If you were the opposite sex...

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What kind of person do you think you'd be?

And what I mean is, if you were you, same character, same way of thinking/feeling/operating, only opposite sex... how do you think that would translate?

If you are a female... what kind of guy/man/gentleman do you think you'd be? And... How would you be with the ladies? Or whatever your sexual preference 😉 If you are homosexual... then opposite sex and still homosexual.

If you are a male... what kind of girl/woman/lady do you think you'd be? And... What would you be like with the guys? Again, or whatever your sexual preference.

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I've thought of this alot because honestly if I didn't do such a dang good job at being a lady 😛 I'd want to be a male and sometimes think I should have been born a male.

I feel I limit myself sometimes because I am a female (and because of the way I was raised). If I were a male I'd wouldn't have those "barriers" and being a ton more confident (to the point of almost arrogance) very macho manly yet silent types ... if that makes sense.

But I've gotten pretty comfortable in embracing and balancing my fem aspects with the tomboy that I am. Sometimes it's goooooood to be a girl 😉
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Think I'd be a gigalo....I'd have all the women throwing themselves at me and be ever so discreet so no one would find out about the others. I'd have to have my phone on silent as all the women would be continuely texting me, but in true male fashion I'll text them in a week or so when I could fit them into my busy schedule!!

The woman that would make me want to change my ways would more than likely be the one that wasn't interested in me or my advances!
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What kind of person do you think you'd be?

And what I mean is, if you were you, same character, same way of thinking/feeling/operating, only opposite sex... how do you think that would translate?

If you are a female... what kind of guy/man/gentleman do you think you'd be? And... How would you be with the ladies? Or whatever your sexual preference 😉 If you are homosexual... then opposite sex and still homosexual.

If you are a male... what kind of girl/woman/lady do you think you'd be? And... What would you be like with the guys? Again, or whatever your sexual preference.

🙂



i've always felt rather ambiguous. i'm a female with a strong tomboyish streak yet i embrace my femininity. i think i would make a pretty decent male. the only thing is that if i were to keep the same qualities about me then i would require a more dominant, alpha female. there would be role reversal in that area. i am not submissive in my daily life but i prefer to be with my significant other... when it comes to sex and intimacy anyway. i would probably be a guy with refined tastes but still very male. a guy's guy but a romantic lover.

one of the things i would miss is that i am able to get away with a lotta things being female when it comes to males. i have an odd personality. i have my quirks. these idiosyncracies sometimes involve others, even strangers, and i think if i were to pull the same stunts on males if i were a man then it wouldn't go over well. i might attract a lot more danger in my life. for example... one day i was walking down the street with a couple of friends. there was this guy ahead of us that was performing skate tricks. i ran up to the guy real quick, jumped directly in front of him, said "hi" less than a foot away from his face, then walked away and rejoined my friends. no joke, i do this kinda thing on a regular basis. it's not for shock value, it's just really how weird i am. i think that's how my impulsive side is satisfied. anyway, if i had been a guy he probably would have started cussing me out.

in conclusion, i am glad i am female but i think i could go either way.
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Oh boy!!!!!! Honestly, other than having boobs and a vagina.... I'm kinda already a guy! At least that's what most of my guy friends tell me anyway. If I had a dime for everytime a guy (either dating or just friends) said to me.... "you are not a typical girl... you are more like one of the guys" Id be a rich little biotch! When I was married, I was often the only woman hanging with the men because they were all comfortable having me there and could talk about anything with or in front of me.

All kidding aside though, I do totally embrace my femininity.... Im a total girly girl on the outside..... manicures, pedicures, sexy shoes & clothes, love makeup, hair products and smelling good and LOVE being a girl. But I'm also totally laid back and am happy playing/watching sports and/or going to a fancy dinner. I'm all over the chart. No mistaking me for a man, however when I open my mouth, I'm raw, brash and totally down to earth. I think I tend to view sex more like a typical guy would as well and less like most of the women in my life, but maybe that's my Aqua rising.... makes me appear a bit more detached emotionally. Maybe that just comes with my age and experience, IDK.

So, if I was a guy.... I'd be totally cool with both the men and the women. I'd probably have lot's of friends of both sexes.
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I would be hanging out with Sweethearts picking up the ladies.

I have no doubt I would be the best and worst thing that ever happened to a woman 'cause I get what women want. I'd be the right mix of broody and mysterious that sticks in your head long after I am gone. 😉

I would also probably be more assertive yet more reserved at the same time. I would probably hold back a lot more.

Note the two libras immediate ladies' men.

Bella I
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If I were a guy I'd be aggressive. I am now, but like GingerScorp... I tone it down quite a bit for the sake of being more feminine and lady-like. If I had the freedom and male-role to be what I want to be... I think I'd be probably be a little headstrong and foolish at first, but after a few hard lessons... that seductive and willful kinda guy, but also wise-crackin and easy going.

^_^