South vs North Node

Have you had a South or North node connection with someone? Which was stronger?

I have checked my previous relationships (parental, friends, etc) and turned out my north node connections have been much stronger.

South node connections were powerful, too but easier to forget. My NN connections are still in my life and very influential.

How about you?

North Node in Cancer.

i have only been with Cancer once. i can't say it's strong but it was really really fun. is it because we both so young (high school days) or is it because Cancer is my 5th house (fun and romance).

i still remember her birthday, her Sun conjunct my North Node.