Saturn in synastry

Ok so I've come to understand that saturn is an important factor in understanding a couples synastry. What I'd like to know is does is matter who's Saturn is contacted as opposed to who's doing to contacting? Would both parties feel the same depth or is more of the Saturn person being the "restrictive" one... This is all so confusing! Lol

I'd greatly appreciate some insight 😄
Maybe a visual?
Thanks in advance!!

20/04/1988 Aspect. 12/01/1984 Orb/Value
Sun Trine Mercury 0.05 237
Sun Opposition Mars 0.05 -158
Sun Trine Jupiter 2.09 88
Sun Trine Neptune 0.50 83
Sun Opposition Pluto 1.21 -72
Mercury Trine Mercury 0.03 158
Mercury Opposition Mars 0.14 -117
Mercury Trine Jupiter 2.00 71
Mercury Trine Neptune 0.42 71
Mercury Opposition Pluto 1.30 -60
Venus Opposition Venus 1.20 -100
Venus Opposition Uranus 3.23 -46
Saturn Conjunction Mercury 1.57 129
Saturn Sextile Mars 1.46 45
Saturn Conjunction Jupiter 4.00 74
Saturn Conjunction Neptune 2.42 73
Saturn Sextile Pluto 0.30 49
Uranus Conjunction Mercury 0.24 140
Uranus Sextile Mars 0.14 70
Uranus Conjunction Jupiter 2.28 86
Uranus Conjunction Neptune 1.09 83
Uranus Sextile Pluto. 1.03 39
Pluto Conjunction Saturn 3.20 63
?? 1559 -553 1006

Well that's unfortunate but good to know!
Thanks for the insite