Same venus sign relationships great or no?

Who has dated a same venus sign partner and how was that experience?

My first love and I had the same venus sign and now I'm dating Nother Pisces with venus in aries and he and I also share the same aqua moon lol

I can def spot a venus in aries I personally love dating a fellow VIA we rly just have lots have fun and sex together lol

Posted by centipedes
I wrote about my worst dating experience on a different thread. unfortunately with another Venus Scorpio, and the only Venus in Scorpio I've dated.

Posted by centipedes
Then there's one guy I went on a few dates with who had RED FLAGS written all over him, but it still took me until the 2nd date to even start seeing them. Which I didn't immediately act on, though I bolted a month after.

* Referring to his ex as a bitch

* Interrogating me about things that were really only just icebreakers...like why was he so intent on getting to the bottom of random choices I've made? (Like why I went to my alma mater, why I volunteered abroad, why why why.)

* Ordering for me

* Telling me I was "not going to" take the subway back home after the second date. He insisted on driving me home, and when I fought against that, he insisted on paying for a cab to take me home.

* Insisting on taking me on a luxury shopping spree to the point of physically grabbing my hand and dragging me to the stores.

* Telling me about all the girls he's rejected like he expected a cookie

* Wanting to be boyfriend and girlfriend after the third date

* Telling me I'm too independent

* When I couldn't meet at a time he wanted, he'd interrogate me on why, who, where, when. And check things like Google maps to see if I was lying.

* I left my phone home once to go hiking with friends, and came back to progressively crazier messages

* 220 texts, 20 phone calls, 5 voice mails. All within 7 hours.

* Several talking about how wasted he's gotten because of how much I "upset" him, and mentioned that he threw the vase of flowers he had for me against the wall (lol)

That's when I texted him goodbye. There's no way we'd have ever been compatible.

* Begging me to reconsider, and that he'd get me anything in the world I wanted if I stayed with him.

I frantically blocked him on all fronts and never responded to him again.

he had a Libra cusp Scorpio sun, but a Leo moon, which may have been the real culprit of his histrionics

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this was like my ex who was a Virgo sun, Scorpio moon, Leo ascendant, Libra Venus, Scorpio Mars.

I'm a Scorpio Venus and never behaved in the manner he did. however honestly I'm grateful that he treated me that way because now I despise any traces of it and REFUSE to be that way to anyone else. He was a nightmare. minus the luxury shopping spree. one time he made me walk home in the rain. I lived 15 miles away. I had to walk 2 miles and then stop in Walgreens to call a friend to pick me up. this was because he was mad I didn't invite him to the movies when I went with some of my FEMALE friends @centipedes


@ OP: my friend is dating a Gem Venus and she's a Gem Venus. they are perfect together.

I would imagine this pairing would be pretty decent. I've never met a scorp Venus. however I'm pretty air dominant with my water dominance, so idk if I could handle it depending on who bears it. I think it truly relies on other placements too and who is the bearer of those placements. AND THE PSYCHOLOGICAL WELL-BEING OF THE PERSON lmao. other than that I think they'd understand each other's approach to love quite well given whatever circumstances. but it would also depend on other aspects.

moon, Venus, Mars. so the moon and Venus matches for you guys? I'd say that's a pretty decent start. probably a good sense of understanding though sometimes it might cause you to step on each other's toes (possibly) but that's with any relationship

Posted by Curiousram
Scorpio venus was a nightmare for me as well. First date the guy tried shoving me down to make out with me. I'm a pisces venus and I basically yelled at him to get him off me because he was at weighed at least 3 times the weight I was(I'm skinny). Biggest turn off lmao..

LMFAO!!! ummmmm I would be turned off too so can't blame you there lmao lmao. that sounds so dreadful and scary. I'd be frightened af. I'm skinny too so I feel you. awww Pisces Venus. one of my best friends is an Aries sun/moon and Pisces Venus/Mars and she has a Virgo ascendant like you too! when I was hammered I told her that we are both gentle little lambs trying to survive in this harsh world. as dumb as it sounds (especially sober), I'd say Aries w Pisces Venus are very gentle people 🙂

being squashed by a Scorp Venus doesn't sound like the ideal situation for a gentle person lmfao

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Posted by degenerate_ingenue
I'm a Scorpio Venus and never behaved in the manner he did. however honestly I'm grateful that he treated me that way because now I despise any traces of it and REFUSE to be that way to anyone else. He was a nightmare. minus the luxury shopping spree. one time he made me walk home in the rain. I lived 15 miles away. I had to walk 2 miles and then stop in Walgreens to call a friend to pick me up. this was because he was mad I didn't invite him to the movies when I went with some of my FEMALE friends @centipedes


@ OP: my friend is dating a Gem Venus and she's a Gem Venus. they are perfect together.

Same here. It was an example of what NOT to become

not surprised your ex was a Virgo tho. Virgos can be something else :x

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oh lord he was a mess lmfao but so was I for sticking around. live and learn as i always say

Wow sound like I should stay away from any Scorpio venuses or strong Scorpio placements. Lol

I love loyalty and devotion but my aqua moon and aries venus couldn't handle someone so intense I wouldn't be stable enough for a Scorpio.

In my case I've had great luck with same sign venus and I think u should try again that guy was just a bad apple lol I think same sign venus have great potential because u basically speak the same love language

yes! or even the same element. I have a scorp Venus but a Sag Mars so I'm a bundle of contradictions. I want both so it's rough. I don't think I'd ever be happy w a scorp Venus if they also have a water or earth Mars. I tend to be attracted to fire and air signs with fire and air venuses. makes the love life rough for me but what's life without a little challenge?! being an Aries Venus, I know how you guys love the challenge. hehe a lot of my friends have this placement. the guy I like has this placement too... he's so untamable and that's what makes it all the more exciting to me. and he's independent which makes him all the more attractive to me. curse my conflicting Venus and Mars 😭

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/chart-interpretation/the-paradox-of-my-desires-venus-and-mars-5639532/

my old thread on how a water Venus works with a fire Mars. I have the link in there too if you wanna play around with it on the actual site I got it from!

kind of creepy how I used "bundle of contradictions" and this description did too lmfao maybe it mentally stuck with me.

Lol trust me I totally understand my whole being is conflicted lol I'm a taurus sun aqua moon aries venus and Pisces mars so I get it lol

And yea a little challenge is a must I've never fallen for a guy that was too easy I like to conquer u and I can't do that if u just give yourself to me. Best advice I can give u with the venus in aries guy u like is to be fun! We need stimulation. Keep me on my toes spice things up and just have fun together. We hate feeling stuffy or too serious and emotional. And don't be afraid to give him a little sass we love to verbally spare it stimulates us mentally to see that u can keep up with our witty and blunt ways

And yea I realized I tend to be drawn to men with fire my first love and long term boyfriend was a Pisces with aries moon and venus and sag mars so he was quite the fire ball but we had a blast together I was just recently dating a leo sun Pisces moon venus libra mars cap but even with the fire sun that venus libra was a little to peace loving for my aries venus we don't rly have the same love style he couldn't handle my blunt attitude and my emotionally unstable ways lol

my whole life orbits the planet of sass and attitude 😄 lmao!!

he tells me "I hate when you act like that" when I give him an attitude and talk back, and I always respond saying "I never knew you were a liar because you know you love my attitude. how boring would of a person would I be if I just agreed with everything you said" lmfao. he just smirks. oooo you are definitely a bundle of contradictions. so you're my opposite!! fire Venus and water Mars. I would check that link out and select your mixture because it'll give you some insight!! I have a Virgo moon but it's in the 11th house (house of Aquarius). what house is your moon in?

Lol love it! See I love when ppl are fun like that makes everything so much better. Can't stand ppl with no sense of humor that just take everything so seriously that's so boring me and my new boo another Pisces with venus in aries lol our texts are hilarious I re read them often just to laugh because it's funny how we just go back and forth just tonight I was telling him how I need to stop talking to him for two weeks to get my emotions in check and even sent him a pic of me flicking him off for making me start to crush on him he sent me a funny meme back and then I told him to call me and tell me goodnight lol venus in aries rly is childlike at least in my case and he just gets my crazy so it works lol

My moon is in the first house yikes lol

mm good question.. I wonder too!

I too have Aries venus.. lucky you, your aqua moon balances it out..

Posted by TxOgal
mm good question.. I wonder too!

I too have Aries venus.. lucky you, your aqua moon balances it out..

So you've never dated another venus in aries? You have to experience it atleast once in life lol so hot and fiery I love it lol and my aqua moon just creates different kinds of problems I'm quite a contradiction lol

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Posted by TxOgal
mm good question.. I wonder too!

I too have Aries venus.. lucky you, your aqua moon balances it out..

So you've never dated another venus in aries? You have to experience it atleast once in life lol so hot and fiery I love it lol and my aqua moon just creates different kinds of problems I'm quite a contradiction lol

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lol can imagine the contradiction... my bf has aqua moon! .. I never dated anyone with Venus in Aries. I dont feel that I will stand it haha

Posted by starlover
I would not like to date another Venus in Scorpio..thanks very much 😱

Yeah, I'd imagine we'd butt heads a lot trying to possess one another. Might be too much for one household, lol.

Posted by YellowSubmarine
@centipedes I wouldn't put up with this shit even YEARS into a relationship... unbelievable. But yeah, Venus in Scorpio... I won't get into details but they're seriously too much at times - one of the ViS I date also had Sun AND Moon in Scorp, so yeah... I was legit scared for my safety at times. Still am.

Anyway, same Venus sign dating... depends on the Venus sign I'd say. I'm Venus in Aries but I don't think I could date one 😆

P.S. I'm a Pisces, Venus in Aries, and Aqua Moon... and I've been harping on and on about how if I got to pick, I'd like to date a Taurus Sun/Aqua Moon, so I think you're headed in the right direction!!

I know a girl who's a Scorp Sun/Moon/Merc/Venus/Jupiter/Pluto and there's a high possibility even her ascendant is in Scorpio.... very intense and obsessive. and very very emotional. a guy has a restraining order against her.

Posted by TaurusCap323
Lol love it! See I love when ppl are fun like that makes everything so much better. Can't stand ppl with no sense of humor that just take everything so seriously that's so boring me and my new boo another Pisces with venus in aries lol our texts are hilarious I re read them often just to laugh because it's funny how we just go back and forth just tonight I was telling him how I need to stop talking to him for two weeks to get my emotions in check and even sent him a pic of me flicking him off for making me start to crush on him he sent me a funny meme back and then I told him to call me and tell me goodnight lol venus in aries rly is childlike at least in my case and he just gets my crazy so it works lol

My moon is in the first house yikes lol

lmao so that gives you a little more of a sense of emotion. emotions reside in the house of self 🙂

yes I love that about Venus in Aries. their childlike humor and playfulness. my friend once mimicked me. at first I didn't notice it, but I was rubbing my hands together and spacing out (who knows I space out all the time) and he started doing it too but it didn't click with me at first. then I rubbed my eye and he did too and then I was like "what do you think you're doing?" AND HE COPIED ME lmao!!! I was like "will you stop" and he mimicked my tone and everything once again and I playfully punched him lightly in the side.

my best friend is an Aries sun w Aries Venus and she is super playful like that as well. she doesn't mimick but she has her own version of playfulness. she's currently dating w Taurus w a Venus in Taurus.... I don't think it's a good match for her, but she is really glued to him even though he truly does make her miserable because he is all about routine & he's somewhat lazy (no offense to him but it's very true). she's the complete opposite. I cannot make her decisions for her and she already knows how I feel and I know she'll learn eventually, but I wish she would see that she doesn't have to settle for less than what she wants or needs in a man. he truly stifles her and is slowly killing one of the most vibrant parts of her personality

Posted by starwars
I'm venus scorpio and hoping that im not too crazy like you've all stated! 😄
my last relationship was with gem venus, it was nice! he was really fun 🙂
might start something with an aqua with pisces venus 🙂

what's your Mars? I'm a Venus in Scorpio too w Mars in Sag. I'm not nearly as crazy as some of these mfs either. they give us a bad name!! idk what's with people and their lack of self-control w jealousy and clinginess. it sickens me. If I get a double text I start to get annoyed. it's pretty bad. id consider myself almost a polar opposite of some of the lunatics out there. but w psychological problems on the rise, I would say it may not even be a Venus in Scorpio thing but just a general sanity thing lmao. the guy I mentioned wasn't a Venus in scorp at all. he was actually Venus in Libra and Mars in Scorp and he acted like the description centipede had

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Posted by degenerate_ingenue

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I'm venus scorpio and hoping that im not too crazy like you've all stated! 😄
my last relationship was with gem venus, it was nice! he was really fun 🙂
might start something with an aqua with pisces venus 🙂

what's your Mars? I'm a Venus in Scorpio too w Mars in Sag. I'm not nearly as crazy as some of these mfs either. they give us a bad name!! idk what's with people and their lack of self-control w jealousy and clinginess. it sickens me. If I get a double text I start to get annoyed. it's pretty bad. id consider myself almost a polar opposite of some of the lunatics out there. but w psychological problems on the rise, I would say it may not even be a Venus in Scorpio thing but just a general sanity thing lmao. the guy I mentioned wasn't a Venus in scorp at all. he was actually Venus in Libra and Mars in Scorp and he acted like the description centipede had

I have mars in cancer! LMAO! the texting, I'm the worst to text it took me days to reply! freaking bad. yes, exactly I actually hate clinginess too!! I could cut things with a person if I sense clinginess, absolutely hate it when people act like their lives depend on me. I'm quite detached in nature, also love my space like no other and appreciate alone time! one of the reasons ive broke up with my ex was his possessiveness 😆 maybe its the cap virgo combo I have or the aqua rising? keep on mind im all that but also is a scorp dominated like wtf why do I not have feelings? the only thing I read that is true about having scorp venus is the need to have deep bond with the ones they love.
shit, id imagine a venus in libra to be extra clingy 😢 but wont blame the venus, guess hes just insane! good thing you've end the relationship!

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hmmm idk but I'm similar actually. my moon is in Virgo in the 11th house. I'm very detached but love my friends to death. I'm not very emotional outwardly at all. when I was younger I used to think I had problems because of my not showing emotions the way other kids did. what's your moon? I still want love very much too of course. love makes me curious. I want a fun partner who can have deep conversation and connections w me and also travel and adventure around with me. 🙂 I feel you 100% !!

I have a venus in gemini, and so did this other gemini guy I dated a long time ago, we got on very very well!

Posted by YellowSubmarine
@centipedes I wouldn't put up with this shit even YEARS into a relationship... unbelievable. But yeah, Venus in Scorpio... I won't get into details but they're seriously too much at times - one of the ViS I date also had Sun AND Moon in Scorp, so yeah... I was legit scared for my safety at times. Still am.

Anyway, same Venus sign dating... depends on the Venus sign I'd say. I'm Venus in Aries but I don't think I could date one 😆

P.S. I'm a Pisces, Venus in Aries, and Aqua Moon... and I've been harping on and on about how if I got to pick, I'd like to date a Taurus Sun/Aqua Moon, so I think you're headed in the right direction!!

Lol that's so funny you and he have the say placements. What's your mars? His is Gemini

Y don't u think u could date another venus in aries? Were the best lol ud be surprised hi good it come be. It's rly magnetic idk we naturally gel and just creat this intense attraction to one another at least in my experience. And IMO I rly feel like venus in aries need a fire sign venus. In my experience they've been able to keep up and handle me the best. Because we are known for our hot tempers and then being over it and I've noticed a lot of other signs will take it to heart or not know how to handle it. If only dated water and fire sign venues that I know of with the exception of one he was a leo sun Pisces moon libra venus too sensitive for me and couldn't handle my freak outs lol with two aries venues there's just a natural overlaying understanding of one another and we both want to have fun and lots of sex lol

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Posted by TaurusCap323
Lol love it! See I love when ppl are fun like that makes everything so much better. Can't stand ppl with no sense of humor that just take everything so seriously that's so boring me and my new boo another Pisces with venus in aries lol our texts are hilarious I re read them often just to laugh because it's funny how we just go back and forth just tonight I was telling him how I need to stop talking to him for two weeks to get my emotions in check and even sent him a pic of me flicking him off for making me start to crush on him he sent me a funny meme back and then I told him to call me and tell me goodnight lol venus in aries rly is childlike at least in my case and he just gets my crazy so it works lol

My moon is in the first house yikes lol

lmao so that gives you a little more of a sense of emotion. emotions reside in the house of self 🙂

yes I love that about Venus in Aries. their childlike humor and playfulness. my friend once mimicked me. at first I didn't notice it, but I was rubbing my hands together and spacing out (who knows I space out all the time) and he started doing it too but it didn't click with me at first. then I rubbed my eye and he did too and then I was like "what do you think you're doing?" AND HE COPIED ME lmao!!! I was like "will you stop" and he mimicked my tone and everything once again and I playfully punched him lightly in the side.

my best friend is an Aries sun w Aries Venus and she is super playful like that as well. she doesn't mimick but she has her own version of playfulness. she's currently dating w Taurus w a Venus in Taurus.... I don't think it's a good match for her, but she is really glued to him even though he truly does make her miserable because he is all about routine & he's somewhat lazy (no offense to him but it's very true). she's the complete opposite. I cannot make her decisions for her and she already knows how I feel and I know she'll learn eventually, but I wish she would see that she doesn't have to settle for less than what she wants or needs in a man. he truly stifles her and is slowly killing one of the most vibrant parts of her personality

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Oh god no! I couldn't date a taurus with venus in taurus it'd drive me NUTS. I rly don't think an earth venus and a fire venus will work especially cardinal fire and fixed earth I mean talk about opposite side of the Spectrum lol shell leave eventually.ive dated a taurus sun mercury and moon with 0 degree cancer venus he was still active and fun it worked but boy was he stubborn I thought I was stubborn he got me beat lol


But yea as conflicting as my placements make me I rly love my venus in aries it's fun and I love having a little fire in me mak

OMB idk y my post keeps cutting off can't type that AGAIN lol but moral of the story. I'm the same way I can hate them today and love them by tonight lol even my ex Pisces with venus in aries ended up with another venus I aries. We are drawn to each other because not many other can handle as. You should def try one out keep an eye out for one lol

Well...I'm in one. We're both Venus in Cap. You can see that this doesn't necessarily mean that you'll "relate" to each other well in your relationship. In person is works like a dream. However, when we can't see each other...things have gone pretty crazily. Then there's the same energy rut...we're both stubborn and think that we each of us wants for the love relationship is right. However, we have two different ways of getting to the same goal as well as along the way...have different preferences as to what that goal relationship looks like. We tend to agree on relationship values, but disagree on method of expressing those values. In his opinion solid means that you don't have to give it that much attention and it's just assumed that you're ALWAYS going to be together, because with Venus in Cap, staying together is the goal. To me, this leaves to much to take for granted. I'm the Venus in Cap that if you take it serious, then contact your partner often and let them know what they mean to you. lol So, I mean...IDK...it works...but maybe not as well as you would THINK it works. Then again, it has huge potential of getting stuck.

I could totally see me and my guy being that couple that ends up staying together just because staying is what you do and THAT is NOT good. I mean...that's horrible. But admittedly, the potential for that is there and it's heavy.

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OMB idk y my post keeps cutting off can't type that AGAIN lol but moral of the story. I'm the same way I can hate them today and love them by tonight lol even my ex Pisces with venus in aries ended up with another venus I aries. We are drawn to each other because not many other can handle as. You should def try one out keep an eye out for one lol

Ten-four!

P.S. You’re probably just exceeding the word limit bc of quoting the previous posts – you can tag people in such cases, like this @TaurusCap323

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LOL thanks good to know! That's definitely what it was lol

Posted by MsTeeq1974
Well...I'm in one. We're both Venus in Cap. You can see that this doesn't necessarily mean that you'll "relate" to each other well in your relationship. In person is works like a dream. However, when we can't see each other...things have gone pretty crazily. Then there's the same energy rut...we're both stubborn and think that we each of us wants for the love relationship is right. However, we have two different ways of getting to the same goal as well as along the way...have different preferences as to what that goal relationship looks like. We tend to agree on relationship values, but disagree on method of expressing those values. In his opinion solid means that you don't have to give it that much attention and it's just assumed that you're ALWAYS going to be together, because with Venus in Cap, staying together is the goal. To me, this leaves to much to take for granted. I'm the Venus in Cap that if you take it serious, then contact your partner often and let them know what they mean to you. lol So, I mean...IDK...it works...but maybe not as well as you would THINK it works. Then again, it has huge potential of getting stuck.

I could totally see me and my guy being that couple that ends up staying together just because staying is what you do and THAT is NOT good. I mean...that's horrible. But admittedly, the potential for that is there and it's heavy.

Yea I get it. Guess it rly depends on the venus some need something different to balance out and other just could use similar energy

Posted by centipedes

* Referring to his ex as a bitch

That's always a major red flag for me, as well. When a guy trash talks or belittles the women he's dated, it reflects more poorly on them than it does on the ex. Either it's a smoke screen to admitting he drove them crazy, or he's just immature and lacks class. Even if she were, in fact, as bad as he thinks, I'd have more respect for a guy who would rather take the high road.

Anyway, I think I prefer venus-mars conjuctions over venus-venus conjunctions.

I have never dated another venus in aries, but stereotypically, they aren't the most stable in relationships. However, as long as I felt safe knowing that the guy wasn't planning to jump ship any time soon, I'd be okay with it. All my aspects to venus say I should be unfaithful and I know how untrue that is. So, I'd always be willing to give another venus in aries a try.

seems like a boring match imo.