@BetaBanana
11 YearsCapricorn
What's up with the cheaters??
Why Do People Cheat According to Astrology
Astrology suggests cheating may be linked to certain zodiac traits such as impulsiveness, lack of emotional fulfillment, or a need for validation. However, individual choices vary widely. Understanding astrological influences can provide insights but does not determine behavior. Trust and communication remain essential in relationships regardless of zodiac signs.
Tis the season of lies, deceit, and cheaters. Eh happens to good people.
Is it still on? Haha
It's fb of course you gonna find out just like in dxp. Social media helps or can destroy you.
Yup I was like that is gonna be me one day on TV doing this shit just to catch my ex. I am serious though was thinking about it. Haha
It happens.
There are also a lot of people who aren't cheating, but we (people in general) tend to focus on the negative.
The positive of all this is its out in the open, it crushes people but makes them stronger, and actually have reasons to break up since some are really good at lying and covering up shit.
Oh 102.7 has people give free roses to their loved ones which aren't the ones they supposed to give it to. Omg it's similar to on here. Why why why, because we said we should break and he moved on faster than you did. Now you want to broadcast it on air. But it is foolish because some one also has a different story of if they even together or just friends pushing.
That's sad. 😢
All the people out there who have a loyal lover should give them a bear hug right now and snuggle his or her face.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Is it still on? Haha
I dont know about that, but today I saw one sexual arrasement (and there are many outhere...), maybe the man didnt knew the situation he was provoking, he looked a bit crazy, he was there trying to sell some discounts to a restaurant, and explaining all the way to the restaurant (and asking personal questions) to a young woman that didnt ask for that information and didnt know him. She couldnt leave, this is was in subway, she was in a corner with him there talking to her, enclaurating her.
I didnt knew any of them and situation didnt get worse than that, but I watched when they both exited (as me) the station, they took their one way but I was whatching if him would try something. Maybe he diddnt because there was many people, imagne that situation, only her and him.
@LostPisces@- you know what my mom text me awhile bunch of text stating her coworkers mentioning there are more sexual predators that are kidnapping human, at gas stations, subways, grocery store, even heard places like restaurants, possibly small chit chats and nice conversation and bam you get knocked out by a sweet gentleman or woman.
. Please have a buddy system, stop walking alone. It's been a rise in this situation and can be avoided by open eyes, call help if needed when you or others need it, and get protection like pepper spray lady.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@LostPisces@- you know what my mom text me awhile bunch of text stating her coworkers mentioning there are more sexual predators that are kidnapping human, at gas stations, subways, grocery store, even heard places like restaurants, possibly small chit chats and nice conversation and bam you get knocked out by a sweet gentleman or woman.. Please have a buddy system, stop walking alone. It's been a rise in this situation and can be avoided by open eyes, call help if needed when you or others need it, and get protection like pepper spray lady.
Thanks for this, it will give me courage to confront those guys, and call the police if is needed, if not I am strong enough to kick their ass.
@LostPisces, No no no, he'll no. Better not you get help and if you can do something helpful a good deed one day to another individual thst would be good too.
And I and you should not worry about cheaters but safety and our environment is turning psycho by the minute. Can't go anywhere without mother texting me what is happening to other victims recently. Nice people turn deadly at a gas station and ends up in trunks. Be careful.
Pepper spray lady and call 911, always carry a phone. Stuff it in your bra. That way you have it on you.
Posted by LillyPetal
That's sad. 😢All the people out there who have a loyal lover should give them a bear hug right now and snuggle his or her face.
Blow job
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@LostPisces, No no no, he'll no. Better not you get help and if you can do something helpful a good deed one day to another individual thst would be good too.And I and you should not worry about cheaters but safety and our environment is turning psycho by the minute. Can't go anywhere without mother texting me what is happening to other victims recently. Nice people turn deadly at a gas station and ends up in trunks. Be careful.
Pepper spray lady and call 911, always carry a phone. Stuff it in your bra. That way you have it on you.
I forgot to say I am a man, no bra for me lol, I just hate those ppl for what they do. I even dont need to be physical, first aproach is to put things right talking.
When I said you gave me courage, was to act in that subway situation, just saying "is this person bothering you?", if I verify what i already knew that it is, I wil say, " go away immeadiatly", very loud, because in that situation I explode.
I have cancer mars, no one can pin me down is explosion situations.
Okay @LostPisces, FYI some times people can react without thinking, be careful. And please don't stuff your bra then brah. Haha just be careful you don't want to end up hurt yourself if you can just call from afar like hey, then 911 will Do.
I have a friend of mine who confides in me his marriage a lot and he always tells me how he "talks" to other women and stuff.
trust me I don't justify cheating at all.. If you talk about the issues with your spouse and nothing changes then someone is bound to do something about it.. i.e. Leave, cheat etc..
From what I saw in my friends issue was that his wife just doesn't like having sex when he wants and I'm positive that's the reason he flirts with other females.
Now I'm about fairness and equality and truly believe that sex is an important factor in a marriage just as the other factors, but it looks like a lot of couples today just compete against each other and just withold those things that we physically and emotionally need.
The majority of the guys I know who cheated on their spouse/girlfriends was because their wives were just stopping the frequency of sex.
so ladies I encourage you, have sex with your man.. It's not like he's asking to ram his c0ck down your throat and make you puke, or jam a few fingers in your ass.. it's just sex!
No woman should ever let their man go hungry or hornyœ
Trust me, do these simple things and you will have a loyal and happy man who will treat you like a goddess.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
It's fb of course you gonna find out just like in dxp. Social media helps or can destroy you.At least on DXP people don't know me in real life (god I hope anyway)..FB is everyone that you know...why do people post all their personal problems on there? Start all out drama and wars with family...and then half the time they work it out with their partner and now they have put them on blast to everyone.. SMH
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Exactly. Some people use it as a place to vent and get sympathy and/or attention.
I didn't post anything about my cheating spouse on FB. I didn't even post my divorce on there. Dirty laundry belongs at home, not on the highway.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
It's fb of course you gonna find out just like in dxp. Social media helps or can destroy you.At least on DXP people don't know me in real life (god I hope anyway)..FB is everyone that you know...why do people post all their personal problems on there? Start all out drama and wars with family...and then half the time they work it out with their partner and now they have put them on blast to everyone.. SMH
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Exactly. Some people use it as a place to vent and get sympathy and/or attention.
I didn't post anything about my cheating spouse on FB. I didn't even post my divorce on there. Dirty laundry belongs at home, not on the highway.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
The positive of all this is its out in the open, it crushes people but makes them stronger, and actually have reasons to break up since some are really good at lying and covering up shit.
You find out how strong you really are when you catch your spouse cheating. You learn to trust your gut after that. You see their true colors and the snake they really are (things you knew deep down but didn't acknowledge and kept buried).
Honestly, best thing that ever happened to me was catching him. It gave me a chance to find the right one and be happy. It also gave me the courage to take more risks in my career (he used to hold me back). I also got a chance to get ahead and where I wanted to be financially (he couldn't manage money).
Posted by LillyPetal
That's sad. 😢All the people out there who have a loyal lover should give them a bear hug right now and snuggle his or her face.
Dying breed it seems Lil
😢
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Nah...there's still a LOT of good people out there.
Posted by LillyPetal
That's sad. 😢All the people out there who have a loyal lover should give them a bear hug right now and snuggle his or her face.
Dying breed it seems Lil
😢
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Nah...there's still a LOT of good people out there.
Dang it! Almost every time I quote, it posts double.
Posted by BetaBanana
My old boss got caught cheating on his wife few days ago they seemed like the perfect couple then 2 other people on fb wrote about how they found their husband cheating on them ,a girlfriend of mine called off her wedding for a cheating fiancé and now my sister her her boyfriend who just proposed on Mother's Day are fighting because she found pictures of another woman on his phone .. Wtf is going on !?
Its sad that ppl find it acceptable to cheat. I blame todays music. Guys talk about having g multiple women and women want the top spot instead of the only spot.
Even Beyonce got cheated on and stayed.
Posted by LillyPetal
That's sad. 😢All the people out there who have a loyal lover should give them a bear hug right now and snuggle his or her face.
How do you know they are loyal?
They could have someone on the side while you give them a bear hug for being loyal.
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I honestly believe most women know but choose to not know. Every decision I've made in my life, when I look back, I see how I chose to ignore what I knew. Women who have been cheated on often speak of regret at not "listening to the signs" and what their instincts were repeatedly telling them.
Posted by LillyPetal
That's sad. 😢All the people out there who have a loyal lover should give them a bear hug right now and snuggle his or her face.
Dying breed it seems Lil
😢
Nah...there's still a LOT of good people out there.
Yep. The one doing exactly what they promised and said they'd do never make the headlines. And it's probably better that way.
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Hey! I talk about my boyfriend all the time! 😄 :p
But what you say has truth. Actually, if my campus is anything to go by, many young people don't believe long-lasting relationships are realistic or possible. The statistic of failed marriages has really gotten around and almost everyone quotes it when talking about their outlook on relationships. :/ The positive side of that statistic is like Bernie Sanders, ignored.
Posted by BetaBanana
My old boss got caught cheating on his wife few days ago they seemed like the perfect couple then 2 other people on fb wrote about how they found their husband cheating on them ,a girlfriend of mine called off her wedding for a cheating fiancé and now my sister her her boyfriend who just proposed on Mother's Day are fighting because she found pictures of another woman on his phone .. Wtf is going on !?Its sad that ppl find it acceptable to cheat. I blame todays music. Guys talk about having g multiple women and women want the top spot instead of the only spot.
Even Beyonce got cheated on and stayed.
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This is a thought, and it's not specifically about you, but your comment brought me to think about this: I honesty don't understand why people (especially women) judge (often harshly) both Beyonce's and Rihanna's decisions to fix things with their lovers instead of walking away. We companion that couples are quick to throw their relationship away and then, in the same breath, we condemn them for not walking away when WE think they should.
But they say that we often hate on others what we most hate in ourselves.
Posted by AL4813
I have a friend of mine who confides in me his marriage a lot and he always tells me how he "talks" to other women and stuff.trust me I don't justify cheating at all.. If you talk about the issues with your spouse and nothing changes then someone is bound to do something about it.. i.e. Leave, cheat etc..
From what I saw in my friends issue was that his wife just doesn't like having sex when he wants and I'm positive that's the reason he flirts with other females.
Now I'm about fairness and equality and truly believe that sex is an important factor in a marriage just as the other factors, but it looks like a lot of couples today just compete against each other and just withold those things that we physically and emotionally need.
The majority of the guys I know who cheated on their spouse/girlfriends was because their wives were just stopping the frequency of sex.
so ladies I encourage you, have sex with your man.. It's not like he's asking to ram his c0ck down your throat and make you puke, or jam a few fingers in your ass.. it's just sex!
No woman should ever let their man go hungry or hornyœ
Trust me, do these simple things and you will have a loyal and happy man who will treat you like a goddess.
oh but he does want to ram and jam ... lol - thanks, I liked what you said because it is sooooo true ... my bf said to me recently "do you know how rare you are" ... ? what ? hey, I told him he could always find me either in the kitchen or the bedroom so it's working for us !
Sex holds the power.
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My old boss got caught cheating on his wife few days ago they seemed like the perfect couple then 2 other people on fb wrote about how they found their husband cheating on them ,a girlfriend of mine called off her wedding for a cheating fiancé and now my sister her her boyfriend who just proposed on Mother's Day are fighting because she found pictures of another woman on his phone .. Wtf is going on !?