Saying I love you

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I'm typically in love at first sight, so I generally just look at my girl's Venus/Mars combination to help me decide when I should say it. But before I say it, I basically prove it through my actions. The girl I'm dating now has her Venus and Mars in Capricorn, so I'm taking my time, and letting her warm up to me through my actions. I'm not going to say it until I feel the time is absolutely right.

Aqua Sun/Pisces Venus here.
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How long does it take you to say "I love you"?
I don't say it.

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Have you ever NOT said "I love you" back?
See above.

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Do you take it seriously, or do you throw "I love you"'s around willy nilly?
Yes, I take the words very seriously.
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So you've never said it? Wow.

What do you think this has to do with astrology wise?
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Posted by JROI
How long does it take you to say "I love you"?
I don't say it.

Posted by JROI
Have you ever NOT said "I love you" back?
See above.

Posted by JROI
Do you take it seriously, or do you throw "I love you"'s around willy nilly?
Yes, I take the words very seriously.
So you've never said it? Wow.

What do you think this has to do with astrology wise?
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Well 1) I've only loved 2 men despite being in a few relationships. It was obvious how I felt about them given my level of devotion and commitment, so there was no reason to say the words. As for the others, I don't believe in lying to someone (or myself) if I'm not feeling it, I won't say it. Even if it was said to me. 2) I'm very guarded about my feelings and prefer to show my love vs talk about it. That may change, but I doubt it. My previous lovers have never felt "unloved" or cared for ---from what they've said. Luckily they simply understood that's how I roll and didn't force the issue (less one). I would be guessing if I had to identify an astrological reason.
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@ OP-Ok I have said I love you to my ex bff and he said it to me, however that didn't stop him from hurting me. I was nothing but good to the Aries. Oh well I am detached, but I think I fall easily might be VIT cause my other placements it's like there's no such thing as love but infactuation are always prompt..

I am not seeing it through actions, and it will take along time to get me to say it now, but I might even look at you weird and think you are up to something if a guy said it first. or freak out..

Maybe I might just say it because I have an unfiltered mouth of feelings straightup and direct.. And then really take it from there. I think you should expect an I love you 2-3 years and you are living together. I think i am thinking alot about guidelines.