Pisces Men

Why are pisces men so complicated? LOL

I am seeing a pisces man (Just a nooky buddy!). He has ALOT of responsibilities as a single dad so its hard to meet up with him. We see each other about once every two weeks. Sometimes three times a week depending on our schedules. He has made it very clear that he doesnt wanna relationship because he doesnt want his son meeting differant people. Which i understand. But when i first met him he was very flirty out going and now he doesnt flirt like he used to, he tells me how he loves to do me and loves to kiss me. He grabbed my hand in public the other day which is unusual for him. We text each other everyday. I give him space though ,..if i email him i wait till he emails me back i never over do it. I am just wondering if he has feelings for me.. pisces are kinda complicated just when you think you may know, you dont! I did however think he might be the other day when we went to the lake on his lunch break and had passionate sex in his truck. He now holds my hand "fingers interlocked" when we do it. I Send him cookies or flowers and always let him know he is on my mind and that i am thinking about him or i dream about him which is true i do. I have fallen head over heals for him,and when i told him i think i did, he reminded me he didnt wanna relationship but if anything happened he could never lose me as a friend because it would hurt him..and that he did care about me and have feelings for me and he liked us where we were right at this moment. Can anyone help me decode this? LOL

so CancerianGoddess, how long have you been together? do you know any of his friends/relatives? to be honest if everything is so nice and well why not take it further, i understand the part with his son but when in love there are no buts about it, please be careful not to be used!!!is he there for you when you need him?

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"I am seeing a pisces man (Just a nooky buddy!)."
"He has made it very clear that he doesnt wanna relationship .."

"he tells me how he loves to do me and loves to kiss me."

........ key word above DO you .. NOT love you ... DO you.

He's being loud and clear .. he likes to fuck you ONLY. However, you now have feelings growing = typical female, and so now trying to emotionally manipulate him into having these same feelings back by doing the below ...

"I Send him cookies or flowers and always let him know he is on my mind and that i am thinking about him or i dream about him which is true i do."

There isn't anything complicated, or confusing about the messages he is sending you. To hold your fingers during SEX ONLY during his lunch break in the truck is NOT a sign of "love" for you on his part. It's a sign that he loves fucking you.

"I have fallen head over heals for him,and when i told him i think i did, he reminded me he didnt wanna relationship .."

Again, he is telling you he does NOT want a relationship .. this does not make him complicated .. it makes your female emotions complicated because being a girl .. your emotions and sexuality is linked.

Men aren't like this ... the sooner a woman TRULY comprehends this, the better off she will be with herself ... a man's emotions and sexuality is NOT ..... NOT .... NOT ... connected. He can fuck without feeling anything for the woman.

"if anything happened he could never lose me as a friend because it would hurt him..and that he did care about me and have feelings for me and he liked us where we were right at this moment."

Friend as it is in the moment .... think about exactly what this relationship is, rather than what you WANT it to be and you will find your answer. You want for his words to mean more because you are feeling him .. you can't hold him, or any man to your feelings if he continues to tell you he isn't interested in a relationship other than fuck buddies.

The quote above means ....... he doesn't want to lose you opening your legs to him on a regular basis ... because this opening of your legs is the only relationship you have.


Think .. think .. about "what" it is .. NOT what you WANT it to be, and you will no longer be confused.

. To hold your fingers during SEX ONLY during his lunch break in the truck is NOT a sign of "love" for you on his part. It's a sign that he loves treetrunking you.

No, he now holds my hand in public and grabs it naturally, i didnt start that one. He has told me he doesnt care who sees us together "in our friendship circle which at one point he didnt want them knowing" he will make out with me in public now, never did that before.... hmm..

CancerianGoddess, it is not what he does in public or in private, it is how and what actually behaves towards you, if he respects you he would tell you to move on and be the true friend that he says he is, don't let him fool you, you will get hurt!!!!like P-Angel said, men can detach very easily, i have been with a guy like that for 3 years, and because we got closer in time i assumed he loved me or at least that he was in love with me, when i finally got tired of being used and mistreated i asked him what he felt for me, and after such a long time all he had to say to me is that "he likes me very much!!!", that is all i needed to move on!!!!trust me this guy got more affectionate with every time we saw each other....at least that is what i wanted to see!!!!you must want better than that, i know it is hard, but you deserve better, everybody deserves to be happy!!!!i hope that the messsages you'll be reading on your thread won't be considered as hursh, it is only the reality taht you don't/cannot see at the moment!!!

"a man's emotions and sexuality is NOT ..... NOT .... NOT ... connected."

That is a very broad generalization, P-Angel.

"a man's emotions and sexuality is NOT ..... NOT .... NOT ... connected."

That is a very broad generalization, P-Angel.

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Yes it is .. broad enough to contain the male population .. it is also the truth from a females perspective in which you cannot relate, and is what prompted you to comment on this. Because you are male, you can certainly acknowledge that you have emotions and feelings, and you can aslo acknowledge how far and deep these feelings go for the woman you love.

However, you can only acknowledge them and how they are connected as it pertains to being male, because you are not female. A man's feelings as they are connected to sexuality is severly breached as compared to a woman's.

For example: A man can have a horrid day, or be feeling ill, or have any kind of emotional situation that has happened to him in that day .. to be able to get an erection and make love to his woman, while this emotional turmoil plays no part in his ability to express his love physically. And a woman CANNOT do that .... because her sexuality is securely cemented to her emotions. If she is in ANY kind of emotional turmoil, in any form .. she CANNOT disconnect from these emotions, as if they didn't exist to have sexual contact with her man.

So, again ... yes ... it's a broad statement, to encompass all males.


A man's emotions and sexuality is NOT ..... NOT .... NOT ... NOT ... NOT ... NOT ... NOT .... NOT .... NOT .... NOT .... connected.

Many of you girls need to learn and accept the reality of being f*ck buddies. That is all it will ever be. Don't waste your time by reading any further into it. It is what it is.

CGoddess, you would be well advised to pay close attention to some of these posts. I think you already know there is something wrong with your "relationship" with this Pisces man. What is particularly interesting is that he is available to be with you (i.e. he's not in a r'ship with someone else) and he chooses not to. The whole child story sounds noble but is an excuse for keeping you at a distance and not getting involved with you on an emotional level.

If you already have feelings for this guy, get ready for the rollercoaster ride of your life. Pisces like to swim in opposite directions and they have the potential to take you to the highest highs and lowest lows. It is part of their charm.

After reading your post, the phrase "Why buy the cow when the milk is free?" came to mind. If you want to have a serious r'ship with this Pisces man, stop having "free" sex with him. Tell him what you want out of this r'ship and then make him work for it. You will quickly find out whether he sees you as the fabulous, loving woman that you are or if he only sees you as a friend w/benefits.

Pisces men in general have a lot of respect for women and hold them as equals. He is likely holding back to find the woman of his dreams. If you are strong and stand up for yourself (without being cruel and nasty), you will earn his respect and maybe even his love.

Well, that's how their r'ship started and it seemed to work... until she FELL FOR HIM! Problem now is they aren't both in it anymore for the same reason. Time to make a decision. It's not like she can undo and make the feelings go away. Although that would come in handy sometimes...

WOW, LOL... I Cant help whom i fall in love with. I did fall for him, i let him know about it. He used to be a big flirt around our friends, now hes not, he doesnt talk to any of our female friends just me. Females always ask me how he is since i am the only one in his phone.I am also the only girl that knows where he lives. He told me he can trust me completely with everything and he doesnt trust very easily. He has told me things i know nobody else knows. we are both VERY secretive too. Of course most cancers can keep secrets! lol.. Saturday he called me when his son is around which he has never done. He NEVER calls on a weekend!!! and he did because i emailed him telling him i needed someone to talk to. So who knows... THANKS Though! lol

Goddess: A female being of supernatural powers or attributes, believed in and worshipped by a people.

A goddess wouldn't be caught dead sneaking around with her man, having sex in a truck like a bunch of teenagers hiding from their parents. What is this guy, ex-KGB??

If you want your little fishie to fall at your feet and worship YOU, tell him how you expect him to behave and how to treat you and don't settle for anything less. Then watch as he wiggles on your little hook as he figures out that you're the woman of his dreams. Then reel him in for a REAL relationship where he respects you and wants to be WITH you.

ACT LIKE A PRIZE AND HE WILL TREAT YOU AS ONE. ACT LIKE A DOORMAT AND HE WILL USE YOU.