How do I deal

Who would ever understand the struggle I have with the Sagittarius moon, I want nothing but Fun in everything I do, from work, to home life, to social life,In every aspect. As much as I want to commit, I never can It's an uphill battle for me, Especially with my Venus in Virgo..ugh fuck I didn't ask for this! So conflicting, please somebody have any advice,I'm not sure which sign Is more dominant or which one I want to Be the one to be controlling in My love life...help

Sun/Virgo
Rising/Gemini
Moon/Sagittarius
Mercury/Libra
Venus/Virgo
Mars/Sagittarius
Jupiter/Scorpio
Saturn/Libra
Uranus/Sagittarius
Neptune/Sagittarius
Pluto/Libra
N.node/Cancer

I'm on my mobile right now so its hard for me to post the whole chart

you talk so as if virgo is big in commitments.

fun is also given by gemini.

your virg is mocking your sag and gem not knowing that she is a deal breaker too.

also with pisces mc (do you have one?) you might be too busy with seduction instead of the real deal of the house of professionalism and reputation.

then if saturn falls in your 5th house, you may be mad at yourself why you have play and romance.

Like a dog chasing his own tail.

IDK. IJS. astrology is not science. we say things and you can still say that's all nonsense.

PS: Sag wants achievements and commitment too. Only not in prison. And not under repetive monoton circumstances. The same is valid for Gem. Marry a diplomat and travel with him all around the world. then all is good. Or you become a sales woman and drive from town to twon.

happy you liked it.

that's sounds pretty great and also somewhat on point! because I also always want freedom, to travel the world and being on the road.... I'm not sure if you can find why or what.. but the birthday chart is.........
Sept 22,1982
10:24 PM
Denver, Co . 80204

Too bad about that Gemini Rising.

Sun Virgo 29.50 ..... ..... ..... ... Ascendant Gemini 14.13
Moon Sagittarius 8.02 ..... ..... II Cancer 6.01
Mercury Libra 16.44 R ..... ..... III Cancer 26.45
Venus Virgo 18.58 ..... ..... ..... IV Leo 20.19
Mars Sagittarius 2.09 ..... ..... . V Virgo 21.00
Jupiter Scorpio 10.03 ..... ..... . VI Scorpio 1.36
Saturn Libra 22.06 ..... ..... .... VII Sagittarius 14.13
Uranus Sagittarius 1.26 ..... .... VIII Capricorn 6.01
Neptune Sagittarius 24.22 ..... IX Capricorn 26.45
Pluto Libra 25.48 ..... ..... ..... Midheaven Aquarius 20.19
Lilith Capricorn 10.28 ..... ..... XI Pisces 21.00
Asc node Cancer 9.32 ..... ..... XII Taurus 1.36

Chiron Taurus 27.47 R
Ceres Sagittarius 1.04
Pallas Scorpio 6.22
Juno Sagittarius 28.45
Vesta Aquarius 14.48 R
Fortune Aries 0.00
South node Aries 0.00

@suraph thank you so much, you're awesome, I will take advise, and just be me, and be happy, and get out my mind and live my life. †
@dwelling on move much appreciation!!
Love all you guys ðŸ'œ

Sagi Moon, Uranus, Mars, Ceres in the 6th house.

Sagi Neptune and Juno in the 7th house. (illusion or idealism or deception in relationships?)

Libra Sat in the 5th. (Romance and play destructor?)

MC in Aqua.

Empty 10th house.

Pluto, Lilith & SN in the 8th (thinks too much of other people's money?)

The best trine supporting professionalism is MC trine Mercury.

you're only welcome.

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Who would ever understand the struggle I have with the Sagittarius moon, I want nothing but Fun in everything I do, from work, to home life, to social life,In every aspect. As much as I want to commit, I never can It's an uphill battle for me, Especially with my Venus in Virgo..ugh fuck I didn't ask for this! So conflicting, please somebody have any advice,I'm not sure which sign Is more dominant or which one I want to Be the one to be controlling in My love life...help

How do you deal? You don't. There's nothing to "deal with" here.

You want nothing but fun in everything? GOOD. Can't say anyone really blames you. Then enjoy!

You "can't" commit makes no sense, unless someone ties you up and throws you into the trunk of a Buick. You'll have difficulty committing to things under those circumstances, I'm sure you'll agree. But at any other time, if you *really* wanted to commit, you would.

If you *really* want to "commit" to making a coffee, what happens? You put the kettle on and don't even give it a second thought.

You can't commit because you simply don't want to.

"Oh but later on I want ____ and ____ in life, and spend my time with ___ when I'm old", etc.

No you don't. Not now you don't. Maybe one day if your desires and interests take you there. IF.

They don't have to. It is OK to not commit to x and commit to y instead.

Stop fighting yourself and start accepting yourself as you are right now. Because as you are right now is all you need. It's all you actually have. Take the path of least resistance and stop wanting to want things that you don't really want (even if others really want them for you.)

If you don't actually want to commit, then don't. You've got the world's permission. So go be yourself, and don't bother will all the hand-wringing and woe. If there's an idea whose time will come, then it will come. If not, then it won't. There's no way you can put there what isn't there in the first place.

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wise words. Still valid apart from astrology.

Necessity is the mother of invention.

Just try not to shit on people while you're trying to figure yourself out.

Posted by only
Who would ever understand the struggle I have with the Sagittarius moon, I want nothing but Fun in everything I do, from work, to home life, to social life,In every aspect. As much as I want to commit, I never can It's an uphill battle for me, Especially with my Venus in Virgo..ugh fuck I didn't ask for this! So conflicting, please somebody have any advice,I'm not sure which sign Is more dominant or which one I want to Be the one to be controlling in My love life...help

I understand. I have a Sag Moon child.

Among other things, the Moon represents the mother.

No I would stick by his side if we hit a difficult situation, and even if we did not hit a difficult situation I would probably still stay, if things got boring still I would stay but I would probably not be happy. And I think that's why I can't commit because of the fear of routine/boring, hopefully I can find someone fun and energetic.

Thank you all, very much appreciated. XoXo