Getting bored

Ive only been in a serious relationship in my entire life & i cant seem to flipping settle - as soon as the person im interested in shows interest back (98% of the time) , im already over it. Idk wtf to do cause i unintentionally hurt beautiful people 😢
Has anybody else experienced this? Did things change after a while?
I need advice

Hmmm, maybe you just enjoy the initial coring stage.

*courting

Posted by thisisstupid
be sincere and not an airhead. you're a double cancer right?

What do you mean by double cancer?

Posted by engagement_hotdog
they'll get over it. at least you don't get into a relationship with them. it's not a big deal IMO.

i have no idea if i'm like this. we don't know what the other person is like at first so what if i liked them initially and they revealed themselves to not be something i'd get into a relationship with?

Idk, somehow i feel like its my fault...
& its not that i dont like them as a person, i dislike the way they become w towards me. Like them getting jealous , trying to make me jealous or impress me, or simply clinging too much

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sun/moon in cancer

Yeah. Lol, but i thought this had to do W my Gemini Mars/Mercury?

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they'll get over it. at least you don't get into a relationship with them. it's not a big deal IMO.

i have no idea if i'm like this. we don't know what the other person is like at first so what if i liked them initially and they revealed themselves to not be something i'd get into a relationship with?

Idk, somehow i feel like its my fault...
& its not that i dont like them as a person, i dislike the way they become w towards me. Like them getting jealous , trying to make me jealous or impress me, or simply clinging too much

any venus-uranus aspects?

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Mine? Venus in Leo.. Uranus no idea lol

Posted by Greentea
Hmmm, maybe you just enjoy the initial coring stage.

Yh. But at some point ill have to settle & i dont want to be a masochist & end up going for the guy who dosent give two shits :l

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Posted by thisisstupid
sun/moon in cancer

Yeah. Lol, but i thought this had to do W my Gemini Mars/Mercury?

They aren't that much different honestly. Cancer is a cardinal sign Gemini is an air sign that's mutable. I'm surprised you stuck around to respond

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That gives me alot of hope... Lol

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Posted by engagement_hotdog
they'll get over it. at least you don't get into a relationship with them. it's not a big deal IMO.

i have no idea if i'm like this. we don't know what the other person is like at first so what if i liked them initially and they revealed themselves to not be something i'd get into a relationship with?

Idk, somehow i feel like its my fault...
& its not that i dont like them as a person, i dislike the way they become w towards me. Like them getting jealous , trying to make me jealous or impress me, or simply clinging too much

any venus-uranus aspects?

Mine? Venus in Leo.. Uranus no idea lol

check it

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Just did. Capricorn it is

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sun/moon in cancer

Yeah. Lol, but i thought this had to do W my Gemini Mars/Mercury?

It doesn't.

It has to do with you still being young and not taking your inner self seriously. double cancers feel deep and sincerely, but kindness is a 2 way street. you can be too kind that you end up manipulating the other person without initially intending to. just make sure your intentions are sincere.

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But wait. So how did you figure out i was a "double Cancer"? - i try & i hope i do have sincere/good intentions...

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Posted by engagement_hotdog
they'll get over it. at least you don't get into a relationship with them. it's not a big deal IMO.

i have no idea if i'm like this. we don't know what the other person is like at first so what if i liked them initially and they revealed themselves to not be something i'd get into a relationship with?

Idk, somehow i feel like its my fault...
& its not that i dont like them as a person, i dislike the way they become w towards me. Like them getting jealous , trying to make me jealous or impress me, or simply clinging too much

any venus-uranus aspects?

Mine? Venus in Leo.. Uranus no idea lol

check it

Just did. Capricorn it is

do they aspect? is there a green line between the 2 planets?

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Tbh - i had no idea if i was reading it right or not. So here . I Appreciate ur help lol
http://imgur.com/TlQf20F

Mars looks like it may be a singleton and unaspected.

I think.

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Mars looks like it may be a singleton and unaspected.

I think.

it has a minor inconjunct if you count those and mercury is in gem too

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I don't count those.

but I didn't see the Merc in Gem.... looked to be in Cancer.

Nevermind!

@DonnaElvira77 buongiorno (: - I am happy single , but im not the type to get super deepr or even physical w someone i dont plan on giving my 100% to , matter of fact im still a virgin. So im just wondering how long this is going to go on for. Lol
@montgomery & @engagement_hotdog... Yh im lost 🤓

It seems like you just like the chasing maybe? A lot of people have that. Wanting what they can't have. Typical Gemini though.

And in the worst case I hope it's not borderline.

you're the one who was engaged or dating the guy with the Aquarius brother right?

I'm assuming that was the serious relationship you're referring to? but then you wanted his brother instead?

idk moon square Venus causes a lot of issues.

I knew an Aquarius guy w moon square Venus. his Venus had ALL hard aspects. he couldn't settle down and still hasn't. he has a lot of external issues too though.

moon sq. Venus must be hard... feel bad for you guys. emotions conflicting w the heart/the way you love. must be difficult.

Well you're not very pretty so l wouldnt worry about it lol

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Ive only been in a serious relationship in my entire life & i cant seem to flipping settle - as soon as the person im interested in shows interest back (98% of the time) , im already over it. Idk wtf to do cause i unintentionally hurt beautiful people 😢
Has anybody else experienced this? Did things change after a while?
I need advice

you will have sucky love life.

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Lol 🙌
Lets hope not ©

Posted by bricklemark
Well you're not very pretty so l wouldnt worry about it lol

Lol - Just enough to steal your girl ˜

Posted by degenerate_ingenue
idk moon square Venus causes a lot of issues.

I knew an Aquarius guy w moon square Venus. his Venus had ALL hard aspects. he couldn't settle down and still hasn't. he has a lot of external issues too though.

moon sq. Venus must be hard... feel bad for you guys. emotions conflicting w the heart/the way you love. must be difficult.

I dont understand - how does this aspect difficult things? youve lost me there 🙆
Ps: you see. I dont understand astrology 100% - so pardon my ignorance

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Posted by degenerate_ingenue
idk moon square Venus causes a lot of issues.

I knew an Aquarius guy w moon square Venus. his Venus had ALL hard aspects. he couldn't settle down and still hasn't. he has a lot of external issues too though.

moon sq. Venus must be hard... feel bad for you guys. emotions conflicting w the heart/the way you love. must be difficult.

I dont understand - how does this aspect difficult things? youve lost me there 🙆
Ps: you see. I dont understand astrology 100% - so pardon my ignorance

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haha I'm learning myself!! but the moon is our emotions and Venus is how we show affections, so when they're square that means they're in conflict. kind of like "battling" almost.

luckily for me my moon and Venus are living the good life but I can't say as much for my Saturn... Saturn is square my Sun, Mars AND Pluto. So I have a lot of internal battling and the serious planet of Saturn is "fighting" my sun, who I am, my Mars, which is my passion, and Pluto, the planet of intensity. i struggled w some depression issues before. Saturn is most likely the cause since it's a serious planet. I can't remember the exact description of Saturn but it's basically the serious, slow, hard-working planet type deal. Saturn in hard aspects to the others makes me very defensive. I'm always feeling "attacked" by others. I actually don't even notice it either. it's like a natural reaction I have. I've learned to notice it though so now I'm trying to work on it 🙂

square basically just mean they make those areas of life complicated for you.

I hope that helps!!