HappyCapper
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Posted by tizianiWhy 7th? Why not 2nd or 8th?
I start with cusp of the 7th imo. After that, who knows where it takes you. There's a lot.
Posted by nando2002No, that's when I run for a sex change.😏
So you like to know if you can handle?
She asks you to stand like a man and you run directly to your natal chart.

Posted by HappyCapperReally?Posted by nando2002No, that's when I run for a sex change.😏
So you like to know if you can handle?
She asks you to stand like a man and you run directly to your natal chart.click to expand
Posted by tizianiAh okay. Thank you!🙂Posted by HappyCapperfrom what i've seen, people explore their sexual style from ideals. Either the ideals aren't being met or they are, but that is generally what i think pushes someone to explore their style. And 7th is all about ideals.Posted by tizianiWhy 7th? Why not 2nd or 8th?
I start with cusp of the 7th imo. After that, who knows where it takes you. There's a lot.click to expand
Posted by nando2002Well, if I'm gonna do a sex change for someone, I might as well let them chose the size.Posted by HappyCapperReally?Posted by nando2002No, that's when I run for a sex change.😏
So you like to know if you can handle?
She asks you to stand like a man and you run directly to your natal chart.
How much & time takes to change that?
I can be interested in the African Size.
King Size is short by the new standardsclick to expand
Posted by InstantkarmaI'm talking about sexuality, sexual style, likes and dislikes...anything I can figure out. I realise that some things may be imposible to read in a chart, but I'm willing to give it a try. I just find it's a subject that involves so many parts of a chart, so I thought it would be an interesting subject to study. There's just so much to consider!
Sexuality? I'm such a noob at this.
Or are you asking how to find out if someone would like a threesome? Or bondage? Or the gender preference of their mate?
Eros in signs will tell you how someone will be during the act.
Mars /Pluto hard aspect for rough/ bdsm style I think.
Ok I'm not sure 😡
Posted by sadpopcornHow? And with what, you think?Posted by HappyCapperi'd say it's mars but mars is also driving style as in how you drive a car and how you play sports. it's easier to think about those things with your chart though.Posted by InstantkarmaI'm talking about sexuality, sexual style, likes and dislikes...anything I can figure out. I realise that some things may be imposible to read in a chart, but I'm willing to give it a try. I just find it's a subject that involves so many parts of a chart, so I thought it would be an interesting subject to study. There's just so much to consider!
Sexuality? I'm such a noob at this.
Or are you asking how to find out if someone would like a threesome? Or bondage? Or the gender preference of their mate?
Eros in signs will tell you how someone will be during the act.
Mars /Pluto hard aspect for rough/ bdsm style I think.
Ok I'm not sure 😡
What would you say would be the major difference or correlation between Mars and Eros?click to expand
Posted by sadpopcornNo need to apologise! lol Was that a response to my question about the technique or Eros, though? I didn't get that?
Would you recommend using the technique you taught me in the dating thread? If so, which house(s) do you suggest I use? Would you look at Eros at all or skip it?
sure but does it work for you? is that how you get down? lol sorry.
i'm thinking about mine. this was my actual reading. it's kinda true those 3 signs are sexy to me.
You’ve got Gemini on the 8th house cusp ruled by Mercury in Aries. In order to open up within a relationship, you need good communication, honesty and directness. The Gemini part is about being able to chat about things day to day with a partner, and the Aries Mercury is about needing directness, passion, and honesty from a partner. This also indicates that women with placements in Gemini and Aries would appeal to you sexually. Mercury is in your 6th house, the ‘Virgo’ house, so Virgo’s may appeal in this way too.
Posted by sadpopcornVery true. That would be pretty simple. And I've already read a bit about it. Thank you!
i'm not sure there's a lot about eros. looking at it wouldn't take that long before you exhaust most sources.
Posted by sadpopcornAh. Thanks.Posted by HappyCappertechniquePosted by sadpopcornNo need to apologise! lol Was that a response to my question about the technique or Eros, though? I didn't get that?
Would you recommend using the technique you taught me in the dating thread? If so, which house(s) do you suggest I use? Would you look at Eros at all or skip it?
sure but does it work for you? is that how you get down? lol sorry.
i'm thinking about mine. this was my actual reading. it's kinda true those 3 signs are sexy to me.
You’ve got Gemini on the 8th house cusp ruled by Mercury in Aries. In order to open up within a relationship, you need good communication, honesty and directness. The Gemini part is about being able to chat about things day to day with a partner, and the Aries Mercury is about needing directness, passion, and honesty from a partner. This also indicates that women with placements in Gemini and Aries would appeal to you sexually. Mercury is in your 6th house, the ‘Virgo’ house, so Virgo’s may appeal in this way too.
The part of the reading you posted was very helpful! Thank you!
eros in the post after itclick to expand
Posted by sadpopcornBut that's what they attract, right? Not how they are?
sun and mars- women
moon and venus- men
Posted by starloverMars opposite venus I had with an ex and I can't other than agree. Strongly! But we also had venus sq Pluto and Moon opposite Pluto, so yeah. 😄
I believe in synastry one of the hottest aspects is Venus-Mars
There were only two guys who I shared intense sexual chemistry with...first one's Mars squared my Venus and the second one's Mars was opposite my Venus
Posted by sadpopcornTo match what? I mean, I'm a girl, so I should look at a man's moon and venus...to couple my Sun? Moon? Mars? Venus? All of the above?Posted by HappyCapperhmm... i'm thinkingPosted by sadpopcornBut that's what they attract, right? Not how they are?
sun and mars- women
moon and venus- men
if you're a guy look at a woman's sun and mars
if you're a girl look at a guy's moon and venus
it's synastry more than natal chartsclick to expand
Posted by starloverThat sounds almost dangerous! LOLPosted by HappyCapper😛Posted by starloverMars opposite venus I had with an ex and I can't other than agree. Strongly! But we also had venus sq Pluto and Moon opposite Pluto, so yeah. 😄
I believe in synastry one of the hottest aspects is Venus-Mars
There were only two guys who I shared intense sexual chemistry with...first one's Mars squared my Venus and the second one's Mars was opposite my Venus
With the second guy, we had Venus Pluto conjunct by one degree in Scorpio and his moon and pluto in scorp aspected a lot of my Scorp stuff.....
Too fecking hot to handle
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Must say, I have never looked at astrology as to find who I should date - I have just checked what happened in retrospect - studying what and why this or that was the way it was. It's interesting to see if astrology agrees with my personal experiences.🙂
Yeah I remember looking up sexuality astrology to. I'm old fashioned. Learned that it is mars in men Venus in woman. And when I compared myself to that list of all 12 zodiac signs I was like I have tough challenges ahead and I know who I should mess with and find out myself only. I only know by experience since I don't date alot. By the ones I did date were all air and fire signs. I

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Hehehe No, I agree that astrology is a great tool to get to know yourself. Even if there is something you don't identify with, you still ask yourself the questions...and learn by doing that. Imo.🙂
When I was learning about myself and everything. I don't use it for dating purposes it was what I studied for me. Now if I want to use astrology to this. I am screwed permanently so I use it as a guide after or not at all it isn't worth it. But I still learning more.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Agreed. Describing a person fully, by using any system is impossible, imo - now, try to succeed with two people and pretend you know exactly what these two people need in a partner. Yeah, I can tell you that's way past at least my capabilities...
@HappyCapper I tell you if I did believe in Astrology and I studied my chart with another it would ruin it. So I don't.
I have once before didn't know the exact time and screwed me up but still want to experience it. Unfortunately the signs were true and my gut feelings were true but I still gave a chance to that person knowing it would end up not so good.
That's why I be telling people by experience or give advice in case they thinking the same thing. Shouldn't use astrology whole heartedly pertain to love. It will destroy you. You can use it as a guide sure.
Posted by InstantkarmaMust say, I have always been very sceptical to the importance of asteroids in astrology. Most of the time I can't really relate. When it comes to Eros, they are not completely off, but that could easily be due to other features in my chart.
I believe Eros is very telling.
It gives a flavour to our sexuality.
And how we behave during the act or the type of sexual acts we prefer and roles.
Eros- psyche conjunctions are crazy good sex.
Had it with my ex.
But then, I'm sure I could never have bad sex :-p
@sadpopcorn
Can you relate to your eros in cap?
Posted by Double_trouble_29Sorry. Not believing that.
Venus retrograde : Homosexuality in 40% of cases
Posted by xXxAliciaXxXThink I've got some really good advice...and some babbling. LOL But that's fine. I would appreciate more answers, though.🙂
So did anyone ever answer this question?
I just saw a lot of babbling.
Posted by xXxAliciaXxXMust admit to being sceptical to asteroids on the whole, but I don't know enough to judge fully, so idk.🙂
I'm not really buying the eros placement being indicative of ones sexuality.
I read my eros placement and I barely relate to it.
I think it's mostly bullshit.
Posted by PrincessLouiseI guess you are talking about sign, sign ruler, houses and aspects. Why not the 7th house, as that would deal with the area of venus? Or maybe that too? Thanks for the input!🙂Posted by HappyCapperThe venus.
How do you determine sexuality/sexual style in a birth chart. Depending on where you read you're supposed to check Sun and/or Mars and/or Venus and/or Moon and/or Jupiter and/or Rising and/or Lilith and/or Eros and their houses. And aspects. What aspects should you look for and how? And then we have the 1st, 2nd, 5th, 7th, 8th and 12th houses. It's all just a huge mess and I'm trying to bring order to it. How-do-I-do-that? Or where do you suggest I read about it?
Where would you start if you were to nerd into this?click to expand
Posted by xXxAliciaXxXI guess we are talking about sign, sign ruler, house, and aspects? If we are, do you do that with Pluto too? I have personally relied less on sign, and also a bit less on the house placements and more on the energy of the planet in question, as related to other planets, when it comes to the outer planets(Uranus, Neptune, Pluto).
I personally trust:
Venus, Mars, and Pluto for ones sexuality.
Venus is what arouses you. Mars is how you express it. Pluto reflects your deepest darkest feelings. Which often manifests through sexual intercourse as well.
This is what I personally believe.
Posted by GeminiamI have found this is accurate for many people, but if I would read the description of my mars to the guys I've been with, they would die of laughter. May I ask, what's the sign on your 7th and 8th house cusps, and in what signs are their rulers placed? Maybe that too would direct you to scorpionic energies?
Mars has always been dead on for me and who I am with.
Posted by InstantkarmaAww. Have a better day soon!🙂
I believe eros is not how we chase or prefer to be chased.
Eros is how we give ourself sexually or share our sexuality.
I'm having a crappy day.
Will be back.
Posted by InstantkarmaMy only aspect to Eros is a trine to mars, but it's with an orb of 5 degrees, which I think is huge when it comes to asteroids. What do you think?Posted by sadpopcornYes!Posted by Instantkarmaisn't it partnered with psyche often?
I believe eros is not how we chase or prefer to be chased.
Eros is how we give ourself sexually or share our sexuality.
I'm having a crappy day.
Will be back.
Eros and psyche aspects, very erotic and loving sex.
I have noticed eros to venus to be sexual
And eros to Marsclick to expand
Posted by InstantkarmaThanks a lot! I will give this another thought and get back to you. I'm surprised no one is even mentioning the sun, since that is, as far as I have read, the glasses that we look at the world through.Posted by HappyCapperI will look to the ruler of the eighth and aspects to the eight house ruler.Posted by InstantkarmaI'm talking about sexuality, sexual style, likes and dislikes...anything I can figure out. I realise that some things may be imposible to read in a chart, but I'm willing to give it a try. I just find it's a subject that involves so many parts of a chart, so I thought it would be an interesting subject to study. There's just so much to consider!
Sexuality? I'm such a noob at this.
Or are you asking how to find out if someone would like a threesome? Or bondage? Or the gender preference of their mate?
Eros in signs will tell you how someone will be during the act.
Mars /Pluto hard aspect for rough/ bdsm style I think.
Ok I'm not sure 😡
What would you say would be the major difference or correlation between Mars and Eros?
Sign on the cusp of the eighth
Mars, Pluto, Venus and their aspects.
Eros adds a different flavour to our sexuality and sexual needs.
Planet Lust conjunct major personals in natal and synastry.
A woman's Venus receiving masculine planets from a guy could be hit by sexual desires.
A woman's moon receiving aspects from the man's mars/ Pluto/Sun are sexually stimulating to her. Uranus could give excitable desires though not long lasting.
Neptune will be more dreamy a feminine planet will have more to do with the feel than actual sex.
It is not the natal alone. A person who likes vanilla sex could want bondage sex when their mars gets hit by a partner's Pluto. Of course. Nothing is possible without enough triggers in the natal and synastry.
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Posted by InstantkarmaGood Good. I approve!😄Posted by HappyCapperI don't think I have read a great thread on Eros on the web. But I remember when I checked my synastry with my ex, eros showed how he liked to be during the act.Posted by InstantkarmaMust say, I have always been very sceptical to the importance of asteroids in astrology. Most of the time I can't really relate. When it comes to Eros, they are not completely off, but that could easily be due to other features in my chart.
I believe Eros is very telling.
It gives a flavour to our sexuality.
And how we behave during the act or the type of sexual acts we prefer and roles.
Eros- psyche conjunctions are crazy good sex.
Had it with my ex.
But then, I'm sure I could never have bad sex :-p
@sadpopcorn
Can you relate to your eros in cap?
The Eros-Psyche conjunction you speak of is in synastry, right?
Bad sex? No, that's a bad idea. Don't have that!😉
He had it in Virgo- he was service oriented. Even the role plays were based on that.
And yep no to bad sex 😄click to expand
Posted by starloverYeah, that's good and bad... LOLPosted by HappyCapperI got out barely alive lolPosted by starloverThat sounds almost dangerous! LOLPosted by HappyCapper😛Posted by starloverMars opposite venus I had with an ex and I can't other than agree. Strongly! But we also had venus sq Pluto and Moon opposite Pluto, so yeah. 😄
I believe in synastry one of the hottest aspects is Venus-Mars
There were only two guys who I shared intense sexual chemistry with...first one's Mars squared my Venus and the second one's Mars was opposite my Venus
With the second guy, we had Venus Pluto conjunct by one degree in Scorpio and his moon and pluto in scorp aspected a lot of my Scorp stuff.....
Too fecking hot to handle
Lol
Indecently intense
😛click to expand
Posted by ImTheRamThat's what I'm trying to figure out. Tbh, I think the whole bloody chart has something to do with it in some obscure way. Now, all I have to do is figure out how. *wipes sweat from brow*
I think it's a mixture of Sun, Moon, Venus and Mars.
Right?
Posted by ImTheRamI'd say the whole enchilada. Sign, sign ruler, house, aspects...you name it.🙂
But..is it the Sign of the planet that matters or is it the House ? i never quite figured tha out...
Posted by InstantkarmaYeah, same as with transits. It fills in the blanks, adds or subtracts.Posted by HappyCapperYour mars will have some eroticism to it? Is that what it means? Idk 😄Posted by InstantkarmaMy only aspect to Eros is a trine to mars, but it's with an orb of 5 degrees, which I think is huge when it comes to asteroids. What do you think?Posted by sadpopcornYes!Posted by Instantkarmaisn't it partnered with psyche often?
I believe eros is not how we chase or prefer to be chased.
Eros is how we give ourself sexually or share our sexuality.
I'm having a crappy day.
Will be back.
Eros and psyche aspects, very erotic and loving sex.
I have noticed eros to venus to be sexual
And eros to Mars
But I meant Eros to Mars in synastry. I wasn't very clear 😢
I seriously believe synastry can unearthen what we don't have through aspects. The possibilities!
Eg. Let's assume I have a boring mars. My leo mars is dying lol
Someone brings their Venus and squares my mars.Bam! I'm gonna feel that heat.
Synastric activations are very important. Unless we like to fly solo.click to expand
Posted by InstantkarmaLOL I usually go by zero...or on rare occasions, one. Just wanted your view of it. 🙂
Asteroids an orb of two :-)

Posted by InstantkarmaI hardly bother with minor aspects when it comes to planets(0 or maaaybe 1degree only in rare cases) and not at all with asteroids.Posted by HappyCapperTwo degree orb for conjunction and opposition.Posted by InstantkarmaLOL I usually go by zero...or on rare occasions, one. Just wanted your view of it. 🙂
Asteroids an orb of two :-)
I don't bother all that much about soft aspects for asteroids. If I see it, it is there but I wouldn't put any efforts to read into them. That would be like reaching.
:-)
Do you relate to your mars sign or something else sexually?
Because I don't relate to the sign.
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Posted by InstantkarmaI don't get the Pluto position at all. I mean, the sign placement of the outer planets will be the same for a looot of people. Can't say I pay a lot of attention to the sign (and even to an extent, the house placement, when talking purely of aspects) of Uranus, Neptune or Pluto. I see them more as influencers to other, and mainly personal, planets. I'm willing to swear that the entire Pluto in scorpio generation do not need intensity in sex. I personally need intensity, or I'll walk away, and I'm not a Pluto in scorpio.
Oh great!
I will now. From square one.
My sun is how I showcase myself and see myself as a person and to the opposite sex.The way is dress, hand gestures, my hobbies, all that. How I want to be perceived is my Sun.
My moon in Taurus is the emotional me. Not everyone gets to see that.
My Mars in Leo is me at work and wanting to be admired lol it does nothing sexually.
My scorpio seventh is how I approach dating and sex. Sex is sacred to me.
Planets in my fifth is how I seduce rofl
My Pluto in Scorpio is what drives me sexually. I need intensity. The uncontrollable and the obsessive.
My Venus is what I find attractive.
My eros fits in a lot. It shows how I am during sex. Not how good or aggressive and all. But what type of sex is my fantasy, what will make me happy in sex, etc,... my secret cravings and wants. What gets me off.

Posted by sadpopcornThat spiteful, monumental bitch.
sensitive blues

Posted by InstantkarmaHmm, Pluto oppositions.....
Pluto is important in my chart.
It opposes my moon, venus and rising 😢
And squares my mars.
Hahaha!
Oh I'm a crazy woman huh!
And my Venus in Taurus is attracted to Taurus people, wants slow and sensual foreplay and prolonged anticipation. I'm more of an artsy type too.
It is in my first house. I can be aggressive but I feel it adds a layer to my looks 😄 but not sure if it is a part of my sexuality.
Posted by InstantkarmaOh, it's quite important in mine as well. (sun, moon venus sq Pluto, merc and MC trine Pluto and some other less important crap)
Pluto is important in my chart.
It opposes my moon, venus and rising 😢
And squares my mars.
Hahaha!
Oh I'm a crazy woman huh!
And my Venus in Taurus is attracted to Taurus people, wants slow and sensual foreplay and prolonged anticipation. I'm more of an artsy type too.
It is in my first house. I can be aggressive but I feel it adds a layer to my looks 😄 but not sure if it is a part of my sexuality.
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