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Posted by Gobshite
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I call mine tiger strikes lol

Anyone can get them, I even dated a guy with them and he worked out all the time, probably too fast. Real bodies have imperfections so if bothers a man that much most like likely not a real man

Good post, apart from the final phrase, which equates to the following:

If a man doesn't follow through with my expectations, no matter how unreasonable they are, he's not a real man.
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Lol
Okay in general if natural occurrences to the human body bug someone then they probably haven't had much life experience to realize everyone won't look like models or celebrities who get photoshopped
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I call mine tiger strikes lol

Anyone can get them, I even dated a guy with them and he worked out all the time, probably too fast. Real bodies have imperfections so if bothers a man that much most like likely not a real man

Good post, apart from the final phrase, which equates to the following:

If a man doesn't follow through with my expectations, no matter how unreasonable they are, he's not a real man.
Lol
Okay in general if natural occurrences to the human body bug someone then they probably haven't had much life experience to realize everyone won't look like models or celebrities who get photoshopped
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I obvs know its a common thing. But sometimes they bother me. So i wonder if men pay attention to it
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How do men feel about strech marks?
I have a thick lower body . So i grew strech marks on the sides of my thighs/butt & though im learning to embrace them id like a little insight.

i got them after having a baby. It's not a big deal to me. as long as my man isn't afraid of them and RUNS everytime he sees it.

i mean he's still here. So maybe i didnt scare him off after all with those baby marks.

but if you're single, and you got them having a baby,

well then, the guy is superficial and an asshole for giving too many fucks over your marks.

is that what you're worried about?

because most women would only worry if they have to go out in a bikini and middriff in the summer and show off their body.

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Sexy baby. I like them they remind me that I'm actually with a real woman, not that fake bs.

It actually is a turn on...
Its funny cause pisces guys are known to be picky w their woen & out of everybody i thought theyd be the ones to tell me that strech marks bothers them @marchpisc3s

I can be picky but it depends on the subject. Stretch Marks are attractive to me.
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Is it weird that i find men who think theyre attractive attractive?. If that makes any sense anyway lol
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They looked like tiger marks to me yes.

If they bother you use cocoa butter, simple enough.
As if loool
(shrugs) it's what actually works for stretch marks.

If you like yours, good. If you find they bother you, cocoa butter repeatedly does the trick to fade them down (though not completely).

I had an ex who had them and I liked them. She wanted them gone so she did what she had to do. She was happy, and good for her.
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Thats cute. So guys actually like them . Ha *surprised tone*
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Honey I have stretch marks, and I tell a man quick these stretch marks are simply a map to guide you to the dam of heaven. SN: How do you guys add pic and gifs on here
Omg. Thats actually the most creative shit ive heard so far ðŸ‘ðŸ‘ðŸ‘ðŸ‘
Also go to imgur add a pic & then copy the link they give you and paste it here (select " direct link")
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You mean AFTER you've borne their children.... or before?

Just curious.

Otherwise, refer to the advice of the ever evolving, and

oddly-endearing @Gobshite.


Before . Im still a virgin lmaoooo
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Shouldn't be a problem if you can retain your virginity until after marriage.
The man you select should be a virgin, himself.
If your morals and principles are upright and honorable, you may be
one of those lucky few to have a faithful lifelong relationship with that man
cultivating a companionship that can weather the severe storms of life.

Patience is a virtue, a masterpiece takes time. Don't rush, or else you will
fall victim to the smothering consequences of sorrow and regrets.
There is a reason why "curiosity kills the cat".



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You mean AFTER you've borne their children.... or before?

Just curious.

Otherwise, refer to the advice of the ever evolving, and

oddly-endearing @Gobshite.


Before . Im still a virgin lmaoooo

The man you select SHOULD be a virgin, himself.





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Umm..Can you explain why so??I mean why should he be a virgin?
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How do men feel about .......

I have a thick lower body





Since this thread is about how someone (else) feels about you, rather than how you feel about yourself - self esteem issues ...


... men are probably more turned off about your thick lower body, which obviously translate to fat ass and thighs.


The natural assumption here is that you're self conscious, and not about being fat, which is what you should be self conscious about ... instead, you place this insecurity onto your skin.


Nope, the problem in which leads you to feel insecure is because you're fat.
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Men are not turned off by a fat ass, the Kardashians have built an empire on that! And they've proven fat assed women are smarter.... yep fat bottom girls really do rule the world!

And don't worry about the stretch marks, I have found men are typically just happy that you are willing to get naked with them, they don't even notice that stuff. God bless their super excited blind haze they get in.
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Men are not turned off by a fat ass ...




That's not what I said.


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they don't even notice




But, I see you don't mind making broad statements that have no proof, just after attempting to STATE facts.


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Do you feel better now?? Oh and I didn't attempt to state facts, I did state facts. Keep on trolling sister, you're good at it and everyone needs a talent.
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this question isn't about stretch marks, it's about how men feel ... and naturally people cannot accept if another feels any kind of negativity from them, so every person is going to make a comment to suggest to the viewer that they highly approve of their stretch marks they have.


.... because otherwise, their ego might shatter.



The real truth is ..... the people who answered you, only did so to address about how they feel about themselves with their own stretch marks.

The other real truth is .... people (mainly women) judge each others looks all the time. So, yeah, men probably are looking down their nose at your stretch marks, and fat.

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I did state facts.




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...... men are typically just happy that you are willing to get naked with them, they don't even notice that stuff.



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Do you feel better now??

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People (most) prove themselves constantly, in that they HAVE to use feelings to analyze every situation. They seem to be incapable of mental processing, and always resort to bitter feelings.

I see you make sure to prove that theory.
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People (most) prove themselves constantly, in that they HAVE to use feelings to analyze every situation. They seem to be incapable of mental processing, and always resort to bitter feelings.

I see you make sure to prove that theory.

How I feel has no bearing on the topic ....... but, I see you lower your mind, to even non use of your mind, to respond.

Yes, people really ARE that small .. in where they simply cannot use mental functioning once they have a feeling.


Just like the topic ...... how a person feels about your stretch marks, has no bearing on you or the marks. A person could love or hate scars you have, but, that doesn't change the scars. You're not alone, though ... there are tons of superficial people out there who will base their whole beings on the approval from others.


It's very unevolved. But, the good news is - you're not alone in your smallness ... there are millions of you out there, emotionally jumping from one insecurity to another, so at least you can have someone hold your hands while you snivel about it.
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Posted by TaurusinTexas
Men are not turned off by a fat ass, the Kardashians have built an empire on that! And they've proven fat assed women are smarter.... yep fat bottom girls really do rule the world!

And don't worry about the stretch marks, I have found men are typically just happy that you are willing to get naked with them, they don't even notice that stuff. God bless their super excited blind haze they get in.
that's good you found men like that.

but in general, alot of men do notice every little thing in your body.

although it doesn't mean they are disgusted. it depends on the level of love they have for you in my personal opinion. for example, if my man has a beer belly i love it, and wanna rub it and kiss it.
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I'm a guy here and some ways can be superficial. I've always dated very petite girls and only recently dated a couple girls with thick thighs.

The first one, which I was totally head over heels with, had some on her legs and also had some on her stomach. I was slightly surprised when I first saw them but I wasn't disgusted by them. I knew she felt a bit ashamed but I didn't give a damn at all. I wanted all of her, imperfections and all. I didn't give a damn at all.

The other, which I'm dating now, she is more accepting of her body. She didn't flinch when I first saw her body. We were both in the moment and neither of us cared.

So you shouldn't need to worry too much about it. Yes they're imperfections but we all have them. If the guy goes to the gym he would have some himself.
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Posted by TaurusinTexas
Men are not turned off by a fat ass, the Kardashians have built an empire on that! And they've proven fat assed women are smarter.... yep fat bottom girls really do rule the world!

And don't worry about the stretch marks, I have found men are typically just happy that you are willing to get naked with them, they don't even notice that stuff. God bless their super excited blind haze they get in.
that's good you found men like that.

but in general, alot of men do notice every little thing in your body.

although it doesn't mean they are disgusted. it depends on the level of love they have for you in my personal opinion. for example, if my man has a beer belly i love it, and wanna rub it and kiss it.
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Haha. Lol
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How do men feel about .......

I have a thick lower body





Since this thread is about how someone (else) feels about you, rather than how you feel about yourself - self esteem issues ...


... men are probably more turned off about your thick lower body, which obviously translate to fat ass and thighs.


The natural assumption here is that you're self conscious, and not about being fat, which is what you should be self conscious about ... instead, you place this insecurity onto your skin.


Nope, the problem in which leads you to feel insecure is because you're fat.
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Im 5'5 & 119 lbs w a flat stomach.lol the problem isnt my body shape. I love it , but its the fact that everytime ive lost or put on weight even if it was a couple of kgs , thats the one area where it all happens. So yeah - either way i was just woondering how men feel about them cause ive never been w someone intimately.
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How do men feel about strech marks?
I have a thick lower body . So i grew strech marks on the sides of my thighs/butt & though im learning to embrace them id like a little insight.
They only mean one of two things.... you were small and you got big....or you were big and you got small....it really shouldn't be earth shattering...and in no way affects your beauty or attractiveness in an absolute sense. Especially if you are a bit more voluptuous... stretch marks will happen.

If whomever you are attracted to...disqualifies you because of something naturally occurring consider yourself dodging a bullet...a dude getting really caught up in the normal functioning of your body and the slight "imperfections" of the female form is a fairly good indicator of him being a Fuck-boy...avoid that at all costs lol.
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Well problem is, if i ever get involved w someone on that level i want to be sure hes the one i chose to be the father of my children. So really, it all comes down to the fact that im afraid the one person i choose finds them unattractive. I mean people are allowed to have diff tastes, just like i dont like it wheh a guy has a really fair skin colour , that person might not like my strech marks
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Posted by TaurusinTexas
Men are not turned off by a fat ass, the Kardashians have built an empire on that! And they've proven fat assed women are smarter.... yep fat bottom girls really do rule the world!

And don't worry about the stretch marks, I have found men are typically just happy that you are willing to get naked with them, they don't even notice that stuff. God bless their super excited blind haze they get in.
Lmao
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this question isn't about stretch marks, it's about how men feel ... and naturally people cannot accept if another feels any kind of negativity from them, so every person is going to make a comment to suggest to the viewer that they highly approve of their stretch marks they have.


.... because otherwise, their ego might shatter.



The real truth is ..... the people who answered you, only did so to address about how they feel about themselves with their own stretch marks.

The other real truth is .... people (mainly women) judge each others looks all the time. So, yeah, men probably are looking down their nose at your stretch marks, and fat.
I do get what youre saying thoe. In a way thats still a reality, like some other girl was saying her ex used them to make her feel insecure after a fight & i guess once were not longer blinded by the thrill and excitement of being w a person, things like that start to bother us. Like small details (physical and mental) that slowly become mountains.
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How do men feel about strech marks?
I have a thick lower body . So i grew strech marks on the sides of my thighs/butt & though im learning to embrace them id like a little insight.
she used to be fst but she lost weight...
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Thats not accurate - you dont have to be fat .
I went from 122 to 119lbs this year ,butt last year i wasnt fat either. Its more like the area where the weight you gain affects. For me when i put on weight it goes there
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How do men feel about strech marks?
I have a thick lower body . So i grew strech marks on the sides of my thighs/butt & though im learning to embrace them id like a little insight.
Love them. Thickness is Godsend. Love your body. I know plenty of men do.

Girls are goofy about the silly things, worry about things that actually bother us lmao
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So would you like to mention some of those things? . Itll be nice to know (:
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How do men feel about strech marks?
I have a thick lower body . So i grew strech marks on the sides of my thighs/butt & though im learning to embrace them id like a little insight.
They only mean one of two things.... you were small and you got big....or you were big and you got small....it really shouldn't be earth shattering...and in no way affects your beauty or attractiveness in an absolute sense. Especially if you are a bit more voluptuous... stretch marks will happen.

If whomever you are attracted to...disqualifies you because of something naturally occurring consider yourself dodging a bullet...a dude getting really caught up in the normal functioning of your body and the slight "imperfections" of the female form is a fairly good indicator of him being a Fuck-boy...avoid that at all costs lol.


Well problem is, if i ever get involved w someone on that level i want to be sure hes the one i chose to be the father of my children. So really, it all comes down to the fact that im afraid the one person i choose finds them unattractive. I mean people are allowed to have diff tastes, just like i dont like it wheh a guy has a really fair skin colour , that person might not like my strech marks
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Well yea everyone has their preferences...but no one is perfect and to certain some preferences cannot be guaranteed. And since you seem to be willing to level with reality then the truth (as I see it of course), is that if you chose them and the man in turn thumbs his nose at your physical form...and you aren't unhealthy??... then I would choose another if the dislike is causing them to lose sleep. Its kinda one of those things where you are looking for what you ultimately want..and not at what is in front of you right now. I can be sure that a few of my past partners wanted me to be more brolic...well I'm not as of yet...if they ever harped on how I *need* to be muscular...then they need to go and find that guy cuz as it stands I am not it and if and when I do become so...it will only be because I chose to do it for me...not her.

Its one of those "don't set yourself up for failure kind of things" I am not a" stretch mark-phile" but my past partners have had em. Hell I have em on my shoulder blades...they look like I was raked by a set of large claws...but ttruth be told what can you do about it? Take care of yourself and your body...if you feel the need Vitamin E .... cocoa butter and the like should reduce its appearance...but don't sign yourself up to have to