreed that our relationship is going sour. I don’t even want to have sex with him anymore because I feel like that’s the only thing holding us together. I don’t know what to do. Or how to turn this around. He doesn’t want to break up. But his actions say otherwise. I know I’m getting on his nerves but I feel like he’s not trying anymore. Before he always doing nice things for me, flowers, surprises and doing whatever it takes to make me smile. And of course I did the same but lately it’s just a one way street, he’s the only one that needs to be happy. How can I get the old him back? And should I stay with him even tho he lied & I’m the only one making the first moves to be better? I’m an Aquarius & Leo moon & he’s a Gemini & Aries moon btw.
