Signs you've got a Sagittarius guy hooked?

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by vegansagittarius on Saturday, June 6, 2015 and has 54 replies.

Signs a Sagittarius Man Is Interested in You

A Sagittarius man shows interest through playful flirting, asking about your plans, and expressing a desire to meet again. He may seek physical closeness and introduce you to friends, indicating genuine attraction. Deleting his dating profile suggests he is focusing on you. These signs often mean he is interested beyond just friendship.

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@vegansagittarius
13 YearsSagittarius

I met this guy online who was pretty attractive and we have some shared interests, so I agreed to meet up with him. On the date, the first thing he did was smile and ask for a hug. He was doing most of the talking and asking questions during the date. He meets my pace, kept leaning towards me when we were talking and he did flirt subtly with me. Kept on also asking me what I am doing on the weekends and we should do this another time. At the end of the date, he asked if he could have a hug and if we could catch up soon. Does he find me attractive?

The next day, he texted me saying he had a great time and he wants to introduce me to his friends with a lot of winky texts. He also asked to add me on Facebook. Is this a good sign? Does he want to be friends? I also found that he deleted his dating profile when I logged in today

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@vegansagittarius
13 YearsSagittarius

We are both like open books and honest to each other. Astrology IS accurate. Every time I find somebody attractive, they turn out to be a Sagittarius, Aries or Leo. I always get along well with other archers 😛 So how do I keep a Sagittarius guy interested? Are girl and guy Sagittarius compatible any more than Aries and Leo?

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@vegansagittarius
13 YearsSagittarius

@Bullseye, hahaha! Yes, I find it cute when people are paired up with their male/female counterpart. I also find I never argue and get along with other archers extremely well. What about your other Earth counterparts like Capricorn and Virgo? Are you attracted or find them attractive? The guys I find attractive physically are all Aries, Leo or Sagittarius.

So he'll like me for being myself 😛

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@augustmoon
12 Years500+ Posts

"Hooked"?? huh. he likes you.
I have a lot of Saggie energies and it terrifies me that another may use the same terminology on me. That they've hooked me! ugh! LOL! 😆

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@vegansagittarius
13 YearsSagittarius

Sorry to revive this thread. But it is unclear whether he wants to be friends or something more? Also are Sagittarians sexual? I just want to wait until marriage and not sure if he will be happy about that.

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@vegansagittarius
13 YearsSagittarius

LOL of course I don't want to marry him. I don't even think he is the one :/ I want to date but nothing serious. I just don't want sex. I want to wait until marriage and have it with the right person. I think I am not ready for sex and don't think he is the right person to lose it to. Is it possible to just hold hands, kiss and joke around with a guy?

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@saggyrl
12 Years

You've only had one date...don't look too much into things. Just enjoy your time getting to know each other and you will hopefully figure out where things stand in time.

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@Weeds
11 Years1,000+ Posts

as I have said before stereotypes come from somewhere.
now on the topic of "easy" or "hoe" is not a word I would use and perhaps not a relatable subject in comparing lose of innocence but... you used the words to describe it sooo..

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@vegansagittarius
13 YearsSagittarius

Uh, I would say I am an exception to this 'hoe' thing? I mean I do cheat and will on him because I think he won't be the type to commit. I am seeing 3 other guys as a backup so I do not get myself too attached and hurt. I don't think I want anything serious as I need to work on my career at the moment and he is a guitarist in a rock band. Isn't that a bad sign? Also on Facebook you cannot post on his wall without his permission or tag him in anything. He can do whatever he wants and I will not force him to commit after the first date but I am not sure what will happen in the long run. He is very attractive, tall and has a nice figure. But he just won't be getting sex from me and I hope he won't ask for that in the future. All I will do is kiss and hold hands or hug.

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@Weeds
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by dontgetmewrong
Soooooo...what do are you saying then? ..basically that we can't just hold hands and all that other innocent cute courting... We always have to do more, which doesn't make us so "innocent " right...so what does that make us..."easy" right, and you just said in your earlier post that you would've said it much nicer but didn't disagree either!

I know many hoes that have no Sag placements in their chart, they're just closet hoes that's all.

You need a BIIIIIIIIIGGGGGGG HUUUUUUGGGGG!!!!!!!!!!!!

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@vegansagittarius
13 YearsSagittarius

Yep. That's why I am seeing 3 other people and planning for more. All of them are considered dating but nothing serious. Just holding hands, kissing, hugging and nothing more. I don't know what to do eventually. If one of them wants to commit...I can't, that's the problem. I don't think I am ready for commitment.

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@vegansagittarius
13 YearsSagittarius

I just don't want to tie him down as that is seen as needy and desperate. Even in the future if I want commitment, I will never give him anything unless he commits. I will continue holding hands, etc, let him flirt and do whatever he wants with other women/men but I will not give him sex unless he is all for commitment.

He told me out of nowhere before that his friends sleep around a lot, but he isn't the person to do that and makes a lot of friends instead. I am not sure what to say after he deleted his dating profile after the first date but texted me saying he had a great time and wants me to meet his friends.

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@vegansagittarius
13 YearsSagittarius

It's good that you waited until you found someone you love to give it to. Ah, he just texted me now asking how I have been and how my weekend was! How should I reply to keep him interested? I don't want to bore him.

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@vegansagittarius
13 YearsSagittarius

What is her zodiac 🙂? Wow, never knew us Sags are so popular. Actually, should I tell him I also deleted my dating profile or not? Or should I lie to him and say there are many other guys on there that speak to me so I would seem harder to get?

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

You should be proud that you have your v card. Nothing to be ashamed about.

You cool if you wanna have sex and if you dont.

But i will say, dont use your v card as a means to control a man.

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@vegansagittarius
13 YearsSagittarius

He told me he's got a concert where his band will be playing. What does this mean? Don't know if I want to go, if girls surround him, I am going to flirt with other girl/guys to see what happens.

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@vegansagittarius
13 YearsSagittarius

I feel like something went wrong, and I need you guys to verify this. So he texted me first asking me how was my day before explaining how his day was. He then mentioned if I wanted to see him play in his band, in which I responded I would like to, if I was free on that day and did not have to fly (I am student pilot). He replied "It's all night, silly." In which I responded "My bad XP. Sounds good then. Will go. Would love to see you play."

He did not respond. A large part of me shrugged it off as it doesn't really need a reply. But another part of me is saying something went wrong. Did I come off too clingy/strange when I said that or did he think I was playing games and decided to go?

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@vegansagittarius
13 YearsSagittarius

By the way, the natal charts WERE accurate! It said Sags usually have pilots as their career as they are ambitious, optimistic, adventurous and freedom loving. And I am studying to be one. Wow! Does a musician actually count as slmething Sags want to do? Also, should I tell him one day when they get famous, I want to be their pilot on their jet?

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@vegansagittarius
13 YearsSagittarius

Why can't I flirt when he is surrounded by groupies? If he is with other women, I can flirt with other men or go home. If he asks me what is going on I will tell him I am tired. I know groupies support them, whatever, but am K supposed to act as if nothing happened and swoon over him once he gets off the stage?

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@vegansagittarius
13 YearsSagittarius

But I think he is also a player too. My parents are telling me to stay away from him since they think he attracts way too much girls. Also nobody can post on his Facebook wall without his permission. But HE was the one that added me straight after the date and he told me he is not the sort of person that sleeps around out of nowhere. Is this a bad sign?

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@vegansagittarius
13 YearsSagittarius

It's my parents. They don't like him and think he is a player whilst I don't give a crap any less. He can go see whoever he wants and it's ridiculous to tie somebody down on a first date. All we Sag do is see as many people as possible, see where each stand before making a final decision. I am seeing 4 other guys at the same time actually, other than that I am studying hard. I am far from desperate (remember JJ and Kevin texts?). It does not seem appropriate to call him and I hate phonecalls anyway. I never really double text and it is usually me who ends the conversation anyway. If there is nothing else to say, I will study or see other people and won't text him for over a week. I understand both of us needs space and I hate to be seen as clingy or needy. It is not my nature. He always ends up messaging me first within a week anyway if I don't message him.

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@vegansagittarius
13 YearsSagittarius

They're traditional that's all. We aren't even compatible. My dad is a Pisces and my mom is a Taurus. I've told them I'm going out with guys to sit if I fit in with any of them and to see whether I am suited for a committed relationship or not. It's a reasonable age for experimenting *shrugs*

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@beautifulsoul74
14 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by vegansagittarius
They're traditional that's all. We aren't even compatible. My dad is a Pisces and my mom is a Taurus. I've told them I'm going out with guys to sit if I fit in with any of them and to see whether I am suited for a committed relationship or not. It's a reasonable age for experimenting *shrugs*

How do you expect to find out if you're compatible with someone if your attention is constantly divided? Honestly, deciding if you are suited for a committmemt or not is something you should really decide before you get involved with someone.

Your Sag guy has picked up on this and from the beginning.

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@SaggyGirl85
11 Years

@OP, I know I'm late... LOL but you know us Sags!?! 😉
Anyway, yes, I believe this interest of yours is certainly interested! You've sparked his interest and now he's going to want to know each and everything about you!! Same as us female Sags. We are both very inquisitive and the "knowledge seekers" of the zodiac, as we are often referenced as. I don't see why you and him both being Sags couldn't be a positive! Honestly, I've been attracted to many Cap-Sag cusp males... And they have always been great loves, and in most cases, turned into long lasting friendships that I maintain till this day. 🙂 Good luck lady! Let us know how things turn out!

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@vegansagittarius
13 YearsSagittarius

Ugh, not so good. So far everything is going downhill actually. I messaged him if he wanted to go out, in which he responded enthusiastically. However, I also stated I wanted to bring a friend of mine in which he did say it was okay. However, today, I checked out that the event was closing on the time we are supposed to meet and asked for a reschedule. He never replied, of course. I guess I must move on. I know he could be busy at the moment, especially on a Friday night but he usually replies almost immediately at any other time. Since I am usually the one that ends the conversation, I have no idea what is going on. I think he is playing hard to get or losing interest.

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@vegansagittarius
13 YearsSagittarius

False alarm. He finally replied, I overreacted! He did reply, apologizing and calling me sweet names. I then told him I was leaving the city next week and won't be back until a month. He replied "😢...I'm free on Sunday". So is this a good thing?

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@vegansagittarius
13 YearsSagittarius

Not sure. Calling him is too much and he might think I am a stage 5 clinger. I won't bother him by texting him, maybe on Facebook only. I was wondering if we meet up, I should give him my first kiss?

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