@Cherrylips
9 Years
How to stop?
Just pour it out. Write it down and wait for comments. This insane place is best therapy for aching hearts! Promise...
hang out with air signs more.
Posted by AerialView
hang out with air signs more.
I can't. I closed myself. Have very few friends. And now I'm trying to get new but.... I feel it's hopless... A lot of things in my life are hopless, I'm afraid...
Posted by Fafa
have you tried dating? have you blocked them on all social media? Pray it helps too
Trying to date brought me this misery.....I shouldn't have done it in the first place. Alone is the safest place in the world.
Posted by bittercupcake
..I dont think anyone 'masters' their emotions...if anything they hide it, put a bandaid over it, or supress it... the obvious reason being time...only time heals those deep wounds...its hard for me to cope with my emotions as well... i cant cope well with people i care about that have wounded me... it can take me days - weeks - months - years - to overcome something someone did... it all depends on the level of love/trust i had on that person...
distractions help...and ive learned from other signs (mutables)...who seem to move on a lot quicker than fixed signs.
What kind of distractions?
I'm also batling with my mind. It's not rational to feel what I feel for so long, for someone who I don't even know and who never gave a f**k about me.
IT'S JUST NOT!
And I'm trying to figure out what part of me is so twisted to keep torture myself.
Sun and venus in scorpio&8th house as well....those kind of placements shouldn't exist!
😢
Posted by Fafa
have you tried dating? have you blocked them on all social media? Pray it helps tooTrying to date brought me this misery.....I shouldn't have done it in the first place. Alone is the safest place in the world.
why did it bring you misery? being alone and depressed is not always a good thing tho
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For the reasons bittercup stated above....comparing....or not finding what you're looking for.
Sometimes I have a feeling I'm one of a kind in a world full of standard copies. It feels lonely no matter if you're alone by choice or if you go out with "copies".
Posted by bittercupcake
..I dont think anyone 'masters' their emotions...if anything they hide it, put a bandaid over it, or supress it... the obvious reason being time...only time heals those deep wounds...its hard for me to cope with my emotions as well... i cant cope well with people i care about that have wounded me... it can take me days - weeks - months - years - to overcome something someone did... it all depends on the level of love/trust i had on that person...
distractions help...and ive learned from other signs (mutables)...who seem to move on a lot quicker than fixed signs.
What kind of distractions?
if you ever need someone to talk to... im here PM me... i can serve as a distraction 🙂
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Thank you. That's very kind of you.
Posted by Cherrylips
Stop obsessing over someone/sth.?Stop longing for someone/sth.?
How to give up on sth.?
How not to give a f**k?
How to be more detached?
How not to be so sensitive?
How to be numb?
Beside the obvious resolution to all the above (to kill yourself), is there another?
I kinda hope air dominant people will help me here, all the help is appreciated, since I'm losing my mind.
Or maybe fellow scorpios will, those who have mastered their emotion. I haven't. I'm an emotional bomb going off any minute.
Thank you.
EASY! Stay busy! I haven't heard from my Taurean man for two days now 😭 I am busy as treetrunk at work M-F so when I get home I am exhausted I just go with the flow! (his dad is hospitalized; Taurean drove from Texas to California two weeks ago; on Tuesday Taurean informed me he has COPD (chronic obstructive pulmonary disease) and said he was throwing up blood, his last text informed me with all the stress he was going thru + no rest, his COPD got really bad!. I pray he is doing well and his dad is okay. I am Piscean and I EMPATHIZE/SYMPATHIZE. We talked about when to have me fly to CA to see him and I will be there 21-27 June 2017 (my BFF lives in Atwater, CA; so I will stay at her home).
I don't give a treetrunk when people at work talk about me; or here at DXP. I block the latter and ignore the first batch of trolls!
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: My Taurean already knows I have a birthday party to attend on Saturday at the club (YES, I STILL patron clubs; look at my pic! I STILL get carded); so I need this relaxation for myself.
Posted by Cherrylips
Stop obsessing over someone/sth.?Stop longing for someone/sth.?
How to give up on sth.?
How not to give a f**k?
How to be more detached?
How not to be so sensitive?
How to be numb?
Beside the obvious resolution to all the above (to kill yourself), is there another?
I kinda hope air dominant people will help me here, all the help is appreciated, since I'm losing my mind.
Or maybe fellow scorpios will, those who have mastered their emotion. I haven't. I'm an emotional bomb going off any minute.
Thank you.
Have you tried fidget spinning?
You're just hurt you got played, dumped, or things didn't go as planned. You're looking for closure. But only you can provide it.
I don't care what anyone says the best way IS to meet new people. I didn't say fall in love or obsess over any new guy but just start liking someone else BETTER. Then you will see what you had in the past was nothing.
Posted by Cherrylips
Stop obsessing over someone/sth.?Stop longing for someone/sth.?
How to give up on sth.?
How not to give a f**k?
How to be more detached?
How not to be so sensitive?
How to be numb?
Beside the obvious resolution to all the above (to kill yourself), is there another?
I kinda hope air dominant people will help me here, all the help is appreciated, since I'm losing my mind.
Or maybe fellow scorpios will, those who have mastered their emotion. I haven't. I'm an emotional bomb going off any minute.
Thank you.
Have you tried fidget spinning?
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Come closer ?
I must break your fingers so you will NEVER type it again!!! —
Speaking of obsession...aaaaaaaaa!!!
Posted by MagicMarch
You're just hurt you got played, dumped, or things didn't go as planned. You're looking for closure. But only you can provide it.I don't care what anyone says the best way IS to meet new people. I didn't say fall in love or obsess over any new guy but just start liking someone else BETTER. Then you will see what you had in the past was nothing.
At the longest time it might feels like there is no one better or if you are angry - no one worse but still memories are a beech!
It's ok to be alone and cry and moan and punch that pillow! And come here and read stories from others and realize - it is life of almost everyone. And have occasional laughs. Because this place will make you laugh - you'll see!
And it's open 23/7! My best and kindest regards. It will pass. Believe it.?
Get him out of your system by getting him into your system.....preferably more than once.
Posted by Cherrylips
Stop obsessing over someone/sth.?Stop longing for someone/sth.?
How to give up on sth.?
How not to give a f**k?
How to be more detached?
How not to be so sensitive?
How to be numb?
Beside the obvious resolution to all the above (to kill yourself), is there another?
I kinda hope air dominant people will help me here, all the help is appreciated, since I'm losing my mind.
Or maybe fellow scorpios will, those who have mastered their emotion. I haven't. I'm an emotional bomb going off any minute.
Thank you.
Have you tried fidget spinning?
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Nope. I prefer a good book. 🙂
Posted by Cherrylips
Stop obsessing over someone/sth.?Stop longing for someone/sth.?
How to give up on sth.?
How not to give a f**k?
How to be more detached?
How not to be so sensitive?
How to be numb?
Beside the obvious resolution to all the above (to kill yourself), is there another?
I kinda hope air dominant people will help me here, all the help is appreciated, since I'm losing my mind.
Or maybe fellow scorpios will, those who have mastered their emotion. I haven't. I'm an emotional bomb going off any minute.
Thank you.
Have you tried fidget spinning?
Nope. I prefer a good book. 🙂
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Since you like reading... have you tried the Cartel series? These books are so good... trust me you will forget about him... at least momentarily.
Start doing little things to treat yourself! Take a bubble bath, read, and drink wine.
Go shopping and out to eat with one close friend you can trust.
Journal your feelings so they don't stay in your head and you stay obsessed.
Get your hair & nails done!
Was it an air sign that hurt your heart ❤️?
Posted by Cherrylips
Stop obsessing over someone/sth.?Stop longing for someone/sth.?
How to give up on sth.?
How not to give a f**k?
How to be more detached?
How not to be so sensitive?
How to be numb?
Beside the obvious resolution to all the above (to kill yourself), is there another?
I kinda hope air dominant people will help me here, all the help is appreciated, since I'm losing my mind.
Or maybe fellow scorpios will, those who have mastered their emotion. I haven't. I'm an emotional bomb going off any minute.
Thank you.
Have you tried fidget spinning?
Nope. I prefer a good book. 🙂
Since you like reading... have you tried the Cartel series? These books are so good... trust me you will forget about him... at least momentarily.
Start doing little things to treat yourself! Take a bubble bath, read, and drink wine.
Go shopping and out to eat with one close friend you can trust.
Journal your feelings so they don't stay in your head and you stay obsessed.
Get your hair & nails done!
Was it an air sign that hurt your heart ❤️?
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You cannot stop a scorpio from thinking....unless a good book is there. What's the series about? I love thriller/crime/murder investigation/horror.
Yes...kinda...a mixture....a virgo with so much libra it's half&half.
Posted by Cherrylips
Stop obsessing over someone/sth.?Stop longing for someone/sth.?
How to give up on sth.?
How not to give a f**k?
How to be more detached?
How not to be so sensitive?
How to be numb?
Beside the obvious resolution to all the above (to kill yourself), is there another?
I kinda hope air dominant people will help me here, all the help is appreciated, since I'm losing my mind.
Or maybe fellow scorpios will, those who have mastered their emotion. I haven't. I'm an emotional bomb going off any minute.
Thank you.
Have you tried fidget spinning?
Nope. I prefer a good book. 🙂
Since you like reading... have you tried the Cartel series? These books are so good... trust me you will forget about him... at least momentarily.
Start doing little things to treat yourself! Take a bubble bath, read, and drink wine.
Go shopping and out to eat with one close friend you can trust.
Journal your feelings so they don't stay in your head and you stay obsessed.
Get your hair & nails done!
Was it an air sign that hurt your heart ❤️?
You cannot stop a scorpio from thinking....unless a good book is there. What's the series about? I love thriller/crime/murder investigation/horror.
Yes...kinda...a mixture....a virgo with so much libra it's half&half.
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Oh well you'll love this book series! I'm posting a link of what they look like with titles from Amazon.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B004DI7JRM/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1
As far as the Libro guy... f him ?
Posted by Fafa
have you tried dating? have you blocked them on all social media? Pray it helps tooTrying to date brought me this misery.....I shouldn't have done it in the first place. Alone is the safest place in the world.
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Hi..you are right. Being alone IS the safest place x you can allow your thoughts free rein as much as you like and for as long as you like.
Tonight for example I went and sat at the end of my road (in Mar car before going home), to watch the sun. And I thought about all the things that made me sad. I even play some music sometimes. It helps to play out memories in your head. .its like therapy. The more you think about stuff the more answers come to you. .and you start to heal..x
As a wind dominant, I have your answer right here, and in one word:
Time.
Meh! Been there. You don't just stop, you wait, and while you wait you do everything that feels good for the soul and stop everything thats doesnt-should help speed along the process a little 😉 Hope you get there soon chica!
That bomb is set to explode--you need to prepare for the collision and rise like a Pheonix. You have so much energy in you and it needs to escape:
You just need to find every flaw that you can about them.
Also, picture every time that the person was ever mean or less than perfect.
It helps a lot.
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Get him out of your system by getting him into your system.....preferably more than once.
He must be really bad at getting into your system to get him right out of it.
How bad was it?
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Stop obsessing over someone/sth.?
Stop longing for someone/sth.?
How to give up on sth.?
How not to give a f**k?
How to be more detached?
How not to be so sensitive?
How to be numb?
Beside the obvious resolution to all the above (to kill yourself), is there another?
I kinda hope air dominant people will help me here, all the help is appreciated, since I'm losing my mind.
Or maybe fellow scorpios will, those who have mastered their emotion. I haven't. I'm an emotional bomb going off any minute.
Thank you.