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Positives and negatives of Venus Aquarius
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Would love to hear any experiences or opinions.
Men or women?
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How to feel for dummies
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Would love to hear any experiences or opinions.
Men or women?
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Both.
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Posted by NostalgicCappy
Would love to hear any experiences or opinions.
Men or women?
Both.
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For my tastes, it's the most natural placement a woman can have, I don't see negatives.
As for men, I'm one of them (with mars too), so most times I can't discern which energy I'm using, I guess both simultaneously, hence it's more extreme in my case. Anyway I'd like to know too how men with venus only get perceived.
Posted by tiziani
There are no negatives imo.GOAT Venus sign.
Thank you Tiziani, for your response.
Goat Venus sign is a really good one too. What is your Sun sign, if I may ask?
Posted by ramparts
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How to feel for dummies
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Im just being a brat. I actually like it. My boyfriend has it. It works well with aries venus.
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That's cute, 🙂
Thank you Ram
Posted by Palerio
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Posted by NostalgicCappy
Would love to hear any experiences or opinions.
Men or women?
Both.
For my tastes, it's the most natural placement a woman can have, I don't see negatives.
As for men, I'm one of them (with mars too), so most times I can't discern which energy I'm using, I guess both simultaneously, hence it's more extreme in my case. Anyway I'd like to know too how men with venus only get perceived.
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Thank you Palerio for your response. I'd like to know more about the male Aqua Venus too. Aren't they the same traits if it's the same Venus sign in general? I would think it is.
Posted by tiziani
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Posted by tiziani
There are no negatives imo.GOAT Venus sign.
Thank you Tiziani, for your response.
Goat Venus sign is a really good one too. What is your Sun sign, if I may ask?
I'm a Libra Sun. I'm biased because I really like Aqua Venus.
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Tiz, we're like opposite bros who ultimately like the same things.
We just take different paths.
Posted by tiziani
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Posted by tiziani
There are no negatives imo.GOAT Venus sign.
Thank you Tiziani, for your response.
Goat Venus sign is a really good one too. What is your Sun sign, if I may ask?
I'm a Libra Sun. I'm biased because I really like Aqua Venus.
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I've had 2 negative experiences with Libra Suns, but I've seen some of your posts and you seem cool. They must have had some other placements that caused the weird behavior, I wish I knew now what they were.
It sounds like you've had positive experiences with Aqua Venus I'm assuming?
Posted by champranger
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Would love to hear any experiences or opinions.
Positive: Fun and friendly people, the ones I knew were very considerate of other people. Like uniqueness.
I liked three Caps with Aqua Venus. So I tried to find as much info as I could about this placement. This is really an infamous placement. But in one thread, I came across that had said something like "I want to love more than one person. Why can't I love more than one person? I can equally love them." I would put that as a negative trait.
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Thank you Champranger 🙂
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Posted by tiziani
There are no negatives imo.GOAT Venus sign.
Thank you Tiziani, for your response.
Goat Venus sign is a really good one too. What is your Sun sign, if I may ask?
I'm a Libra Sun. I'm biased because I really like Aqua Venus.
I've had 2 negative experiences with Libra Suns, but I've seen some of your posts and you seem cool. They must have had some other placements that caused the weird behavior, I wish I knew now what they were.
It sounds like you've had positive experiences with Aqua Venus I'm assuming?
Yes I have 🙂 Aqua Venus on a woman, each woman I've met... they take a very keen interest in you. They're not easily phased or threatened by sex at the beginning so it's like a quality of attention on you that's completely unfiltered. I'm not saying this is true for Aqua Venus as a placement universally, just my personal experience.
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Well, I can see that being a trait in general. I'm like that when I have a special man in my life too. It's funny because I've heard that we aren't the commitment type and we don't like to be tied down. When I'm with someone I love for them to tie me down as tight as they can, I just need my space and I'm happy. I don't know too much about it, but I know one thing is for sure, we can detach at any moment emotionally. But that's just to protect ourselves and we can love deeper than anyone could imagine.
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That we're romantically retarded? The Aspergers of affection?
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Cheeky, you just made me laugh so hard. ‚ Love it!
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How to feel for dummies
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That we're romantically retarded? The Aspergers of affection?
Cheeky, you just made me laugh so hard. ‚ Love it!
So true tho! Have found I need someone a little airy or I just come off like the biggest idiot. They usually get my Cap Merc too. It's an acquired taste, but they're quirky enough to get a kick out've it. 😄
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Oh man, an air sign huh? So they'll get us? 🤔😋
Wait a minute.. You are Cap Sun, Aqua Venus, and Cap Merc?
Positives spontaneity in love; detached; unique prospective on love and lovers
Weakness: Too erratic and unpredictable
Too detached
All the strengths are weaknesses--- nature versus nurture like everything else
Same thing with money...
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Posted by ramparts
How to feel for dummies
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That we're romantically retarded? The Aspergers of affection?
Cheeky, you just made me laugh so hard. ‚ Love it!
So true tho! Have found I need someone a little airy or I just come off like the biggest idiot. They usually get my Cap Merc too. It's an acquired taste, but they're quirky enough to get a kick out've it. 😄
Oh man, an air sign huh? So they'll get us? 🤔😋
Wait a minute.. You are Cap Sun, Aqua Venus, and Cap Merc?
Yep. 🙂
Totally at odds with my Scorpy bits from time to time, but I definitely love like an Aqua. Actually, my joke is that it's something akin to, "I love you, I wanna wear you like another piece of skin, now stop smothering me and let me breathe".
Some of my best friends are air suns, but I've had no luck with it romantically. The Boy is air moon and Merc, with everything else in earth, and we get on like a house on fire tho. Just depends on the chart makeup, synastry, blah blah.
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F*ck, you make laugh! I knew there was a reason I liked you.
I have those placements too, and people not getting my ways are the story of my life. I put myself out there once every few years when I get those lonely feelings that creep up, because I just feel like it's not even worth trying.
You and I would probably get along really well. I'm glad you found someone who 'gets' and understands you, it sounds like you're happy. 🙂
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There are no negatives imo.GOAT Venus sign.
Yes there is...
Elaborate?
I'm a VinAq...
but mine is dyfunctional as venus trine pluto and mars makes me incredibly intense...But dealing with another person with VinAq...is challenging due to the detachment abilities...just saying
maybe I'm just jealous 😛
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I think it's the Leo moon that makes it challenging for you.
It's a pretty intense opposition from what I've noticed.
Posted by frostey91
Positives spontaneity in love; detached; unique prospective on love and loversWeakness: Too erratic and unpredictable
Too detached
All the strengths are weaknesses--- nature versus nurture like everything else
Same thing with money...
Thank you for your response Frostey,
Are you an Aqua Venus too?
Yes I am 0 degrees Aqua fabulous indeed.
Just now learning how to use it to my advantage.
Posted by frostey91
Yes I am 0 degrees Aqua fabulous indeed.Just now learning how to use it to my advantage.
Does that sound conceited??
Don't mind me
This also applies to friendships especially when one has 7th house Gemini... astrologers say Uranus is like a more powerful Mercury
Posted by frostey91
Posted by frostey91
Yes I am 0 degrees Aqua fabulous indeed.Just now learning how to use it to my advantage.
Does that sound conceited??
Don't mind me
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No, it doesn't sound conceited at all. You're confident, that's a good thing. 🙂
Mine is in 8th at 0 degrees in house positions.
I have Venus in Aries and I ALWAYS seem to be attracted to Venus in Aquarius, but they are a bit too aloof for me.
Posted by cheekyfaerie
F*ck, you make laugh! I knew there was a reason I liked you.I have those placements too, and people not getting my ways are the story of my life. I put myself out there once every few years when I get those lonely feelings that creep up, because I just feel like it's not even worth trying.
You and I would probably get along really well. I'm glad you found someone who 'gets' and understands you, it sounds like you're happy. 🙂
Thanks. I am. 🙂
And we probably would. Either that or we'd be too much alike and rub each other the wrong way so we'd do shots to camouflage how awkward it was. Either way.
You're fixed moon too so you prolly get it when I say that our make up doesn't require another person to make us happy. We're fairly self contained units. We have friends that meet our emotional needs, making romantic relationships more trouble than they're worth, for the most part. It's why meeting that person that makes it worth it has a special place for us. With the Virgo, I feel like he's the same way and that makes *me* feel special. That's what we need to really thrive.
Happy hunting. 😄
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Of course, I always love to see people happy. Especially when I like them. 🙂
You have no idea how much I get it, and yes I have many friends (more surface friendships) that fill that void for the most part. I do have lonely times, but to be honest I prefer LDR situations over someone wanting to hang out all the time or dealing with the trouble and drama of having a physical in my face all the time relationship. Too many people want to spend every waking minute together, with no break and take it personal when I just want to recharge by myself or something. I would rather have the mental stimulation, emotional, and spiritual bond that grows over time with a commitment of course, but that gives me all the space I want. Eventually when the time is right changing it from LDR to a more close proximity and physical relationship of course, but no rush for that. I'm weird..
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Posted by Palerio
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Posted by NostalgicCappy
Would love to hear any experiences or opinions.
Men or women?
Both.
For my tastes, it's the most natural placement a woman can have, I don't see negatives.
As for men, I'm one of them (with mars too), so most times I can't discern which energy I'm using, I guess both simultaneously, hence it's more extreme in my case. Anyway I'd like to know too how men with venus only get perceived.
Thank you Palerio for your response. I'd like to know more about the male Aqua Venus too. Aren't they the same traits if it's the same Venus sign in general? I would think it is.
My brother has this....He does not ever want to marry or have children. But is loving to friends and family very gentle fun etc. A wonderful brother. Great guy.
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Aww, that's so cute Donna. You sound like a very loving sister. 🙂
Posted by ashley1734
I have Venus in Aries and I ALWAYS seem to be attracted to Venus in Aquarius, but they are a bit too aloof for me.
Thank you for your response Ashley. 🙂
Posted by cheekyfaerie
F*ck, you make laugh! I knew there was a reason I liked you.I have those placements too, and people not getting my ways are the story of my life. I put myself out there once every few years when I get those lonely feelings that creep up, because I just feel like it's not even worth trying.
You and I would probably get along really well. I'm glad you found someone who 'gets' and understands you, it sounds like you're happy. 🙂
Thanks. I am. 🙂
And we probably would. Either that or we'd be too much alike and rub each other the wrong way so we'd do shots to camouflage how awkward it was. Either way.
You're fixed moon too so you prolly get it when I say that our make up doesn't require another person to make us happy. We're fairly self contained units. We have friends that meet our emotional needs, making romantic relationships more trouble than they're worth, for the most part. It's why meeting that person that makes it worth it has a special place for us. With the Virgo, I feel like he's the same way and that makes *me* feel special. That's what we need to really thrive.
Happy hunting. 😄
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Btw, you are special and unique too in the best way. Forgot to add that in before.
Posted by Pisco
I have a Venus in Aquarius and I'm awesome.Jk. But really, it's an interesting position. I often feel conflicted in relationships, like I always want more but I'm very loyal. I like freedom and my space to do things whenever I want. I love deeply, but I don't show it except for when I get in these goofy moods. Maybe about once a month haha. A Venus in Aquarius is not a good partner for anyone needing constant reassurance or attention, it either freaks us out or turns us off. It's like I expect you to know that I love and adore you because I'm with you but won't tell you. I don't know, it has more positives for the person with it than the person dealing with it, I think. 😛
I'm the same way to a T. I need to have that independence to work on whatever project I'm doing, read, study, work, or anything else I want to do by myself. Yes, I'm realizing I need someone with the same kind of Venus as me. Like another Aquarius or Sagittarius in Venus. What placements have you had success with? What is your Sun sign? If I may ask
Posted by Pisco
I have a Venus in Aquarius and I'm awesome.Jk. But really, it's an interesting position. I often feel conflicted in relationships, like I always want more but I'm very loyal. I like freedom and my space to do things whenever I want. I love deeply, but I don't show it except for when I get in these goofy moods. Maybe about once a month haha. A Venus in Aquarius is not a good partner for anyone needing constant reassurance or attention, it either freaks us out or turns us off. It's like I expect you to know that I love and adore you because I'm with you but won't tell you. I don't know, it has more positives for the person with it than the person dealing with it, I think. 😛
Can I ask you something @Pisco...
I know a few Pisces Suns with Aqua Venus. They seem to come on really strong and they are very charming and seem like they're so interested in a person but then can flip it off like they never felt anything. Is that common b/c they are just feeling the fantasy of what they think it could be with that person?
I know once they really truly are emotionally invested, they don't express their deep feelings often, or give constant reassurance if the person is needy. My dad gives my mom constant affirmation of how beautiful and wonderful she is, without her ever asking for it. He just feels he won the lottery with her. So it seems they will only if it's not forced..
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Yes I am 0 degrees Aqua fabulous indeed.Just now learning how to use it to my advantage.
Does that sound conceited??
Don't mind me
No, it doesn't sound conceited at all. You're confident, that's a good thing. 🙂
Mine is in 8th at 0 degrees in house positions.
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2nd house for moi
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Yes I am 0 degrees Aqua fabulous indeed.Just now learning how to use it to my advantage.
Does that sound conceited??
Don't mind me
No, it doesn't sound conceited at all. You're confident, that's a good thing. 🙂
Mine is in 8th at 0 degrees in house positions.
2nd house for moi
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Does the house it's in make a big difference? That's probably a stupid question sorry, I'm new to all of this.
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F*ck, you make laugh! I knew there was a reason I liked you.I have those placements too, and people not getting my ways are the story of my life. I put myself out there once every few years when I get those lonely feelings that creep up, because I just feel like it's not even worth trying.
You and I would probably get along really well. I'm glad you found someone who 'gets' and understands you, it sounds like you're happy. 🙂
Thanks. I am. 🙂
And we probably would. Either that or we'd be too much alike and rub each other the wrong way so we'd do shots to camouflage how awkward it was. Either way.
You're fixed moon too so you prolly get it when I say that our make up doesn't require another person to make us happy. We're fairly self contained units. We have friends that meet our emotional needs, making romantic relationships more trouble than they're worth, for the most part. It's why meeting that person that makes it worth it has a special place for us. With the Virgo, I feel like he's the same way and that makes *me* feel special. That's what we need to really thrive.
Happy hunting. 😄
Btw, you are special and unique too in the best way. Forgot to add that in before.
Ha. Thanks. And you're less weird than you think! Had a 10yr relationship with someone I met on a director's appreciation forum, that went from a LDR to 7yrs of marriage. There's a weirdo out there for everybody.
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Thank you so much for this Cheeky. You just gave me some hope.. 😉
Posted by Pisco
I have a Venus in Aquarius and I'm awesome.Jk. But really, it's an interesting position. I often feel conflicted in relationships, like I always want more but I'm very loyal. I like freedom and my space to do things whenever I want. I love deeply, but I don't show it except for when I get in these goofy moods. Maybe about once a month haha. A Venus in Aquarius is not a good partner for anyone needing constant reassurance or attention, it either freaks us out or turns us off. It's like I expect you to know that I love and adore you because I'm with you but won't tell you. I don't know, it has more positives for the person with it than the person dealing with it, I think. 😛
Just curious.
Does your venus square uranus?
I'll start with the bad news: Marriage is usually not their thing... and the positive: Marriage is usually not their thing.
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I have a Venus in Aquarius and I'm awesome.Jk. But really, it's an interesting position. I often feel conflicted in relationships, like I always want more but I'm very loyal. I like freedom and my space to do things whenever I want. I love deeply, but I don't show it except for when I get in these goofy moods. Maybe about once a month haha. A Venus in Aquarius is not a good partner for anyone needing constant reassurance or attention, it either freaks us out or turns us off. It's like I expect you to know that I love and adore you because I'm with you but won't tell you. I don't know, it has more positives for the person with it than the person dealing with it, I think. 😛
Just curious.
Does your venus square uranus?
No, but it does square Jupiter. If that makes a difference.
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mmm...not really.
I asked because the Angelina comparison, in your case, is not farfatched at all and she has that aspect.
They say venus-uranus aspects are very favourable when it comes to beauty and women. Basically I was trying to determine the validity of the theory.
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Yes I am 0 degrees Aqua fabulous indeed.Just now learning how to use it to my advantage.
Does that sound conceited??
Don't mind me
No, it doesn't sound conceited at all. You're confident, that's a good thing. 🙂
Mine is in 8th at 0 degrees in house positions.
2nd house for moi
Does the house it's in make a big difference? That's probably a stupid question sorry, I'm new to all of this.
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The houses are opposite. One is your money 2nd house ... 8th is others money, intimacy, death, occult taxes etc.
2nd self esteem and your possessions and real estate to some degree
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I'll start with the bad news: Marriage is usually not their thing... and the positive: Marriage is usually not their thing.
Yup
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I have a Venus in Aquarius and I'm awesome.Jk. But really, it's an interesting position. I often feel conflicted in relationships, like I always want more but I'm very loyal. I like freedom and my space to do things whenever I want. I love deeply, but I don't show it except for when I get in these goofy moods. Maybe about once a month haha. A Venus in Aquarius is not a good partner for anyone needing constant reassurance or attention, it either freaks us out or turns us off. It's like I expect you to know that I love and adore you because I'm with you but won't tell you. I don't know, it has more positives for the person with it than the person dealing with it, I think. 😛
Just curious.
Does your venus square uranus?
No, but it does square Jupiter. If that makes a difference.
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I agree wholeheartedly ... It takes lots of Sacrifice
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Would love to hear any experiences or opinions.
Men or women?
Both.
For my tastes, it's the most natural placement a woman can have, I don't see negatives.
As for men, I'm one of them (with mars too), so most times I can't discern which energy I'm using, I guess both simultaneously, hence it's more extreme in my case. Anyway I'd like to know too how men with venus only get perceived.
Thank you Palerio for your response. I'd like to know more about the male Aqua Venus too. Aren't they the same traits if it's the same Venus sign in general? I would think it is.
My brother has this....He does not ever want to marry or have children. But is loving to friends and family very gentle fun etc. A wonderful brother. Great guy.
Aww, that's so cute Donna. You sound like a very loving sister. 🙂
Oh thank you I love your demeanour! You are so gracious.
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Well thank you, and you my dear are a total sweetheart. 🤗
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I have a Venus in Aquarius and I'm awesome.Jk. But really, it's an interesting position. I often feel conflicted in relationships, like I always want more but I'm very loyal. I like freedom and my space to do things whenever I want. I love deeply, but I don't show it except for when I get in these goofy moods. Maybe about once a month haha. A Venus in Aquarius is not a good partner for anyone needing constant reassurance or attention, it either freaks us out or turns us off. It's like I expect you to know that I love and adore you because I'm with you but won't tell you. I don't know, it has more positives for the person with it than the person dealing with it, I think. 😛
I'm the same way to a T. I need to have that independence to work on whatever project I'm doing, read, study, work, or anything else I want to do by myself. Yes, I'm realizing I need someone with the same kind of Venus as me. Like another Aquarius or Sagittarius in Venus. What placements have you had success with? What is your Sun sign? If I may ask
Yes, I can agree with all of that. My sun is in Pisces. And honestly, I have never been with a water Venus but I have been with air, earth and fire Venus men. My most successful relationships have been with other air Venus men. Although, the Venus in sag was almost on the same exact page when it came to freedom and I loved it, surprisingly, he was more distant than even I preferred.
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Thank you Pisco, you're awesome. You really have no idea how much that insight helps. 🙂
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Yes I am 0 degrees Aqua fabulous indeed.Just now learning how to use it to my advantage.
Does that sound conceited??
Don't mind me
No, it doesn't sound conceited at all. You're confident, that's a good thing. 🙂
Mine is in 8th at 0 degrees in house positions.
2nd house for moi
Does the house it's in make a big difference? That's probably a stupid question sorry, I'm new to all of this.
The houses are opposite. One is your money 2nd house ... 8th is others money, intimacy, death, occult taxes etc.
2nd self esteem and your possessions and real estate to some degree
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Thanks Frostey, I love learning about all of these placements, traits, and how they all fit together, etc.
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