Feby you are very smart, because he is a prick indeed (a bit of a snob, rich and used to having what he wants). It's funny you saw this 🙂
I know, i prefer myself thinking he was not as invested. But i just feel otherwise. When he texted every morning quotes about life, told me i was unforgettable and amazing. It was all bs...no wonder I'm confused
You know me ex before him, had the same moon and sun sign. We had a fight, we ignored each other for a month. And then he texted he missed me, i was lonely so we meet. He made me a love declaration. But i wasn't interested anymore. The ignoring usually keeps me wondering but kills the feelings.
Anyways, thank you, I will take your advice and move on
.He is a prick, an ex tried to manipulate him with sex once. They dated a few months. He sent her a picture of another girl, saying he will have it else where tonight. To him it was legimite because he was not gonna let a girl manipulate him.
His ex before me it finished just like with me. But somehow he knew what she did and who she saw and where she went (stalking abviously)
And no i'm not sensitive, just impulsive sometimes when i don't take the time to
Rambu i don'tunderstand why you take my story personal, what else would justify you called me names??!!
Rambu, I do agree with what you said. And no there was definitely no other incident. This is exactly why that little joke hit me so hard, because it was unusual of his treatment to me and his class (asking me if i was drunk??) Yes I heard taurus/aries and aries/aries couples it never works out. But before i got interested in astrology I never could understand why I coudn't relate to a turus (i'm zero materialistic, zero slow, action oriented, impulsive, too independent and i can't ever hold a grudge even if i try)
Singasong, I understand how this can sound contradictive, nobody really understand how I work. I that precise moment when he said ''that is your choice'' to understand his joke or not. But brain went '' oh if he doesn't care about me, why should we date?'' So i take a quick decision and just move on. Besides I was away for work and a little stressed, it didn't help. I simple didn't take the time to think. I'm sensitive yes, but does it count if the moment I take the time to think, 2 minutes later i'm completely over it.
That is why I called and texted, I really wanted to make it right and I feel bad I hurt him. But I understand completely I did enough. I have no desire to run after him, it turns me off??_.
Faceroll : I never chased!! It's against my culture, even with my placements.I was open, loving and happy with him. He kept wondering if it was genuine. He would always say he was afraid he disturbs me. Of course i answered he never did.
Ok love you all, I truly appreciate all your answers xxx
Ok I think this discussion is going nowhere. I think I admitted all my mistakes and was very receptive. If you are here to pin point every word I say trying to find contradictions, I wonder what drives you all! ***Chasing is not defined by one action, but a general impression you form of yourself*** seems logical to me??_
Thanks to the few ppl that kindly tried to help 🙂
LOL I would have laughed at his joke!! Moon in Scorpio, Gemini Sun, Venus in Cancer... I would have come back with a witty response too..
I think it's funny how quickly you changed your side of how you came here asking about him and such, to calling him a prick. He is BLUNT! he put his ex gf in her place b/c he wasn't going to be a pawn to her game. You took a very innocent comment way wrong, I don't even understand how you got to the point of telling him to delete your number. I would have responded after that and said you MUST be drunk telling me to lose my number. LOL
Aries are fun loving but they don't take shit from people, they will write you off so quickly if they aren't deeply invested. Your reaction just turned him off, he isn't worried about it, you shouldn't be either.
So bashing him when you deep down want to see and speak with him makes little sense to me.
Anyways, the Aries men I know and even my own daughter would have deleted your number, written you off and maybe, would say hi if they see you around town at some point later down the road. I'm sure he realized quickly you weren't going to get his humor and it wasn't going to work.
Oh just fyi.. My mom is a Taurus and my dad is an Aries married for 37yrs. 🙂 Still happy and in love.. My mom has the quick reactions like you with her Venus in Aries and her Moon in Scorpio. She will cut someone out with a quickness, super stubborn.
My dad isn't as extreme, he has his Moon in Leo with his Venus in Aqua. 🙂 Both of them take no BS!!
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I know, i prefer myself thinking he was not as invested. But i just feel otherwise. When he texted every morning quotes about life, told me i was unforgettable and amazing. It was all bs...no wonder I'm confused
You know me ex before him, had the same moon and sun sign. We had a fight, we ignored each other for a month. And then he texted he missed me, i was lonely so we meet. He made me a love declaration. But i wasn't interested anymore. The ignoring usually keeps me wondering but kills the feelings.
Anyways, thank you, I will take your advice and move on