I want to love a LIBRA MAN... ( any tips?? , DOS / DONTS)

He is extremely narcissistic I'm going to be honest about that..

but he does treat me well.. So I deal with it.

I'm at the fertility age.. He has a great job I like him he likes me.. I actually have a lot of fun with him.., I enjoy him and things are going well.

Sometimes I get afraid of his Temper. Short fuse

Or a little annoyed that all of the conversations are only about him... He has a really big ego, kind of narcissist..

but he looks good on paper.. He is in his forties and he seems ready to settle down.. But I need to know a little bit more about the males of this zodiac.

This seems sketchy. If you sense he's this narcissistic and a short fuse, this spells bad news for the future. You mention fertility age, so I'm assuming you want to have kids? I don't see this guy slaving over poopy diapers. And if the going gets really tough and he's this self-centered, he might just jet on you.

Libra men have a lot of options open to them. I've snagged a lot of Libra men in my life and have a lot of close Libra friends in general. The trick seems to be uniqueness ("striking" is the word you're looking for), intellectual capacity/humor (basically hold a conversation in an interesting way they're don't normally find) and also some self-control over emotions. For the most part, they don't deal with intense showdowns the way some other signs like Leo might. Confrontation can stress them. If you basically create a safe space (without saying you're doing so) where they can voice any opinion they have and A) not be judged for it and B) not be held to the same opinion later, esp in a critical/evaluating way, you'll probably at least hit the top part of their radar.

Libras tend to be pretty sensitive to obligation and judgement. Even if you don't explicitly say you're doing this, they pick up on tone well. Most Libras are not used to having the option to speak their minds without consequence. If you can do that, maintain *some* romance and weather through their "on the other hand"s, you have a good partner on your hands.

HOWEVER if this is a seriously image-conscious Libra, then you may have problems coming your way. Libra is a sign of perfection, in some ways even moreso than Virgo, because it's Venus-ruled. Virgo at least can set some realistic standards, even if they're exacting about it. Libra is pie-in-the-sky, ideal perfect union. It's the opposite polarity of Aries (so you'll notice unhealthy Libras esp have some negative Arian traits). It's not even service-oriented like Pisces/Virgo are. So unless you're as image-conscious and thus looking to keep a perfect image of yourself along with this "Libra trophy", please be careful.

Listen to song "John Wayne" by lady gaga. Seems fit.

Be careful but eh, live by the rules of that song and you'll have a wild relationship. Don't expect it to last long though, because it probably won't.

Also, if you're thinking you're going to get help here with going in to try to change him, forget it now. You aren't going to change hi,, what you get now is what you got. Take it, or leave it and get something better.

Don't force it. It's either there or it's not.