Sag Men do you feel hurt when people voice that you are unrealiable?

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So I think I hurt my ex's feelings he kept trying to argue with me about once he gets a job in corrections that our son will be all set with insurance. I said it is ok if he has two insurance and he wanted to keep on asking me why when he felt like state insurance would cover everything and I just kept telling him that it is ok that our son has two insurances. Finally he accused me of having some big elaborate plan to fuck him over so I told him straight out look I told you long ago I don't want anything from you. As long as you do your part in our son's life and pay for half of our joint expenses concerning him I will not attempt to put you on child support I have not need nor desire to do that we work well together. He kept pushing and asking why I didn't want to put our son on just his insurance and so finally I told him (so he wouldn't take matters into his own hands) it is because I don't trust him. He was like ok but don't you think I would have fucked you over by now if I wanted to and I said I am not sure about that but I do know you haven't been able to keep a job since I got pregnant with our son. I told him that I didn't want to hurt his feeling and that was why I didn't want to say so, but that was how I felt he went on about how it shouldn't be held over his head for ever and I told him I agree, but I have to have my own things for our son just incase as a back up because I cant afford to be left in a compromising position.

He stopped talking and I am sure he will be very cold to me the next time I see him, but why must Sag keep pushing and why get upset if you are told you are unreliable especially when you have been? My ex is a Sag Sun, Leo moon, Scorp Venus , Aries Mars.
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Posted by ladylibra21

That is my son's chart he is 2

Spanking does not work with him

gets so mad that he cant even process why he is being punished ... He never forgets what he sees as a wrong doing.

I do hands on the wall with him .... I am literally holding his hands there.

This is very exhausting for me ....

He grows very attached to people though and has behavior problems at daycare if a teacher he likes quits ..... This is so embarrassing for me